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- Pono nā kamaʻilio waha a me ʻole ʻole
- Paipai kekahi i kekahi
- Hoʻomaopopo i ke ʻano o ke kino o kekahi
- E hoʻomaopopo iā lākou he mea nui lākou
- E haʻi iā lākou e mahalo nei i nā haʻawina a lākou e hāʻawi ai
I ke ola hauʻoli a me ka pōmaikaʻi male, pono ʻoe e hana i ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana i kou pilina me kāu kāne. Pono ka male olakino i ka olakino o ke kanaka, a ʻo ia ke kumu e maopopo ai iā ʻolua me kāu wahine kekahi i kekahi. Pili ka male ʻana i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ke aloha aloha a me ka mea nui ka kamaʻilio ʻana. ʻOiai he nui ka poʻe e mālama pinepine ʻole i ka hope, eia nō naʻe, he mea nui ia o ka māʻona o ke ola male.
Pono nā kamaʻilio waha a me ʻole ʻole
ʻOiai ʻoe e kamaʻilio ana a me kāu mea nui ʻē aʻe a ke kaʻana like nei i kou mau manaʻo, nā manaʻo, a me nā manaʻo me kekahi i kekahi a laila e hiki i kō ʻolua ke hoʻomaopopo kekahi i kekahi i kahi pae hohonu a pilikino.
ʻAʻole kapu kēia kamaʻilio ʻana i ka kamaʻilio waha wale nō; pono i kahi ola male kūleʻa iā ʻoe a me kāu wahine e hiki ke kamaʻilio pū ʻole. ʻO ke kamaʻilio nonverbal me kāu mau helehelena a me ka ʻōlelo o kou kino. Pono ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo i ka ʻoi aku o ka maʻalahi o ka pili pono ʻana o ʻoe a me kāu wahine hiki iā ʻoe ke hōʻike iā ʻoe iho i ka wā e launa pū ana kekahi me kekahi.
ʻO nā mea āpau e pili ana i ka maikaʻi i kāu mākau kamaʻilio. Pono ʻolua e hoʻopono a kia i ka mea e hoʻomaikaʻi ai i kou ola. Ma lalo iho nei kekahi mau ala e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hoʻokomo i ka kamaʻilio maikaʻi i kāu male ʻana.
Paipai kekahi i kekahi
Pono ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo no ka pilina olakino pono ʻoe e paipai i kekahi i kekahi ma mua o ka hoʻohewa ʻana kekahi i kekahi i kēlā me kēia manawa āu e loaʻa ai. ʻO kēia ʻano kikoʻī o ke kamaʻilio maikaʻi e koi iā ʻoe e hoʻokō i nā ʻano aʻe; e akahai me kekahi, e hoʻolohe ana i kekahi i kekahi me ka nānā pono a me ka hōʻoia ʻana o kekahi i kekahi.
Ma ka paipai ʻana i kekahi i kekahi, hiki iā ʻoe ke ulu kūleʻa i kou pilina. ʻO nā huaʻōlelo a me nā ʻōuli hōʻoluʻolu e kōkua i ka hoʻāla ʻana i ka manaʻo aia kekahi e manaʻoʻiʻo iā ʻoe. Maopopo he ʻokoʻa nui ma waena o ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana i kekahi i kekahi a me ka paipai ʻana kekahi i kekahi.
No ka loaʻa ʻana o ka hoʻomaikaʻi, pono ʻoe e loaʻa, ʻoiai nā huaʻōlelo hoʻoikaika e hāʻawi manuahi ʻia ma ke ʻano he kākoʻo. Inā ʻoe e ʻike i kahi mea maikaʻi e pili ana i kāu mea nui ʻē aʻe, i ʻike ka hapanui o ka poʻe akā ʻaʻole e haʻi, a laila e hōʻoia e haʻi iā lākou. ʻO ka paipai ʻana i kāu wahine e hiki ke kōkua iā lākou i ka hoʻololi ʻana i ko lākou kuana, a hiki ke hoʻopili i kou pilina.
Hoʻomaopopo i ke ʻano o ke kino o kekahi
Pono ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo i nā ʻike naʻau a kou hoa e hāʻawi nei iā ʻoe. E nānā i kā lākou ʻōlelo kino, ko lākou leo, e ʻike inā ke ʻike maka nei kāu pakanā iā ʻoe ʻaʻole paha. Inā ʻoe e ʻike he ʻano ʻoluʻolu ʻole a palupalu paha kāu hoa, a laila e nānā nui iā lākou. Mai paʻakikī a ikaika paha. Akā, pono ʻoe e kālele i ka hōʻike ʻana iā lākou aia ʻoe ma laila no lākou inā makemake lākou ia.
E hoʻomaopopo iā lākou he mea nui lākou
E hoʻomanaʻo he male ʻole ka male ʻole. Aia mau nā wahi i hiki ke hoʻohana i ka hoʻomaikaʻi. No laila e alakaʻi i kahi ola male kūleʻa, pono ʻoe e loiloi i kēia mau wahi a nānā hou aku iā lākou.
Pono ʻoe e hōʻike i kāu pakanā i ko lākou manaʻo a me nā manaʻo iā ʻoe. E ʻike pono, ke kamaʻilio pū ʻoe me kāu pakanā, hana aku ʻoe i ka maka me lākou e hōʻike iā lākou e waiwai ʻoe i ko lākou mau manaʻo a me ko lākou mau manaʻo.
E hoʻolohe i ka wā e kamaʻilio pū ana kāu wahine me ʻoe a hoʻolohe iā lākou i mea e hōʻike ai ke lohe ʻia nei lākou. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hōʻike iā ʻoe i ka nānā ʻana ma ka waiho ʻana i nā mea āu e hana nei e nānā i ka mea a lākou e ʻōlelo ai. A i ʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hōʻike i kou akahele ma ka hana hou ʻana i ka mea a kāu hoa i ʻōlelo ai i kāu mau ʻōlelo ponoʻī e hōʻike ai ua maopopo iā ʻoe ka mea a lākou e haʻi aku ai iā ʻoe.
E hoʻomaopopo i kāu wahine he mea nui ʻo ia iā ʻoe. Ke kūkākūkā nei i kahi mea e hoʻāʻo e hoʻololi i nā huaʻōlelo maikaʻi ʻole me nā huaʻōlelo maikaʻi.
E haʻi iā lākou e mahalo nei i nā haʻawina a lākou e hāʻawi ai
Pili ka pilina ma muli o ke aloha a me ke aloha i kekahi i kekahi. ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e hana i nā ʻōuli nui e hōʻike i kou mahalo i kāu hoa, ma kahi o nā ʻano ʻano liʻiliʻi nā mea e hoʻoikaika ai kēia pilina.
E hoʻomaopopo i kāu pakanā ʻike ʻoe i kā lākou hāʻawi a mahalo ʻoe iā lākou no ka hana ʻana i kā lākou hana. E haʻi iā lākou ʻaʻole ʻoe e lawe wale iā lākou. Hōʻike i kou hopohopo a me kou aloha iā lākou. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i kā lākou mahele o ka hana a puni ka hale pū kekahi. E ʻimi wale i kahi ala e hōʻike ai iā lākou ma laila ʻoe.
ʻO ke kamaʻilio kūpono kahi mea pono i ka male hauʻoli a me ka holomua. Kōkua ia i ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana i ka pilina e paʻa ai kāu male ma waena o nā manawa maikaʻi a paʻakikī hoʻi. Eia naʻe, e hoʻomaopopo ʻaʻole i kūlohelohe nā mākau kamaʻilio kūpono i nā mea āpau.
No laila pono ʻoe e hana i kāu mākau kamaʻilio a hoʻomohala iā lākou me ka manawa. ʻOiai ke kamaʻilio pū nei nā kāne āpau me kekahi, pono ʻoe e hoʻopili i ka kamaʻilio maikaʻi i ka male. I ka pōkole, e hoʻolohe pono ʻoe, empathize me kekahi, a mahalo i ka mea a kāu wahine e hana ai nāu.