Anter
- 1. Aloha i nā wahine i loaʻa ke ola
- 2. Aloha lākou i ka mea pohihihi
- 3. Ka hilinaʻi
- 4. ʻO ka mea e mālama iā ia iho
- 5. Noho ʻole i ka wā kahiko
- 6. Hoʻolohe
- 7. ʻAʻole manaʻo i ka hemolele
- 8. Kaʻoiaʻiʻo
ʻAʻole anei ʻoluʻolu e lilo i wahine e hiki ke ʻumeʻume e pili ana i kekahi kāne āna e makemake ai? Inā noho male ʻoe a laila maopopo paha iā ʻoe hiki i nā kāne ke koho i ka wā e pili ana i ka pili aloha. E like me nā wahine, maʻamau ka manaʻo o nā kāne no ka wahine maikaʻi ʻole i ko lākou poʻo a ʻumeʻume pū ʻia lākou. ʻO ka hapanui o ka manawa kūpono paha ʻoe i kā lākou mau mea i manaʻo ai ʻaʻole paha. Akā i kēlā me kēia manawa, e like me nā wahine, hāʻule nā kāne no nā wahine i waho o ko lākou wahi hōʻoluʻolu.
1. Aloha i nā wahine i loaʻa ke ola
Makemake nui ʻia nā kāne i nā wahine i loaʻa ka ola ma waho o ka male kāne. No laila i ka manawa hou āu e ʻike ai ke kāhea mai nei ke kanaka āu e makemake ai, mai koho wale ʻoe, a kāhea iā ia i mau hola ʻelua. Makemake nā kāne i ka nānā ʻole ʻia, akā ʻaʻole lākou makemake i kahi kaikamahine ʻoi aku ka clingy. No laila e kiʻi i kahi ola, kau pū me kāu mau kaikamahine, a palaki iā ia i kēlā me kēia manawa. Aloha nā kāne i ka alualu, a e alualu hou lākou iā ʻoe. Aloha lākou i nā wahine kūleʻa e loaʻa nā mea ʻē aʻe i loko o ko lākou ola, hoʻonāukiuki iā lākou iā ʻoe.
2. Aloha lākou i ka mea pohihihi
Ke hele ʻoe i ka lā mua, ʻike paha ʻoe iā ʻoe iho e kaʻana like ana i nā mea āpau e pili ana i kou ola me ia? Inā pēlā, makemake paha ʻoe e kaohi iā ʻoe iho. Hiki i kēia ʻano hana ke holo iā ia. Makemake nā kāne i nā wahine e mālama i ka paia. ʻAʻole lākou i ʻike i ka mea i loko o ko lākou noʻonoʻo, a pono lākou e hana maoli e iho i lalo i kekahi o kēlā pā. Makemake nā kāne e ʻike i nā mea huna e moe ai ma laila a ʻaʻole lākou e kū a hiki i ka wā e kūleʻa ai lākou i ka ʻike. Ma kahi o ka hoʻonui ʻana, e hāʻawi iā ia i ka ʻike i nā ʻāpana a me nā ʻāpana.
3. Ka hilinaʻi
Aloha nā kāne i ka wahine kūpaʻa i ko lākou ʻili iho. ʻIke kēia mau wahine i kā lākou mau pahuhopu i ke ola a makemake ʻole e kali a puni nā kāne a hoʻolohi i kā lākou mau moemoeā. ʻIke lākou i ko lākou nāwaliwali a makemake e hana iā lākou. Haʻaheo hoʻi lākou i ko lākou ikaika. ʻAe kēia i ka wiwo ʻole o nā wahine ʻaʻole wale me ko lākou ola akā i kā lākou pili pū kekahi. ʻAʻole lākou makemake e hoʻonele i ka manawa e pāʻani ai i nā pāʻani, kahi maikaʻi e ʻike ʻia ʻaʻole hiki ʻole i nā kāne.
4. ʻO ka mea e mālama iā ia iho
ʻO kēia kahi mea nui loa i nā kāne. ʻAʻole ia e pili ana i ka hoʻolilo ʻana i mau hola i mua o ke aniani e uhi ana i ko mākou mau maka me kahi paona mea hoʻonani. ʻAʻole hoʻi no ke kaikamahine ʻili loa i ka lumi. E pili ana i ka mālama ʻana i ko mākou ʻili, ka lauoho, a me ka mālama pono ʻana i ko mākou noʻonoʻo a me ke kino. ʻO ke aloha iā mākou iho e lawa pono e mālama iā mākou iho, inā he kāne i ko mākou ola a i ʻole ʻole, koʻikoʻi. ʻAʻole wikiwiki nā kāne e hoʻokolokolo i nā wahine, i kekahi manawa ʻo mākou (ma ke ʻano he mau wahine) ʻo ia ka mea hōʻino loa iā mākou.
5. Noho ʻole i ka wā kahiko
He hala ko kēlā me kēia kanaka a he ʻāpana ia o ka mea e hoʻolilo ai iā mākou. Akā aia kekahi kumu e haʻalele ai ʻoe i ka wā i hala. Aia kahi palena noʻonoʻo e hiki ai i kahi kāne ke hānai e hoʻolohe i ka wahine e walaʻau ana e pili ana i kā lākou mau ipo i hala, nā ʻohana hoʻomāinoino ʻino, a makua makua ʻole paha.
Makemake ʻia kahi kāne i kahi wahine e hōʻoia i kona wā i hala akā ʻaʻole ia e pili i kā lākou mau hewa, nā mea hōʻeha, a me nā ʻike maikaʻi ʻole i kā lākou ex. ʻO nā wahine e noho ana i ka wā i hala e nānā i nā mea like i kā lākou pili o kēia manawa a hoʻohālikelike ʻia i kā lākou mau pili i hala. No laila e hoʻōki i ka noho ʻana i ka wā i hala a kia nui i ka manawa. Makemake nā kāne i ka hoʻohālikelike ʻia i nā ex e like me kā mākou makemake ʻole e hoʻohālikelike ʻia i kā lākou ex.
6. Hoʻolohe
ʻIke ʻoe i ka mea i lanakila i ka pāʻani kinipōpō hīnaʻi i hala? Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e hana, a laila hiki i kāu kāne. Pono ʻoe e nānā a lawe pū i ka hoihoi i kāna mau leʻaleʻa i kēlā me kēia manawa. ʻAʻole ʻoe e kaʻana like i kēlā me kēia hoihoi a i ʻole leʻaleʻa e like me kāu kāne. E luhi paha a huhū paha ʻoe i ka lohe ʻana e pili ana iā lākou, akā loaʻa kahi manawa nui ʻaʻole makemake ʻo ia e hoʻolohe e pili ana i ka kiʻi ʻoniʻoni a me ke kūlanakauhale. Ma hope o kekahi manawa, e manaʻo ana kāu kāne ua hōʻole ʻia ʻoe e kou nele i ka hoihoi a hoʻomaka i ka manaʻo e mālama ʻole ʻia. A ʻo wai ka mea e hōʻino iā ia? ʻAʻole ʻoe makemake e hana kēlā iā ʻoe.
He hoʻoponopono maʻalahi ia. E hoʻomaka i ka nīnau ʻana i nā nīnau a me ka nānā ʻana i kāna mau makemake. Ke hana ʻoe i kēia, e manaʻo ana kāu kāne i kēlā pilina me ʻoe a hoʻomaka i ka hoʻihoʻi ʻana i ka ʻoluʻolu. ʻO kahi laʻana, ke nānā nei i kēlā lauoho lauoho hou a i ʻole e nīnau ana e pili ana i ka hele ʻana o kāu mau kaikamahine i ka pō.
7. ʻAʻole manaʻo i ka hemolele
E poina i nā aliʻi wahine uʻi! Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe i kuhi, ʻaʻohe mea like. Ua like ia me kāu kāne e hoʻohālikelike nei iā ʻoe i ke kamāliʻiwahine i loaʻa nā wili i kona lauoho a kau i ka pale maka ʻōmaʻomaʻo i kona alo i ka moena i kēlā me kēia pō. Eia nō naʻe ka nui o nā wahine e hoʻāʻo i kā lākou kāne i kā lākou manaʻo o ke "kāne hemolele". ʻO ka mea e hoʻomanaʻo ai kēia mau wahine ʻo ia wale nō ka poʻe e loli ke makemake lākou.
Pono lākou e hoʻomaopopo i kā mākou ʻokoʻa ka mea e lilo ai iā mākou. Ke aloha ʻoe i kāu kāne, aloha ʻoe me kona ikaika a me kona nāwaliwali. Ua ʻae ʻoe i kāu ʻokoʻa i ka hoʻomaka no ke aha ʻoe e ʻae ʻole ai iā lākou i kēia manawa. ʻAʻole hiki i ke kāne ke kū i ka wahine makemake e hoʻololi ʻo wai ʻo ia. No laila e mahalo i nā hana āpau āna i hana ai inā nui a liʻiliʻi paha lākou.
8. Kaʻoiaʻiʻo
ʻAʻole makemake nā kāne i ka heluhelu ʻana i nā noʻonoʻo a pāʻani paha i nā pāʻani. No laila ʻo ka mea maikaʻi loa a ka wahine e hana ai ʻo ka hoʻopono me kāna kāne. ʻAʻole makemake nā kāne i ka wā e ʻōlelo ai nā wahine i kahi mea a manaʻo i kekahi mea ʻē aʻe. E makemake lākou iā mākou e ʻae i ka mea a mākou e huhū nei ma mua o ka pāʻani ʻana i ka pāʻani koho weli. Eia kekahi na mākou e kuhikuhi i kā mākou makemake a me nā mea a mākou e makemake ʻole ai. Weliweli nā kāne a me nā wahine i ka kuhi ʻana mai ka manaʻo o kekahi a ʻo kēia ka nui o nā kamaʻilio hewa e kū aʻe. ʻAʻohe mea e hōʻeha a haki paha i kahi pilina ma mua o ka miscommunication mau. No laila e haʻalele i ka hoʻāʻo ʻana i kāu kāne e hakakā e pāʻani i ka psychic a e hoʻopono wale me ia.