Anter
- Eia hele mai ka empathizer; ʻo ka mea hoʻōla pū kekahi
- ʻO ke kumu ma hope o ka pilina ʻawahia
- Pehea e hiki ai i kā lākou pili?
- Ka hopena
I kekahi manawa, ma kahi o nā laina o ka ulu ʻana mai ka wā kamaliʻi, manaʻo paha ke kanaka he waiwai ʻole a waiwai ʻole ʻia, a ma muli o kēia, ʻimi mau lākou no ka hōʻoia e pono ai lākou.
Eia hele mai ka empathizer; ʻo ka mea hoʻōla pū kekahi
Hiki i kahi empathizer ke ʻike a lawe i ka ʻeha a kā lākou hoa e manaʻo nei a lawe aku lākou iā ia me he mea lā na lākou ia.
Inā ʻaʻole ʻike ka empathizer i kāna mau palena a ʻike ʻole pehea e pale ai iā lākou iho, e hoʻopili maʻalahi lākou me ka narcissist; e hoʻāʻo lākou e kinai i ko lākou ʻeha a hoʻoponopono i ko lākou pohō.
ʻO kahi mea like a nā mea narcissist āpau ʻo ia ka poʻe i hōʻeha i ka naʻau.
ʻO ke kumu o kēia he trauma maʻamau i hōʻehaʻeha iā lākou no ko lākou ola holoʻokoʻa. ʻOiai manaʻo lākou he mea ʻole a mahalo ʻole ʻia, lilo lākou i poʻe ʻimi mau no ka mahalo a me ka hōʻoia.
ʻO kēia ke hele mai nā Empaths e hoʻopakele akā hiki i nā ʻano maikaʻi i loaʻa i kēia poʻe ke hana i ko lākou hāʻule inā ʻaʻole lākou e akahele.
Ke ʻumeʻume kēia mau mea ʻelua ʻē aʻe, ʻaʻole ka hopena ka nui wale akā ʻino loa.
E hoʻomau i ka heluhelu ʻana e ʻike i ke kumu ma hope o kēia pilina ʻawahia.
ʻO ke kumu ma hope o ka pilina ʻawahia
ʻO ke kumu ma hope o ka ʻona o ka pilina ma waena o narcissist a me ka empathy ma muli o ka ʻaoʻao pouli o kahi narcissist. Mālama pinepine ʻia kēia ʻaoʻao e ka empathizer.
He hiki i kahi narcissist ke omo i ka ʻuhane o kekahi a lākou e makemake ai a i ʻole e launa pū.
Hiki iā lākou ke hōʻoia ʻia ke hana nei i kā lākou mau hoa i ke kaulike ʻole a palupalu a laila hoʻohana iā lākou i ka wā e hiki mai ana.
Manaʻo ka empathizer ʻo kēlā me kēia ʻano o kēlā me kēia kanaka, ʻike ʻoe i ka maikaʻi o kekahi me kekahi a maikaʻi maoli mai ke olakino. Hiki ke mahalo ʻia kēia gullibility i hoʻokomo ʻia i loko o lākou akā kumu pū nō hoʻi i ka hōʻino ʻoiai ʻaʻole pono a maikaʻi nā kānaka a pau e like me lākou.
He mau makemake ʻokoʻa ko nā kānaka ʻokoʻa a me nā papa ʻokoʻa e hiki ai ke hōʻeha iā lākou.
ʻO ka papa kuhikuhi o kahi narcissist e hana maʻalahi; makemake lākou e kāohi piha i kā lākou hoa, a hoʻohana lākou i nā mea ʻē aʻe ma ke ʻano he mea hōʻoia e manaʻo maikaʻi ai piʻi aʻe ma luna o lākou. ʻO ka papa kuhikuhi o ka empathizer ke hoʻōla, mālama a me ke aloha.
Ma muli o kā lākou mau pahuhopu ʻokoʻa, ʻaʻole hiki i kēia mau ʻano pilikino ke loaʻa ke kaulike.
Pehea e hiki ai i kā lākou pili?
Inā kū ka narcissist a me ka empathizer i loko o kahi pilina, e lilo kā lākou kūpaʻa i ke kaʻina vicious hiki ʻole ke haʻalele.
ʻO ka nui o ke aloha a me ke aloha e hāʻawi aku kahi empath iā lākou i ka kaohi a ka narcissist e kiʻi ai a manaʻo.
ʻO kēia, e hana i ka empathizer i mea hōʻeha.
E lilo ka empathizer i mea nāwaliwali a ʻeha hoʻi; e hoʻomaka lākou e like me ka mea i hōʻeha ʻia, e hana ana i nā ʻano e like me ka narcissistic.
Ke loaʻa kahi narcissist i kahi hoa empathy i hōʻeha ʻia e loaʻa iā lākou ke ʻano o ka hōʻoia e pono ai lākou; ʻo kaʻoi aku o ka hauʻoli a me ka ʻeha o ka empathizer ka hōʻoia o ka narcissist a me ka hauʻoli e manaʻo ai lākou.
E ʻimi ka empath hauʻoli ʻole i nā manaʻo o ke kākoʻo a me ke aloha mai kahi narcissist a ʻimi i ka hōʻoia. I kēia manawa o ka pilina, ke kau nei ka manaʻo nui o ka empathizer ma luna o ka manaʻo ʻeha a me ka ʻimi ʻana i ke aloha; hana nui lākou i ka ʻimi ʻana ʻaʻole lākou e ʻike i ka pōʻino e hele mai ana mai kā lākou hoa narcissist.
ʻAʻole lākou e ʻike ʻaʻole pili ka hewa ma luna o lākou.
Hiki i kēia kaua ʻawaʻawa ke hele a lawe i ke ola o ka empathizers. E lilo lākou i mea hopohopo iā lākou iho; e ʻimi lākou i nā mea pohō ma loko ma kahi o waho. I kēia manawa, pono i kahi empath e hoʻomaopopo i ko lākou kūlana a ala aʻe.
He mea makehewa kēlā hoʻāʻo e launa pū me kahi narcissist no ka mea ʻaʻole lākou e hōʻoluʻolu i kekahi.
ʻOiai manipulative loa lākou, huli lākou i nā mea āpau a lākou e makemake ai iā lākou iho a hoʻopiʻi i kekahi i kekahi. E hōʻino lākou i ka ʻeha a lākou e ʻike nei i ka empathizer a hōʻino hoʻi i ka ʻeha a ka empathizer e hana nei iā lākou pū kekahi.
E hoʻomaopopo kahi empathizer aia lākou i loko o kahi pilina luku a manaʻo lākou i ka pono e hōʻino i nā mea āpau ma ka narcissist, akā naʻe; ʻAʻole kēia ka hopena.
Ka hopena
ʻO ka hopena i ka hoʻopau ʻana i nā laulā manipulative o kahi narcissist ma ka hele wāwae ʻana mai nā mea āpau āu i hana ai a hoʻopau i ka pilina. I ka hopena o ka lā, ʻo nā mea maoli maoli āpau pehea mākou e manaʻo ai e mālama ʻia.
Inā noho ka empathizer i loko o kēia pilina ʻawahia, no laila no ka mea manaʻo lākou ʻaʻole pono lākou i ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o kēia. Eia nō naʻe, e ʻike i ka wiwo ʻole a me ka ikaika e hele loa aku mai kēia pilina ʻole a hoʻomaka hou.