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- Kākoʻo kāu hoa i kou ola ma waho o kāu pilina?
- Ke komo nei ʻoe i nā hoʻopaʻapaʻa hana a maikaʻi hoʻi?
- ʻIke paha ʻoe i kekahi i kekahi a ʻoluʻolu hoʻi i ka moekolohe?
- Haʻaheo paha ʻoe i nā mea a kekahi i loaʻa ai?
- Loaʻa iā ʻoe nā hoihoi maʻamau?
Hoʻonohonoho ʻia mākou kānaka e hana a komo i nā pilina kūpono. He pilina koʻikoʻi ke ʻano o ka pilina. ʻO ke kaumaha, ke ala a mākou e hana ai i nā pilina i kekahi manawa hiki ke hōʻeha i ka ʻeha a me ka huikau i ko mākou ola.
He aha ka hopena olakino a pilina kūleʻa? Pehea ʻoe e wehewehe ai i kahi pilina olakino? He nīnau nui kēia e nīnau ʻia ma kekahi mau kiko o ka pilina. Aia a hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i kahi papa inoa o nā mea olakino a me nā mea kikoʻī mai kāu pili e hele ana ʻoe i kahi pilina i piha me ka ʻeha a me ka huikau. ʻAʻohe pili pili, no ka mea, ʻike mākou he ʻelua a ʻoi paha mau ʻano like ʻole me nā pono like ʻole, nā makemake, nā manaʻo, nā manaʻo, nā manaʻo a me nā manaʻo.Pono kākou āpau e ʻike i nā hakakā o ka hoihoi a me nā pono, akā manaʻo wau he ʻoi aku ka palekana o ka ʻike ʻana i nā kekelē o nā hakakā o ka hoihoi a pono e manaʻo ʻia ma mua o ke kahaha.
Ma lalo iho nei nā papa helu hōʻoia no ka hoʻoholo ʻana inā paha he waiwai hou paha kahi pilina hou.
Kākoʻo kāu hoa i kou ola ma waho o kāu pilina?
Paipai kāu hoa iā ʻoe e alualu i kāu mau moeʻuhane, nā pahuhopu, nā makemake, nā leʻaleʻa, nā pilina ʻohana ʻē aʻe a me nā hoa aloha ma waho o ka pilina? Inā ʻae, aia ʻoe i loko o kahi pilina pili ʻole me ka hoa maikaʻi. Inā ʻaʻole, e akahele, no ka mea pēlā e hoʻomaka ai ka nui o nā pilina ʻawahia.
Pono ʻoe e komo i kahi pilina e aloha ai a aloha nui ai kāu hoa i kāu mea āu e koho ai, nā mea āu e koho ai, pehea ʻoe e koho ai a i ke koho ʻana i nā mea i hana ʻia ma waho o ka pilina. Inā ʻaʻole hauʻoli ʻo ia i kou ola ma waho o kāu pilina, pono ʻoe e holo a haki paha me kēlā kanaka no ka mea he kanaka ʻona ia.
Ke komo nei ʻoe i nā hoʻopaʻapaʻa hana a maikaʻi hoʻi?
Kūlike ʻole paha kāu hoa me nā hewa i kou ola? He paio ʻelua kā ʻolua? Inā ʻae, ʻo ia nō ke kanaka āu e noho pū ai. Inā ʻaʻole, e hoʻāʻo a hana i nā mea ma waena o ʻolua.
Hoʻomaopopo: Inā e paila ana nā manaʻo a hoʻopau ʻoe i nā hakakā pahū me nā hōʻino, e uhaʻi me ka hoa. He hoʻopaʻapaʻa kūpono ʻole ia a ʻaʻole ia he hōʻailona o ka pilina olakino.
ʻAe, kūlike ʻole nā hoa ma kekahi manawa o kā lākou pili. Akā ʻaʻole pono ia he ʻano paio e alakaʻi ai i ka hōʻino kino a i nā hōʻino paha.
ʻIke paha ʻoe i kekahi i kekahi a ʻoluʻolu hoʻi i ka moekolohe?
No ka hapanui o ka poʻe, ʻaʻole lākou e hoʻomohala i ko lākou uʻi kino i ka wā e pili ana. No laila he mea nui e noho me kahi hoa āu e ʻike ai i ka nani o ke kino.
ʻAʻole mākou e ʻōlelo e pono ʻoe e noho pū me nā poʻe nani wale a i ʻole nā hiʻohiʻona e like me supermodel, akā pono ʻoe e ʻike iā lākou i ka nani a me ke kūlike.
Ke kamaʻilio nei e pili ana i ka launa kolohe, ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e noho me kahi kanaka kūlike ʻole me ʻoe i ka moekolohe. Makemake paha kāu pakanā ʻolua i ka moekolohe ma ke ʻano ʻona ʻoiai makemake ʻoe e moekolohe ma hope o ka male ʻana - he laʻana kēia o ka pilina pili kolohe ʻole.
No kahi pilina e olakino a maikaʻi, pono ʻoe e pili i ka naʻau, ke kino a me ka noʻonoʻo.
Haʻaheo paha ʻoe i nā mea a kekahi i loaʻa ai?
Pono ʻoe me kahi hoa e haʻaheo a haʻaheo e pili ana iā ʻoe a me kāu mau mea i hiki ai i kāna ʻohana āpau, nā hoaaloha a me nā hoa hana.
Lili paha kāu hoa i kāu hoʻokō? He maikaʻi ke lili i kāu hana a kāu hoa hana akā pono ʻoe e hoʻopau i ka manawa ʻole.
Inā pili ʻoe me kahi hoa e hoʻāʻo mau nei e hoʻonui iā ʻoe, e haki a holo aku mai kēlā kanaka. Lili nō kēia hoa i kēlā me kēia holomua āu e hana ai a hoʻokō ai paha. He hoʻokūkū maikaʻi ʻole kēia a ʻaʻole maikaʻi ia no ka pilina olakino.
Loaʻa iā ʻoe nā hoihoi maʻamau?
He nīnau kēia e nīnau ʻia ai ma mua o ka pili ʻana i kahi pilina. Māhele like ʻolua i nā mea like? Hauʻoli ʻolua i kahi mea? He hoihoi a hoihoi paha ʻoe i nā hana a kāu hoa?
Hiki iā ʻoe ke hauʻoli maoli i ka noho pū ʻana me kekahi, akā ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo ua lawa kāu mau mea like e mālama ai i ka pili a me nā kamaʻilio ola ʻana. Ke loaʻa nei i kekahi mea leʻaleʻa i nā mea like, nā leʻaleʻa e like me ʻoe a maikaʻi loa a me kahi hōʻailona o kahi pilina olakino a kūleʻa hoʻi. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻolilo i ka manawa i ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana a me ka ʻike ʻana i nā mea hou aku e pili ana i kahi leʻaleʻa like a i ʻole ka hoihoi like. E hauʻoli paha ʻelua i ka nānā pū ʻana i kekahi o nā polokalamu kīwī, heluhelu pū ʻana i kekahi mau puke, hoihoi i kekahi ʻano laina laina a kaʻa paha a pēlā aku.
Inā ʻaʻohe ou mea like e like me ka leʻaleʻa a hoihoi paha, paʻakikī ia e noho pū no kahi manawa lōʻihi loa, ʻoiai hiki nō ke kūkulu pū i nā hoihoi a me nā leʻaleʻa like pū e hoʻoulu ai i ka pilina.