Anter
- 1. Hoʻokomo pinepine ʻoe i nā kūkākūkā kūpono
- 2. Nānā i mua i ka pilina me kāu hoa
- 3. Manaʻo ʻoe he aloha, mahalo ʻia, a mahalo ʻia e kāu hoa
- 4. Loaʻa iā ʻolua kā ʻolua mau pono ponoʻī
- 5. Hana ʻoe i nā mea maikaʻi no kekahi me kekahi
- 6. Loaʻa iā ʻoe kāu ʻōlelo pilikino
- 7. Hāʻawi ʻolua i ka kuleana no ka mālama ʻana i nā hana o ka home
- 8. Mahalo ʻoe i kāu hoa
- 9. Ke hiki mai kahi mea nui iā ʻoe, haʻi mua ʻoe i kāu hoa
- 10. Hilinaʻi ʻoe i kāu hoa
- 11. Makemake maoli ʻoe i kekahi i kekahi
- 12. Ke noʻonoʻo nei i kāu hui mua ʻana, ʻakaʻaka ʻoe a mahana hoʻi
- 13. Aloha ʻoe i kāu hoapili ia manawa a aloha iā lākou i kēia manawa
Ke noʻonoʻo nei i ke kūlana o kāu pilina? ʻImi e pili ana i nā ala e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hōʻoia i ka pilina a me ka hoʻokō o kou pilina? ʻAʻole maopopo ʻole e pili ana i kou mau manaʻo a noʻonoʻo paha inā ʻoe e noho a hele paha? Eia kahi papa inoa pilina pili pono na ʻoe e nīnau. Ke kōkua ma ka noʻonoʻo ʻana i nā helu aʻe hiki ke kōkua inā ʻimi e wehewehe i kahi o kāu pilina, i kēia manawa.
1. Hoʻokomo pinepine ʻoe i nā kūkākūkā kūpono
Pono ke kamaʻilio maikaʻi i ka mālama ʻana i ka pilina i ke olakino. Mai hoʻokuʻu i kāu pilina i loko o ka maʻamau, kamaʻilio banal, e like me ka wikiwiki "pehea kou lā?" ma mua o ka hoʻomaha ʻana i ka moe a i ka lumi moe paha.
Sure, makemake ʻoe e kūkākūkā i nā pono o nā keiki, nā hoʻolālā hoʻomaha a kou mau mākua, a me nā kumuhana ʻohana maʻamau ʻē aʻe, akā e ʻike pono e kamaʻilio kūkākūkā hou ʻoe me kāu wahine i kēlā me kēia manawa.
Ua heluhelu anei ʻoe i kahi puke maikaʻi? Noho i lalo a haʻi i kāu wahine i nā mea āu i ʻike maikaʻi ai e pili ana iā ia. E ʻike i kahi mea koi i ka hoʻolaha nūhou o ke ahiahi? Ke hiamoe nā keiki, ʻike i ka manaʻo o kāu wahine e pili ana iā ia, a wehe i ke kamaʻilio i nā nīnau e pili ana i ka loina e pili ana i ka pono. I nā huaʻōlelo ʻē aʻe, e lilo i mau kumu aʻoi loa i kekahi i kekahi a me nā mea e hoʻolohe pono.
2. Nānā i mua i ka pilina me kāu hoa
He mea maʻamau ʻaʻole mau ka ikaika o kou ola moekolohe e like me ia i nā lā mua o kou pili, akā pono ʻoe e leʻaleʻa pinepine i ka moekolohe. Hoʻomaopopo nā kāne hauʻoli i "ʻekolu manawa o ka pule" ma ke ʻano he mele maikaʻi no ke aloha a me ka pili pili.
Inā ʻike ʻoe iā ʻoe iho e hana i nā kala e hōʻalo ai i ka moekolohe, a i ʻole ke manaʻo nei e "waiho" wale ʻoe e hauʻoli ai kāu hoa, makemake ʻoe e nānā i ka mea ma hope o kēia ʻano. He barometer ka moekolohe, e hōʻike ana i ka pilina ma ke ʻano he nui, no laila e nānā iā ia (a i ʻole ka nele o ia).
3. Manaʻo ʻoe he aloha, mahalo ʻia, a mahalo ʻia e kāu hoa
ʻO ʻoe ʻo ia i ka pilina, a aloha kāu ipo iā ia. ʻOiaʻiʻo, aia kekahi mau manawa e ʻaʻahu ai ʻoe, e hoʻonani i kou lauoho a me ka lauoho. Haʻaheo ʻoe i kou helehelena o ke kino, akā ʻike pū ʻoe i ke aloha o kāu hoa iā ʻoe inā he aha. ʻO kou mau manaʻo, manaʻo a pehea ʻoe e ʻike ai i ka honua e mahalo ʻia e kāu hoa, ʻoiai inā ʻaʻole ʻoe a ʻaelike i kēlā me kēia mea liʻiliʻi.
4. Loaʻa iā ʻolua kā ʻolua mau pono ponoʻī
Aloha ʻoe me kāu wahine e noho pū, akā aloha pū ʻoe i kou manawa hoʻokahi a i ʻole kaʻawale, e ʻimi nei i kāu mau leʻaleʻa a me kou mau makemake. I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, paipai ʻoe i kekahi i kekahi e ʻimi i nā mea hou ma kāu iho.
Ua hauʻoli ʻoe e pili ana i kāu hoa ke hālāwai ʻo ia me kahi pilikia, a kākoʻo ʻo ia iā ʻoe me kāu mau mākaʻikaʻi ponoʻī. ʻAʻohe lili ke lilo ʻoe i manawa me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.
5. Hana ʻoe i nā mea maikaʻi no kekahi me kekahi
Aloha ʻoe i ka nānā ʻana i ka helehelena o kāu hoa ke ʻike ʻo ia i ka memo liʻiliʻi i haʻalele ai iā ia. ʻĀlohilohi ʻo ia me ka hauʻoli ke wehe ʻoe i kahi makana i ʻike ʻia ua ʻike ʻo ia e hauʻoli ʻoe. ʻO nā hana o ka lokomaikaʻi kahi ʻāpana o kāu pilina, e hoʻomanaʻo ana iā ʻoe i ka pili waiwai e hoʻopili iā ʻoe.
6. Loaʻa iā ʻoe kāu ʻōlelo pilikino
ʻO kā lāua mau ʻōlelo lōʻihi hauʻoli kā lākou ʻōlelo ponoʻī, inā he inoa pipi paha kekahi no kekahi a i ʻole nā huaʻōlelo i haku ʻia e hoʻohana wale ai ʻoe a me kāu mau keiki ma waena o ka ʻohana. Pili kēia ʻōlelo, a he mea ia e hoʻomanaʻo ai he “ʻohana ponoʻī ʻoe.”
7. Hāʻawi ʻolua i ka kuleana no ka mālama ʻana i nā hana o ka home
ʻAʻohe o nā kuleana i wehewehe ʻia i ke kāne e mālama ai i kou home, me kekahi o ʻoe e hana nei i ka "hana a ka wahine" a e hana ana kekahi i ka "hana a ke kāne." Manaʻo ʻolua ʻelua e kaʻana like i nā hana, a ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e kūkākūkā ʻo wai ka mea e hana a kūʻai paha me nā mea ʻē aʻe e hoʻopau i nā mea.
8. Mahalo ʻoe i kāu hoa
Haʻaheo ʻoe i kāu wahine a mahalo i kā lākou koho ola. Manaʻo ʻoe he laki i loaʻa iā lākou. Makemake lākou iā ʻoe e lilo i kanaka ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi i nā mea āpau āu e hana ai a pilikino.
9. Ke hiki mai kahi mea nui iā ʻoe, haʻi mua ʻoe i kāu hoa
A like pū, ke hiki mai kahi mea maikaʻi ʻole iā ʻoe-huli ʻoe i kāu hoa. Nānā ʻoe i mua e kaʻana like i ka maikaʻi a me ka maikaʻi ʻole me ka hoihoi like me kāu hoa.
10. Hilinaʻi ʻoe i kāu hoa
ʻAʻole ʻoe kānalua iā lākou. ʻAʻole pono ʻoe i kahi moʻoheluhelu pehea lākou e hoʻolilo ai i ko lākou manawa ke kaʻawale ʻoe. Hilinaʻi ʻoe ma laila lākou iā ʻoe ma o ka lahilahi a me ka lahilahi, maʻi a me nā pilikia nui o ke ola. Manaʻo ʻoe palekana me lākou.
11. Makemake maoli ʻoe i kekahi i kekahi
ʻAʻohe mea āu e makemake ai e hoʻi i ka home, a ʻaʻole ʻoe e nānā i nā pilina o nā kāne ʻē aʻe a makemake i kou ʻano e like me kā lākou. ʻIke ʻoe ua loaʻa iā ʻoe ka ʻoi loa o ka ʻoi loa, a manaʻo i ka ʻoluʻolu mehana i ka manaʻo o ka ʻelemakule me kēia kanaka.
12. Ke noʻonoʻo nei i kāu hui mua ʻana, ʻakaʻaka ʻoe a mahana hoʻi
Ke nīnau ka poʻe iā ʻoe pehea ʻoe i hui pū ai, aloha ʻoe e haʻi i ka moʻolelo pehea ʻoe i hui mua ai. Hoʻopiha kēia hoʻomanaʻo i ka hauʻoli. ʻIke ʻoe iā ʻoe iho e haʻi ana i kāu mea hoʻolohe i ka laki o kou hālāwai ʻana me kēia kanaka kupaianaha e lilo i hoa ola.
13. Aloha ʻoe i kāu hoapili ia manawa a aloha iā lākou i kēia manawa
Aloha ʻoe i nā loli a me nā loli āpau āu i ʻike ai i kāu pakanā a me kāu pilina i kou ulu ʻana. He poʻe ʻokoʻa ʻoe i kēia manawa ke hoʻohālikelike ʻia i kou hui ʻana, a ʻoluʻolu pū kekahi me kekahi inā ʻaʻole nui. ʻOi aku ka waiwai o kāu pili.
Inā pili kou pilina i ka hapa nui o nā mea āu e ʻike ai ma kēia papa inoa, ʻo ia kahi pili palekana i loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi mea maikaʻi e hele nei. Mahalo nui; Loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi pilina hoʻokō, olakino a hauʻoli hoʻi.