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- 1. ʻAʻole nani ka obsessiveness
- 2. Hōʻalo i nā pajama, nā mea pepehi i ke ʻano
- 3. E mālama iā ʻoe iho i kāu ʻoihana ʻauʻau
- 4. E ʻike i kāu waiwai
- 5. Kaohi i kou mau manaʻo
- 6. Hana e like me ka wahine
- 7. Mai hoʻololi iā ʻoe iho
- 8. Mai lawe i kāu ex
- 9. Hana i kāu mau kāne me ke aloha a me ke aloha e pono ai
I kēia mau lā, ke nānā nei nā wahine ma ka pūnaewele i ka noʻonoʻo kāne. ʻO kā lākou hoʻokokoke ʻana i ka launa pū ʻana a me ka pilina ka mea e pupule ai nā wahine a hāʻawi iā lākou i ke kala e hoʻolilo ai i ko lākou hopena pule me kā lākou mau hoaaloha e inu ana i ka cocktail.
He mea pohihihi ka noʻonoʻo kāne a hiki ke lawe i ka manawa a me ka hoʻoikaika nui. Hopohopo ka hapa nui o nā wahine ke ʻike ʻole lākou i ka mea e hana nei i ka manaʻo o kā lākou kāne, i ka mea āna e noʻonoʻo ai, i kāna mea e makemake ai e hana.
Akā ʻaʻole ʻoe e hopohopo hou, i ʻōlelo ʻia ma lalo nei ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo pili no ka wahine e kōkua i ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i kā lāua mau hoa male.
1. ʻAʻole nani ka obsessiveness
He maikaʻi ke lili i kekahi manawa ʻoiai kēia e manaʻo ai i kahi kanaka ʻē aʻe i makemake ʻia a nui aʻe. Eia nō naʻe, ke hele nei i loko o nā mea ponoʻī a kāu kāne, kāna kelepona, kāna ʻeke a me nā ʻeke o kāna mau jeans ʻoiai ʻo ia e ʻauʻau ana ke nānā nui nei. ʻAʻole ʻae ʻia kēia a hānau i nā pilikia hilinaʻi a me ka palekana ʻole.
Inā ʻoe e manaʻo inā peʻe kāu kāne i kahi mea, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ke kūʻē iā ia ma mua o ka sneak a mākaʻikaʻi iā ia.
ʻO kēia ala hiki iā ʻoe ke pani a mālama i ke ola olakino.
2. Hōʻalo i nā pajama, nā mea pepehi i ke ʻano
ʻAʻole makemake ka hapa nui o nā kāne e ʻike i kā lākou wahine i kona lole moe lole ma hope o ka lōʻihi o ka hana.
Hiki ke kaumaha i nā hola o ke keʻena, a nānā ka poʻe i mua e hoʻi i ka home a hoʻolilo i kekahi manawa me kā lākou hoa, akā ʻo ka hele ʻana i ka hale e ʻike i kā lākou wahine i ka pajama hiki ke lilo i mea luku.
Pono nā kaikamahine e hoʻokaʻawale i kahi manawa a hana pū me kā lākou hana i kēlā me kēia lā, e kāhiko no kā lākou kāne. ʻO kēia ka mea e hauʻoli loa ai kāu kāne, a hauʻoli lākou i ka hoʻolilo manawa ʻana me ʻoe.
3. E mālama iā ʻoe iho i kāu ʻoihana ʻauʻau
ʻAʻohe kāne e makemake e noʻonoʻo i kā lākou kaikamahine e noho ana i ka lua.
ʻO kahi lumipaku kahi wahi hemolele a ʻo nā mea āpau āu e hana ai i ka lua.
ʻAʻohe hoihoi o kāu kāne i ka ʻike ʻana i kāu hana ma laila. Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e ʻauʻau ana.
4. E ʻike i kāu waiwai
Mahalo nā kāne i nā wahine kūpaʻa a ʻike i ko lākou waiwai.
Ke kamaʻilio ke kāne i kahi wahine wiwo ʻole, kānalua a noʻonoʻo pono iā ia iho, lilo paha ia i ka mahalo iā ia.
Ma ke ʻano he wahine, pono ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo he nani loa ʻoe a ikaika hoʻi, ma lalo o nā manawa āpau e kānalua ʻoe i kēlā. Mai hoʻonāwaliwali loa i kou waiwai ponoʻī.
5. Kaohi i kou mau manaʻo
He mea maʻamau nou e huhū a huhū i kahi hoʻopaʻapaʻa akā no ka huhū nui e hoʻomaka ʻoe i ka uē a me ka uwa ʻana e lilo paha kāu kāne i ka mahalo iā ʻoe. I ka wā o kahi hoʻopaʻapaʻa, ke kīloi ʻana i nā kīʻaha, ke kīkē ʻana i nā puka e hoʻokuke aku i kāu kāne iā ʻoe.
Ke hōʻike nei i kou ʻāʻī nui hiki ke kīkī iā lākou a maikaʻi ʻole no ka pili lōʻihi.
6. Hana e like me ka wahine
ʻO ka hoʻolohe ʻana i ka wahine e ʻōlelo ana me he mea lā ua lilo kona wā kamaliʻi ma ke alanui hiki ʻole ke hoihoi.
ʻAʻohe kāne e makemake e lawe i ka home i kahi kaikamahine i ʻike ʻole pehea e kamaʻilio ai i ka poʻe a kamaʻilio e like me ka wahine. ʻAʻole kēia e hoʻokani iā ʻoe a maikaʻi a no ka mea he huli maoli no nā kāne.
Hana e like me ka wahine, a e mālama ʻo ia iā ʻoe e like me hoʻokahi.
7. Mai hoʻololi iā ʻoe iho
Nui nā wahine ke komo lākou i kahi pilina, haʻalele lākou iā lākou iho. Poina lākou i kā lākou makemake a makemake ʻole a hoʻāʻo e lilo i ʻano kikoʻī o kā lākou kāne.
Maikaʻi loa ka loaʻa ʻana o nā leʻaleʻa like ʻole a me nā makemake a me nā makemake ʻole.
No ka mea ʻaʻole ʻoe e hoʻokomo i ka mea like ʻaʻole ia e manaʻo ʻaʻole ʻoe e leʻaleʻa. Inā makemake ʻo ia e nānā i ka pāʻani pōpeku, a laila e hoʻolimalima manawa me ia a kiaʻi. E kōkua kēia i ka hoʻonui ʻana i ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana o kekahi me kekahi.
8. Mai lawe i kāu ex
ʻO ka lawe ʻana i kāu ex ka mea hope loa āu e hana ai i kahi pilina.
He kūlohelohe ko nā kāne e lili a loaʻa hoʻi, e lawe ana i kāu ex i mea e pupule ai, a e kīkē paha iā lākou.
9. Hana i kāu mau kāne me ke aloha a me ke aloha e pono ai
Hana hewa ka hapa nui o nā kaikamahine i ka mālama ʻole ʻana i kā lākou kāne me ke aloha a me ke aloha e pono ai. ʻO kēia kahi a lākou e hewa ai. Ua like nā kāne me nā kaikamahine, a pono lākou i ka nānā, ke aloha, a me ka mālama i nā manawa āpau.
Ke hoʻi lākou i ka hale, makemake lākou e nīnau kekahi iā lākou e pili ana i ko lākou lā; pono lākou i kekahi e cuddle a kamaʻilio i ka pō holoʻokoʻa; pono lākou i kekahi e kiaʻi i ke Makua makua me. ʻO ka pili pono o kāu mau hoihoi me ia ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke leʻaleʻa.
Inā hiki i kāu kāne ke noho a nānā i ka puke memo me ʻoe, a laila hiki iā ʻoe ke hana like. Noho manawa me ia, aloha iā ia a mālama iā ia. ʻO kēia wale nō ka mea e hauʻoli ai lākou.