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- Akā pehea e pili ana i nā pilina ʻē aʻe āpau a mākou e ʻike ai i kēlā me kēia lā?
- ʻO ke Kānāwai Circle ʻEkolu
- Ka pilina a me ke koʻikoʻi o ka poʻe i ko mākou ola
I ka wā i kākau ai ʻo Jule Styne lāua ʻo Bob Merrill i ke mele "People" no ka Broadway mele wahine Girl Girl me Barbra Streisand, ʻaʻole maopopo iā lāua he mele nui loa kēlā mele. ʻO ka leo paha o Barbra a i ʻole ke ʻano o ka pā o ke mele i ka hohonu o ka pono o loko no kēlā me kēia mea he wahi moot. ʻO ka manaʻo holoʻokoʻa o ka poʻe e pono ana i ka poʻe i lilo i ʻoihana nui - ka hapanui e kau ana i ka pilina aloha. ʻO nā puke, nā hālāwai kūkā, nā mea hoʻomalu kūikawā, nā holoholo, nā wahi hoʻomaha hoʻomaha a me nā mea hoʻoponopono massage e lawelawe i ka lomilomi aloha no nā kāne.
Akā pehea e pili ana i nā pilina ʻē aʻe āpau a mākou e ʻike ai i kēlā me kēia lā?
E noʻonoʻo i nā hoa hana? Nā mākua kāne? Nā hoahānau? ʻO kā mākou pili pili pono e like me ka kauka niho a kauka paha? ʻO kahi luna nāna e hoʻohui i kēlā me kēia lā i ka pae EQ o ka wahi hana? A i ʻole ʻo ʻanakala makua maikaʻi ʻo Harry, ʻo wai ka ʻeha ka luʻu akā hōʻike ʻia i kēlā me kēia lā hoʻomaha e mākaukau e hoʻokuke iā ʻoe? Pehea kou pili me ia - kekahi o nā mea aloha ʻole ʻia i ke ola? ʻAʻole kōkua nui ma laila e mālama i kēia mau pilina. Pono mākou e hele i loko a hana iā lākou e like me ka hiki iā mākou.
ʻO ke Kānāwai Circle ʻEkolu
Manaʻoʻiʻo wau ua loaʻa iaʻu ka pane, a kāhea wau iā ia ʻo The Third Circle Protocol. ʻO ke kolu o ka pōʻai ka ʻaelike haʻi waha ʻole a kāua. ʻO nā mea i manaʻo ʻole ʻia e kamaʻilio e pili ana akā hana wale mākou i. ʻO ka mea a mākou e manaʻo ai mai kā mākou hoa hana, ko mākou mau mākua kāne, kā mākou ʻōpio, ʻo ke kākau ʻōlelo hoʻi ma ka hale kūʻai. Ke manaʻo nei ka mea ʻē aʻe mai iā mākou kekahi. A ʻaʻohe mea e kamaʻilio e pili ana i kēlā mea i manaʻo ʻia - kēlā ʻaelike a mākou i hui pū ai. ʻO ʻoe, ka mea heluhelu a me I. He ʻaelike kā kāua. Makemake ʻoe e aʻo i kahi mea pono mai kēia ʻatikala a ke lana nei koʻu manaʻo e heluhelu ʻoe iā ia (lana ka manaʻo a hiki i ka hopena) a aʻo i kahi mea mai ia hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohana i kou ola. A i ʻole ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi, e pīhoihoi e pili ana i ka Protocol āu e makemake ai e aʻo hou e pili ana, mai kaʻu pūnaewele a i ʻole ka puke.
ʻEwalu mau makahiki i hala aku nei ma koʻu keʻena haukapila, e hana ana au me kahi ʻōpio i hoʻoilina i ka ʻoihana a kona mau mākua, me ka mea mālama puke nāna i ʻike iā ia mai ka makahiki ʻehā mai. Minamina ke mālama mau nei ka luna puke iā ia pēlā. Me he mea ʻehā ona makahiki. Ua akāka loa i loko o nā kau a mākou e hana ai i kahi hiʻohiʻona hou no kēlā pilina - makemake ʻo ia e mālama iā ia a me kona noʻonoʻo pono! No laila ua hana ʻia kahi ʻekolu 'being', lilo ia iā ia, ka mea mālama puke a me ka pilina - ʻo ia ke kolu o ka mea. Ua hana mākou i ka mea a kēlā 'entity' i hana ai, nā waiwai a me nā mea nui, nā pono a me nā makemake o kēlā me kēia kanaka, a me nā mea a lākou i hoʻomākaukau ai e hāʻawi i kēia 'mea hou'. Ko lākou pilina.
Maikaʻi ka hana ʻana, hoʻohana wau i kēia manawa i ke keʻena me nā ʻōpio a me nā mākua, nā kāne, nā makuahōnōwai, nā limahana a me nā luna hana a me nā wahi ʻē aʻe e pili ai nā pilina. Ua aʻo aku au iā ia i nā psychologists a me nā kaʻa e hoʻohana iā ia me kā lākou mea kūʻai aku.
Ka pilina a me ke koʻikoʻi o ka poʻe i ko mākou ola
Ua hoʻopau ʻia kahi noi Harvard hou ma hope o 50 mau makahiki a me nā ʻike nui e pili ana i nā pilikia o ka pilina a me ke koʻikoʻi o ka poʻe i ko mākou ola. Ua hōʻoia ʻo Kauka Waldinger alakaʻi noiʻi ma o ka hāhai ʻana i nā kumuhana no nā makahiki he nui a ke hoʻohālikelike nei i ke kūlana o ko lākou olakino a me kā lākou mau pilina i ka wā mua, ua kūpaʻa ʻo ia i ka paʻa o nā pilina pilikino i kumu no ka olakino olakino lōʻihi.
"Ua hōʻike kā mākou noiʻi i ka poʻe i ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ʻo ka poʻe i pili i ka pilina me ka ʻohana, me nā hoaaloha a me ke kaiāulu."
Pili nā pilina ʻo wai mākou. Hana mākou a hana mākou i ka poʻe a puni mākou - no laila he koʻikoʻi e aʻo pehea e hana ai me nā mea āpau; kā mākou mau hoa hana, ko mākou mau kaikaina, nā mākua me nā ʻōpio a me nā mea aloha ʻole ʻole ʻia i ko mākou ola.
ʻO ka mea hoihoi loa, makemake mau mākou i nā poʻe e ʻae iā mākou i ke ʻano o mākou, akā makemake ʻole e ʻae iā lākou e like me lākou. ʻO ke ala e hoʻopili aku ai me ka poʻe a mākou e aloha ai, makemake a aloha ʻole ai, ʻo ia, ke manaʻoʻiʻo nei wau, ma o ka ʻimi ʻana i nā waiwai like a i ʻole nā mea nui o ke ola. ʻAʻole pono mākou e 'makemake' i ke kanaka e launa pū me lākou. Pono mākou e ʻike i ke ala ʻoi loa e hoʻopili ai a ʻae i kahi pilina olakino e hana. ʻOiai he mea hiki ʻole paha i kekahi manawa, ʻaʻole ia. E ʻike i kahi waiwai āu e kaʻana like ai, kahi mea nui e hoʻohui a hana pū me nā mea hiki ke loaʻa. Māmā ia i ke ola, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi a me ka leʻaleʻa.
ʻO ka manawa aʻe e hoʻokolokolo wau i ka pilina me nā mākua kāne a me nā mākua ke hui ʻoe me nā ʻohana. A hiki i kēlā manawa, e ola i kāu mau waiwai. ʻO lākou nō ʻoe.