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- ʻO ke ola ma hope o ka male ʻana - ka moʻolelo a Tom lāua ʻo Lori
- Nā mea e loli ke male ʻoe
- Mai nānā i ka hemahema o kāu hoa
- Heluhelu i kāu mau hoʻomaikaʻi
- Kāohi i ka hoʻohālikelike ʻana ma mua a ma hope o ka male ʻana
ʻAʻole hiki ke pale i nā loli ma hope o ka male ʻana. Eia naʻe ka lōʻihi o kou ʻike i kāu pakanā, ʻokoʻa kāu pilina ma hope o ka male ma mua o ka mea ma mua. ʻO kekahi mau hoʻololi i ka male no ka mea maikaʻi a hiki i kekahi mau hoʻololi ke noʻonoʻo iā ʻoe no ke aha e male ai ka poʻe.
Ma muli o ka loli o ke ola ma hope o ka male, pono mākou āpau e hoʻāʻo i ka loli ma hope o ka male ʻana a me ka hāmama e ʻae i kā mākou hoa me kā lākou idiosyncrasies.
Ke kamaʻilio nei mākou e pili ana, pehea e hoʻololi ai ka male iā ʻoe, ʻo ke kukui ʻo Friday Night ka mea hōʻike nui loa o ka male e hōʻike hou ʻia ma ke kīwī.
I ka moʻo o ka pule, ua kau ka manaʻo i ka pilina ma waena o kahi kaʻi kula kiʻekiʻe o ke kauhale liʻiliʻi a me kāna wahine i kākoʻo iā ia ʻoiai ʻo ia e ʻaʻa iā ia i nā ʻano like ʻole.
Ma kahi o ka maʻamau o ke kiʻi ʻoniʻoni e like me ka hewa, kolohe, a i ʻole nā mea huna, hoʻomalu ʻia nā kukui ʻo Pōʻalima e nā mele maoli o ka pilina.
ʻIke ka mau o ka wahine i nā hakakā liʻiliʻi, nā kala aloha ʻole e like me nā hewa a me nā hoʻolaulea ʻana i ke ʻano o ke aloha e mau ana.
Hāʻawi ka veneer o ka waina a me nā rosa i nā ʻoiaʻiʻo o ke ola male ke hoʻopuka ʻia ka "I Dos".
ʻO ke ola ma hope o ka male ʻana - ka moʻolelo a Tom lāua ʻo Lori
Ke pili aloha ʻo Tom lāua ʻo Lori, e haʻalele ʻo ia i ka lumi e "pass gas". Ua kamaʻilio lākou e pili ana i kāna ʻano maʻamau i kekahi ahiahi, a ʻakaʻaka ʻo Lori i kēia mikionali e hele ʻole i mua ona. Ua haʻi ʻo ia iā ia i kāna maxim e kani kūpono ʻole a me ka prudish.
Hoʻopiha ke ola male me nā mea maoli. ʻO ke kanaka āu i hoʻolimalima ai i mau hola i mua o ke aniani, no kēia manawa, ʻike iā ʻoe me nā zits, ʻike he hanu kakahiaka kou, a me nā ʻano huna ʻē aʻe.
Pau ka nui o ka male e ke kūpaʻa. E hoʻopilikia nā kiʻekiʻe a me nā haʻahaʻa i ka hana maʻamau.
Kamaʻilio nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni e pili ana i ka hana maʻa mau o ka male. Hana lākou ia mea i nā home immaculate kahi e hemolele mau ai ka lauoho, a hoʻopiha ʻia ke kamaʻilio me nā liniter ʻoluʻolu. Loaʻa nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni i kekahi mau mea kūpono:
1) nā hana ʻoluʻolu
2) solidarity makua
3) hoʻohoka hoʻonāukiuki
He male maoli kēia. ʻAʻole hōʻike kahi kāleka hoʻokahi mai ka papa matrimony i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo. Nā pule, mau mahina - a i kekahi mau makahiki - hoʻopili ʻia me ka ʻeha a me ke kuko ʻoiai ʻaʻole kekahi.
I kekahi manawa makemake nui ʻoe i kekahi mea akā ʻo ka maʻamau. A laila, hōʻike i ka pīhoihoi, a ʻike ʻoe i ka nostalgic no ka hana maʻamau.
Ke ʻike nei ʻo Lori i ka "kiʻekiʻe" o ka male ma kēia manawa - akā no nā kumu i manaʻo ʻole ʻia.
Ua piha nā makahiki ʻekolu i ka hala me nā pilikia. ʻEkolu mau makahiki o ke kula kānāwai, ka emi ʻana o ka loaʻa kālā, ka huakaʻi nui, a me kahi pēpē hou.
Ua hoʻāʻo nā ʻike i ka mea āna i manaʻo ai he uniona ikaika. Ua hana ʻo Lori lāua ʻo Tim i loko. ʻO ka paʻakikī ka hapa maikaʻi o ka male.
ʻIke ke kanaka hiki iā lākou i loko o ka male a ʻike mau iā lākou iho. Aloha lākou i kekahi i kekahi ma o ka loli a me ka ulu ʻana.
Hiki i ka male ke hoʻopuka i nā mea maikaʻi loa loa - a ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi. Lawe ka hoʻoholo, hana; i kekahi manawa ua ikaika ʻole ka male ʻana.
Hāʻawi ka male i kahi hoa i ka wā lōʻihi. Pili ia i nā loli maʻamau a me nā loli i manaʻo ʻole ʻia. Pili ia, kaʻawale, hoʻonāukiuki, a me nā mea maikaʻi.
He aha nā mea e loli ke male ʻoe
He akāka loa i ka manawa e male ana ʻoe, nui nā mea i hoʻonohonoho ʻia e loli i kahi pilina. ʻO ka mea āu i makemake ai e pili ana i kāu kāne i kēia manawa e kipaku iā ʻoe i nā nut a no laila hiki ke ʻoiaʻiʻo me kāu wahine.
Akā, e mau ana ka nīnau i ka mea e hana ke male ʻoe a he aha nā mea e loli ma hope o ka male ʻana. Eia kekahi, inā pili ka lōʻihi o ka pilina ma loko o ka pilina ola, ʻo ka hapa nui o lākou i hōʻike i nā hoʻohālikelike i hoʻololi ʻia ma hope o ka male ʻana.
Hoʻopili ka male male i ʻuhane ʻelua i kahi ala e koi ʻia ai ka 'individuality' e lawe i kahi noho hope.
Inā ʻo ka mea nui ka mea nui mua iā ʻoe, a laila pono ʻoe e noʻonoʻo hou i ka male ʻana.
ʻOiai e noho pū ana ma mua o ka male ʻana, hiki iā ʻoe ke pale i kāu pilikino. ʻOiai aloha ʻoe, ʻaʻole kuleana ʻoe e kaʻana like i kāu kālā a pane no kēlā me kēia mea liʻiliʻi.
Akā, i ka male ʻana, kaʻana like ka wahine i kā lāua kālā, ka home, nā ʻano, kā lākou makemake a makemake ʻole ma ke kaʻawale ʻana i ka moena o ka papa.
Eia kekahi, ʻo ka male ʻana he ʻano hōʻoia ʻoluʻolu ia e pili ana ka noho ʻana o nā kānaka ʻelua i kekahi i kekahi no ke koena o ko lāua ola, ʻoiai kēlā, ʻaʻole he mea maʻamau ka hemo ʻana.
Hiki i kēia manaʻo subconscious ke lawe iā ʻoe i kāu wahine no ka mea ʻole. A me ka hana kolohe ʻole, ua hooki ʻoe i ka hoʻāʻo ʻana e hana i kāu pilina. ʻO kēia ke kumu e loli ai ka pilina ma hope o ka male.
Nā mea e loli ke male ʻoe
I kēia manawa, ʻike mākou i ke kumu a pehea e loli ai nā mea ma hope o ka male, e hoʻohuli i kā mākou nānā i ka hoʻomaikaʻi a me ka mālama ʻana i nā pilina ma hope o ka male.
Mai nānā i ka hemahema o kāu hoa
Hoʻopiʻi nā kāne he nui ua hoʻololi ke kāne ma hope o ka male ʻana a i ʻole hoʻololi ke kino wahine ma hope o ka male ʻana.
E like me kā mākou ʻike ʻo ka mea mau i ke ola ka 'loli', no laila ʻaʻole e hoʻohoka ʻia me nā hiʻohiʻona o waho. Pōʻino ke kino o ke kanaka a hiki ke loli i kekahi manawa. E ʻae aku me ke aloha a me ke aloha.
Heluhelu i kāu mau hoʻomaikaʻi
Ma kahi o ka noʻonoʻo ʻana i nā mea e loli ke male ʻoe, no ke aha e helu ʻole ai i nā hoʻomaikaʻi a mākou i male ai?
E hoʻāʻo mau e nānā i nā hiʻohiʻona maikaʻi o kāu hoa. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole maʻalahi akā hiki inā ʻoe hoʻomaʻa mau i ka optimism.
Kāohi i ka hoʻohālikelike ʻana ma mua a ma hope o ka male ʻana
E noʻonoʻo i kēlā me kēia manawa o kou ola ma ke ʻano he mokuna kūʻokoʻa. E neʻe i mua o ke ola a loaʻa i nā ʻike hou, pono ʻoe e neʻe i ka mokuna aʻe, ma ka hoʻokuʻu ʻana i ka mokuna kahiko i kou ola.
Me kahi mokuna hou, hiki mai nā ʻike hou. A i mea e hauʻoli ai iā lākou i ka piha, pono ʻoe e hōʻoki i ka hoʻohālikelike ʻana i kāu wā i hala a me kēia manawa. ʻAʻole hiki iā lāua ʻelua ke like.
No laila, e hoʻopau i ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa enervating o 'kāne ma mua a ma hope o ka male' a me 'wahine ma mua a ma hope o ka male'. Pono mākou e aʻo e nānā i ke kiʻi nui aʻe.
Inā hana mākou i kahi hana, hiki iā mākou ke ʻike i nā ʻano he nui o kā mākou pilina e hauʻoli e pili ana a mālama i kā mākou male ma o ka nānā ʻana i ka maikaʻi a me ka hoʻololi ʻana iā mākou iho no ka maikaʻi.