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- He aha ke aloha aloha no ka hapanui o mākou?
- Hana i kou kaiapuni oi pilialoha
- E hoʻonui i kou kapa komo
- E hana i kahi prelude kūpono i ka hana aloha
- E ʻike i kāu ʻōlelo aloha
- Mai kāpae i ka epilog
ʻAʻole kū hoʻokahi ka moekolohe a me ke aloha. No laila, he aha ka manaʻo o ka moekolohe?
Hoʻopili ka moekolohe i kēia mau kiʻi no ka hapanui o nā kāne.
- Hele wāwae lōʻihi a me nā kahakai keʻokeʻo silky laumania
- ʻO nā ʻaihue o nā rosa ʻulaʻula kū lōʻihi ke hōʻea nei iā ʻoe ma ka home a i kāu wahi hana
- He pahu o nā kokoleka waiū pouli Swiss nani hāʻawi ʻia i kou puka
- ʻO kahi ʻaina ahiahi ihoiho kukui haku ʻia i kāu meaʻai punahele a me ka champagne
ʻO kēia mau hiʻohiʻona āpau i ukali ʻia e ka moekolohe aloha, aloha a kupanaha hoʻi i hiki ʻole ke noʻonoʻo ʻia.
ʻĀ, no ka hapanui o mākou he mau moemoeā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni kēia, akā nui nā ala e hana ai i ka moekolohe (a me ke ola hoʻi!) I ke aloha hou aʻe.
Aia kekahi mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo moe kolohe leʻaleʻa i hiki iā ʻoe ke ukali e hoʻonui i ka mea aloha i kou ola a hauʻoli i ka moekolohe aloha maikaʻi me kāu bae.
No laila, mai nānā hou no nā manaʻo moekolohe aloha. E komo i mua i ke aloha aloha 101
He aha ke aloha aloha no ka hapanui o mākou?
Ma mua o ke komo ʻana i loko o nā manaʻo e hoʻonui ai i ka moekolohe i ka male, e hoʻomaopopo mua mākou e hana ana kēlā me kēia i kahi palapala noʻonoʻo pilikino o ke aloha.
ʻOkoʻa loa paha kou manaʻo o ka mea aloha ma mua o kā kāu BFF, ʻokoʻa ʻokoʻa paha ia i ka manaʻo o kāu hoa kāne o ke keʻena no ka mea i aloha ʻia, a pēlā aku.
No laila, pehea e loaʻa ai ka moemoeā aloha inā ʻaʻohe mea i kau ʻia i nā hopena āpau e hoʻoponopono ai i kahi pilina aloha?
E hoʻololi i kou pilina mai blah a i ka hauʻoli, he mea nui e hoʻomaopopo i ka hapanui o ka poʻe i kekahi mau manaʻo ākea e pili ana i ka moekolohe aloha.
E hoʻomaka me, ʻelua mau poʻe i makemake maoli i kekahi i kahi kahi hoʻomaka maikaʻi.
Hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa kahi manawa maikaʻi kupaianaha me kekahi kanaka me ka ʻole o ka "like" a i ʻole "i ke aloha," akā ʻo ka mea aloha ʻole ka mea aloha i kēlā hoʻohālikelike.
No laila e hōʻuluʻulu, he aha nā mea pono e pono ai no kāu wehewehe pilikino o ke aloha, a pehea e pono ai e hoʻokō i kēia pahuhopu?
E lawe wau i kekahi mai ke kolamu B, ʻelua o ka helu 117, e hoʻolilo i kēia i helu helu 46.
ʻAe, ʻo nā mea i alakaʻi i ka moekolohe aloha e like me kekahi o kēlā mau menus lōʻihi loa, huikau āu e loaʻa ai i kekahi mau hale ʻaina Kina. E nānā i kekahi o lākou e hoʻoulu hou i ke aloha i kāu pilina.
Hana i kou kaiapuni oi pilialoha
Ma hea ʻoe e manaʻo ai ʻo ʻoe nō kou aloha pilikino?
Aia ma ka home i kou wahi moe ponoʻī, a i ʻole i kahi wahi ʻokoʻa loa, kahi e hoʻohui ai ka mea hou i ke aniau aloha.
Inā aia ma ka home, makemake ʻoe e hui pū i ke mele, nā kukui ʻokoʻa, nā lau lilina crisp, a me nā pua ma luna o ke kūlana moe?
Hana ʻoe i kahi ʻano aloha e hoʻonui i ke ahiahi (a i ʻole ke awakea, kakahiaka, maikaʻi, i kēlā me kēia manawa)? A i ʻole pili kāu wahi ipo ke hele ʻia i kahi wahi āu i ʻike ʻole ai ma mua.
E hoʻomanaʻo wale nō, ʻoiai he ʻano wiwo ʻole a aloha paha ia, ʻo ka hoʻāʻo ʻana ma kahi lehulehu ʻaʻole ia he kānāwai kūpono ʻole, he mea hoʻohilahila paha ke lilo ia i ʻaoʻao kekahi o ka nūpepa kūloko.
E hoʻonui i kou kapa komo
ʻIke paha ʻoe i ke aloha nui ke kau nei i kahi mea seksi a hōʻike (inā he wahine ʻoe) a i ʻole dapper a suave a la James Bond (inā he kāne ʻoe)?
ʻOiaʻiʻo, kani kēia mau mea e like me nā kapa hoʻowalewale stereotypical, akā aia kekahi kumu.
Nui ka poʻe e ʻoluʻolu ke aloha i ka wā o nā lole a lākou e ʻaʻa nei e hōʻike ana i ko lākou mau aloha i ke aloha. ʻIke paha nā kāne a me nā wahine i ke aloha ʻana i ka lole jeans a me nā pālule koa pū kekahi.
ʻAʻole pono nā lole lole e lilo i thongs, g-strings a skimpy lingerie e lilo i seksi!
Hiki i kekahi poʻe ke ʻoliʻoli i ka ʻaʻahu ʻana i nā lole.
- ʻO Romeo lāua ʻo Juliet?
- ʻO Cleopatra lāua ʻo Mark Antony?
- ʻO Scarlett lāua ʻo Rhett?
E ʻike i ka mea a kou mau lole e hoʻoluʻu ai a hele aku!
E hana i kahi prelude kūpono i ka hana aloha
ʻO ka mea āu e hana ai ma mua o ka hopena o kāu ahiahi aloha he ʻano foreplay, a aneane like ka nui me ka foreplay maoli.
He aha kā ʻolua hauʻoli e hana nei?
ʻO kahi filet mignon a me nā ʻaina awakea truffles ma ka Chateau dʻAmor, kahi hale ʻaina nani a nani a i ʻole kahi pāʻina a me ka pālua pālua Double hamburger, hoʻoluliluli a me nā palai ma ka kūloko In-N-Out? A i ʻole kekahi mea ma waena?
ʻO kēia mau koho āpau nā mea e hana ai i kāu aloha pilikino ponoʻī.
Hiki i ke lewa o ka wahi ʻai ke hoʻohui i ke aloha i ke ahiahi.
ʻO kahi nānā maikaʻi, ka kani o nā nalu i kahi mamao, ka hoʻomālamalama ʻana, nā noho ʻoluʻolu, a hoʻolohe (a nānā ʻole paha!) lawelawe hiki iā lākou āpau ke hoʻohui i kahi hoʻomaka maikaʻi loa i kahi pō o ke aloha.
A ma hope o kēlā ʻaina ahiahi, pehea kahi kiʻi ʻoniʻoni?
ʻOiai he aloha mau nā flick chick, hiki i ka manawa no kahi kiʻi ʻoniʻoni me kahi hoʻopiʻi ākea ākea. ʻO ka pili maikaʻi: "Casablanca".
E ʻike i kāu ʻōlelo aloha
ʻAʻohe mea i ʻoi aku ka nui i nā pilina āpau ma mua o ka kamaʻilio maopopo ʻana a ʻike ʻana i ka ʻōlelo a ke aloha o kekahi.
ʻO ka mea nui, nā mea o ka moekolohe aloha kamaʻilio kūpaʻa a hāmama, aloha, nā hoihoi like, a me ka pilina o ka pilina i ka pilina e like me nā cogs ʻē aʻe i ka huila o ka pilina hauʻoli.
Akā i kekahi manawa ke kamaʻilio nui nei e pili ana i kahi pilina e hoʻopau i ke aloha, no laila huikau maoli ka manaʻo e pili ana i ka nui o kāu e kūkākūkā ai i kou ola aloha me kāu hoa. Eia nō naʻe, ʻo ke aloha e alakaʻi nei i ka moekolohe e hana i ka kemika combustible ma waena o nā kāne.
Ke laʻana ʻo Gottman Institute, no ka laʻana, pono ʻoe, "e kamaʻilio mau e pili ana i ka moekolohe", akā ʻaʻole ʻoluʻolu kekahi poʻe me nā kamaʻilio kū ʻole e pili ana i ka moekolohe.
ʻO ke kaulike maikaʻi o nā kumuhana a me ka banter flirtatious e hana no ka foreplay aloha nui loa no ka hapa nui o nā kāne.
Mai kāpae i ka epilog
E like me ka foreplay maikaʻi i ka wahine aloha, ʻo ka manawa ma hope o ka moekolohe he mea nui like ia. ʻO ka afterglow he manawa pinepine ia no ka naʻau pono i nā kamaʻilio puʻuwai.
Ma muli o kekahi mau kemika i hoʻokuʻu ʻia i ka hopena o ka hopena, ʻike paha ʻoe i kahi kokoke loa i kāu hoa i kēia manawa.
Kaukaʻi ʻia i ke ʻano, hiki iā ʻoe a me kāu pakanā ke kūkākūkā:
- He aha ka mea maikaʻi
- He aha kāu e makemake ai e hoʻāʻo hou
- Malia paha broach ke kumuhana o nā mea hou āu e makemake ai e hoʻāʻo i kāu pili pili
ʻOiaʻiʻo, makemake paha kekahi poʻe e hiamoe, no laila e ʻike inā ʻo kēia ka hihia a mai hoʻomau e like me kahi chatterbox!
ʻAʻole pono ke aloha i ka male, no ka mea pili ia i ke aloha, ka moekolohe, a me ka hui pū ʻana ma waena o nā kāne.
ʻO ke aloha i ka wā o ka moekolohe e nalowale paha i ka male a i ʻole kahi pilina ke ʻike ʻole kekahi o nā hoa i ke koʻikoʻi o ka moemoeā aloha no ka lōʻihi o ka pilina o ka wahine a me ka maikaʻi holoʻokoʻa.
Eia kekahi, e hoʻomaikaʻi i kāu pili aloha, a hoʻonui i kou makemake no kekahi i kekahi, he mea maikaʻi e nānā i kēia mau kūlana moekolohe.
Lana ka manaʻo, e like like ka makemake o ʻolua i mea e waiho ʻole ai kekahi hoa e moe ala ana a e nānā ana i ke kaupaku.
ʻO ka moekolohe kahi mea nui i ka pilina a ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ke keu a ke aloha a me ka manawa i nā ʻāpana like o ka hoʻohālikelike.