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- Pehea ke aloha i ka ʻike mua?
- ʻO ke aloha i ka ʻike mua he maoli e like me ka ʻepekema?
- He aha ke ʻano o ke aloha i ka ʻike mua, ma ke ʻano he psychologically?
- No laila, hiki iā ʻoe ke aloha i ka maka mua a hana i ka wā lōʻihi?
Ke haʻohaʻo nei ka poʻe skeptics: “ʻO ke aloha i ka ʻike mua maoli? ” ʻO ka poʻe huhū i ke aloha e hoʻomau nei i ka haʻohaʻo: "ʻO ke aloha i ka ʻike mua?" Ke hoʻomau nei nō ka poʻe ʻepekema i ka wānana: “He aloha anei i ka ʻike mua?”
I ka hopena, makemake paha lākou āpau e ʻike i ka pane i ka nīnau e like me ke aloha, i ka ʻike mua ʻana, ʻo ia paha ka manaʻo nani loa e hiki i kekahi ke ʻike. No laila, makemake mākou āpau e ʻike ʻoiaʻiʻo ke aloha i ka ʻike mua? A i ʻole he kuhi weliweli paha ia?
Pehea ke aloha i ka ʻike mua?
Ua manaʻo ka hapanui o mākou. Hele ʻoe i kou lā a me kou ola, kānalua ʻole, a laila kū iā ʻoe. ʻO ka nānā wale nō, ka minoʻaka, ka pilau. A aloha ʻia ʻoe! He mea kupaianaha loa ia. Kū kekahi kāne me kahi gal, hui ʻo gal me kahi kāne, a aloha wale lākou i ka ʻike mua.
Hewa paha ka poʻe a puni iā lākou, a i ʻole kali kakali no ka pau ʻana i ke ala like i hoʻomaka ai. Akā ʻaʻole ʻoe i ʻike me ke aloha aloha i ka maka mua. Kūlike ʻole ʻole kāna papa e like me kona hoʻomaka.
Nui nā mea aloha i ka ʻike mua e hāʻule i ke aloha me ka wikiwiki e like me kā lākou i hāʻule ai i loko. A laila aia ke aloha i ka maka mua i pau i ka male aloha aloha mau. No laila, he aha ke aloha i ka ʻike mua a he aha ka mea e pīhoihoi ai?
ʻO ke aloha i ka ʻike mua he maoli e like me ka ʻepekema?
Ua haʻohaʻo mau nā mea haku mele: "ʻO ke aloha, i ka ʻike mua, he ʻoiaʻiʻo?" me ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā huaʻōlelo mesmerizing e wehewehe iā ia. Akā, he aha ka ʻōlelo a ka ʻepekema o kēia au e pili ana i kēia hanana, e like ka ʻelemakule me ka lāhui kanaka? Hiki ke aloha i ka ʻike mua?
Ke kūkākūkā nā neuros Scientists i ke aloha, loaʻa iā lākou kahi mea ʻokoʻa loa i ka nīnau "ʻO ke aloha, i ka ʻike mua, he ʻoiaʻiʻo?" ma mua o nā ipo.
Manaʻo lākou e pili ana i nā neurotransmitters a me nā hormones. A e like me kā lākou, ʻae, ʻae nō - aloha, i ka ʻike mua, he hiki!
He ʻano ʻino maikaʻi ʻole i loko o kā mākou lolo. Hālāwai mākou me kekahi, paʻi kekahi mea, a hoʻopiha ʻia ko mākou lolo i nā kemika e huki kokoke iā mākou i kēlā kanaka.
Wahi a nā neurologist nāna i noiʻi, ʻo ka lolo o kekahi i aloha aloha, i ka ʻike mua ʻana, he ʻano like me ka lolo o ka addict heroin! Ke noʻonoʻo nei paha ʻoe: "ʻO ke aloha i ka ʻike mua?
He aha ke ʻano o ke aloha i ka ʻike mua, ma ke ʻano he psychologically?
Inā kānalua paha ʻoe e pili ana iā ia, hoʻokumu ʻia paha lākou i kahi pukana pehea ʻoe e ʻike ai i ke aloha, i ka ʻike mua, he mea noʻonoʻo psychologically e alualu ai?
I nā huaʻōlelo ʻē aʻe, aia ke kelekema, kākau ʻia ke aloha neurology i ka ʻike mua, akā he aha ka mea e hana ʻia i ka wahine i ka manawa o ka lua a me ka ʻekolu ʻike?
Hiki paha ke aloha i ka maka mua a manaʻo he mea maikaʻi ia nāu? ʻAʻole kēia he nīnau maʻalahi e pane i ka psychology.
Aia kekahi mau hopena e aʻo iā mākou e pili ana i ke ʻano impeccable o kā mākou manaʻo mua ke hui mākou me kekahi. He manaʻo maikaʻi loa kā mākou āpau a ʻaʻole hoʻopunipuni iki nā manaʻo mua iā mākou.
Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, no ke kūleʻa o ka pilina, nā mea i kū ʻole ke aloha ʻoe, i ka ʻike mua, he mea koʻikoʻi.
ʻO kahi laʻana, nā waiwai kaulike, nā pilikino e launa maikaʻi, nā ʻāpana like, nā mea āpau e kūkulu i kahi pilina paʻa a olakino hoʻi.
Ke aloha ʻoe i ka ʻike mua, hoʻopili ʻia ʻoe ma mua o ka manawa e noʻonoʻo ai e pili ana i kēlā mau "koi".
No laila, hiki iā ʻoe ke aloha i ka maka mua a hana i ka wā lōʻihi?
Ma kahi o ka haʻohaʻo: “Hiki iā ʻoe ke aloha i ka maka mua? ” (ʻae, hiki iā ʻoe, ʻo ʻoe, ka poʻe skeptics), pono ʻoe e haʻohaʻo: ʻOiai ʻo ka nui o ia mau peʻa e koe wale nō, nā lele, pono ʻoe e hoʻāʻo a hoʻololi iā ia i kahi pilina mau.
E hana pēlā, maliʻa paha e hoʻomaka ʻoe me kahi quiz e kōkua iā ʻoe e ʻike inā ua hui ʻoe me kāu ʻuhane. ʻOiai inā ʻaʻole ia e pane i kāu nīnau, e noʻonoʻo ʻoe i kekahi o nā mea nui āu e noʻonoʻo ai e pili ana i kou aloha hou.
E like me nā mea āpau, ke ala ʻoi loa i kahi pilina olakino ma o ka hana ʻana iā ʻoe iho. No laila, mai kālele wale i ka hoihoi ʻana o kāu hoa, e noʻonoʻo i kāu mea e makemake ai no ʻoe pū kekahi.
E noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ka maikaʻi o kāu kamaʻilio ʻana, pehea ʻoe e hoʻomanawanui ai i ke koʻikoʻi pākahi a ma ke ʻano he ʻelua, ka mea a ʻolua e makemake ai mai loko mai o ko ʻolua mau ola a me kāu pilina.
ʻAʻole ka mea leʻaleʻa loa e hana ʻoiai ʻoe e leʻaleʻa nei i ka hana mana o ke aloha i ka maka mua, akā he hana e pono ai inā makemake ʻoe e hoʻohuli ʻia kou hoʻokalakupua i mea haʻohaʻo o ke ola.