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- Pehea ka ʻokoʻa o ka pilina o ke kaikuahine a me ke kaikaina mai nā mea ʻē aʻe
- Pehea e hoʻopaʻa ai ke kaikunāne a me ke kaikuahine i nā ʻano o mākou e makua?
- ʻIke, pilina, a me ka hoʻopili
- No nā mākua - pehea e paipai ai i nā kaikaina e launa
Aloha kaikaina he ʻano kikoʻī loa o ka pilina. I kekahi manawa, hui like nā kaikaina e like me ka hana a nā pōpoki a me nā ʻīlio. Akā, me ka nānā ʻole i nā hakakā a me nā hakakā a nā hoahānau e hele ai i ka wā e ulu ana, ʻaʻole hiki i ka kaikaina ke haki.
ʻO nā pilina o nā kaikaina he ʻokoʻa a he nui hoʻi e like me kekahi ʻano o ka launa kanaka. Akā, he aha nā pilina āpau ma waena o nā kaikaina ka mea aʻo mai iā mākou pehea e aloha ai a hāʻawi ai, me ka nānā ʻole i kā mākou iho makemake, a me ka nānā ʻole i nā manaʻo kūlike ʻole.
Pehea ka ʻokoʻa o ka pilina o ke kaikuahine a me ke kaikaina mai nā mea ʻē aʻe
ʻAʻohe ʻohana like. Ke hiki mai i nā kaikaina, nui nā hui ʻana, kaukaʻi ʻia i ka ʻokoʻa o nā makahiki, ke kāne, ka nui o nā keiki, nā hoʻonohonoho ola.
A, nui nā nuances i ka pili o nā kaikaina i kekahi. Eia nō naʻe, ʻokoʻa mau ka pilina ma waena o ke kaikaina a me ke kaikuahine mai nā mea me nā mākua a i ʻole nā mākua ʻē aʻe.
Psychologically, pili mau nā keiki i kekahi i kekahi, ʻoiai i nā hihia me ka ʻokoʻa o nā makahiki. ʻIke ʻia kēia, no ka laʻana, ka nānā ʻole ma waena o nā keiki hoʻokahi a me nā mea i ulu me nā kaikaina.
Ke ulu pū nei nā keiki, hoʻomohala lākou i kahi pilina maoli i hoʻokumu ʻia nona iho, me kahi alakaʻi makua. ʻO ia hoʻi, ka mea nui o nā pilina hoahānau Aia i loko o nā keiki ke kūʻokoʻa i kā lākou pili kaiaulu ma o kā lākou pilina me nā kaikaina.
Pehea e hoʻopaʻa ai ke kaikunāne a me ke kaikuahine i nā ʻano o mākou e makua?
ʻO ka pilina a me ke aloha ma waena o nā kaikaina, ma ke ʻano, he kahua hoʻomaʻamaʻa no kā mākou mau pili e hiki mai ana me kā mākou mau hoa.
ʻOiai ko mākou pilina me ko mākou mau mākua e hoʻohuli i ka nui o ko mākou ʻano a, a, hiki paha, nā pilikia a mākou e pili ai i ka wā makua, nā pilina me nā kaikaina a me nā kaikuahine e hoʻohālikelike i kā mākou hana i ka wā e hiki mai ana. ʻO kahi ala e nānā ai ma o nā aniani o nā pāʻani a mākou āpau e pāʻani ai, e like me ke kula hoʻokahi i ka psychology.
ʻO kahi laʻana, inā hoʻomanawanui nā kaikaina i nā pilikia ma ke ʻano he kamaliʻi, ʻaʻole hiki ke uhaʻi kā lākou paʻa, akā e ulu aʻe paha lāua i kahi kūpaʻa e hoʻolilo iā lākou i Realists ma ke ʻano he kanaka. A i ʻole, inā i mālama kahi kaikuaʻana i ka kaikaina, hiki iā lākou ke hoʻomohala i kahi ʻano o ka hana mālama mālama.
ʻIke, pilina, a me ka hoʻopili
No laila, inā makemake mākou e hōʻuluʻulu i ka aloha hoahānau manaʻo no nā keiki a me nā mākua, hiki ke ʻike ʻia mai nā kuanaʻike ʻekolu. ʻO ka mea mua kahi mea e ʻike ai i ka ʻike.
Ma waena o nā mākua a me nā hoaaloha ma hope, nā kaikaina ka mea koʻikoʻi i ka hoʻokumu ʻana i ka ʻike o ke keiki. Nānā ʻole i ka maikaʻi o ka pilina, e wehewehe nui kahi keiki i kāna ʻano ke hoʻohālikelike ʻia i ka kaikaina.
Aloha kaikaina kuleana pū kekahi no ke ala a mākou e launa pū ai me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, ʻo ia no ko mākou mau pili e hiki mai ana. Aʻo mai kā mākou mau kaikaina i nā ala e pili ai kā mākou mau makemake a me nā makemake a hakakā kekahi i kekahi.
Aʻo mākou pehea e hana ai ma waena o nā mea like ʻole e lilo ai i mea nui no ka pilina, ʻo ia me ke kaikaina, me ko mākou luna, a i ʻole ko mākou hoa wahine i ka wā e hiki mai ana.
ʻO ka mea hope loa, me ka nānā ʻole i ka maikaʻi o ka hoʻopili me nā mākua, ʻo nā keiki me nā kaikaina ke loaʻa ka manawa kūpono e hana i ka hoʻopili olakino olakino me ko lākou mau kaikaina.
ʻAe lākou i kahi keiki e hoʻopili maikaʻi ʻole i nā mākua, no ka laʻana, e like me ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana o ka makua i kā lākou nānā i nā keiki āpau. I ka pōkole, he aloha ke kaikaina i kahi pilina kanaka olakino.
No nā mākua - pehea e paipai ai i nā kaikaina e launa
Hiki i nā hoahānau ke lilo i mau hoa aloha a ʻenemi paha. Minamina, nui ka inaina o ke kaikaina e like me ke aloha o ka hoahānau. Eia nō naʻe, inā ʻaʻole pili iki kāu mau keiki, he mea nui e hoʻomaopopo i ke kuleana o nā mākua i ke kōkua ʻana i nā kaikaina e launa.
ʻO ʻoe ka mea hiki a pono e hoʻohālikelike i ka papa kūlohelohe o nā mea e hōʻoia i nā keu pono nui loa no kāu poʻe keiki.
ʻElua ala e kākoʻo ai a hāpai i ke aloha hoahānau. ʻO ka mea ma o ke kākoʻo ʻana o nā kumu hoʻokumu āu e makemake ai i kāu mau keiki e ukali. I kēia hihia, kūkākūkā me ka ʻoluʻolu, ke aloha, ka manaʻo ʻole, a me ke kākoʻo.
Eia nā waiwai e aʻo ai i kāu poʻe keiki e launa a kōkua kekahi i kekahi ʻaʻole wale i ka wā kamaliʻi akā i ka poʻe mākua.
Nui aʻe kekahi mau hana pilina pilina a nā kaikaina ma waho. E noʻonoʻo i kēlā me kēia pāʻani a me kahi hana pāʻani ma ke ʻano he mea e paipai ai i ke aloha kaikaina.
E hana iā lākou ma ke ʻano he kime, e haku i nā pāʻani e koi ai iā lākou e kaʻana like i ko lākou mau manaʻo me kekahi, e kōkua iā lākou e ʻike i ka honua mai ko ke kaikaina ka nānā ʻana ma o ka loli o nā kuleana.
Nui a hewahewa nā koho, e ʻimi i nā mea e kūpono loa i ka maʻamau o kou ʻohana, a kōkua i kāu mau keiki e kūkulu i kahi pilina e kū mau i ke ola holoʻokoʻa.