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- 1. Nīnau ʻo ia i nā nīnau he nui
- 2. ʻokoʻa kāna hana a puni ʻoe
- 3. minoʻaka nui ʻo ia
- 4. Hoʻāʻo ʻo ia i ka mea e hiki ai ke hoʻokūʻiwa iā ʻoe
- 5. Nīnau ʻo ia i kāu helu
- 6. Ua kīloi ʻo ia iā ʻoe ma ka pāpili kaiaulu
- 7. Nīnau ʻo ia inā he ipo kāu
- 8. Hoʻopā ʻo ia iā ʻoe i kekahi manawa
- 9. Hōʻike ʻo ia i ka lili kī haʻahaʻa i kekahi manawa
- 10. Hoʻomanaʻo ʻo ia i nā mea e pili ana iā ʻoe
- 11. Hoʻopiʻi ʻo ia iā ʻoe
- 12. He mau maka wale kāna iā ʻoe
Hiki iaʻu ke nānā i hope i kēia manawa a ʻike i nā manawa he nui kahi i makemake ai kahi kāne iaʻu, akā ʻaʻole wau i makaʻala a makaʻu ʻole paha e ʻike.
I loko o nā makahiki he nui i loaʻa iaʻu kahi i ʻōlelo ai nā kāne i kekahi mana o kēia ma hope o ko lākou noho ʻana i lalo: “ʻĀ, ua loaʻa iā ʻoe kou manawa kūpono!”
A hāʻule koʻu waha i ka papahele me ka pīhoihoi no ka mea ʻaʻohe oʻu kuhi.
Nui a hewahewa nā kāne aʻu i nānā ʻole ai no ka mea ua hilahila loa lākou e haʻi mai ua makemake lākou iaʻu. Ma hope wale nō wau i ʻike ai aia nō he mau hōʻailona ma aneʻi a ma aneʻi akā ʻaʻole au i ʻike iā lākou.
Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake e haʻalele i kahi kanaka kupaianaha, e heluhelu ma lalo no nā hōʻailona 12 e makemake paha ʻo ia iā ʻoe.
Eia nā ala 12 e nānā i nā hōʻailona a makemake kahi kāne iā ʻoe:
1. Nīnau ʻo ia i nā nīnau he nui
Inā hoihoi kahi kāne iā ʻoe, e hoʻāʻo paha ʻo ia e hoʻopili iā ʻoe i ke kamaʻilio ʻana.
Makemake paha lākou e ʻike iā ʻoe a i kekahi mau hihia e hele paha lākou e hana pēlā.
E hoihoi ʻo ia e ʻike i nā mea āu e makemake ai, nā mea āu e makemake ʻole ai, nā mea āu e hana ai i kāu manawa manawaleʻa, nā mea āu e hana ai i nā hopena pule, ʻo wai kou mau hoa pili, he aha kou ʻohana, ma hea ʻoe i ulu ai, ma hea ʻoe i huakaʻi ai, he aha kāu e hoʻolālā ai e hana i nā makahiki e hiki mai ana - ʻAe, he nīnau no ka mea makemake ʻo ia e ʻike i nā mea āpau e pili ana iā ʻoe.
ʻO kēia kahi hōʻailona ʻoiaʻiʻo a maopopo ʻole naʻe makemake ʻo ia iā ʻoe.
2. ʻokoʻa kāna hana a puni ʻoe
Hana maikaʻi paha ʻo ia, a noho mālie paha ke kokoke ʻo ia iā ʻoe akā inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e ʻike aia ʻoe ma laila ua ʻike ʻoe i kāna ʻano ʻokoʻa, a i ʻole inā hilinaʻi ʻo ia e hoʻopūʻi iki paha i kona umauma ke hele aku ʻoe?
Inā pēlā, e hoʻāʻo ana ʻo ia e hoʻopiʻi iā ia iho iā ʻoe. ʻO kēia kekahi o nā hōʻailona āna i makemake ai iā ʻoe.
3. minoʻaka nui ʻo ia
ʻOiai e minoʻaka nui nei kekahi mau kāne i ka nui, hiki i hōʻailona ke hoihoi i loko ou ke kāne a hilahila a minoʻaka ke ʻakaʻaka kou maka. Ke hoʻāʻo nei paha ʻo ia e hōʻike iā ʻoe makemake ʻo ia iā ʻoe.
4. Hoʻāʻo ʻo ia i ka mea e hiki ai ke hoʻokūʻiwa iā ʻoe
Mai loko mai o nā hōʻailona a pau āna i makemake ai iā ʻoe, he mea paʻakikī kēia! No ke aha mai? No ka mea ua hoʻāʻo ʻo ia i ka mea hiki e hoʻoliʻiliʻi iā ʻoe i ke ala ʻoi loa āna i ʻike ai. Hiki paha iā ia ke hana i kahi mea āu e makemake ai akā hiki i kahi mea āu e makemake ʻole ai. Akā inā ʻoe e ʻike i kahi kāne e hoʻāʻo nei iā ʻoe a laila hiki i ka manawa maikaʻi e hele i mua a nīnau iā ia - Ke hana nei ʻoe i kēia naʻu? He aha kēia?
5. Nīnau ʻo ia i kāu helu
Manaʻo wau he palekana ke ʻōlelo ʻana inā ʻaʻole he kumu ʻē aʻe no ke kāne e launa pū ai iā ʻoe a laila inā e noi ana ʻo ia i kāu helu, a laila he kukui ʻōmaʻomaʻo kēlā aia ka hoihoi. ʻAʻohe hōʻailona nui aʻe i makemake iā ʻoe ma mua o kēia.
6. Ua kīloi ʻo ia iā ʻoe ma ka pāpili kaiaulu
Inā ʻaʻole he hoaaloha kahiko ʻo ia, a laila ʻo ka manawa inā hoʻohui kahi kāne iā ʻoe ma ka pāpili kaiaulu, aia kahi manawa e hōʻike paha ʻo ia i nā hōʻailona makemake ʻo ia iā ʻoe a makemake e aʻo hou.
Inā ʻoe e leka iā ʻoe ma laila a hoʻomaka i kahi kamaʻilio a laila he kukui ʻōmaʻomaʻo paha ia. He hōʻailona maopopo a makemake kahi kāne iā ʻoe.
7. Nīnau ʻo ia inā he ipo kāu
Inā ʻoe e noʻonoʻo e pili ana pehea e ʻike ai inā makemake maoli kahi kāne iā ʻoe ma hope o kāna nīnau ʻana i kēia nīnau, a laila, aia ke pane ma mua ou.
He hōʻailona maikaʻi ia e makemake ai ke kāne iā ʻoe inā e nīnau iā ʻoe e pili ana i kou ola pili aloha. Ke kū pololei kahi kāne me kēia mau nīnau, makemake paha ʻo ia e ʻike inā he male ʻole ʻoe a inā manuahi ia e neʻe.
8. Hoʻopā ʻo ia iā ʻoe i kekahi manawa
Hoʻopā mālie ʻo ia iā ʻoe i kona paʻa ʻana i ka puka, a i ʻole i ke kamaʻilio maʻamau? He hōʻailona ia e hoihoi iā ʻoe me ke aloha.
He hōʻailona maopopo kēia hoihoi ʻo ia. I ka manawa like, e nānā inā aloha kino ʻo ia me kekahi poʻe ʻē aʻe. A laila he mea ʻokoʻa ia.
ʻOiai, he nui nā kāne e wehe i ka puka no ka lede akā e hoʻopili aku iā lākou i ka manawa like ʻoi aku ka pili. Hiki iā ia ke hoʻohenehene aku iā ʻoe ma ke kuʻi ʻana, ka ʻili ʻana, e hāʻawi ana e lomilomi i kou ʻāʻī ʻoi aku paha nā hōʻailona o ke aloha.
9. Hōʻike ʻo ia i ka lili kī haʻahaʻa i kekahi manawa
ʻIke ʻoe iā ia e ʻoʻoleʻa a me he mea lā ʻaʻole hauʻoli iki ke kamaʻilio ʻana ʻoe me nā kāne ʻē aʻe.
E hoʻāʻo paha ʻo ia e hōʻoki a nānā paha iā ʻoe i kekahi manawa e nānā ana e ʻike nei i nā mea e hana nei. ʻO ia kekahi o nā hōʻailona iā ia i loko ou.
ʻAʻohe mea e hāʻawi i nā hōʻailona makemake ʻo ia iā ʻoe ma mua o ka lili. Teritori nā kāne a maʻalahi hoʻi ke ʻike i kēia hōʻailona.
10. Hoʻomanaʻo ʻo ia i nā mea e pili ana iā ʻoe
Ke nānā nui nei ka hapa nui o nā kāne i nā mea nui iā lākou, no laila inā hoʻomanaʻo ʻo ia i nā mea e pili ana iā ʻoe a ʻaʻohe kumu ʻē aʻe e pono ai. Hoihoi ʻo ia.
11. Hoʻopiʻi ʻo ia iā ʻoe
He ʻōlelo Pelekane ʻo Bantering ʻo ia hoʻi ka hoʻohenehene a ma UK inā he kāne a kaikamahine paha 'ua loaʻa he banter maikaʻi' hoihoi a leʻaleʻa lākou e puni.
Pāʻani lākou a hoʻohenehene i ke kanaka a lākou e makemake ai. Inā ʻākeʻakeʻa kahi kāne me ʻoe a ke hana nei i kekahi mau mea ʻē aʻe ma kēia papa inoa a laila, he ʻano flirting paha ia. ʻO kēia kahi hōʻailona ʻē aʻe āna i makemake ai iā ʻoe a ʻaʻole wale ma ke ʻano he hoa aloha.
Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e ʻike iā ia e hana nei i kēlā me nā mea āpau, a laila kona ʻano wale nō. Inā ʻole, he hōʻailona ia makemake iā ʻoe.
12. He mau maka wale kāna iā ʻoe
He mea ʻike maka nā kānaka, kūlohelohe lākou e nānā i nā kaikamahine ʻē aʻe, a ʻo ka maʻamau hoʻi, e paʻa pū kekahi! Akā inā ua laka ʻia ʻo ia iā ʻoe ʻaʻole nānā i kekahi mea ʻē aʻe, ʻo ʻoe wale nō ka mea nui o kāna nānā ʻana. ʻO kāna nānā pono ʻole kahi hōʻailona makemake iā ʻoe.
ʻO kēia mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo he hōʻailona wale nō ia e hoihoi paha ke kāne iā ʻoe. Inā hoihoi ʻoe, e noʻonoʻo e nīnau iā ia!