Anter
- 1. Ka nele i ke kuko
- 2. Ka nele o ka hoihoi i ka moekolohe
- 3. Nā hālāwai pūnaewele
- 6. Nā lauana hana
- ʻO ka hana i ka wā e hiki mai ana
He kānalua paha kāu e nīnau iā ʻoe - "He kāne kāne kaʻu kāne?" Maliʻa paha he bele hoʻōlele kou i kani i kekahi manawa a ʻike paha i kekahi mau hōʻailona i kāna hana i hāʻawi ai iā ʻoe i nā kumu e hopohopo a nīnau i kāna ʻano moekolohe.
Inā loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi manaʻo iki he hiki kēia, kōkua paha ia iā ʻoe e ʻike i kēia mau ʻōuli he 6 e hōʻike ana he kāne kāne kāu kāne.
1. Ka nele i ke kuko
Ke noho ʻo ia i loko o ka manawa me ʻoe, he mīkini a ʻaʻole ia he hoihoi a hoihoi paha i nā hana foreplay. Eia hou, hiki i kēia mea ke kumu ʻia e nā mea ʻē aʻe, akā hiki ke loaʻa inā male kāne kāu kāne.
2. Ka nele o ka hoihoi i ka moekolohe
ʻO nā pilikia e pili ana i ka makemake moekolohe wale nō ʻaʻole ia he hōʻailona ahi ahi kāu kāne kāne, akā ʻo nā wahine i hōʻike e pili ana i kā lākou mau kāne he kāne aloha lākou i ʻōlelo pinepine he mea kēia a lākou i ʻike mua ai.
Inā ʻike ʻoe e hakakā ana kāu kāne me ka hoihoi ʻana i ka moekolohe a i ʻole ke moekolohe ʻana me kahi mau hōʻailona ʻē aʻe i kūkā ʻia ma aneʻi, malia paha he pololei kāu kānalua.
Akā e hoʻomanaʻo, hiki i nā kumu he nui ke kumu o ka male ʻana i ka male ma mua o ka ʻoluʻolu, ʻē aʻe ma mua o ka ʻoiaʻiʻo he kāne kāne kāu kāne.
3. Nā hālāwai pūnaewele
Pehea ʻoe e ʻike ai inā he kāne kāne kāu kāne? Inā hopohopo kāu hana a kāu hoa, a laila ʻo ka pūnaewele ka mea kūpono e ʻike ai i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo.
Ua maʻalahi ka Pūnaewele no nā poʻe e ʻimi nei i ka ʻike e pili ana i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. Hiki i kāna mōʻaukala kele ke hāʻawi iā ʻoe i kahi kiʻi maopopo a hiki ke lilo i hoʻokahi o nā hōʻailona he kāne male kāu kāne.
- 'Maʻemaʻe mau' kāna mōʻaukala kele kelepona ʻana.
- Ua ʻike ʻia nā pop-up o nā kiʻi ponokala kiʻi ma ka kamepiula āna e hoʻohana ai, ʻoiai ke koi nei ʻo ia ʻaʻohe ona mea e pili ai.
- ʻO kāna mau pilina pilikino he mea maʻamau a piha i ka poʻe, a i ʻole nā hoaaloha hou āu e ʻike ʻole ai pehea e ʻike ai iā lākou a me nā mea he kāne kāne.
- He pili kona ma kahi pūnaewele aloha kāne kāne.
ʻO ka lae hope loa kekahi o nā hōʻailona ʻōuli o kāu kāne he kāne kāne. ʻAʻole paha ia, inā polole kāu hoa, makemake ʻo ia e kau i kāna kiʻi a me kāna ʻikepili ma kahi pūnaewele aloha kāne.
6. Nā lauana hana
Aia kekahi mau hōʻailona he kāne male kāu kāne e like me kāna ʻano hana, keu hoʻi e pili ana i nā kāne kāne ʻē aʻe. Kakaʻikahi nā hōʻailona maopopo a gay kāu hoa.
- Kipa pinepine ʻo ia i nā kī kī ʻoiai ʻo ia e koi aia ma laila ʻo ia e launa me kāna mau hoa aloha.
- Nānā ʻo ia a ʻoluʻolu paha e nānā i nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni me nā hiʻohiʻona kāne kāne kāne.
- Me he mea lā makemake ʻo ia i nā mahalo mai nā kāne kāne.
- Kamaʻilio nui ʻo ia e pili ana i ka poʻe kāne kolohe i ke kamaʻilio - ʻoi aku ma mua o ka maʻamau.
- Hiki paha iā ia ke hele a homophobic a hana i nā manaʻo he nui e pili ana i ka poʻe kāne male i kahi ʻano hoʻowahāwahā.
- ʻAʻole ʻoe ʻike iā ia e nānā ana i nā wahine ʻē aʻe.
- Ua ʻike ʻoe iā ia e nānā ana i nā kāne ʻē aʻe.
- Hana aku ʻo ia i ka maka me kekahi kāne ʻē aʻe e lōʻihi lōʻihi ana.
- Hele ʻo ia i waho e kiʻi i kahi ʻūlū mai kāna pals.
- Hoʻomaka ʻo ia i nā hana me kāna pals kahi e ʻōlohelohe pū lākou e like me ke kiʻi ʻana i kahi sauna a ipu wai wela.
- Hoʻopili ʻo ia i ka moekolohe o haʻi.
ʻOiaʻiʻo, hiki i kekahi o kēia mau laʻana ke hōʻike i nā hanana ʻē aʻe a i ʻole nā pilikia i ka male, a i ʻole nā hana maʻamau o kahi kāne pololei.
Eia nō naʻe, inā ʻoe e ʻike i kekahi o kēia mau hōʻailona, a laila aia paha ma mua o kāu kāne e manaʻoʻiʻo ai. He mau hōʻailona kēia he male kāne kāu wahine a ʻaʻohe wahi no ka kānalua hou aku.
ʻO ka hana i ka wā e hiki mai ana
I ka hapanui o nā hihia, inā e hūnā kāu kāne iā ʻoe, no ka mea aia ʻo ia i loko o ka lumi liʻiliʻi a ʻike ʻole pehea e puka ai iā ʻoe a i ʻole kekahi mea ʻē aʻe i kona ola. ʻAʻole maʻalahi inā ʻoe i kūkulu i ke ola me nā manaʻo maikaʻi āu e paʻakikī ai i kēia manawa e hoʻomau.
Ke nīnau ʻoe iā ʻoe iho i nā nīnau e like me, 'pehea e hiki ai iaʻu ke haʻi aku inā he kāne kaʻu kāne? A, inā ʻike ʻoe i nā hōʻailona he kāne kāne kāu kāne, a laila ʻo ka mea mua āu e pono ai e noho ʻo ia e kamaʻilio pū me ia.
He mea hiki loa paha iā ia ke hōʻole i kāna makemake he kāne kāne mai ka offset, me ka hāʻawi ʻole ʻana iā ʻoe i nā pane ʻoluʻolu i kāu mau nīnau.
Inā ʻike ʻoe iā ʻoe iho i kēlā kūlana, pono ʻoe e hoʻoholo i kāu mea e makemake ai e hana. Inā hiki iā ʻoe ke noho i kahi male ma kahi āu e ʻike ai he kāne kāne paha kāu kāne, kōkua paha kekahi ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo pilikino iā ʻoe e hana ma o kēia i hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike i ke ala kūpono i mua iā ʻoe.
Inā ʻae kāu kāne he kāne kāne ia, he mea nui e hoʻomanaʻo ʻaʻole ʻo ia i koho i kēia ola e hōʻeha iā ʻoe.
Ke hoʻomanaʻo nei i kēlā, ʻike paha ʻoe i kahi ʻano o ka nalo a me ka ʻehaʻeha āu e pono ai e hana, akā malia paha hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻimi i kahi kōkua a kākoʻo a ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo paha e kōkua iā ʻoe e hoʻokele pū i kēia kūlana, i ke aloha a me ka lokomaikaʻi.
No laila, i ka manawa aʻe inā he manaʻo kānalua kāu i ka noʻonoʻo, e aʻo wale i kāu pakanā, e nānā i kāna mau mōʻaukala kele a ʻike i ka ʻike e pili ana i kāna mau hoaaloha a e ʻike ʻoe i nā hōʻailona he kāne kāne kāu kāne. I ka manawa e ʻike ʻia ai kou kānalua, pono ʻoe e hoʻolālā i kāu papa o ka hana aʻe me ka akahele ʻoiai he mau mea koʻikoʻi kēia e pono e lawelawe ʻia me ka mālama.