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- 1. E hāʻawi i kekahi mau manaʻo
- 2. E hoʻomohala i kahi hōʻoluʻolu no kāu hoa
- 3. Wehe i nā hana hoʻokolokolo maikaʻi ʻole
- 4. E hoʻopono
ʻO kekahi o nā nīnau nui loa i alo ʻia e nā gen-z butterflies, 'Pili paha nā pilina pūnaewele?'
Wahi a ka Pew Research Center, he helu nui o ka poʻe ʻAmelika i ʻōlelo i ka pili pūnaewele ʻana ʻo ia ke ala maikaʻi loa e hui ai me nā poʻe hou. I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ua ʻōlelo ʻo Statistic Brain Research Institute approx. Ua hoʻāʻo kahi 49.7 miliona mau ʻAmelika i ka launa pūnaewele e hoʻāʻo ai, a ma kahi o 84% o nā mea hoʻohana i koho no ka launa pūnaewele e ʻike i nā pilina.
A ma ʻaneʻi ʻoe no kahi SURPRISE NUI! Wahi a ka pūnaewele like ua loaʻa he 17% o nā kāne i ko lākou ʻuhane ma kahi pūnaewele pili aloha a ua hele mua e nakinaki i nā kaula hemolele o ka mare me lākou.
Ua kau inoa ʻoe me kahi polokalamu aloha a loaʻa kahi match kūpono no kāu pilina. Aia ʻoe ma ka lani hiku e ʻike i kēia kanaka ma ka pūnaewele. Akā ʻānō moeʻuhane ʻoe e pili ana i ka lawe ʻana ma waho pūnaewele?
Inā ʻae kāu pane, a laila mākaukau ʻoe e lawe i kāu pilina i kahi pae aʻe.
He mea nui loa e hālāwai me kāu hoa i ke ola maoli inā koʻikoʻi ʻoe e pili ana i kāu pilina. ʻO ka hoʻolimalima manawa ʻana me kāu hoa e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaopopo iā lākou i kahi ala ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi. Akā, ʻo ka nīnau ma aneʻi pehea ʻoe e ʻike ai inā he pili maoli kahi pūnaewele a ʻaʻole paha?
Eia kekahi mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo no ka lawe ʻana i kāu pili pūnaewele ma kahi pūnaewele no kahi wā lōʻihi.
1. E hāʻawi i kekahi mau manaʻo
Pehea ʻoe e ʻike ai inā pili maoli kahi pilina pūnaewele?
Inā ua ʻike ʻoe i kāu pakanā no kekahi manawa, a laila he mea nui iā ʻoe e haʻi i kou hoihoi i ka hui ʻana me lākou i ke ola maoli. ʻO ia wale nō ke ala e ʻike ai inā ʻo ia ke kūlike kūpono no kou ola maoli pū kekahi.
Hiki iā ʻoe ke kīloi i kekahi mau manaʻo kuhi, akā naʻe, inā ʻaʻole holo pono ia, a laila hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa kahi kamaʻilio pololei a pololei me kāu hoa e pili ana i kou makemake e hui aku iā lākou ma ka pūnaewele.
Inā ʻaʻole lākou e ʻaelike i ke kumumanaʻo o ka hui ʻana me ʻoe, a laila ʻo kēia paha ka hōʻailona ke pāʻani wale nei lākou me ʻoe. Global Research Agency, OpinionMatters i loaʻa ma ke ana ʻana ma luna o 1,000 UK a me nā ʻikepili pūnaewele ʻo US e kokoke ana i ka 53% o nā mea komo i wahaheʻe i ka ʻike pili pūnaewele.
Akā, inā ʻae lākou, a laila ka hōʻailona ia e makemake ai kāu hoa e aʻo hou e pili ana i kou ʻano.
2. E hoʻomohala i kahi hōʻoluʻolu no kāu hoa
He aha ka mea e kūleʻa ai ka pilina pūnaewele? E like me nā pilina ʻē aʻe, koi pū nā mea pūnaewele i nā hana he nui ma kāu ʻaoʻao a laila hiki iā ʻoe ke manaʻo i kahi pane maikaʻi mai kahi hopena ʻē aʻe.
No laila, ma hope o ka hāʻawi ʻana i ka leka o ka hālāwai offline, he mea nui e hoʻomohala i kahi ʻoluʻolu me kāu hoa, ʻo ia paha ma ke kūkaʻa ʻana i nā helu kelepona a kamaʻilio ma ke kelepona ʻana.
E hoʻomaopopo kēia i ka pilikino o kēlā me kēia ma mua o ke poʻo no kahi hālāwai offline.
Eia nō naʻe, he mea nui e hoʻolōʻihi i ka manawa i ke kamaʻilio kelepona a me nā mea hou aku i ka manawa o kahi hālāwai ola me lākou. E hōʻoia i ka hoʻopili ʻana o kāu hoa me ka lawe ʻana i kahi pae aʻe
No laila, pehea e lawe ai i kāu pili pūnaewele ma kahi pūnaewele? ʻĀ! Loaʻa kāu pane ma aneʻi.
3. Wehe i nā hana hoʻokolokolo maikaʻi ʻole
Nānā mau ka poʻe i kā lākou makemake e makemake ai a me nā ʻano o ke kino i kā lākou mau hoa o ka lā kuanaʻike.
Eia nō naʻe, he mea nui e hāʻawi i kahi manawa a komo i hoʻokahi a ʻelua mau hālāwai me kāu hoa. E hoʻomaopopo paha kēia i kou aloha i ko lākou ʻano holoʻokoʻa.
Pono ʻoe e ʻike i ko lākou aloha a me ko lākou naʻau i kou ola, inā hauʻoli lākou i ko lākou alo, a laila he mea kūpono ia e launa me lākou.
E noʻonoʻo mau ma mua o kou lele a ʻaʻole hoʻokumu i nā pilina maikaʻi ʻole a pōkole hoʻi. Kākaʻikahi ʻoe e ʻike i kahi hoa pili pono ma ka pūnaewele pili no laila e makaʻala ʻoiai e hoʻokumu ana i nā hui.
4. E hoʻopono
He mea nui e lawe i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo i kāu mau hālāwai offline, inā he manaʻo ʻoe, a laila ʻaʻole ʻoe e hopohopo e nīnau a kamaʻilio pū me kāu hoa.
ʻO ka hoʻopono i ka hōʻike ʻana i kāu mau makemake a me nā waiwai e kōkua i ka hoʻokō ʻana i kahi wā lōʻihi lōʻihi.
E kōkua pono kēia mau mea iā ʻoe i ka hui ʻana i kāu hoa pūnaewele akā makemake mākou iā ʻoe e loaʻa ʻole nā mea i manaʻo nui ʻia a hele pū me ke kahe. ʻO ka mea hope loa, inā ʻoe e ʻimi nei i hoa pili pono, hiki iā ʻoe ke kau inoa ma GoMarry.com a maopopo mākou e ʻike ʻoe i kekahi e aloha iā ʻoe i kou koena o kou ola.