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- 1. Mai wikiwiki
- 2. Ke hana a puni kāu crush
- 3. E kāpae i nā pāpili kaiaulu
- 4. E aʻo i ka wā e neʻe ai
- 5. E lawelawe i nā hōʻole
- 6. Mai haha i ke kaomi
- 7. E aʻo e hilinaʻi i kāu ipo
- 8. Mai hoʻohālikelike
- 9. E nīnau i nā kūpuna
- 10. Lawe i ka manawa no kekahi i kekahi
Manaʻo nā hanauna o kēia lā ua ʻike lākou āpau. ʻĀ, ua hoʻolako ʻenehana i ka plethora o ka ʻike ma ko lākou manamana lima, akā he maʻa mau ke aloha. ʻOiai ʻo nā mākua e hāʻule i kekahi manawa a pilikia lākou iā lākou iho. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o ka mālama ʻana i kekahi mau mea i kou manaʻo inā makemake ʻoe e hoʻopakele iā ʻoe iho mai kahi kūlana pōʻino.
I kou wā ʻōpio, ke noi nei ʻoe e hoʻokolohua i nā mea a makemake e hana i kāu mau manawa hoʻomanaʻo ponoʻī. Eia nō naʻe, ke kūpono ke hele nei ko mākou kino i kahi loli olaola, aia kahi manawa i ka makemake e hele i ka laina a kikiki paha a e hopena paha ʻoe i kekahi mau hana poina ʻole.
E palekana, i helu ʻia ma lalo iho nei kekahi mau ʻāpana o ke aloha aloha ʻōpio e pono ai e noʻonoʻo e like me kou aloha ʻike.
1. Mai wikiwiki
Hewa ka hapa nui o nā ʻōpio a ʻōpio paha i ka holo ʻana i loko o nā mea.
He mea ʻole paha ia e pīhoihoi ai, akā ʻaʻohe mea maikaʻi e puka mai inā wikiwiki ʻoe i nā mea. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o ka lawe lohi i nā mea.
E aloha i kēlā me kēia ʻanuʻu ke ʻike ʻoe i ke aloha ke neʻe mua ʻoe. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o ka lawe manawa ʻana i ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i kekahi i kekahi. Ke hele nei i loko o kekahi mea ʻaʻole ʻoe e leʻaleʻa i ka huakaʻi, āu e mihi ai ma hope.
2. Ke hana a puni kāu crush
He maikaʻi ke aloha i kekahi. Eia nō naʻe, pono ʻoe e hana pono ke hele pū ʻoe me lākou. Hiki i nā hanana ʻelua: hoʻokahi, ʻo kāu ʻāpana kahi ʻāpana o kāu pōʻai; ʻo ka lua, ʻaʻole kāu ʻāpana kahi ʻāpana o kāu pōʻai.
I ka hanana mua, pono ʻoe e ʻike inā like ka manaʻo o kāu crush iā ʻoe. E nānā i kā lākou ʻōlelo kino ke puni ʻoe iā lākou.
I ka hanana ʻelua, e hoʻomaka me ka aloha a ʻike i kahi e alakaʻi ai. ʻOiai no ka mea he aloha ʻole ʻoe e manaʻo ʻaʻole pono lākou e pānaʻi i ke ala like.
3. E kāpae i nā pāpili kaiaulu
ʻO nā papaho pāʻoihana kaiaulu kahi ʻenehana hiki ʻole ke pale ʻia i ko mākou ola i kēia mau lā. Pono mai nā mākua a hiki i ka poʻe ʻōpio, hilinaʻi nui mākou āpau i kēia ala.
No kahi ʻōpio, ʻo ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo aloha maikaʻi e neʻe aku ma mua o ka pāpili kaiaulu. Mai hilinaʻi i kēlā mau kāʻei polū o Whatsapp. Hiki iā lākou ke hōʻino i kahi mea maikaʻi ma mua o ka hoʻomaka.
ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hālāwai ʻana me ke kanaka, a kamaʻilio pū paha me lākou ma ke kelepona.
Hoʻowalewale ʻia ka pāpili kaiaulu akā mai hoʻokumu i kāu pilina ma kēia.
4. E aʻo i ka wā e neʻe ai
Kupaianaha nā makahiki ʻōpio. Nui nā mea e hana nei a puni ʻoe. ʻAʻole ʻoe he keiki hou a ke neʻe nei ʻoe i ke ʻano makua.
ʻO ka haʻalele ʻana i nā ʻano kamaliʻi a me ka hoʻāʻo ʻana e oʻo i mākua hiki ke lilo i mea nui i kēlā me kēia manawa.
I kahi kūlana e loaʻa kahi ipo i ka huakaʻi i ke huakaʻi. Eia nō naʻe, inā noʻonoʻo ʻoe ʻaʻole e nānā nui ana kāu pakanā iā ʻoe a hoʻohoka ʻia paha ma muli o kekahi kumu, e aʻo e neʻe i mua.
Ke paʻa nei iā lākou inā ʻaʻole ka pane āu e manaʻo ai e hōʻeha ʻoe ma hope.
He paʻakikī paha ka neʻe ʻana akā e hele ʻoe ma laila ma hope.
5. E lawelawe i nā hōʻole
E hiki mai nā hōʻole, e ʻae wale mākou iā ia. E loaʻa nā hōʻole āpau akā ʻaʻole e hoʻokuʻu iā lākou i loko o kou poʻo. Pono ʻoe e aʻo e lawelawe i nā hōʻole. E ʻōlelo i kou mau mākua pehea lākou i mālama ai i kā lākou hōʻole i ka wā o kou mau makahiki.
E kōkua kekahi alakaʻi a me kekahi kākoʻo iā ʻoe e hala i kēlā pae. ʻO nā hōʻole he ʻāpana o ko mākou ola, e ʻae wale iā ia a neʻe i mua.
6. Mai haha i ke kaomi
Ke nānā nei i kāu mau hoa i ke komo ʻana i kahi pilina ʻoiai ʻoe e noho male ana hiki ke hoʻoulu i ka manaʻo noʻonoʻo. Hāʻawi pinepine nā ʻōpio i kēia kaomi a loaʻa iā lākou i kahi pilikia. ʻO ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo aloha ʻōpio koʻikoʻi ʻaʻole ia e ʻike i ke kaomi o kēlā me kēia ʻano. ʻAʻole hiki ke koi ʻia ke aloha. Hele kūlohelohe ia.
Ma ka hoʻoikaika ʻana iā ʻoe iho i kahi pilina e hōʻino ʻoe i ka ʻike kupaianaha.
7. E aʻo e hilinaʻi i kāu ipo
Pinepine, i ka ʻōpio, hoʻohuli ʻia ʻoe e ka poʻe a puni ʻoe. ʻO nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni a me nā moʻolelo o ka wāwahi a me ka pono ʻole e nīnau iā ʻoe i kāu hoa. Mai hāʻule i kēia mau mea.
I loaʻa i kahi hopena aloha kūleʻa he mea nui e hilinaʻi ʻoe i kāu hoa.
E aʻo e hilinaʻi iā lākou. Mai stalk iā lākou a nānā i kā lākou kelepona inā ʻaʻole kokoke lākou. E kipaku wale kēia maʻamau iā lākou a hoʻopau ʻoe i ka puʻuwai.
8. Mai hoʻohālikelike
Aia ka hoʻokūkū paʻa mau i ke kula e nānā i nā mea ʻoluʻolu a i ʻole nā mea e hiki mai ana. Mai komo i kēlā mau mea. ʻOkoʻa kēlā me kēia kanaka a pēlā nō kēlā me kēia pilina. E aloha i ke kanaka no ke ʻano o lākou.
Ke hoʻonohonoho nei i nā mea i manaʻo nui ʻia a i ʻole ke koi ʻana iā lākou e lilo i mea ʻaʻole lākou, kahi ala ʻē aʻe e sabotage ai i kou pilina. E mālama i kāu mea.
9. E nīnau i nā kūpuna
ʻO nā makahiki ʻōpio ke makemake ʻole ʻoe e hoʻokomo i nā mākua i kou ola, keu hoʻi ke makemake ʻoe i ka ʻōlelo aʻo. Hiki aku ʻoe i kāu mau hoaaloha akā ʻaʻole i kou mau mākua a i ʻole kūpuna no kēlā mea.
Hiki i nā kūpuna ke koho maikaʻi loa inā pono ʻoe i kahi ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a ka poʻe ʻōpio. Ua ʻike lākou i ka honua a ua hele i waena o nā piʻi a me nā lalo he nui. E hiki iā lākou ke alakaʻi pono iā ʻoe. No laila, inā ʻoe e pono i kahi ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo, e kiʻi aku iā lākou. Hilinaʻi iā lākou a kaʻana like i kou mau manaʻo me lākou.
10. Lawe i ka manawa no kekahi i kekahi
Hoʻomaopopo ʻia ʻoe e lūlū ana ma waena o nā mea he nui; nā papa, nā haʻuki, nā hana ʻoi aku ka nui o ka papahana a malia paha he hana hapa manawa. Ma waena o kēia mau mea āpau, e hoʻokaʻawale i kou manawa no kou aloha. Noho manawa like inā hiki. ʻO ka hāʻawi ʻole ʻana i ka nānā nui i kāu ipo ʻo ia hoʻi ka hoʻokuke aku iā lākou iā ʻoe. Mai hoʻouna i nā hōʻailona hewa. Mālama i kou manawa e like me a hoʻāʻo e hoʻomaopopo pono i kekahi i kekahi inā makemake ʻoe e lawe i ka pilina ma mua.