He aha e hana ai ke hōʻole aku kou mau mākua i kāu hoa

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• 1. Mai hūnā iā ia
• 2. Noho i hope, noʻonoʻo, a loiloi pono
• 3. Lawe i ka manawa e hoʻomaʻemaʻe i ka ea
• 4. Mai huli i kou kua i ka ʻohana
• 5. E nānā i kāu kani
• 6. Mai lawe makapō i kekahi ʻaoʻao
• ʻ Wordlelo a ka poʻe naʻauao

Manaʻo kekahi he pūʻulu wae wale o ka poʻe i overprotective o kā lākou keiki, a hoʻonohonoho lākou i kā lākou male pū kekahi.

E kala mai, e haki i kāu huʻa, pal akā, he moʻolelo ia e like me ka manawa, i make ʻole e ka Shakespeare nui iā ia iho ma "Romeo & Juliet".Ma loko o nā kenekulia i hopu ʻia ai kēia kumuhana i kēlā me kēia meahana, he kiʻi ʻoniʻoni, kīwī, nā moʻolelo pōkole, nā mele, ma nā wahi āpau.

Kū aʻe ka nīnau, 'He aha e hana ai inā pōmaikaʻi ʻole kekahi e paʻa i kēlā ʻano kūlana?'

ʻOiai he pilikia ākea kēia a he ʻelemakule kēlā, ua hana ka poʻe i kekahi ʻano o ka noiʻi a me nā ʻāpana aʻoaʻo i huakaʻi mai ka waha o ka waha, inā pāʻani kekahi i kā lākou kāleka i ke kaulike kūpono o ka loaʻa ʻana o ke ola maluhia a me ke kaulike. .

1. Mai hūnā iā ia

Inā hoʻoholo ʻoe e hūnā i kou pilina ma ke kumu he inkling kāu e hōʻole ʻole ai kou mau mākua i kou pilina a laila ʻo ka manawa kēia e hilinaʻi ai iā lākou a haʻi iā lākou.

ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi e ʻike lākou mai iā ʻoe ma mua o kekahi. Eia kekahi, ʻo ka hūnā ʻana i kekahi mea nui e like me ka mea e hōʻike ai aia hewa paha ʻoe a hilahila paha ʻoe i kāu pili a pakanā paha.

2. Noho i hope, noʻonoʻo, a loiloi pono

ʻO ke aloha he manaʻo kupaianaha ia.

Hana ia i ka honua iʻoi aku ka nani a hoʻouka hou iā ʻoe i ke ʻano ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi, nani a maikaʻi nā mea āpau.

Hoʻomaka ʻoe e nānā i ka honua mai nā aniani kala a i ka manawa huli ke kuhi o kāu hoʻokolokolo ke hiki mai i kāu pakanā. Malia paha ua ʻike kou mau mākua i kahi mea āu i nalo ai. Ma hope o nā mea āpau, ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke makemake i nā mea maikaʻi ʻole nāu.

3. Lawe i ka manawa e hoʻomaʻemaʻe i ka ea

Inā kū nā lāhui like ʻole, hana pinepine ka hoa, me ka manaʻo ʻole, e ʻōlelo a hana paha i kekahi mea i manaʻo ʻia he hōʻeha, a i ʻole hana a ʻōlelo paha lākou i kekahi mea i lawe ʻia i kahi ʻano ʻokoʻa.

E hoʻolōʻihi i ka manawa, noho a kamaʻilio pū me kou ʻohana, hoʻāʻo e ʻike i ke kumu o ko lākou hōʻole ʻia. ʻO ka hapa nui o nā manawa ke kumu liʻiliʻi a maikaʻi a he kamaʻilio hāmama ka mea e koi ʻia.

ʻIke i kahi e huki ai i ka laina?

Inā pili ka hōʻole a kou mau mākua i ka hoʻokalakupua, ka nohona kaiāulu, a i ʻole nā ​​papa bias, a laila hiki i ka manawa kiʻekiʻe e kahakiʻi i ka laina. Aia iā ʻoe e kū i kou kū i ke kūʻē i ko lākou manaʻo nui a wāwahi i nā kuʻuna kahiko.

I ka hapa nui o mākou i ka ʻae ʻana o nā mākua ʻo ia nā mea āpau, akā e hoʻomanaʻo, ʻoiai ke ʻano o ka ʻike i loaʻa iā lākou, a i ʻole ke aloha nui iā lākou no mākou, ʻo lākou, e like me kēlā me kēia kanaka.

A ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hoʻāʻo ʻana a pili i ka pilina me kou mau mākua ʻelua a ʻo kāu hoa i wae ʻia ma kahi o ka noho pū ʻana me kekahi mea āu e like ai a huhū ai hoʻi i kou mau mākua no ia.

4. Mai huli i kou kua i ka ʻohana

E nānā pono i ka nānā ʻole ʻana o kāu hoa iā ʻoe mai kou ʻohana.

No ka paʻakikī e hiki ai iā lākou, ʻo kou mau mākua a me kou mau kaikaina ke lilo mau i ʻohana mua loa. I kekahi manawa no ka makaʻu ʻole o nā mākua no ka makaʻu paha e kokoke loa ana ʻoe i kāu pakanā a nalowale hope loa i ko lākou ola.

Aia iā ʻoe e ʻauʻau i kou mau mākua me ka nānā a me ke aloha a hemo i kēia makaʻu kūlohelohe iā lākou.

5. E nānā i kāu kani

Inā paʻakikī kou leo, a inā ʻike ʻoe iā ʻoe e walaʻau ana no ka mea ʻaʻole kākoʻo kou mau mākua iā ʻoe, e hoʻomanaʻo i nā huaʻōlelo leo nui ʻaʻole he kumu kūpono e kākoʻo ai i kāu kumumanaʻo.

Inā ʻike ʻoe i loko o kou puʻuwai he pololei ʻoe, e hoʻāʻo e hoʻohuli i kou mau mākua i ka mea like. ʻAʻole e alualu ka uwa iā ʻoe ma nā wahi āpau.

6. Mai lawe makapō i kekahi ʻaoʻao

ʻO wai kou ʻaoʻao?

ʻO kahi nīnau e hiki i nā poʻe he nui ke pili aku, 'No wai kou ʻaoʻao?' ʻO kahi pane maʻalahi ʻo ia 'Mai lawe makapō i kekahi ʻaoʻao.

ʻAʻole kūpono ia ʻoe a i ʻole kekahi mea e kū i kahi kūlana e koho ai lākou ma waena o kā lākou mea aloha a me ka ʻohana akā, me ka mana ke kuleana.

Inā ʻoe i hele i waho i kēlā kūlana, e hoʻomanaʻo ʻo kou kuleana ia e ʻike i nā mea ma ke ʻano he keiki o ka poʻe i mōhai pono i ko lākou ola holoʻokoʻa no ʻoe a ma ke ʻano he hoa hana o kekahi e hilinaʻi nei i ko lākou ola a me ka wā e hiki mai ana i kou lima.

ʻ Wordlelo a ka poʻe naʻauao

E hoʻāʻo e hana, a loaʻa ke kaulike. ʻIke i ka manawa hea e hoʻomau ai i ka hoʻāʻo a i ʻole ke kūlou i waho. ʻAʻole hiki i kekahi ke hauʻoli i kahi kaona ʻona. E hoʻomanaʻo, ʻaʻohe mea i loaʻa i kekahi, ke hina wale nei mākou i ke ola, e hoʻāʻo nei e hana i ka mea maikaʻi loa.