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- 1. Pono pono e pili mau
- 2. Makemake i ka ʻike kikoʻī
- 3. Huli i ka mākaʻi i kēlā me kēia manawa
- 4. Loaʻa iā ia ka kānāwai 'ʻaʻohe kaikamahine a puni'
- 5. Palena i kou manawa ʻohana
- 6. Manaʻo mau i kahi pane wikiwiki
- 7. Hoʻopili i ka PDA nui loa
- 8. Hoʻokomo i ka stalking uila
- 9. Keʻa i nā palena pilikino
- 10. Makemake i ka kaohi piha
Hoʻonani ʻia ke aloha i nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni.
ʻO nā mea a pau a lākou e hōʻike ai, hoʻokahi wale nō ʻano o ka pilina. ʻLelo lākou iā mākou he ʻelua mau lāʻau e ʻumeʻume kekahi i kekahi a me ka hoʻohaunaele, kū ke aloha. ʻO ka hapanui, hilinaʻi mākou i ka mea a mākou e ʻike ai i nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni. Manaʻo mākou he ʻoiaʻiʻo a hoʻomaka mākou e noho i kahi ao moemoeā. Eia naʻe, haki ka moeʻuhane ke kū i ka maoli.
I ka pilina, ʻākoakoa pū kekahi mau kanaka ʻelua me nā ʻano ʻokoʻa a me nā ʻono. ʻIke lākou i kekahi mau mea like a neʻe i mua me kēlā. Kūleʻa kekahi poʻe, maikaʻi kekahi i ke kamaʻilio ʻana, a ʻo kekahi introvert a i ʻole extrovert. Hoʻomaka paha ʻoe e hoʻoponopono me kekahi mau ʻano, akā ʻo ka loaʻa nui ʻana he ʻano weliweli ia a kani i nā bele.
Ma ka papa inoa ma lalo iho nei kahi mau ʻōuli o kahi ipo wahine loaʻa e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaopopo maʻalahi iā lākou a kāohi i ke kūlana i ka manawa kūpono.
1. Pono pono e pili mau
ʻAʻole mākou a pau me kā mākou kelepona paʻalima i nā manawa āpau. Aia kekahi mau manawa ke kāpae ʻia kāu kelepona a i ʻole i loko o kahi hālāwai nui.
He maikaʻi loa ke manaʻo e ʻike kāu ipo wahine i ke kūlana a hana maʻamau. Eia nō naʻe, aia kekahi e loaʻa i ka hysterical ke pane ʻole ʻia kā lākou kāhea a i ʻole e hele i kahi leka uila. Hoʻomaka lākou e hilinaʻi e lilo ana kou hoihoi iā lākou a i ʻole me kekahi mea ʻē aʻe. Inā maʻamau kēia kūlana, a laila e pili ana ʻoe me kahi ipo wahine.
2. Makemake i ka ʻike kikoʻī
He mea maʻamau ke kāpae i kekahi kikoʻī kūpono ʻole ke wehewehe ʻoe i kāu lā i kāu ipo wahine. ʻAʻole ʻoe makemake e hāʻawi i kahi moʻokāki o kēlā me kēia minuke o kou lā. Makemake paha kāu ipo wahine lawe iā ʻoe e kaʻana like i nā mea āpau āu i hana ai i kou lā. ʻO ka mea āu i ʻai ai, ka mea āu i launa ai, ka mea āu i ʻōlelo ai, kahi e hele ai, nā mea āpau.
ʻAʻole makemake ʻo ia iā ʻoe e lele i kahi kikoʻī o ia.
3. Huli i ka mākaʻi i kēlā me kēia manawa
ʻO ka hana a kahi mākaʻikaʻi e ʻimi ai i ka lawehala.
Heluhelu lākou i nā hōʻailona a nānā i nā hōʻike o ka hana hewa me ka pahuhopu e hoʻokau i ka poʻe hewa ma hope o nā kaola. Inā ʻo Sherlock kāu ipo wahine a ke kiu nei a hana paha iā ʻoe e like me ka lawehala, he ipo wahine nui kāu. Hiki iā lākou ke honi i nā wahaheʻe a manaʻoʻiʻo ʻole ʻoe i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo iā lākou. E alakaʻi kēia i kāu pilina i kahi ala maikaʻi ʻole. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi e nānā i kahi hopena i ka manawa kūpono ma mua o ka mālama ʻana o nā mea.
4. Loaʻa iā ia ka kānāwai 'ʻaʻohe kaikamahine a puni'
Maikaʻi a maʻamau ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi hoaaloha a me nā hoaaloha maikaʻi o ka wahine ʻē aʻe. ʻOiai ʻoe ma ke keʻena, pili pono ʻoe e launa pū me nā poʻe o nā kāne ʻelua. ʻAʻohe ou mana ma luna ona a ʻoluʻolu loa ia. ʻAʻole i ka maka o kāu ipo wahine paʻa.
No lākou, ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e kamaʻilio me nā kaikamahine ʻē aʻe, ʻoiai i kahi hoʻonohonoho ʻoihana. E nānā mau lākou iā ʻoe a kānalua i nā manawa āpau. No laila, a puni kāu ipo wahine paʻa loa, e aloha aku i kāu mau hoaaloha mai ka wahine ʻē aʻe.
5. Palena i kou manawa ʻohana
ʻO kekahi o nā ʻano koʻikoʻi o kahi ipo wahine paʻa e makemake lākou e hoʻolilo i kou manawa me lākou, e like me ka hiki.
Hāʻawi ʻia i kahi koho, ʻaʻole lākou e ʻae iā ʻoe e hana i kekahi mea ʻē aʻe akā e noho pū me lākou. Hoʻomaka lākou e kaohi i kou manawa kaiapili a hiki i ka mea ke hoʻonui i kou manawa ʻohana pū kekahi. Kāohi ʻo ia iā ʻoe mai ka hui ʻana i kou mau mākua a i ʻole nā kaikaina a i ʻole he manawa ʻohana.
6. Manaʻo mau i kahi pane wikiwiki
Ua ʻike mākou āpau i kahi ʻano i nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni kahi a ke kaikamahine e kikokiko nei i ka wikiwiki loa a ke manaʻo nei mākou e pane koke kāna ipo. Inā ʻaʻole ia e hana, ʻaʻole kū kāna mau ʻōlelo a huli koke lākou mai kahi kamaʻilio ʻana i mea hoʻoweliweli a hiki i nā ʻāpana 'break-up'. He makaʻu loa ia e like me kou makemake i ka manawa e heluhelu ai, hoʻomaopopo a pane ai i ka ʻōlelo.
ʻO kēia kahi o nā hōʻailona aloha wahine paʻa e ʻike ʻole ʻia.
7. Hoʻopili i ka PDA nui loa
Maikaʻi ka PDA, inā hana ʻia ia i loko o nā palena. E like me kā lākou e ʻōlelo nei, maikaʻi ʻole ka nui o kekahi mea, pēlā nō PDA. Koi aku kāu ipo wahine paʻa iā ʻoe e paʻa i kona lima a hōʻike i nā aloha aloha i ka lehulehu, ʻoiai inā ʻoluʻolu a hilahila ʻole ʻoe. Kūleʻa ʻo ia i kēlā mau hana.
8. Hoʻokomo i ka stalking uila
Kapu loa ka ʻimi kino ʻana i hāʻawi ʻia i ke kiko kahi ʻokoʻa kāu mau wahi hana a ma nā wahi like ʻole o ke kūlanakauhale. Eia nō naʻe, hiki ke ʻimi kikohoʻe i nā manawa āpau.
Koi aku kāu ipo wahine lawe iā ʻoe e kaʻana like i kāu ʻōlelo papahō i nā ʻōlelo huna. Inā ʻaʻole, a laila e nānā mau ʻo ia iā ʻoe ma kēlā me kēia paepae, e mālama i kahi ʻaoʻao ma kahi a me wai ʻoe, a e nīnau iā ʻoe ma kēlā me kēia pou āu e kaʻana nei. Piha paha kāu moʻokāki Instagram i kāna mau kiʻi pū kekahi.
9. Keʻa i nā palena pilikino
He hana maʻamau a ka ipo wahine paʻa e hele i nā palena pilikino a hana i kahi hanana inā e hoʻomanaʻo iā ia. Poina lākou i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo āu e koi nei i kou manawa 'me' a me nā manawa pilikino me kāu poʻe aloha a mau hoaaloha paha. ʻO ko lākou manaʻo e loaʻa iā ʻoe i nā manawa āpau me lākou e alakaʻi i nā pilikia ma mua o ka maopopo.
10. Makemake i ka kaohi piha
I kēia manawa pono ʻoe e ʻike i ka makemake o kahi ipo wahine e kaohi piha i kou ola. ʻO nā mea āpau a lākou e makemake ai iā ʻoe e hoʻolohe i kā lākou mau kauoha, hōʻike iā lākou i ka mahalo, a pane i kā lākou nīnau āpau. ʻAʻole lākou e kānalua e hele i nā ana nui e hōʻike ai i ko lākou loaʻa iā ʻoe.
No laila he aha kāu e hana ai inā ʻike ʻoe i kāu ipo wahine āpau a i ʻole ka hapa nui o kēia mau ʻano? ʻO ka mea maikaʻi e hana ai e haki i kāu hāmau e pili ana i kāna ʻano. E kamaʻilio mālie me ia a kau i kekahi mau palena. E haʻi iā ia ʻaʻole mahalo ʻia kekahi o kāna hana a hoʻohoka ʻole iā ʻoe. E hoʻāʻo e ʻike i ke kumu o kona manaʻo he pono ke kuleana iā ʻoe a no ke aha e pono ai kēlā i hiki ai iā ʻolua ke hana. E ʻike pehea kāna hana i kēlā. I ka hihia, pīpī ʻo ia a ʻaʻole pili pū kekahi no ka nui o kou hoʻāʻo ʻana, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻāʻo e hele i waho o ka pilina ma muli o ka hana ʻole o ke aloha i kēlā ala akā inā hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike iā ia e hoʻāʻo nei, a laila e hoʻomau.