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- No ke aha mākou e huli ai i nā ʻōlelo pōmaikaʻi o ka male ʻole
- Nā ʻōlelo ʻoliʻoli hauʻoli a me ke ʻano o ko lākou manaʻo
- ʻO kahi pilialoha hopeless maoli
Ua manaʻo paha ʻoe he nui kāu e haʻi aku akā ʻaʻole ʻoe ʻike kahi e hoʻomaka ai? Ua ʻike paha ʻoe i kahi ʻole a mehameha e makemake wale ʻoe e kikoʻī a malia paha e ʻike maoli kekahi ma waho e hele nei ʻoe i kekahi mea?
Kūhewa mākou āpau i ka manaʻo e like me kēia no ka mea ʻike mākou pehea e aloha ai a aloha hoʻi ua mākaukau ʻoe e hōʻeha. Ua ʻike anei ʻoe iā ʻoe iho e ʻimi nei i nā ʻōlelo pōmaikaʻi maikaʻi ʻole i hiki ke wehewehe i nā mea āu e manaʻo nei i kēia manawa?
Ua ʻākoakoa mākou i kahi o nā ʻōlelo puʻuwai hauʻoli loa.
No ke aha mākou e huli ai i nā ʻōlelo pōmaikaʻi o ka male ʻole
He paʻakikī loa ka manaʻo e hoʻomaopopo a i kekahi manawa hiki i kēia mau ʻōlelo ke wehewehe maoli i ka mea a mākou e manaʻo nei. Inā ʻoe i loko o ka male hauʻoli ʻole a i ʻole i kahi pilina ʻawahia, i kekahi manawa, ʻike wale ʻoe i kahi ʻōlelo i wehewehe maoli i ka mea āu e manaʻo nei i kēia lā a ke kaʻana like nei mākou i kēia ʻōlelo, kōkua maoli ia iā mākou e noʻonoʻo iki.
E alo ia, ʻaʻole nā mea āpau iā mākou e hana i nā kaha puanaʻī a i ʻole nā mele e ʻimi nei i kēia mau ʻōlelo puanaʻī ma ke ʻano he hoʻokuʻu no nā mea he nui o mākou.
Nā ʻōlelo ʻoliʻoli hauʻoli a me ke ʻano o ko lākou manaʻo
Inā ʻoe kekahi e manaʻo nei he hakahaka a ke ʻimi nei i nā ʻōlelo hōʻoliʻoli o ka male male a laila aia ʻoe ma kahi kūpono. Ua ʻākoakoa mākou i kahi o ka hohonu loa a me kekahi o nā kahaʻōlelo kūpono loa e hoʻopā i kou puʻuwai.
“ʻAʻole luku ke aloha iā ʻoe iho. Hoʻopili mākou iā ia me nā ʻōlelo aloha ʻole. Pōloli mākou iā ia me nā hoʻohiki hakahaka. Hōʻino mākou iā ia me ka hoʻopiʻi ʻino. Uhaʻi mākou iā ia ma ka hoʻāʻo ʻana e kūlou i kā mākou makemake. ʻAʻole, ʻaʻole make ke aloha wale. Pepehi mākou iā ia. Hanu, e ka hanu ʻawaʻawa. Akamai ka poʻe i ʻike he paʻa lākou i ka hopena o ko lākou aloha i loko o ko lākou mau lima, a pōmaikaʻi ka poʻe e mālama ola ana. ” –Hoike ʻole ʻia
ʻAʻole hele ke aloha akā mae wale. E like me ka mea kanu pono mākou e wai a hānai me nā hana a me nā huaʻōlelo e ulu pono ai. Me ka ʻole o kēia mau mea, e mae wale ke aloha a inā ʻoe e hoʻomaka i ka hānai ʻana iā ia me nā huaʻawakea, nā hana ʻeha, a me ka hoʻowahāwahā - e kahaha paha ʻoe inā e mae?
"Hiki iā ʻoe ke hōʻeha iā ia, akā he manawa pōkole ia.
ʻIke ʻo ia i ke aloha,
akā ʻike ʻo ia i ke aloha iā ia iho.
A inā ʻoe e hele i kēlā laina ma kahi āna e koho ai, maopopo e lilo ana ʻoe.
- JmStorm
No ka nui o kou aloha i kekahi, no ka nui o kou makemake e mōhai - aia nō ka palena. Ma hope a ma hope paha, e ala ana kekahi i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻaʻole e lawa kahi aloha ʻaoʻao hoʻokahi.
"Mai lilo iā ʻoe iho i ka wā e hoʻāʻo ana e hoʻopaʻa i kekahi mea mālama ʻole e lilo ana ʻoe." - Unknown
I kekahi manawa, aloha nui mākou e hoʻomaka mākou e nalo iā mākou iho i ke kaʻina hana a me he mea lā inā mākou e hāʻawi i kā mākou āpau - ʻaʻole lawa ia. A laila i kekahi lā ʻike wale mākou e koe nei mākou me ka mea ʻole a ka puʻuwai haʻihaʻi.
“ʻAʻohe mea kaumaha loa ka male hoʻokaʻawale. Ke waiho nei kahi pōpilikia i ka male hauʻoli ʻole. " - Jennifer Weiner
Makau pinepine mākou i ka hemo ʻana ma ke ʻano he mea nāna e hāʻawi iā mākou i ʻohana haʻihaʻi akā ʻaʻole ʻike mākou i ka hui pū ʻana a noho i kahi male hauʻoli ʻole no nā keiki me he mea ʻole lā e like me ka makua makua ʻole. ʻO ka mea hou aku, ʻo ʻoe pū kekahi akā ʻo ka hakahaka āu e manaʻo ai ʻoi aku ka nui ma mua o kahi ʻohana haki.
"ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo; ʻoi aku kāua ma kahi kaʻawale. Pepehi wale ia iaʻu e ʻae aku. ” - Unknown
ʻO ka ʻae ʻana i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻeha a i kekahi manawa ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻomanawanui. ʻO ia ke kumu no ka mea aia kekahi e koho e noho i kahi pilina ʻoiai inā ʻeha.
"ʻAʻole wau i ʻike ua hiki iaʻu ke ʻehaʻeha loa, akā aloha nui wau i ka mea nāna ia hana." —Anonymous
He aloha maoli paha kāu e manaʻo nei? A i ʻole ʻānō wale ʻoe i ka ʻeha a me ka ʻiʻini i kēlā kanaka āu i aloha ai? Hoʻololi ka ʻeha iā mākou a he ala ʻano ʻē kēia e hōʻoiaʻiʻo ai i ke aloha.
"Ua hoʻomaka wale paha ʻoe e hoʻomaka i ka uē no ka mea ua paʻa ʻoe i kēia mau ʻano āpau a hoʻohālike e hauʻoli ana no kahi lōʻihi loa?" –Hoike ʻole ʻia
Makemake paha ʻoe e hāʻawi? Ua ʻike ʻoe i kahi mehameha ʻoiai ua male ʻoe? Pehea i lilo ai kahi pilina kūpono i lilo i mea ʻole a me kahi mehameha? Pehea ka lōʻihi e waiho ai ʻoe i kēia ma mua o kou ʻike he pono ʻoe i nā mea hou aku?
"Ma waena o ka mea i ʻōlelo ʻia ʻaʻole i manaʻo ʻia, a me nā mea i manaʻo ʻia ai haʻi ʻole ʻia, ua nalowale ka hapa nui o ke aloha. - Khalil Gibran
Ke manaʻo ʻole nā huaʻōlelo ʻoluʻolu a hiki i kēlā mau hana me ka ʻole o nā ʻōlelo ke hōʻeha iā ʻoe. He hoʻomākeʻaka wale nō pehea e hiki ai i ke aloha ke hōʻemi a hoʻololi ʻia me ka hōʻole a ʻeha.
Heluhelu Pili: Nā ʻōlelo male male āu e aloha ai
ʻO kahi pilialoha hopeless maoli
ʻOiai ke aloha, aloha aloha. Hāʻawi mākou i nā mea hiki a hoʻomanawanui i nā mea āpau no ka pono o kā mākou male. Inā pono, hiki iā mākou ke ʻoi aku i ka makemake e mōhai ke ʻike mākou i ka hauʻoli o kā mākou kāne a wahine paha. Minamina, hoʻohana kekahi poʻe i kēia a hoʻohana i ke aloha ma ke ʻano he kumu e hoʻohana ai. Pehea ka nui o kou hoʻomanawanui ʻana no ke aloha?
ʻO ke aloha aloha hopohopo he mea ʻokoʻa loa ia mai ka lilo i martyr a i ʻole kahi masochist manaʻo. Manaʻo kahi aloha aloha hopohopo i ke aloha hohonu a hiki ke hoʻolilo i kahi mele maʻalahi i mele, nā huaʻōlelo i nā mele, a me kahi ʻano maʻalahi ma ke ʻano he hana aloha. ʻOiai ʻo kekahi e hoʻomanawanui i ka ʻeha a me ka luʻuluʻu ʻoiai ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o ka hana hou ʻole ʻana o ka male, ʻaʻole ia he hōʻailona o ke aloha - he hōʻailona ia o ka hōʻole ʻana e alo i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo.
Hiki i nā ʻōlelo huikau hauʻoli ʻole ke kōkua iā mākou ke kaumaha a i ʻole ke ala e waiho ai i nā huaʻōlelo a ko mākou puʻuwai e manaʻo ai akā ʻaʻole mākou e kamaʻilio maoli i ka pilikia ma aneʻi. Pono e hoʻoponopono ʻia ka pilikia maoli me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, pono ka hana a me kaʻae ʻana. Inā ʻaʻole olakino kāu male ʻana a laila malia paha pono ʻoe e hoʻomaka e ʻae i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo a hoʻomaka e neʻe i mua.