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- 1. Mai hoʻopiʻi no nā pilikia, hoʻoponopono iā lākou
- 2. E mākaukau a puni ka hale
- 3. E hoʻoulu i ka hilinaʻi
- 4. Lawe ʻelua i tango
- 5. Pākuʻi i ka hale hoʻoikaika kino
- Panina hopena
No laila, ua male ʻoe no kekahi mau makahiki i kēia manawa a ke hoʻomaka nei ʻoe e noʻonoʻo e like me ka puka ʻana o ka alohi. ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke kau i kou manamana lima i ke kumu, akā ʻike ʻia he mea "make" kekahi mea. ʻAʻole ʻo ia e nānā iā ʻoe e like me kāna ʻano ma mua a ua lilo ka moena i mea liʻiliʻi ma mua o kahi e hiamoe ai ʻoe.
I kēia manawa, inā akamai ʻoe, ua ʻike mua ʻoe ʻaʻole paha no ka hewa o kekahi a ʻo ka pili o ka noho ʻana o nā pilina i ka hala ʻana o nā makahiki, akā ʻike nō ʻoe i kēlā, me ka liʻiliʻi ʻole o kēlā kilokilo kahiko. , e hāʻule ana nā mea. Ma hope o nā mea āpau, aia kekahi kumu ma waena o ka hale a ua nui ka poʻe i paʻa i ka paʻa ʻole o ka male.
Aloha maoli ʻoe i kāu wahine, a ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake e like me kēlā mau kāne ʻē aʻe e heʻe ana i nā ʻūlū a hoʻonāukiuki wale a make a haʻalele paha. He ʻoiaʻiʻo kekahi mea hiki iā ʻoe ke hana e hoʻomaikaʻi ai i kēia, akā he aha?
Eia ka mea hūnā, pono ʻoe e hana e mālama i kēlā lapalapa ahi a i ʻole e make ke ahi. Pono ʻoe e lawe i nā waihona pono ʻo wai ʻoe a me nā mea āu e lawe nei i ka papa. ʻO ka pinepine, ʻo ka hana maoli o ka mālama ʻana i ka lana o ka male i ka wahine a ʻaʻole ia pēlā.
ʻOiai lākou e hele nei i kā lākou ala e mālama pono, hoʻomaikaʻi iā lākou iho, mālama i nā keiki, a loaʻa ka manawa e manaʻo ai i kā lākou kāne a makemake ʻia lākou, noho mau mākou e hele i ka hana, e nānā i ka pāʻani, a e hoʻokuʻu iā mākou. kino. Ua huikau kēlā!
E heluhelu hou: He 15 mau mea huna i ka male male ʻana
ʻAʻole wau e ʻōlelo ʻo kēia ka hihia mau, akā he ʻike ʻia ia i nā kū. ʻO ka hana mua i ka hoʻihoʻi i kāu male ma ke ala ke kiʻi koʻikoʻi nei iā mākou iho, i ka loaʻa ʻana o kā mākou hewa, a me ka hōʻeha kaua ʻole iā lākou. Pono mākou e ʻike ʻo mākou nā kāne maikaʻi loa hiki iā mākou ke lilo pēlā, ma ka liʻiliʻi loa, inā hāʻule nā mea, ʻike mākou ua hoʻāʻo mākou i ka mea hiki.
Pono mākou i ke kāne āna i aloha ai, a ʻoi aku i kēia, pono mākou e ulu i ke kāne hiki iā ia ke hoʻomau i ke aloha. Pono mākou e lilo iā ia ʻo Adonis Alpha, kāna kāne kūpono.
Eia nā ala 5 i hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaikaʻi iā ʻoe iho ma ke ʻano he kāne a hoʻomanaʻo iā ia no ke aha ʻo ʻoe wale nō ke kāne e pono ai
1. Mai hoʻopiʻi no nā pilikia, hoʻoponopono iā lākou
Aia kekahi ʻōlelo kahiko e ʻōlelo ana, "ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ke kukui ʻana i ke ihoiho ma mua o ka hōʻino ʻana i ka pouli."
Inā ʻoe e ʻōhumu i loko e pili ana i kahi pilikia a huhū inā ʻaʻole ia e hoʻoponopono kupua iā ia iho, pono ʻoe e lele i waho a hana i ka hana i mua ou. ʻO ka nānā ʻole ʻana a i ʻole nā pilikia i loko o kāu pilina e like me ka hānai ʻana i ka mea make. E ʻawaʻawa ʻoe, e ʻawahia nō hoʻi ia, a ʻelua, i ka hopena, hemo a he ʻawaʻawa pū kekahi.
ʻO ka mea ʻāpiki, inā ʻoe e huhū me kāu wahine no ka mea ke hoʻāʻo nei ʻo ia e kamaʻilio e pili ana i kāna mau manaʻo a i ʻole nā pilikia i ka pilina āu e ʻike ʻole ai he pilikia, ke hele nei ʻoe i mea lapuwale a pono ʻoe e nānā iā ʻoe iho. Ke kukui nei ʻo ia i ke ihoiho, kāne, e hele i ke kukui!
ʻIke ke kāne maikaʻi i ka manawa o ka ʻolokaʻa ʻana i kona lima lima a hana i nā mea e pono ai. Alakaʻi iā mākou i kā mākou helu aʻe.
2. E mākaukau a puni ka hale
ʻAʻole wau i manaʻo i loko o ka wā kahiko "pono nā kāne e hoʻoponopono i nā mea" ʻano o ke ala, ʻoiai he mea kōkua pū kēlā- makemake wau e kaʻana like i nā hana a puni ka hale e pono ai. Inā mahalo maoli ʻoe i kāu wahine, pono ʻoe e hana i kēlā me ka noi ʻole ʻia ʻana. ʻIke ʻoe e pono e holoi i nā pā a pelu nā lole. E like me kaʻu i ʻōlelo ai ma mua, he kāne maoli, he kāne maikaʻi, hana i ka hana i mua ona.
He mea ia o ka mahalo. Kuhi wau ʻaʻole ʻoe e male i kekahi āu i hiki ʻole ai ke mahalo, no laila e hana e like me ʻoe e mahalo iā ia ma ke ʻano he like a hana i kāu ʻāpana e mālama i ke kaulike i kou ʻohana a e hoʻi ʻo ia i kēlā mahalo iā ʻoe.
3. E hoʻoulu i ka hilinaʻi
Aloha nā wahine i kahi kāne i hilinaʻi iā ia iho a hilinaʻi i kāna mau hiki a me ka male ʻana ʻaʻole ia e loli. E lilo i ke ʻano o ke kāne makaʻu ʻole e kūleʻa i ke ʻano nui, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o ka hemahema me ke akahai.
Ke ʻike wiwo ʻole kāu wahine iā ʻoe e lawe ana i nā manawa kūpono e hoʻomaikaʻi ai i ke kūlana o kou mau ʻohana a me ka pae o ka hōʻoluʻolu, e ʻike ʻo ia iā ʻoe me he koa lā e lanakila a eo paha iā ʻoe. Makemake ʻo Fortune i ka wiwo ʻole a manaʻo ʻole wau he mea kūpono ke hōʻike maʻamau ʻia ʻo Fortune ma ke ʻano he wahine.
Pili kēia i ka lili. ʻAʻohe mea e uē me ka hilinaʻi ʻole e like me ke kāne lili. He kāne ka hapalua o ka honua i ka honua a he mea hiki ʻole ke aloha ʻia kāu wahine i kekahi o lākou. Ua male ʻo ia ʻo ʻoe, hoʻi mai ʻo ia i ka home i ʻo ʻoe, aloha ʻo ia ʻo ʻoe, a he mea ia e hilinaʻi ai, ʻaʻole ka palekana.
Inā makemake ʻoe e hōʻino i kāu male ma ka wikiwiki, hana e like me ke keiki lili. Manaʻo ʻoe i kāu wahine e mahalo iā ʻoe i lawa e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i kāna hilinaʻi, ʻo ka mea liʻiliʻi loa hiki iā ʻoe ke hāʻawi i ka like i ka hoʻihoʻi.
4. Lawe ʻelua i tango
ʻO ka moekolohe kahi mea nui nui o kēlā me kēia pilina a ʻo ia pinepine kekahi o nā mea paʻa nui e alakaʻi i ka hāʻule o ka male. Eia nō naʻe, mahalo i nā ʻano nohona pilikino maikaʻi ʻole āpau, he kumuhana pinepine mākou e hōʻalo ai i ke kamaʻilio ʻana, ʻoiai me kā mākou wahine.
Eʻoiaʻiʻo, e nā kāne, hiki i ka hapanui o mākou ke noʻonoʻo iki i kā mākou mau wahine ke pili i ka moekolohe. Ma hope o ko mākou hui pū ʻana me ka mea like no ka manawa lōʻihi makemake mākou e hōʻoluʻolu a hoʻōki i ka hana ʻana i nā mea liʻiliʻi āpau. ʻO ia ka mea e hoʻohuli iā ia i kahi moe. ʻAʻole wau e ʻōlelo ana na mākou ka hewa i ka wā e make ai ka hoʻokalakupua i loko o ka lumi moe, akā pili like mākou i ka hewa.
E hoʻolōʻihi i ka manawa e nīnau iā ia i kāna makemake ma kahi moe a, ʻo ka mea nui aku, e hoʻomaka i ka hana a hoʻomaka i ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana i kou mau mākau ma waena o nā pale i kū kaʻawale. Inā ʻoe e hoʻāʻo i ka lumi i loko o ka lumi moe, ʻike paha ʻoe i kāu wahine ʻoi aku ka nui o ka freakier ma mua o kou manaʻo. Pono paha ia i kahi hoʻoikaika iki.
5. Pākuʻi i ka hale hoʻoikaika kino
No ka maikaʻi a maikaʻi ʻole paha, nānā nui nā wahine i ko lākou helehelena a me ke olakino. Kanikau nā kāne he nui i ka hoʻāʻo mau ʻana o kā lākou wahine e ʻai me ke olakino a hoʻoikaika kino hou aku. ʻAʻole ia he mea o ka maikaʻi ke nānā aku, makemake pū ʻo ia iā ʻoe e olakino no ka mea ʻaʻole makemake ʻoe e lilo iā ʻoe i kahi maʻi maʻalahi hiki ke pale ʻia i lawe ʻia mai e ka hana ʻole a me ka papaʻai maikaʻi ʻole.
"Nagging" iā mākou e pili ana i ko mākou olakino he ala maʻalahi ia o ka ʻōlelo ʻana he aloha lākou iā mākou. ʻIke paha lākou iā ia ʻaʻole paha, he ala ia e ʻōlelo ai he maikaʻi inā ʻoe e nānā iki i kou helehelena ke nānā aku ʻoe.
Inā makemake ʻoe e lilo i daimonio i loko o ka ʻeke a loaʻa nā makahiki hauʻoli i hiki ke hiki me kāu wahine, pono ʻoe e alo i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo e kau i kahi hana i loko o kou kino. Ma waho aʻe, ʻo ka hele pū ʻana i ka hale hoʻoikaika kino kahi ala maikaʻi loa e kaʻana like i ka hoihoi a me ka hana e kōkua ai i ka hoʻoikaika ʻana i kāu pili naʻau ʻoiai, i ka manawa like, e nānā pono a hakakā pono hoʻi i ka wā e hakakā ana ʻoe ma waena o nā pale. He lanakila lanakila maoli nō ia; E haʻalele i kahi pēpē a hana i nā mea e pono ai ka hana!
Panina hopena
ʻO ka mea hope loa, ʻo ka mea āu e puka ai ma waho o kāu male e hoʻoholo ʻia e ka mea āu i kau ai i loko. Ma ke ʻano he kāne, pono mākou e ʻike ua loli nā kuleana pili kuʻuna a pono mākou e hoʻomaʻa i ko mākou manaʻo kāne kāne kahiko i nā mea ʻoi loa o ka male o kēia wā. Pono mākou e ikaika, kūpaʻa, a hoʻoholo akā ua hana kēia mau ʻano i nā ʻano hou i loko o kā mākou kaiāulu hoʻololi wikiwiki. Ke loli nei ka honua, mai haʻalele i hope, nā fellas.