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- ʻAʻole maikaʻi a maikaʻi ʻole paha nā male male
- Ke hoʻāʻo nei e hōʻoia i nā hana
- ʻIke i ka mea a kāu hoa e lawe ai i ka papa
- Hānai pilina me kāu wahine
- E aʻo e hōʻemi i ka hoʻopiʻi
Noho kahi ʻelemakule ma waho o nā paia o ke kūlanakauhale nui. Ke hoʻokokoke aku ka poʻe huakaʻi, nīnau lākou i ka ʻelemakule, "He aha ke ʻano o ka poʻe e noho nei i kēia kūlanakauhale?" Pane ka ʻelemakule, "He aha ke ʻano o ka poʻe e noho nei ma kahi āu i hele mai ai?" Inā pane ka poʻe huakaʻi, "Noho wale ka poʻe hewa i kahi a mākou i hele mai ai," pane ka ʻelemakule, "E hoʻomau; ma ʻaneʻi wale ʻoe e ʻike ai i nā kānaka ʻino. ”
Akā inā i pane ka poʻe huakaʻi, "Noho ka poʻe maikaʻi ma kahi a mākou i hele mai ai," a laila ʻōlelo ka ʻelemakule, "E komo, no ka mea, ma aneʻi pū kekahi, he poʻe maikaʻi wale nō kāu e ʻike ai." - Yiddish Folk Tale, Mea kākau ʻike ʻole ʻia
Hoʻomanaʻo maikaʻi mai kēia moʻolelo kaʻao kanaka iā mākou he koho mākou e nānā i nā poʻe a me ke ola, he maikaʻi a maikaʻi ʻole paha. Hiki iā mākou ke hoʻowalewale i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe a i ʻole nānā i ka nani o kekahi i kekahi. Pehea mākou e ʻike ai i ka honua ka mea e loaʻa ai iā ia. Pili pono kēia no ka male male pū kekahi. Hiki iā mākou ke koho e ʻike i kā mākou pakanā ma ke ʻano he makana a hōʻino paha. Hiki iā mākou ke nānā i ka hana hewa a kā mākou wahine a i ʻole hiki iā mākou ke nānā i ka hana maikaʻi. Inā mākou e haʻi iā mākou iho he male maikaʻi kā mākou, e kia ana mākou i nā mea a mākou e makemake ai e pili ana. Inā mākou e noʻonoʻo i kā mākou male male ʻana ma ke ʻano maikaʻi ʻole, e nānā ana mākou i nā ʻaoʻao maikaʻi ʻole o kā mākou pili.
ʻAʻole maikaʻi a maikaʻi ʻole paha nā male male
Makemake wau e maopopo ʻaʻole au e ʻōlelo ana ʻaʻohe male maikaʻi ʻole i kēia ao. Aia kekahi poʻe e pono e haʻalele i ka male ma muli o nā waiwai kūpono ʻole, ka hoʻomaloka, hoʻomāinoino a me nā kumu ʻē aʻe. ʻAʻole nō wau e hōʻike i ka maikaʻi a maikaʻi ʻole paha o ka male. No ka hapanui o mākou i male, pili ko mākou ola male i ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i nā ʻano hoʻōla a me nā ʻano maikaʻi ʻole o kā mākou hoa koho.
ʻIke paha ka hapanui o mākou i kahi mau kāne i pau ka pili, no ka mea ua hoʻomaka lākou e kau i ka mea i hoʻonāukiuki iā lākou e pili ana i kā lākou hoa, ma kahi o ka mea a lākou e hoʻomana ai. Ke hōʻoia mākou i kā mākou hoa ma ka ʻike ʻana iā lākou a me nā mea a lākou e hāʻawi mai ai iā mākou, kūkulu ia i ka pilina ma ka pilina. Ke hōʻino mākou i kā mākou hoa, hoʻomaka mākou e kūkulu i ka paia ma waena o kekahi a inā ʻaʻole mākou e akahele, hiki i ka paia ke kiʻekiʻe loa i hiki ʻole iā mākou ke ʻike pū kekahi i kekahi. A ke pau kā mākou ʻike ʻana i kekahi i kekahi, ʻaʻohe pilina, ola a hauʻoli paha i loko o kā mākou male.
Ke hoʻāʻo nei e hōʻoia i nā hana
Ua maʻi kaʻu kāne i kēia pule me ka ʻōpū o ka ʻōpū a no laila ua ʻohi au i kahi sup, wai electrolyte, ale a me nā mea pahū ma ka hale kūʻai nona. I koʻu hoʻi ʻana i ka home me kēia mau mea, ʻoiai ʻo ia maʻi maʻi, ua hoʻomaikaʻi ʻo ia iaʻu ʻelua no ka kū ʻana e kiʻi i kēia mau mea nona. ʻIke wau i kāna mea i manaʻo ai e ʻōlelo hoʻomaikaʻi, ʻaʻole hoʻokahi wale nō, akā ʻelua mau manawa. Me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o kona ʻano weliweli, ua hoʻoikaika ʻo ia e hoʻomaikaʻi iaʻu a me kāna mau ʻōlelo maʻalahi i haʻalele iaʻu me ka mahalo a pili iā ia. He moʻolelo maʻalahi kēia, akā he mea hoʻomanaʻo ia ke ʻike mākou i kekahi i kekahi a mahalo i kā mākou hoa, hiki ke kūkulu i ka pilina ma kā mākou male.
ʻIke i ka mea a kāu hoa e lawe ai i ka papa
Inā makemake mākou e paʻa kā māua male, pono mākou e hōʻike i kā mākou hoa i ka mea a mākou e mahalo ai iā lākou a ʻike i ka mea a lākou e lawe mai nei i ka papa. Ma kahi o ka nānā ʻana i ka mea a ka male e hāʻawi ʻole ai iā mākou, he mea nui ia e ʻike i nā makana o kēlā me kēia lā a kā mākou hoa pili e hāʻawi ai iā mākou. ʻO kahi laʻana, malia paha hoʻonāukiuki mākou i ke ola moekolohe dwindling i loko o kā mākou pilina. He paʻakikī kēia a pono e kamaʻilio ʻia, akā i mea e loaʻa ai kahi ola moekolohe nui pono mākou i ka pilina a no laila he mea nui e nānā no ka maikaʻi o kāu wahine. E kōkua ia i kā māua male, inā hele aku māua e haʻi i kā mākou hapa ʻē aʻe ma o ka ʻōlelo a me ka ʻole o ka waha ʻole, ʻo ia ka mea a mākou e mahalo ai iā lākou.
ʻO ka hōʻoia ʻana i kā mākou hoa pili pehea mākou e hānai ai i ka pilina, kahi e alakaʻi ai i ka pilina a me ke kino. ʻO kahi laʻana, malia paha he makua nui kā mākou wahine, mākaukau i ka hale, ʻoluʻolu, a hoaaloha maikaʻi a hoʻolohe maikaʻi paha. Inā mākou e haʻi i kā mākou hoa i ka mea a mākou e mahalo ai e pili ana iā lākou, e pili kokoke lākou iā mākou a e pili mākou iā lākou.
Hānai pilina me kāu wahine
Ke hāpai nei wau iā mākou e ʻike i nā wahi o ka hauʻoli a me ka pili i kā mākou pilina, ma ka ʻike ʻana i nā ikaika i kā mākou male ʻana a me ka haʻi ʻana i kēia i kā mākou wahine. Akā ʻoiai ke noi nei wau iā mākou e ʻike i ka maikaʻi o kā mākou hoa, ʻaʻole pono mākou e kāpae i nā lihi ulu i kā mākou pilina. He mea nui e hoʻopono me kā mākou mea ʻē aʻe koʻikoʻi inā pono mākou i kahi manawa hou me lākou a i ʻole ka pili pili kino. Akā pono mākou e akahele i kā mākou kamaʻilio ʻana i kēia. Eia kahi hiʻohiʻona o pehea a pehea e kamaʻilio ʻole ai me ka mea āu e aloha ai.
Pehea e kamaʻilio ʻole ai: Luhi hou ʻoe. ʻOi aku wau ma luna o kāu kolohe i kāu hana. Ke pīhoihoi nei ʻoe. ʻAʻole ʻoe i kāhea e haʻi mai iaʻu e lohi ana ʻoe. ʻAʻole ʻoe waiwai i kēia male ʻana a mai hoʻolilo ʻoe i manawa no mākou.
Pehea e kamaʻilio ai: Ua hopohopo wau i kou kāhea ʻole ʻana. ʻIke wau ua hana nui ʻoe i ka hana, akā mahalo au i kā mākou manawa a pono wau e kamaʻilio pū me aʻu ke lohi ʻoe. Ua hala wau iā ʻoe i kēia mau lā a makemake wau e kālai pū mākou i kekahi manawa maikaʻi.
ʻO kekahi o nā pilina ma luna e hāpai nei i ka pilina? ʻIke nō, ʻo ka pilina ʻelua kahi ala oʻo e pane ai, ke hoʻokuʻu ʻoe iā ʻoe e kāu wahine. Akā ua hewa paha mākou āpau i ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā ʻōlelo iā ʻoe ke manaʻo ʻia e hoʻokuʻu ʻia e kā mākou hoa. Ke hoʻomaka mākou e hōʻino i kā mākou mea aloha a hoʻohana iā ʻoe i nā ʻōlelo, ke kau nei mākou i kā mākou hoa i ka mea pale, a e hoʻokau paha iā lākou a lohe ʻole iā mākou. Koi nā ʻōlelo I iā mākou e kuleana no ko mākou mau manaʻo iho a kono i kā mākou hoa e hoʻomaopopo i nā mea e pono ai iā lākou a me ke kumu o ka ʻeha.
E aʻo e hōʻemi i ka hoʻopiʻi
E hoʻolōʻihi i kahi manawa e noʻonoʻo ai inā hōʻino paha ʻoe i kāu hoa i kēia mau lā. Pehea e loaʻa ai ka maikaʻi i kā mākou pakanā a hōʻike i ko mākou hōʻino ma nā ala ʻoi aku ka hoʻopiʻi, kōkua iā mākou e ʻike i kahi pilina ola. Inā mākou i kūkulu i kahi pā ma waena o kā mākou iho a me kā mākou hoa, manaʻo wau ʻo ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana i kā mākou wahine, me ka ʻōlelo hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana, a me ka hoʻohana ʻana i kahi ʻōlelo aloha e hōʻoia i ko mākou mau pono, hiki iā mākou ke lawelawe maikaʻi, ke ʻimi nei mākou e wāwahi i ka paia hoʻokaʻawale. Ke iho kēia pale, hiki iā mākou ke ʻike i kekahi i kekahi a laila hiki iā mākou ke ʻike i ke ala e hoʻi ai i ka palupalu a me ka leʻaleʻa i kā mākou male ʻana.