Anter
- DO: Nā hana lokomaikaʻi ʻole i manaʻo ʻia
- MAI MAKA: Uoki i ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana
- DO: huhū Nip i ka ʻōpuʻu
- MAI MAKA: E hoʻomaka a hoʻopau paha i kou lā me ka honi ʻole
- ʻAʻole hemolele nā kāne hauʻoli
ʻIke ka poʻe āpau i hoʻokahi mau kāne i ʻoiaʻiʻo hauʻoli. ʻAʻole lākou i haʻalele i ka manawa o ka waihona meli, hoʻopau lākou i nā ʻōlelo a kekahi, a mele i nā mele a kekahi i kahi pilikino a me ka lehulehu.
E lili paha lākou iā ʻoe. E hōʻeha paha lākou iā ʻoe no ka kaʻana ʻole ʻana i ka pili like me kāu wahine. Hoʻokumu paha lākou iā ʻoe e hoʻomaikaʻi i kou pilina. ʻO nā mea āu e pili ai iā lākou, paʻakikī e nānā ʻole iā lākou.
He paʻakikī ke nānā ʻole i ke aloha a lākou e kaʻana like ai.
ʻAʻole paʻakikī ke nānā ʻole a pupule paha kekahi i kekahi.
ʻAʻole paʻakikī ke nānā ʻole e hōʻike lākou i ko lākou mahalo a mahalo i kekahi i kekahi me ka ʻōlelo ʻole o kahi huaʻōlelo.
No laila, pehea i ka honua e hana ai lākou ia? E like me ka makemake o ka hapanui o mākou e hōʻino iā ia ma ka laki maoli, aia kekahi mea ʻē aʻe iā ia. Pono e loaʻa kahi maʻamau a me nā hana maʻamau i loaʻa iā lākou iho i loko e kōkua i ke ola o ke aloha.
Me kēlā, ua hōʻuluʻulu mākou i kahi papa inoa o nā DO a me DON'T o nā kāne hauʻoli a puni ka honua. E hāhai i kēia mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo, a ma mua o kou ʻike ʻana, ʻo ʻoe a ʻo kāu wahine ʻo ia ka mea i lili nā mea āpau.
DO: Nā hana lokomaikaʻi ʻole i manaʻo ʻia
Hiki i ka male ke lilo i monotonous inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e akahele. Hoʻohui kekahi lā i ka lā aʻe, a laila ʻo ka manawa koke, 50 mau makahiki i lalo o ka laina a laki ʻoe inā hiki iā ʻoe ke lohe a ʻike paha kekahi i kekahi.
E wāwahi i ka monotony, pīhoihoi nā kāne hauʻoli i kā lākou mea aloha me kahi makana i manaʻo ʻole ʻia a hana lokomaikaʻi paha i kēlā me kēia manawa. ʻIke lākou inā hele lākou i nā ʻano, e nalowale koke kā lākou neʻe "hele i" i kā lākou ʻono.
ʻO Fellas, nā pua ma kahi Pōʻalima e pipili i kona lolo ma mua o nā mea i loaʻa iā ʻoe i kēlā me kēia makahiki no kou hoʻomanaʻo. E nā wahine, pīhoihoi iā ia me ka lāʻau kolepa āna e nānā nei e hoʻomanaʻo ʻia no nā makahiki.
ʻAʻole ia ʻo nā makana o nā lā hoʻomanaʻo a i ʻole nā makana lā hānau ke emi mai ka nui o ke ʻano; ʻoi aku ka nui o lākou manaʻo ʻia. ʻAʻole ʻoe pūʻiwa i ka wā e ʻōwili ai kēlā lā hoʻomanaʻo. Kuhi ʻia ka makana, no laila ʻaʻole e hoʻomanaʻo ʻia.
E kākau i nā memo mai nā kāne hauʻoli a hana i kahi mea maikaʻi no kāu wahine ke manaʻo ʻole ʻia ia. Mahalo ʻoe iaʻu ma hope.
MAI MAKA: Uoki i ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana
ʻOiai ka lōʻihi o ka noho aloha ʻana o ka male, hiki i nā hāʻule ke hāʻule ma ke ala i ka hala ʻana o ka manawa. Manaʻo paha ʻoe ma hope o kāu ʻōlelo ʻana "aloha au iā ʻoe" he 1,000 mau manawa a haʻi aku i kāu hoa e nānā maikaʻi lākou mai kēlā manawa a kēia manawa ua lawa kāu hana.
Hewa ʻoe.
Hauʻoli nā mākua hauʻoli ʻole i ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana i kekahi i kekahi. Ke holo nei ka manawa, pono pono e mālama i kāu pakanā i ka loop loop i kou ʻano a me kāu e manaʻo nei. Inā manaʻo lākou ʻaʻole ʻoe i loko o lākou, hiki i kekahi mau mea maikaʻi ʻole ke kū. Hiki iā lākou ke hoʻomaka e ʻimi i nā hoʻomaikaʻi ma nā wahi ʻē aʻe, kahi hiki ke maʻalahi i ka hilinaʻi a me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ma waena o kāu pilina. Hiki iā ia ke hoʻomaka e luku i ko lākou pono ponoʻī a lilo iā lākou i pūpū o kā lākou mea i hele mua. Ua male paha ʻoe i kahi wahine ʻōlinolino a i ʻole ke kāne ʻōpio dashing, akā inā kū ʻoe i ka haʻi ʻana iā lākou i kēia mau ʻoiaʻiʻo, e poina lākou iā ʻoe ma mua o kāu.
E hoʻomau i nā mahalo.
DO: huhū Nip i ka ʻōpuʻu
He huhū huhū ka huhū i kekahi pilina, a i ka male ʻana, hiki iā ia ke alakaʻi i ka hoʻokaʻawale a wehe paha i ka wikiwiki ma mua o kou manaʻo.
Hoʻopau nā kāne hauʻoli i ka huhū ma ke aʻa ma ke kamaʻilio maopopo ʻana me kekahi i kekahi a me ka hoʻāʻo ʻana e hoʻoholo pono i nā pilikia ke kū aʻe lākou i ka pilina. ʻAʻohe mea hemolele, a ʻo nā pilikia e hoʻopilikia ʻia i kekahi manawa i ka wā o ke ola like ʻana, akā hana nui nā kāne hauʻoli i ka waiho ʻana i kā lākou mau paio ʻaʻole e lilo i mau pilikia e noho ma lalo o ka honua no nā makahiki. Mālama pono lākou ia manawa i ia manawa no laila ʻaʻole ia e lilo i pilikia hou no nā makahiki a me nā makahiki a me nā makahiki.
Holoi i kou pili o ka huhū ma ka hoʻonā ʻana i ka pilikia i ka manawa mua. ʻO ka hoʻomaha ʻana i kēlā me kēia hoʻopaʻapaʻa ma hope o ka manawa e hoʻonāwaliwali wale ia i ke kahua o kāu male.
MAI MAKA: E hoʻomaka a hoʻopau paha i kou lā me ka honi ʻole
I nā manawa maikaʻi a me nā manawa maikaʻi ʻole, ke mālama nei i kēia maʻamau maʻamau i nā kāne a me ka wahine hauʻoli. ʻO ia ke ala ʻoi loa e hoʻomaka a hoʻopau i kou lā, akā he hoʻomanaʻo nui ia no ke aloha āu e kaʻana nei i ka wā e stagnant a kūpilikiʻi paha nā mea.
Ke ʻike nei ke kali nei kēlā honi me ka nānā ʻole i kēlā mau hakakā a i ʻole kūlike ʻole i ka manaʻo. He mea hoʻomanaʻo hohonu ia e ʻōlelo ana, "ʻike wau i nā mea o kēia manawa ke ʻano koʻikoʻi, akā hilinaʻi wau aloha nō wau iā ʻoe."
Lawe nā kāne hauʻoli ʻole i nā ʻano liʻiliʻi e like me kēia. Ua hoʻokuʻu lākou i hoʻokahi pō e hele a haʻalele i kekahi mau kakahiaka me ka hōʻike ʻole ʻana i kahi aloha iki i kā lākou hoa, a laila, ma mua o kou ʻike ʻana, ua hala ka huna ahi a lākou i kā lākou lā male.
E mālama i ke aloha a hāʻawi i kāu wahine a kāne paha i kahi kō i kou ala ʻana aʻe a i kou hiamoe ʻana e hiamoe. ʻO nā mea liʻiliʻi e like me kēia e mālama ai i ke aloha i ke ola.
ʻAʻole hemolele nā kāne hauʻoli
ʻAʻole laki nā kāne hauʻoli, pāʻani wale lākou i ka pāʻani ma ke ala kūpono. ʻAʻole kūpono lākou, akā ʻapo lākou i kēlā mau hemahema a haʻaheo ʻole e hana ma luna o lākou. Inā makemake ʻoe e lilo i mau mea hauʻoli e like me nā mea āu e ʻike ai, a laila e hāhai me kēia mau DO a me DON'T i kēlā me kēia manawa ke loaʻa iā ʻoe ka manawa kūpono.
E hoʻomaka me ka honi ʻana i kou aloha i kēia pō.
Pōmaikaʻi iā 'oe!