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- 1. Nānā ʻole ʻoe i kā lākou ʻaoʻao maikaʻi ʻole
- 2. Ua makemake ʻoe e mōhai
- 3. Manaʻoʻiʻo ʻoe he pono ko lākou i ka ʻoi loa
- 4. ʻAʻohe mea nui o kā lākou mau kīnā
- He aha ke aloha pau ʻole i ka male?
- E ʻike i nā hae ʻulaʻula!
ʻO ke aloha palena ʻole ke aloha i kekahi me ka ʻole o nā palena.
ʻO ke aloha i kekahi me ka pono ʻole ʻole i manaʻo ʻia i ka hoʻi ʻana. E hana lākou i kekahi mea no ka hauʻoli o ka mea ʻē aʻe. Kūleʻa ia i nā ʻano he nui o ko mākou ola.
Hiki i nā mea aloha, nā hoaaloha, a me kahi holoholona a me kāna mea nāna, ke kaʻana like i kēia ʻano aloha ʻoiai he ʻano kanaka ke hana i nā paʻa unbreakable kūikawā.
Kōkua kēia ʻano aloha i ke kanaka e ʻike i ka maikaʻi i loko o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe a ʻae i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe no ka nui o nā kīnā i loaʻa iā lākou. E nīnau paha kekahi, he aha ka wehewehe o ke aloha pau ʻole? ʻO ka wehewehe kikoʻī o ke kūlana ʻole ʻia ʻo ia ke "aloha me ka ʻole o nā kūlana."
Eia naʻe, ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī o ka ʻike ʻana i ke ʻano o ke aloha palena ʻole i nā ʻano hana.
Eia hou, e kamaʻilio mākou e pili ana i ke aloha aloha ʻole i ka pilina, ʻaʻole wale e pili ana i ke aloha aloha ʻole.
ʻO ke aloha palena ʻole i ka pilina e hoʻolilo iā lākou i kanaka maikaʻi loa i hiki iā lākou ke kākoʻo iā lākou a ʻae iā lākou e like me lākou. Aia paha kēia ʻano aloha i ko mākou ola āpau, akā ʻaʻole paha hiki iā mākou ke ʻike iā ia, ʻoiai aia kekahi mau hōʻailona e hiki ke kōkua iā mākou e ʻike.
1. Nānā ʻole ʻoe i kā lākou ʻaoʻao maikaʻi ʻole
Ke kū nei kēia ʻano aloha, ʻo ka mea wale nō e pili ana i ke kanaka ka nui o ka maikaʻi i loaʻa iā lākou ke ʻike ʻoe i kekahi kīnā nui i loko o lākou. Mau kou aloha iā lākou a kala aku iā lākou me ka noʻonoʻo ʻole.
ʻAʻohe ou ʻae like a me ke kala ʻana no nā poʻe ʻē aʻe i kou ola.
2. Ua makemake ʻoe e mōhai
ʻO ka mōhai kekahi o nā hōʻailona nui loa o ke aloha palena ʻole ʻoiai ʻoe e kau maoli nei i kā lākou hauʻoli a me nā pono i mua o kāu.
ʻAe ʻoe e hāʻawi i kahi mea nui iā ʻoe.
ʻAʻole maʻalahi ke aloha palena ʻole.
3. Manaʻoʻiʻo ʻoe he pono ko lākou i ka ʻoi loa
ʻO ke aloha aloha ʻole ʻia e hōʻoia i ka hauʻoli no kāu pakanā.
Makemake ʻoe e hāʻawi iā lākou i nā mea āpau e hiki ai iā lākou ke hauʻoli. Ma waho aʻe o kēlā, makemake ʻoe e lilo lākou i mea ʻoi loa o kā lākou iho, i hiki ai iā lākou ke ulu ma ke ʻano he kanaka a ma ke ʻano he hoa.
4. ʻAʻohe mea nui o kā lākou mau kīnā
Ke aloha ʻoe iā lākou me ka ʻole o ka hopena, ʻo ia hoʻi aloha ʻoe i ko lākou ʻaoʻao pouli. Hoʻopili pū ia i nā mea āpau mai kā lākou ʻano maikaʻi ʻole i kā lākou mau hewa.
ʻO ka mea nui, ʻapo ʻoe i kēia mau kīnā a kōkua iā lākou e hoʻololi a hoʻomaikaʻi. E ʻaʻa mau ʻoe e mālama i ka pilina me ke olakino ʻoiai inā he mea ia nou e wehe iā ʻoe iho a puka i waho o kāu pūpū.
He aha ke aloha pau ʻole i ka male?
He mea ia e aloha aku ai i kāu wahine ma loko o nā pākaʻi paʻakikī a me nā hakakā. ʻO ka manaʻo e noho pū me lākou ʻoiai ʻoe e hakakā ana a hoʻomanaʻo hoʻi ʻaʻole ʻoe i kūʻē i kekahi i kekahi. Ma kahi o ʻoe, ʻo ʻoe a me lākou e kūʻē i ka pilikia.
Pono ʻoe e hoʻoholo e hoʻoholo i nā pilikia.
Ke hele mai nā keiki i ke kiʻi, he mea nui e hoʻomaopopo ʻoiai ʻo ka hapa nui o kou manawa e hoʻopau ʻia e kāu keiki, pono ʻoe e hoʻolilo i manawa no kāu wahine.
Kūleʻa ka hakakā ʻana i nā male, a me ka hōʻeha ʻana i kekahi i kekahi ʻaʻole hiki ke alo ʻia i kekahi manawa.
Eia nō naʻe, he mea nui ka loaʻa ʻana o kāu mau hewa, a ʻo ka neʻe ʻana i mua ka pahuhopu nui.
ʻAʻole wale ka hoʻoponopono ʻana i nā pilikia akā ke ʻae nei i nā ʻokoʻa a me ka ʻimi ʻana i kahi pae waena i mea e mālama pono ai i ka pilina ʻo ia kekahi ʻāpana o ke aloha palena ʻole.
ʻO ke kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā mea āpau ke kūkulu i ka hilinaʻi.
He manaʻo maikaʻi mau e kūkākūkā i ke aloha palena ʻole iā ʻolua a inā paha aia kēia ʻano aloha ma waena o ʻolua. Ma hope o nā mea āpau, ʻo ia ke kī i kahi male kūleʻa.
I kēia manawa he maopopo maopopo iā mākou no ke aloha palenaʻole, hiki iā mākou ke neʻe i ka mea ʻaʻole akā kuhihewa pinepine ʻia.
E ʻike i nā hae ʻulaʻula!
I nā manawa he nui, ʻike ʻole ka poʻe i nā hemahema o ka lawena a kā lākou hoa e hoʻohana ana i ke aloha palena ʻole e like me ka hoʻāpono. ʻAʻole maʻalahi nā hae ʻulaʻula ke ʻike ʻia ke makapō ʻoe e ke aloha, a hiki i nā mea ʻoi o mākou.
I kekahi manawa hoʻomanawanui mākou me ka hoʻomāinoino no ka mea, no ka mea hoʻokahi, ʻaʻole maopopo iā mākou he aha ia.
ʻAʻole hoʻomāinoino wale ka hoʻomāinoino.
Nui a hewahewa nā ʻano hana ʻino i hiki ke nānā ʻole ʻia ma ka inoa o ke aloha. Inā haʻohaʻo ka pilina iā ʻoe, “He aha ke aloha palena ʻole? He aha ke ʻano o ke aloha pau ʻole, a ʻo ia kēia? ”, A laila ʻaʻole ia paha ka hoʻoholo maikaʻi loa e noho ai.
ʻO ke ʻano o ke aloha aloha ʻole ke aloha palena ʻole ʻia akā ʻaʻole i ka helu āu e hoʻomanawanui ai i ka naʻau a me ka noʻonoʻo no ke aloha.
Maikaʻi ke noho i lalo no kekahi manawa a noʻonoʻo e pili ana inā he aloha palena ʻole a i ʻole kekahi mea ʻē aʻe. Inā ʻoe e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ke aloha unconditional a me kou manaʻo o ia, a laila aia paha kekahi mea hewa i kāu pili.