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- Kānāwai i nā maka o ke kānāwai ma nā wahi āpau e komo pū ana me nā mokuʻāina conservative
- Kaʻana like ʻana i nā kuleana i nā pono like me nā kamaʻāina ʻē aʻe
- Ma ka flipside, aia kekahi mauna o ka hana pepa a me ka lipine ʻulaʻula
- ʻO kahi hoʻololi paradigm nui i ka ʻae ʻana i ka male kāne male
Ma luna o ʻelua mau ʻāina he ʻumi a puni ka honua i ʻae ʻia i ka male male a like ʻole, a ʻo kekahi hui "ʻike" i ka male kāne like. Akā he aha ka male male kāne like, a he aha ke ʻano o ka "hoʻomaopopo"? Ua lilo kēia wahi kontroversial i ka nūhou i kēia mau lā, no laila e nānā i ke ʻano o kēia. Ua hōʻuluʻulu mākou i kahi kime o ka poʻe kamaʻāina me ka male kāne male hoʻokahi e kōkua e wehewehe iki e pili ana i ka mōʻaukala a me ke kūlana o kēia wahi male hou a ʻike ʻoe i nā mea āpau e pili ana i ka male kāne like.
ʻO ka mea mua, ʻo ka male male kāne like ka mea e like me ke ʻano: ka male male ma waena o ʻelua mau mea like. Ua hoʻoholo ka ʻaha hoʻokolokolo kiʻekiʻe o ʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa i ka makahiki 2015 he kuleana kumukānāwai ka male male a male ʻole a no laila he kānāwai i nā mokuʻāina he kanalima. Ma mua o 2015, ua ʻae ʻia e kekahi mau mokuʻāina, akā i ka wā a ka ʻAha Hoʻokolokolo Kiʻi i hoʻoholo ai i ka mōʻaukala, ua lilo ia i kānāwai o ka ʻāina.
Ua hoʻomanaʻo nui ʻia ka ʻatikala kānāwai Kumukanawai ʻo Eric Brown, i ua ʻōlelo hoʻoholo lā, "ʻAʻole wau e poina i kēlā lā ʻOkakopa. He mōʻaukala a koʻikoʻi hoʻi e like me ka mea i hoʻoholo ʻia e nā ʻĀina Kivila. Ma ka hoʻolilo ʻana i mea kūpono, ua like nā kuleana o nā kāne male like me nā kāne hou. I kēia manawa hiki iā lākou ke lilo i kūpono no nā pono o ka wahine ma ka wahi hana, no ka palekana kaiāulu, ʻinikua, a i ka waiho ʻana i ka ʻauhau loaʻa. Ma ke kānāwai, hiki i nā kāne a me ka wahine like ke lilo i "hope o ka hanauna" ke hiki mai e hoʻopiha i nā ʻano luna a me ka hoʻoholo ʻana i ka lāʻau. Ua loli ka ʻāina holoʻokoʻa me ka hoʻoholo nui o ka ʻAha Hoʻokolokolo Kiʻi. ”
Kānāwai i nā maka o ke kānāwai ma nā wahi āpau e komo pū ana me nā mokuʻāina conservative
ʻO Peter Granston, kahi mea kākau puke i kāna 40 mau makahiki, e noho pū ana me kāna hoa, ʻo Richard Livingston, he kaukōlani pulmonary, no ʻumi mau makahiki. Ua haʻi ʻo Peter i ka male.com, “Ua uē wau. Ua uē maoli wau i koʻu lohe ʻana i ka ʻōlelo hoʻoholo a ka ʻAha Kiʻi. Ua huakaʻi maoli ʻo Richard me aʻu a ua male māua ma 2014 ma Massachusetts, akā ʻaʻole ʻike ʻia kā māua male i ko mākou home home. Ua kū kānāwai mākou i nā maka o ke kānāwai ma nā wahi āpau e pili ana i kā mākou kūlana conservative. Ua hoʻomaka koke wau e hoʻolālā i kahi hoʻolauleʻa male male nui ma kahi hui kūloko.
Pēlā e hiki ai i kēlā me kēia – nā hoa hana mai ka hana, nā hoaaloha o ka wā holoʻokoʻa, ka ʻohana, nā poʻe āpau ke hele mai i ka ʻahaʻaina weliweli loa. " Ua hoʻomau me ka hoihoi, “A he lā aha ia. Ua hoʻolilo mākou i kahi kālā liʻiliʻi no ka mea he manawa kēia i kahi hanana holoʻokoʻa. Ua makemake mākou i nā poʻe a pau i ʻāpana o ko mākou ola e hoʻolauleʻa i kā mākou male male ʻana me mākou. Ua huki mākou i nā kū a pau: ka punawai champagne, caviar a me blinis, kahi hui ola. Ua hulahula mākou a hiki i ka puka ʻana a ka lā. ”
Kaʻana like ʻana i nā kuleana i nā pono like me nā kamaʻāina ʻē aʻe
ʻO Gloria Hunter, 32, he heʻenalu mākaukau polū ʻoiaʻiʻo ia e hana ana ma ke ʻano he pailaka me kahi mokulele nui. "ʻAʻole wau i noʻonoʻo nui i ka male, no ka mea, ua koʻikoʻi koʻu aʻo ʻana a me kaʻu aʻo ʻana. Ua ʻike wau ʻaʻole hiki i ka male, no laila ua hoʻokuʻu wau iā ia ma ke ʻano he hiki ʻole i ke ola, ma ke ʻano he mea e hiki ke ʻoliʻoli ʻia e nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, akā ʻaʻole wau ʻoiai ʻo kaʻu hoa o ʻewalu mau makahiki, ʻo Michelle, he wahine. ʻAʻole ia i hoʻopilikia maoli iā mākou a hiki i koʻu ʻeha ʻana i kahi ulana heʻe nalu, i ka haukapila, a ʻaʻole i ʻae ʻia ʻo Michelle e ʻike iaʻu no ka mea ua pāpā ikaika nā rula o ka haukapila i kekahi o nā ʻohana pili kokoke ʻole e kipa. Ua ʻōlelo ikaika ʻo ia, “Ua huhū ʻo Michelle. ʻAʻohe oʻu ʻohana ma waena o ʻelua tausani mile, a ʻaʻole hiki i ke aloha o koʻu ola ke kipa?
ʻO ka mea pōmaikaʻi, ua hoʻokuʻu ʻia wau i loko o kekahi mau lā, akā ʻoiai wau e moe ana i luna o kahi moe o ka haukapila, ua ʻike wau ma kekahi mokuʻāina hiki iā mākou ke male, a ʻaʻole loa wau e hana hou me kēia ʻano hoʻokae mai kahi haukapila. Me ka minoʻaka ākea, hoʻomau ʻo Gloria, "Nānā mākou i nā wahi like ʻole o ka male ma nā mokuʻāina kahi i kū kānāwai ai ka male male ʻole, akā no kekahi kumu a i ʻole ʻē aʻe, ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke ʻae.
I waenakonu o ko mākou hoʻāʻo ʻana e loaʻa kahi, ua hoʻoholo ʻia ka ʻaha kiʻekiʻe loa. E ʻae ʻoe iaʻu e haʻi iā ʻoe e pili ana i kā mākou male male: ua male mākou ma kahakai me 150 o ko mākou mau hoaaloha a me ko mākou ʻohana i ke alo, a ua hala mākou i ka heenalu ʻana i loko o ʻekolu mau kai ʻokoʻa. ʻOiai he mea kupaianaha kēlā, ʻo ka mea ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi noʻu, a no nā kamaʻāina āpau, ke kuleana like nei mākou i ka hauʻoli male a me nā pono e like me ke kipa ʻana i ka haukapila, e like me nā kamaʻāina ʻē aʻe. ʻO ke kaulike ʻoiaʻiʻo ia. ”
Ma ka flipside, aia kekahi mauna o ka hana pepa a me ka lipine ʻulaʻula
ʻO ka male male kāne ʻole, ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole ia he kuleana ākea ma ka honua holoʻokoʻa, akā he aha ka mea e hana ʻia inā he kamaʻāina kekahi o ʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa a ʻo ka hoa ʻē aʻe ʻaʻole ia. I ka wā ma mua, ʻaʻohe hiki i ka male male kāne ke kāne, akā i kēia manawa hiki ke hana ʻia. ʻOiaʻiʻo, aia kekahi mauna o ka hana pepa a me ka lipine ʻulaʻula. Ua hui ʻo Bruce Hoffmeister, 36, i kāna hoapili lōʻihi, ʻo Luis Ecargon, 50, ma ke kula ʻōlelo Sepania ma Cuernavaca, Mexico. Ua ʻakaʻaka ʻo Bruce i ka haʻi pololei ʻana i kā lāua hui ʻana. "Ua noi ʻia wau e kuʻu kumu e hele i ke keʻena e hoʻonohonoho e hoʻonoho ʻia i kahi papa haʻahaʻa no ka mea ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke hoʻomaopopo i kahi huaʻōlelo i ʻōlelo ʻia. ʻO Luna ka luna hoʻomalu a lohe ʻo ia iaʻu e hoʻāʻo nei e ʻōlelo ma ka ʻōlelo Paniolo, hoʻonoho ʻo ia iaʻu ma ka pae haʻahaʻa loa. Ua hoʻolōʻihi wau i ʻekolu mau mahina e hoʻāʻo ana e aʻo, a i ka hopena, ua maikaʻi wau. Aia ʻo Luis ma ka hana hoʻopau, hele mai e hoʻomaikaʻi iaʻu a ʻōlelo ʻo ia e hele ʻo ia ma Los Angeles i ka mahina aʻe. Ua noi au iā ia e kāhea iaʻu inā aia ʻo ia ma LA, a ʻo ke koena ka moʻolelo.
Ua hele pū mākou ʻelua ma waena o nā ʻāina no nā makahiki ma muli o ke kaohi o ka visa. ” Ua hoʻohui ʻo Luis, “nā mile lele pinepine a mākou i hōʻiliʻili ai i kēlā manawa i uku ʻia no ka mahina meli o ka honua! I kēia manawa, waiho ʻia kaʻu pepa me ka Immigration a hiki iaʻu ke hana kū kānāwai ma aneʻi. " Hiki i kekahi makaʻāinana U.S. ke noi no kahi palapala noho (ka mea i kapa ʻia ʻo "kāleka ʻōmaʻomaʻo" no kāna wahine ʻē ʻē ʻānō. Hōʻike kēia i ke kaʻina hana a me nā ʻano.
ʻO kahi hoʻololi paradigm nui i ka ʻae ʻana i ka male kāne male
ʻOi aku ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa o ka male kāne like ʻole i kekahi mau pōʻai. Eia naʻe, ʻaneʻane ʻelua ʻekolu o nā ʻAmelika e kūʻēʻē iā ia. ʻO ke ola, ke kūʻokoʻa a me ka ʻimi ʻana i ka hauʻoli nā huaʻōlelo i loaʻa i ka Declaration of Independence, ka male ʻana no nā ʻAmelika āpau me ka nānā ʻole i ka moekolohe i kēia manawa he kuleana kīwila koʻikoʻi.