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- Pehea ka lōʻihi e kali ai ʻoe ma mua o ka moekolohe?
- He koho maikaʻi paha ka moekolohe ma ka lā mua?
- ʻO ka manawa kūpono e moe kolohe ma hope o ke kau ʻana?
Ke nīnau nei paha ka nui o nā kāne hou iā lākou iho i kēia nīnau. i ka manawa hea ka manawa kūpono e hoʻomaka ai e moekolohe i ka pilina?
ʻO ke kāne a me ka wahine pū i ka pilina me ka moekolohe ʻole kahi manaʻo hiki ʻole ke ʻike ʻia, akā pehea ka lōʻihi o ka manawa optimum no ka hui mua e hana?
ʻOiai he nīnau paʻakikī paha ia, maʻalahi ka pane, a ma o ka ʻike a mākou e kaʻana aku ai iā ʻoe i kēia ʻatikala, e hāʻawi ʻia ʻoe e ka hopena o kahi lima alakaʻi i ka hoʻoponopono ʻana i kēia pilikia kahiko.
Pehea ka lōʻihi e kali ai ʻoe ma mua o ka moekolohe?
Ke kū kēia pilikia, ʻaʻole mālama ka hapa nui o nā kāne iā ia. Eia nō naʻe, paʻa i kekahi mea nui no lākou ke hiki mai i ka manawa manawa; ʻo kahi laʻana, inā pili koke ka moekolohe (i ka lā mua), e hoʻokolokolo paha kekahi mau kāne i kā lākou mau hoa me he frivolous lā.
No kekahi mau wahine, ke moekolohe koke me he mea lā he manaʻo kūpono ia, akā makemake nā poʻe ʻē aʻe e kali lōʻihi a loaʻa iā lākou ka "manawa kūpono."
ʻIke ka hapa nui o nā wahine i ka "moekolohe" e like me ka "aloha", a mai hoʻohaʻahaʻa i kā lākou mau mea pili pili i ka maʻalahi.
Inā kūleʻa mākou, i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻohe manawa kūpono, no ka mea, pili i ka koho a me ka pōʻaiapili o kēlā me kēia. Hoʻowalewale ʻia kekahi e ka leʻaleʻa moekolohe a ke nānā nei paha kekahi i ke aloha.
ʻO nā mea āpau paha, e kamaʻilio hou aʻe e pili ana i ka moekolohe ma ka lā mua.
He koho maikaʻi paha ka moekolohe ma ka lā mua?
E like me kā mākou i ʻōlelo ai ma mua, pehea ka lōʻihi e kali ai ʻoe i ka moekolohe? kahi mea o ke koho pilikino a me ka pōʻaiapili.
ʻO ka moekolohe koke ʻana ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo maikaʻi ʻole, no ka mea e hālāwai paha ʻoe me kekahi mea āu e ʻike ai mai nā manawa mua he hohonu kou, a me ka magnetism carnal i waena o ʻolua.
I ka manawa hea ʻoe e moekolohe ai hiki ʻole ke maikaʻi ke moe kolohe nā nīnau ʻelua i pane ʻia ma hope o ka mea mua: he aha kāu e ʻimi nei?
Inā ʻoe e ʻimi nei no ka leʻaleʻa, a laila e hele me ke kahe; akā, inā ʻoe e ʻimi ana i kahi mea ʻoi aku ke koʻikoʻi i ke kūlohelohe a hoʻopili pū me kekahi, e lawe i kou manawa a pāʻani i kāu kāleka.
ʻO ka manawa kūpono e moe kolohe ma hope o ke kau ʻana?
Āhea ʻoe e moekolohe ai? ʻĀ, hele ka hapa nui o ka poʻe me ka "rula ʻekolu lā." He aha ka manaʻo o kēia? ʻĀ, ʻōlelo ke lula ʻo ke kolu o ka lā ka leʻaleʻa laki e like me ka manawa kūpono ke maikaʻi ke moe kolohe.
ʻO ka moekolohe ʻana me kāu ipo a me kāu ipo wahine, ʻaʻole ia he kumu he maʻalahi a hemo paha ʻoe. E hoʻopau ʻoe i kēia hana, no laila no ke aha e hele ʻole ai no ka wanaʻao?
Inā hoʻolohi ʻia kahi pilina no kekahi manawa, lilo paha kāu pakanā i ka hoihoi iā ʻoe, a i ʻole hoʻomaka e ʻike i ka paranoid no ke kumu o kēia hana. No laila, pehea ka lōʻihi e kali ma mua o ka moekolohe?
Maʻalahi loa e lawe i ka moekolohe i loko o ka pōʻaiapili o ke kūkulu ʻana i kahi pilina me kekahi, akā makemake kekahi mau wahine e hoʻomāinoino nui i kā lākou mau hoa ma ka hoʻāʻo ʻana iā lākou no ʻekolu a ʻehā paha mahina.
Maopopo kēia, ma kekahi ʻano, e pili ana i ka lōʻihi o ka lā ma mua o ka moekolohe ʻana no ka wahine, no ka mea inā hiki i ke kāne ke hoʻomanawanui i ka hoʻāʻo no kēlā manawa, ua aloha nui ʻia ʻo ia me ia, a mahalo iā ia mai nā kuanaʻike ʻē aʻe ma mua o ka moekolohe wale nō. makemake
ʻO ka moekolohe ʻana me kahi mea āu e aloha ai kekahi o nā makana makamae loa i hiki i ke kanaka ke uku ʻia i ke ola, a me ka moekolohe ʻana me kāu ipo a ipo paha ma hope o ka hoʻolōʻihi hoʻolōʻihi ʻana e hiki ke hōʻoia iā ia iho he ʻoi aku ka ikaika o ka ʻike.
Āhea ka manawa kūpono e moekolohe a pehea ka lōʻihi e kali ai ma mua o ka moekolohe a, ʻo ka hopena, nā pane e ʻike ai ʻoe i ka pane i ka manawa kūpono?
ʻEkolu a ʻehā paha mahina ka lōʻihi o ka lā ma mua o ka moekolohe inā koʻikoʻi ʻoe e pili ana i kekahi a makemake e hoʻāʻo iā lākou, a moe kolohe me kekahi āu e aloha ai, e like me ka moekolohe ʻana me kāu ipo a ipo wahine paha, kahi ʻano ʻokoʻa.
ʻO ka moekolohe kahi mea hana, a hiki i kēlā me kēia o mākou ke hoʻohana ia mea e like me kona manaʻo. Aia ia i ka mea āu e makemake ai a me ka mea āu e ʻimi nei.