Anter
- Paʻa hakakā ʻole
- Nā kūlana pālua
- Ke nalowale nei i kou ʻano iho
- Mai kūʻokoʻa e kau i kāu mau pono ponoʻī ma mua
- ʻO ka pono e mānoanoa loa i kaʻili a me ke kūpaʻa
Mai hana i iwi e pili ana iā ia; ke hui mua kekahi me kā lākou wahine narcissist, ua hoʻokau ʻia lākou me nā ʻano hihiu a me nā hana o ke aloha a me ka hoʻokō.
Ua kāhili ʻia paha lākou i ko lākou mau wāwae a noʻonoʻo e pili ana ka ʻōlelo noʻeau 'naita i nā pale kaua' a i ʻole ua hālāwai lāua me ke kāne a wahine paha i kūpilikiʻi loa i hiki iā lāua ke launa pū.
Ua mālama paha kā lākou hoa narcissistic (wahine i kēia manawa) i ka mālama ʻana i kēia alo a lōʻihi a hiki i ko lākou ʻike hiki ke waiho i ko lākou kiaʻi i lalo.
Ua maopopo paha iā lākou ke hiki mai kēlā manawa; he mea maʻalahi iā lākou e hoʻomaopopo no ka mea e hoʻokō lākou i kā lākou pahuhopu e hōʻoiaʻiʻo iā ʻoe ʻo ʻoe a ʻo lākou nā match kūpono loa i hiki ke loaʻa i kou lima i ka male.
ʻOiaʻiʻo, he mau manaʻo paha ko lākou e pili ana i ke ʻano o ka mea a lākou e ʻōlelo ai a hoʻokomo i kā lākou ʻike i ka male akā e alo i nā ʻoiaʻiʻo. ʻO lākou wale nō kā lākou makemake.
He pawn wale ʻoe i ka pāʻani inā paha ma ka maikaʻi a lākou i manaʻo ai e ʻike i ka ʻike o ka 'aloha' a me ka male a i ʻole ko lākou ʻike ʻana iā ia.
ʻIke ʻoe ʻaʻole hana nā narcissist i kekahi mea no ka loaʻa o ka mea ʻē aʻe e like me ka hoʻopili ʻana; ʻaʻole lākou e noʻonoʻo i ka manaʻo o haʻi, a ʻaʻohe o lākou aloha a aloha paha. Ma kahi o, pili iā lākou āpau.
No laila inā ʻoe e noʻonoʻo e male i kahi narcissist e makaʻala.
Eia ka mea e manaʻo ai ke male ʻoe i kahi narcissist:
Paʻa hakakā ʻole
He mea ʻole ka mea āu e makemake ai, ka mea āu e pono ai, a i ʻole ka nui o kāu kaulike mai kāu kāne aku, hoʻokahi mea āu e manaʻo ai ke male ʻoe i kahi narcissist ʻaʻole kekahi o kā lākou hopohopo.
ʻOiai paʻakikī e like me ke kani, he ʻoiaʻiʻo.
Inā loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi wahine narcissist, ʻo kā lākou mea nui wale i kā lākou mau pono a me kā lākou papa kuhikuhi. No laila nā mea āu e pono ai, pono ʻoe e hana pū me ʻoe a i ʻole e māʻona i kahi ʻē.
ʻAʻole mākou e ʻae i kēia hana narcissistic, ʻaʻole ia ke kumu o ka male olakino, a pono ʻoe e manaʻo i ka hoʻopono, aloha, a me ka mālama mai kāu wahine. Kūpono mākou āpau i kēlā, akā ʻaʻole ʻoe e lawe ia mai kahi wahine Narcissistic.
Nā kūlana pālua
ʻO ka manaʻo hoʻohoka ʻole āu e alo ai ke male ʻoe i kahi narcissist nā kūlana kaulua.
Pono ʻoe e hoʻoponopono i ka hakakā, no ka laʻana, pono ʻoe e hāʻawi i kāu wahine narcissist i kahi ʻano o ka hoʻopono, pono ʻoe e hōʻike iā lākou i kou makemake a pono iā lākou, pono ʻoe e hoʻopili, aloha, a mālama i kāu wahine, a pono ʻoe e hana ia pehea lākou e makemake ai i hiki ke hoʻololi.
Akā ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke kali i ka mea like i ka hoʻihoʻi.
E like me ia i wehewehe ʻia i ka ʻāpana hakakā 'ʻole i hoʻoponopono ʻia ʻo kēia wale nō ka pehea inā ʻoe e male i kahi narcissist.
Ke nalowale nei i kou ʻano iho
Ma muli o nā kuʻikahi, e hana ʻoe; ka nele o ke aloha, ka hele wāwae ʻana i nā ʻāpana hua manu āu e hana ai, ka pandering āu e hana ai ke male ʻoe i kahi narcissist, i ka hala ʻana o ka manawa, e nalo ana kou ʻano iā ʻoe iho.
E hoʻomanaʻo e male ʻoe, e paʻa a noho pū me kāu wahine a he mau keiki kāu.
Hoʻokahi wale nō mea e hiki i kahi kanaka ke lawe, a pono ʻoe e mākaukau e hoʻokuʻi ʻia i kēlā wahi, ʻoiai ke nawaliwali nei a hoʻopoina iā ʻoe.
Mai kūʻokoʻa e kau i kāu mau pono ponoʻī ma mua
E like me ka ʻōlelo o nā kumuhana āpau i luna inā ua ʻike ʻoe i nā hopena o ka male ʻana i kahi narcissist, e ʻike mua ʻoe i ka hohonu loa o ʻoe.
Akā pono ʻoe e ʻike ʻaʻole ʻoe e noa e kau i kāu mau pono ma mua (ʻo ia ka mea e hiki ai ke hoʻopau i nā huakaʻi i waho, ʻaʻole e leʻaleʻa i kāu mau hoʻolauleʻa, a i ʻole hiki ke kamaʻilio i kāu mau pono maʻamau e like me ka maluhia a me ka hāmau a i ʻole hana i nā mea āu e makemake ai e hana) inā ʻoe e male i kāu wahine narcissistic.
ʻO kēia ka mea e manaʻo ai ke male ʻoe i kahi narcissist.
ʻO ka pono e mānoanoa loa i kaʻili a me ke kūpaʻa
Inā ʻoe e haʻohaʻo nei i ka mea ʻē aʻe e manaʻo ai ke male ʻoe i kahi narcissist, ʻeā, pono ʻoe e ʻili ʻeleʻele.
Inā paha e weluwelu kou kapa kila i ka manawa o ka manawa e koe e ʻike ʻia, malia paha hiki iā ʻoe ke noho i ka ʻili ʻeleʻele a me ke kūpaʻa akā pono ʻoe e hana i kēia?
Pono ʻoe e noʻonoʻo pono i ka male ʻana i kahi narcissist inā ʻike ʻoe he pono ʻoe e ʻeleʻele-ʻili a kūpaʻa hoʻi, pono ʻoe e mōhai nui e mare i ka narcissist?
ʻO ka mea iā ʻoe ke koho a ka mea āu e male ai a lilo i ke koena o kou ola me, ʻoiaʻiʻo ke aloha paha ʻoe me kāu ipo akā inā ʻoe e manaʻo ʻo ka male ʻana i kahi narcissist e lilo i makani a ʻoluʻolu hoʻi e noʻonoʻo hou.
I ko mākou neʻe ʻana i ke ola a ko mākou mau pono e loli, i kekahi manawa pono mākou e ikaika no kā mākou wahine, i nā manawa ʻē aʻe e kākoʻo kā mākou mau wahine iā mākou, e lilo mākou i nāwaliwali i kekahi manawa akā i kēia hiki ʻole i laila kāu kāne ma laila.
ʻAʻole e pili ka pilina a me ka pilina e pono ai i ka male, a e alo ʻoe i ke ola wale nō a me ka manaʻo he neoneo ma mua o kāu e noʻonoʻo ai.
Ma mua o kou lawe ʻana i ka luʻu, inā ʻoe e manaʻo he narcissist kāu wahine hoʻopalau, e kū a noʻonoʻo hou. ʻAʻole wale ia i kēia manawa e hāʻawi nei ʻoe i kāu wahine akā i kou wā e hiki mai ana.
Ma ka liʻiliʻi loa, ma mua o kou male ʻana he mea pono e noʻonoʻo i ke komo ʻana i kahi ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo ma mua o ka male male ʻana, a i ʻole me kāu ipo, inā hiki iā ʻoe ke kiʻi iā lākou e hele. ʻO kēlā ka mea liʻiliʻi hiki iā ʻoe ke hana nāu iho.