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- Pono mākou āpau i kahi leo a me kahi palekana
- 1. ʻAeʻae
- 2. Nā palena i ka nānā ʻana
- 3. Ke hoʻi nei i kona manaʻoʻiʻo
- 4. Nā leʻaleʻa waho
Loaʻa ka hilinaʻi ʻole i ka male ma nā ʻano like ʻole. ʻAʻohe ʻano ʻelua i like, ʻoiai like ka nui. Hele mai nā kāne he nui i ka therapy e hana ma waena o ka infidelity a hoʻihoʻi a loaʻa hou i kā lāua male. Akā no kekahi, hele wale mai kahi kanaka e noʻonoʻo i nā mea, ʻoiai lākou e nīnau inā pono lākou e noho a haʻalele paha.
Ke male nei i ka cheater serial
Ua hala ʻo Susana, 51 ma mua o 20 mau makahiki. He ʻekolu mau keiki a lāua me kāna kāne (17, 15, 11). He haipule loa ʻo ia a ua hele mai ia mai kahi home kahi i haʻalele ai kona mau mākua ma muli o ka nui o ka hana a kona makuakāne. Eia nō naʻe, ʻoiai nā mea nui, ʻaʻole makemake kona makuahine i ka pau ʻana o ka male a hoʻomau i ka noho ʻana a haʻalele i kona makuakāne.
ʻAʻole ʻo ia i ulu a nui aʻe akā ʻo ka mea āna i ulu ai me kahi makuahine - ʻo ia no kāna mau kumu hoʻomana ponoʻī - ʻaʻole i manaʻo hemo ka wahine. Ua hoʻoikaika ʻia kēia i loko o kona ola.
Ua ʻōlelo kona makuahine no ka noho pū ʻana me ke kāne me ka nānā ʻole i nā mea e hana ʻia - koe wale nō ka hoʻomāinoino kino. Ua hakakā lākou ma hope o ka haʻaleleʻana o kona mau mākua. ʻAʻole ia he manawa maikaʻi nona a me kona mau kaikaina.
Ua kaumaha loa ʻo Susana ma ke ʻano he mākaʻikaʻi me kona makuakāne a ma ka manawa like e nānā ai i ka pilikia o kona makuahine. Mai kēlā mau ʻike i ke ola, ua hoʻoholo ʻo ia ʻaʻole ia e hana i kāna mau keiki, inā ʻo ia e male a loaʻa nā keiki - ʻo ia hoʻi e noho ʻo ia i ka male, me ka nānā ʻole.
ʻO ka mea hoʻohenehene ʻo ia kekahi i mare ʻia me kahi cheater serial. Akā no ka mea he haipule Karistiano ʻo ia a ʻaʻole hoʻomāinoino ʻia ʻo ia, ʻaʻole ia e haʻalele i ka male.
He nui nā hana a ke kāne a Susana. ʻAʻole ʻo ia i kū. Nānā mau ʻo ia i ka ʻike, nā ʻike, ka mea e hōʻoia ai i kona ʻōpū ke manaʻo ua pio kekahi mea, ʻo ia e hoʻopunipuni nei. Aia mau i kona manaʻo. Ua hoʻopau i ka hapa nui o kona lā. Ka nui o kona ikaika.
Ua ʻike ʻo ia i kekahi mau kelepona hou a kāhea aku i nā wahine. Kūpono iā lākou. Ua hiki nō ke ʻōlelo, ua huhū ia nona. Me kēlā me kēia ʻike, ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke manaʻo ʻo kona ola kēia (akā ʻo ia!) Mālama ʻia ʻo ia i kālā. Ua moekolohe lākou. Ua alo ʻo ia i kāna kāne akā ʻaʻole i loaʻa ka hopena.
ʻOiai i hopu ʻia, ʻaʻole ʻo ia e haʻi. Ua hoʻomaka ʻo ia i ka therapy. Ua hele pū ʻo ia me ia i hoʻokahi manawa, akā he manawa pōkole kona ola. Hana lākou āpau.
Inā ʻaʻole makemake kekahi e ʻili hou i nā papa, e wehe ʻia, a kūʻē i ko lākou mau daimonio no ke kumu e hoʻopunipuni ai lākou, ʻaʻohe manaʻolana.
A lana ka manaʻo o kekahi e hoʻololi paha kā lākou wahine, ma ka hope loa, he manawa pōkole ia.
Pono mākou āpau i kahi leo a me kahi palekana
Ma ke ʻano he ʻano lapaʻau i kēia ʻano hanana, hiki i kēia manawa ke paʻakikī, ʻaʻole wau e wahaheʻe. Manaʻo wau e pili ana i ka manaʻo o ke kanaka e pili ana iā lākou iho ke koho lākou e noho i kahi male kolohe, hana ʻia me ka wahaheʻe ʻole, kumakaia, a me ka hilinaʻi ʻole.
Akā ua kau wau i nā paleki i kēlā mau manaʻo i ka manawa koke, no ka mea he manaʻo kolohe, 'hoʻokolokolo', a kaulike ʻole. ʻAʻole kēlā ʻo wau ma ke ʻano he kauka.
Hoʻomaopopo koke wau iaʻu iho he koʻikoʻi e hālāwai me ke kanaka ma hea lākou a ʻaʻole ma kahi aʻu e manaʻo ai. Ma hope o nā mea āpau, ʻaʻole ia kaʻu papa kuhikuhi, na lākou ia.
No laila, no ke aha i hele mai ai ʻo Susana i ka lāʻau lapaʻau inā ua maopopo iā ia ʻaʻole ia e haʻalele i ka male?
No hoʻokahi, pono mākou āpau i kahi leo a me kahi palekana. ʻAʻole hiki iā ia ke kamaʻilio me kāna mau hoaaloha no ka mea ua maopopo iā ia kā lākou e ʻōlelo ai. Ua ʻike ʻo ia e hoʻokolokolo ʻia ʻo ia.
ʻAʻole hiki iā ia ke hōʻike iā ia iho i ka indiscretions mau a kāna kāne me kona makuahine no ka mea makemake nui ʻo ia i kāna hūnōna kāne a ʻaʻole makemake e hōʻike iā ia i kahi ala a pane i kāna mau koho - ʻoiai ʻo kona makuahine i hana i ka hoʻokahi like.
ʻIke wale ʻo ia i ka paʻa, paʻa, a me ka hoʻokahi.
Pehea i kōkua ai ka lāʻau iā Susana
1. ʻAeʻae
Ua ʻike ʻo Susana ʻaʻohe ona manaʻo e haʻalele i kāna kāne - ʻoiai ʻo ia e ʻike ana ua maopopo iā ia.
No ia e pili ana i ka ʻae ʻana i kāna koho āna i hana ai a i ka wā e maikaʻi ʻole ai nā mea (a hana lākou) a ʻike paha ʻo ia e pili ana i kahi hihia ʻē aʻe, hoʻomanaʻo ʻo ia iā ia iho e koho ʻo ia i kēlā me kēia lā e noho i ka male no kāna mau kumu ponoʻī - hoʻomana a makemake nui e haki ʻole i kona ʻohana.
2. Nā palena i ka nānā ʻana
Pono ʻo Susan e aʻo pehea e hele wāwae ai i kekahi manawa mai ka makemake mau e nānā i kona kaiapuni a nānā i nā hōʻailona.
ʻAʻole maʻalahi kēia mea no ka mea ʻoiai ua ʻike ʻo ia ʻaʻole ʻo ia e haʻalele, ua hōʻoia kēia i kona mau ʻōpū, no laila ua ʻike ʻo ia i ka 'pupule' e like me kāna e ʻōlelo ai.
3. Ke hoʻi nei i kona manaʻoʻiʻo
Ua hoʻohana mākou i kona hilinaʻi i ikaika ma nā manawa paʻakikī. Ua kōkua kēia iā ia e hoʻomau i ka nānā a hāʻawi iā ia i ka maluhia o loko. No Susana, ʻo ia ka hele ʻana i ka hale pule i nā manawa he nui i ka pule. Ua kōkua iā ia e noʻonoʻo a paʻa a palekana hoʻi, no laila hiki iā ia ke hoʻomanaʻo i ke kumu o kona koho ʻana e noho.
4. Nā leʻaleʻa waho
Ma muli o kahi nalo o ka hana i hala iho nei, ua loaʻa iā ia ka manawa hou aku e noʻonoʻo i nā mea nona iho.
Ma kahi o ka hoʻi koke ʻana i ka hana (a no ka mea ʻaʻole pono ka loaʻa kālā) ua hoʻoholo ʻo ia e lawe i kahi manawa nona iho, e hoʻolilo manawa me nā hoaaloha, a e noʻonoʻo i kahi leʻaleʻa ma waho o ka home a hānai i kāna mau keiki. Ua hāʻawi kēia i kahi ʻano o ke kūʻokoʻa a hoʻokomo i ka hilinaʻi iā ia.
Ke ʻike ʻo Susan e pili ana i kahi hihia ʻē aʻe, hoʻomau ʻo ia i ke alo me kāna kāne, akā ʻaʻohe mea maoli e loli. A ʻaʻole ia e hana. ʻIke ʻo ia i kēia manawa. Hoʻomau ʻo ia e hōʻole i nā hihia a ʻaʻole ia e lawe i ke kuleana.
Akā nona, ʻo ke kamaʻilio ʻana a me ka hoʻolana ʻana o kekahi me ka ʻole o ka hoʻokolokolo ʻia ʻana a me ka hoʻolālā ʻana e mālama i kona ʻano noʻonoʻo ke hoʻomau ʻo ia e noho i ka male, ua kōkua ʻo ia iā ia me ka naʻau a me ka noʻonoʻo.
ʻO ka hui ʻana me kekahi ma hea lākou a ʻaʻole ma kahi a kahi e manaʻo ai he pono lākou a kōkua iā lākou me nā hoʻolālā kūpono, hāʻawi pinepine i ka hoʻomaha a me ka hōʻoluʻolu a nā poʻe he nui, e like me Susana, e ʻimi nei.