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- ʻO kahi mea paʻakikī loa a ka wahine e hana ai, ʻo ka hoʻokuʻu
- No laila, no ke aha ʻoe e paʻa ai ma hope o ka pau ʻana o ka pilina?
Ke pau kou pili, manaʻo ʻoe ua ku ʻia ʻoe e kahi kalaka a haʻalele ʻia me kahi lua i kou puʻuwai. ʻAʻole hiki ke wehewehe i nā pona i loko o kou ʻōpū, ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻai, ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hiamoe, paʻakikī kou manawa e noʻonoʻo ai, a ʻo ka mea nui loa he nui kāu mau nīnau.
NO KE AHA MAI? No ke aha mai iaʻu? No ke aha ʻo ia i hana ai i kēia iaʻu? No ke aha ʻo ia i haʻalele ai? He aha kaʻu pilikia? He aha kaʻu i hana ai? ʻAʻole lawa wau nona?
Aia kekahi mau pilina e waiho iā ʻoe me ka makaʻu no nā lā he nui ma hope o ka pau ʻana, a laila aia kekahi mau pilina e nīnau iā ʻoe, he aha ka hewa o ka honua iaʻu, ma hope o ka pau ʻana; a laila aia kekahi mau pilina e haʻalele iā ʻoe me ka leo ʻole, manaʻolana ʻole, a hopohopo inā ʻoe e aloha hou.
ʻAʻohe mea pehea kou manaʻo ke pau kāu pili, ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo kāna koho nō ia. ʻO kāna koho e haʻalele, kāna koho e hoʻopunipuni, kāna koho e male i kekahi, a me kāna koho e hana i nā mea āpau āna i hana ai, a ʻaʻohe mea i hiki iā ʻoe ke hana e mālama iā ia mai hōʻeha iā ʻoe, mai ka hoʻopunipuni, mai ke koho ʻana i kekahi. ʻē aʻe, mai ka male ʻana i kekahi, a i ʻole ka hele wāwae ʻana.
ʻAʻohe ou kuleana no kāna hana a hana paha, akā kuleana ʻoe no kāu iho. ʻO ʻoe ke kuleana no pehea ʻoe e koho ai e ʻike i ke kūlana, kuleana ʻoe no ka ʻae ʻana iā ia a hoʻi ʻole, kuleana ʻoe no ka ʻae ʻana i ka mea e hana ai e hoʻololi i kou ʻano i nā kāne, a ʻo ʻoe ke kuleana no a i ʻole ʻaʻole ʻoe e hoʻokuʻu a neʻe i mua.
ʻO kahi mea paʻakikī loa a ka wahine e hana ai, ʻo ka hoʻokuʻu
He paʻakikī ke neʻe mai ke kāne a ka wahine i manaʻo ʻo ia kāna keiki aliʻi, nona mau loa, a i ʻole kāna mea hoʻokahi wale nō. ʻOiai ma hope o ka mālama ʻia ʻana o nā makahiki he nui, lawe ʻia no ka mea ʻole, hoʻohana ʻia a hoʻomāinoino ʻia, a wahaheʻe ʻia, hoʻomaka paʻakikī e hoʻokuʻu a neʻe i mua.
Manaʻo pinepine wau, he aha ia e pili ana iā mākou, no ke aha mākou e hoʻomau ai e noho, no ke aha mākou e hoʻomau ai i ka ʻae ʻana i nā wahaheʻe a me ka hoʻopunipuni a kapa iā ia he aloha a laila ke pau ka pili ua wāwahi ʻia mākou. Ma kahi o ka hauʻoli ʻaʻole mākou e hana hou me ka hana keaka, ke kaumaha nei mākou no ka mea ua haʻalele ʻo ia a hoʻāʻo malū e ʻike pehea e hoʻihoʻi ai iā ia a noho i ka home e noʻonoʻo ana inā ʻaʻole e kāhea a i ʻole ka leka.
No laila, no ke aha ʻoe e paʻa ai ma hope o ka pau ʻana o ka pilina?
Hiki iaʻu ke pane i kēlā, no ka mea ua hele wau ma laila, a ʻo ke kumu no ka mea ʻaʻole ʻoe i hoʻokuʻu piha a ʻaʻole ʻoe i hele ma luna ona.
Eia he ʻeono ala kūpono e kōkua ai iā ʻoe e hoʻokuʻu, hele ma luna ona, a neʻe i mua:
- Kākau i kahi Ke koho wau e hoʻokuʻu iā ʻoe e leka iā ia, akā mai hoʻouna leka uila iā ia. I ka leka, e hōʻike i kou manaʻo, e hōʻike i kou ʻeha, e hōʻike i kou ʻeha, e hōʻike i kou huhū, a e ʻōlelo i nā mea āpau āu e makemake ai e ʻōlelo, e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ka ʻōlelo ʻana, a lana ka manaʻo ua ʻōlelo ʻoe i ka wā e pili aloha ana, a lawe i nā mea āpau mai kāu ʻōnaehana. A laila, ʻokiʻoki i ka leka i nā ʻāpana liʻiliʻi loa, kau i nā ʻāpana liʻiliʻi i loko o kahi ʻeke, pani i ka ʻeke, ninini i ka wai, a laila hoʻolei.
- Holoi i kāna helu helu āpau mai kāu kelepona paʻalima a pau, kāpae i kāna mau leka uila a pau, kāpae i kāna mau leka uila mai kāu pahu leta, i hoʻouna ʻia i ka pahu, pahu pahu, nā kikoʻī, pahu ʻōpala, a me nā waihona, a hoʻokaʻawale iā ʻoe iho iā ia ma nā wahi papaho like ʻole.
- E hoʻopau i kāna mau mea āpau mai kou home a me nā mea āpau e hoʻomanaʻo iā ʻoe iā ia. E hoʻokuʻu i nā lole, nā puke, nā makana, nā mele, nā ihoiho, nā mea nani, nā puke pai kahi āu i kākau ai e pili ana i kāu mau ʻike me ia (ke ʻole ʻoe e hoʻohana i ia e kākau i kahi puke), a me nā mea āna i waiho ai ma kou hale ponoʻī. hoa aloha.
- Lawe iā ʻoe iho i KOU hale ʻaina punahele, kūʻai i kāu mau mea punahele ma ka hale kūʻai, huakaʻi i KOU wahi punahele, hoʻoponopono hou i kou home i ke ala āu e makemake ai, komo i kāu mau kala punahele, puhi i kāu iho punahele, a kau i kou lauoho i ke ala āu e makemake ai.
- Kau i kāna helu ma ka spam a hōʻole auto, inā paha e hoʻoholo ʻo ia e kāhea hou.
- Mai poina ke kumu i pau ai ka pilina, a he aha kāu i hele ai. ʻO ka ʻike ke kumu aʻo maikaʻi loa, no laila e hoʻonoho iā ʻoe iho e hele ma waena o ka mea āu i maʻa hou ai, mai hana i kahi pōʻai a mai hana hou i nā ʻano pilina maikaʻi ʻole.
Ke pau ka pilina, hiki i ke ola ke pau me ia a hiki i kahi hopena weliweli. E liuliu kahi manawa e loaʻa hou; akā i kekahi manawa, e hoʻi hou kou hauʻoli, e hauʻoli hou ʻoe, a e hoʻomau ʻoe me ke ola. E hāʻawi i ka manawa iā ʻoe iho e hoʻopau iā ia, a pale aku i ka makemake e hoʻi i hope.