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- 1. Nā bila hoʻokaʻawale
- 2. Kūʻai i ka nui
- 3. Nā pōmaikaʻi kālā
- 4. Ka hōʻemi ma ka ʻinikua
- 5. Nā pono o ka hana
ʻO ka male ʻana kekahi o nā mea nani a ʻoluʻolu hoʻi o ka pilina paʻa, akā hele mai ka male me kāna mahele maikaʻi o nā pono male ʻē aʻe.
No laila, he aha nā pono o ka male ʻana?
ʻO kekahi o nā pōmaikaʻi o ka male male no nā kāne, ke nakinaki lākou i nā kaula, ʻo ia ka loaʻa o ka loaʻa kālā, a laila wehe lākou i nā manawa kūpono no ka mea hiki ke kūʻai. Pono e noʻonoʻo pono ʻia kēlā mau pono o ka male ma mua e hoʻolālā i kahi male maʻalahi.
Pono ʻoe e hōʻoia e hana i ka hapa nui o mālama kālā ma ke ʻano he kāne male. ʻO kekahi o nā pōmaikaʻi o ka male ʻana i ʻike ʻole ka hapanui o nā mea he mea maʻalahi nā mea he nui iā ʻoe i ka manawa āu i male ai, a he mea nui e hoʻomaopopo i nā mea e hana ai ka hapa nui o lākou i kēia manawa.
No laila, e nānā i kekahi o nā mea maikaʻi e pili ana i ka male a me kāna mau hopena maikaʻi, a hoʻāʻo e noʻonoʻo i kēia mau mea he pōmaikaʻi male inā ʻoe e hoʻolālā e male.
1. Nā bila hoʻokaʻawale
ʻO kekahi o nā pono nui o ka male ke pili i ka hoʻāʻo ʻana e mālama i ke kālā ka hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻokaʻawale i nā pila me kekahi. Nui nā mea e noʻonoʻo ai ma aneʻi, a he mea nui e nānā pono i ka hana ʻana i kēia e like me ka hiki.
No laila, ʻo nā pono waiwai o ka male ʻana Hiki iā ʻolua ke hana i nā bila home e pono ai e uhi ʻia no ka mea e loaʻa ana iā ʻoe i kēia manawa nā waihona panakō pū.
ʻO kekahi mea āu e pono ai e hana ʻoi loa i kēia manawa, ʻoi aku ka uku o ka uku molaki no ka mea he ʻelua āu loaʻa i hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohana e hana me kēia mau uku i kēia manawa. ʻO kēia kahi mea āu e pono ai e nānā i ka mea hiki, a he mea nui ia e ʻike pono i kēia kuleana i ka hiki.
2. Kūʻai i ka nui
Ke kūʻai aku ʻoe, hiki iā ʻoe ke mālama pinepine i ke kālā ma ke kūʻai ʻana i nā mea i ka nui, a ʻo kēia ke kumu o ka nui o ka nui o nā mea kūʻai nui. Inā hiki iā ʻoe ke kiʻi i nā lālā ma ke ʻano he kāne male, hiki iā ʻoe ke kūʻai nui aku i nā mea pono o ka ʻohana, a hiki i kēia ke ʻohi i kahi kālā he nui iā ʻoe ma ka manawa.
No laila, pono ʻoe e nānā i ka loaʻa ʻana o kekahi o kēia. Pono ʻoe e lilo i kahi hana pilikino a i ʻole he ʻona ʻoihana, e kiʻi i lālā, akā hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohui i nā malihini e hiki ke hoʻohana i kāu kāleka. E nānā pono i ka hana ʻana i kēia ma ke ala kūpono, a he mea kēia e pono ai ʻoe e ʻike pono i ka hana i kēia manawa i mua.
3. Nā pōmaikaʻi kālā
Aia nā pōmaikaʻi kālā o ka male ʻana ma ka wā e male ana. Aia kahi manaʻo maʻamau he kuleana kālā ka male. Eia naʻe, ʻaʻole ia he ʻoiaʻiʻo.
ʻO kahi laʻana, ʻo kekahi o nā pono o ka male ʻana hiki iā ʻoe ke koho i nā pono olakino i hāʻawi ʻia e ka hoʻolālā a i ʻole hele i kahi hoʻolālā a kahi kāne e kūpono i kāu mau pono. Hāʻule pū nā ʻōlelo hōʻaiʻē ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma lalo o nā pono male. Eia kekahi, aia nā pōmaikaʻi ʻauhau o ka male ʻana pū kekahi. Hāʻule nā kāne ma lalo o ka ʻauhau ʻauhau haʻahaʻa i ka faila ʻana i ka ʻauhau makahiki.
4. Ka hōʻemi ma ka ʻinikua
Nui nā pono kū kānāwai o ka male e like me ka mālama kālā ʻana a me ka hōʻemi ʻana i hiki i nā kāne hou ke hoʻohana ʻia.
ʻO kekahi o nā kī nui ke hiki mai i ka ʻinikua kaʻa. ʻO ke kula o ka manaʻo ʻoi aku ka makaʻala o ka poʻe male ma nā ala ma mua o nā mea kalaiwa hoʻokahi, no ka mea he manaʻo ʻē aʻe kā lākou e noʻonoʻo ai, a, no ka mea, aia nā uku ʻinikua kaʻa haʻahaʻa i hāʻawi ʻia i nā kāne male.
Akā ʻaʻole ia ʻo ka ʻinikua kaʻa ʻemi wale ia e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke pōmaikaʻi; 'inikua ola a ʻo nā uku ʻinikua home hiki ke hana pinepine e ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka waiwai. A ʻo ia mau pono male e pono e noʻonoʻo ʻia ma ke ʻano he kāne male. ʻO kēia nā mea nui e pono ai i ke ola, a hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i nā mālama mālama nui ma aneʻi.
5. Nā pono o ka hana
Hoʻolahalaha nui ʻia nā pōmaikaʻi male ma nā wahi hana no nā kāne male. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohana i nā mea e like me ka mālama keiki, nā hoʻolālā ʻinikua olakino, kahua niho, nā manawa mālama pēpē, a me nā mea hou aku.
Ke male ʻoe, he mau mea kēia e pōmaikaʻi ai ʻoe me kāu pakanā, a he ʻoiaʻiʻo loa kēia inā e hānau keiki ʻoe i ka manawa like.
Nui a lehulehu nā pono pekelala o ka male, a kōkua ia e makaʻala i ke ʻano o kēia mau mea ma mua o ka manawa e like me ka hiki. Ke hoʻāʻo nei e loaʻa ka hapa nui o kāu male ma ke kōkua ʻana e hōʻoluʻolu i kāu ukana kālā he mea nui ia, a he nui nā ala e hoʻokō ai i kēia.
Loaʻa i kahi hoa i ka nui o nā pōmaikaʻi ʻano.
I loko o ke wikiō ma lalo, ua wehewehe ʻo Andrew Mills ʻo ka pilina ka mana ikaika loa o ke ao holoʻokoʻa a me ka pili ʻana i nā pilina e hoʻemi ana i ko mākou kūlana o nā pilikia olakino e like me nā ulia, anu a. Eia nō naʻe, haʻalele mākou iā lākou i kekahi manawa. E hoʻolohe iā ia e kamaʻilio ana ma lalo:
E hoʻāʻo e nānā i kekahi o nā ala maikaʻi loa e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke mālama i ke kālā ma ke ʻano he kāne male, a hoʻomaka i ka hoʻolauna ʻana i kēia mau mālama kālā ke hiki ke hiki. Inā hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa pono i kēia ʻāpana, pono ʻoe e hana i kahi mālama mālama nui i mua, a hiki i kēia ke kōkua nui iā ʻoe i waho.