Anter
- 1. Hoʻokahi o ka noho ʻana
- 2. Pōmaikaʻi ia i kēlā me kēia
- 3. Aʻo ia iā ʻoe i ke aloha
- 4. Loaʻa iā ʻoe kekahi e kaʻana like i nā mea āpau
- 5. Nā hoa hana hewa
- 6. Pili aloha
- 7. Palekana ʻuhane
- 8. Ka palekana ola
ʻO kekahi nīnau a ka poʻe i pili i ka ipo aloha ipo e nīnau ai no ke aha lākou e pono ai e male.
Nānā mau lākou i ka nīnau a me ke koʻikoʻi o kēia pilina laʻa no ka mea i ko lākou mau maka, like ka hoʻokau a me ka noho pū ʻana me ka male.Manaʻo lākou ʻo nā apo, stigma, hoʻohiki, ke komo ʻana o ke aupuni a me nā lula koʻikoʻi e hoʻolilo i ka male i kahi ʻoihana ma kahi o ka pilina o ka naʻau.
Akā ʻaʻole kēia ka hihia.
He pilina ikaika loa ka male ʻana a he ʻuniona ia e hāʻawi ai i ʻelua mau mea me kahi paʻa e pono ai lākou. He kūpaʻa ka male ʻana e hoʻopau i kou ola, a ʻaʻole paha ʻoe e ʻike i kona koʻikoʻi a hiki i kou male ʻana.
Eia naʻe, e hoʻomau i ka heluhelu ʻana i kēia ʻatikala e ʻike ai i ke kumu o ka nui o ka male.
1. Hoʻokahi o ka noho ʻana
ʻO ka male kahi hana e hoʻohui i nā kānaka ʻelua; ʻo ia ka hui ʻana o ʻuhane ʻelua ma ke ʻano he hoʻokahi a he paʻa ia ʻaʻohe hoʻokūkū ma kēia honua.
ʻAʻole hoʻopōmaikaʻi wale kēia paʻa kapu iā ʻoe me kahi hoa ola akā hāʻawi pū iā ʻoe i kekahi ʻohana ʻē aʻe e hilinaʻi loa. Hoʻohuli ka male i kāu kūpaʻa i ka hana hui kahi o nā hoa ʻelua ka mea pāʻani hope loa a hana pū i ka hoʻokō ʻana i kā lākou mau pahuhopu.
No ke aha he mea nui ka male? No ka mea hāʻawi ia iā ʻoe i kahi mea pāʻani kime hope loa, e pāʻani mau ana ma kou ʻaoʻao.
2. Pōmaikaʻi ia i kēlā me kēia
Nui nā pono o ka male no ka mea ʻaʻole wale nō iā ʻoe akā ʻo kēlā me kēia mea e puni ana iā ʻoe. Kōkua ia i ka pili pili kaiāulu a kōkua pū me ka waiwai i ke kaiāulu.
Hoʻopōmaikaʻi ka male i nā ʻohana o nā hoa ʻelua a hana i kahi paʻa hou ma waena o nā mea ʻelua.
3. Aʻo ia iā ʻoe i ke aloha
No ke aha he mea nui ka male? Ma muli o ke aʻo ʻana o ka male i nā poʻe ʻelua i ke aloha a ʻae iā ʻoe e hoʻomaʻamaʻa.
Hoʻoikaika ia i kou kūpaʻa ma ka hoʻokū ʻana iā ʻoe me kekahi i waena o ka mānoanoa a lahilahi.
Hāʻawi iā ʻoe e kākoʻo kekahi i kekahi i kēlā me kēia a me nā mea āpau e hana ʻia a kahi pūʻulu o ka naʻau hui e ninini ʻia i ka hoʻokumu ʻana i kahi ʻohana mai ke aloha a me ke aloha.
4. Loaʻa iā ʻoe kekahi e kaʻana like i nā mea āpau
No ke aha he mea nui ka male? Hoʻopaʻa ia iā ʻoe me kekahi ʻuhane ʻē aʻe e ʻae iā ʻoe e kaʻana like i kēlā me kēia me lākou.
Hiki iā ʻoe ke kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā kumuhana āu e makemake ai me ka makaʻu ʻole i ka hoʻokolokolo ʻia a hōʻino ʻia paha i ko lākou manaʻo. Hāʻawi kēia hoʻopaʻa iā ʻoe me kahi hoaaloha maikaʻi e kū ma kou ʻaoʻao ma waena o ka mānoanoa a me ka lahilahi.
5. Nā hoa hana hewa
Hāʻawi ka male iā ʻoe i kahi ʻuhane ʻē aʻe e noʻonoʻo i kāu ponoʻī. Pane kēlā no ke aha ka mea nui o ka male a no ke aha ʻo ia ka mea laʻa loa.
ʻO kēia kanaka kāu mea āpau; ʻo ʻoe nā hoa aloha, nā ipo, a me nā hoa lawehala. E loaʻa iā ʻoe kekahi e paʻa ke haʻahaʻa ʻoe; e ʻai pū kekahi me ʻoe a e nānā pū i nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni. Me kāu pakanā ʻaʻole loa ʻoe e kaʻawale; hiki iā ʻoe ke kiʻi pū me nā picnics, inu kī i ke ahiahi a heluhelu pū i nā puke me kekahi.
Ke male ʻoe, ʻaʻole ʻoe e kaʻawale.
ʻO ka male ka hoʻohui ʻana o ʻelua mau kānaka e ʻae iā ʻoe e hana i nā ʻano mea nani āpau i nā poʻe ʻano ʻē. Hiki iā ʻoe ke leʻaleʻa i nā lā a me ka pō lōʻihi me kāu mea nui ʻē aʻe a mai manaʻo hoʻokahi wale.
6. Pili aloha
Hele pū ka male me ka manawa o ka ʻae ʻana iā ʻoe e pili i ka manawa āu e makemake ai a me kāu hoa. Hāʻawi ia iā ʻoe i ka pō hewa ʻole o ka hilahila ʻole me ka noʻonoʻo ʻole inā ʻoe i hana i ka mea kūpono a ʻaʻole paha.
Me ka male, e pane ʻia kou pili me ka ʻole o ka lawehala a me ka hoʻohoka ʻana i ke Akua.
7. Palekana ʻuhane
ʻO ka male ka hoʻohui ʻana o ka naʻau.
Ke ʻimi mau nei nā kāne a me nā wahine no ka pilina a me ka palekana, a ke male ʻoe, ʻo kēia ka mea e loaʻa ai. E loaʻa mau iā ʻoe kekahi me ka hāʻawi ʻana i ka naʻau.
ʻO ka mea maikaʻi e pili ana i ka male ʻana he maʻemaʻe nā mea āpau, ʻaʻohe mea āu e hana ai i kēia pilina me ka ʻole o ka haumia a me ka lawehala ʻole.
8. Ka palekana ola
He mea ʻole kou maʻi, loaʻa mau iā ʻoe kekahi e mālama iā ʻoe. He mea paʻa ka male ʻana ma laila āu e maopopo ai e mālama ana kāu pakanā iā ʻoe ke maʻi ʻoe a i ka wā e pono ai ʻoe iā lākou, a ʻaʻole ʻoe e hopohopo a pilikia hou hoʻi.
Pono kēia palekana i ke ola no ka mea ke maʻi ʻoe, ʻike ʻoe i kou ʻano maoli.
He pilina ka male ma waena o ʻelua mau kānaka no ke ola mau loa i kēia ola.
No ke aha he mea nui ka male? No ka mea, he pilina ia e hoʻopaʻa ai nā mea ʻelua i kekahi i kekahi a hui pū me ko lākou mau ʻohana e hana ana i hoʻokahi. He pilina ka pilina o ka ʻuhane i ka manawa a lākou e ʻōlelo ai i kā lākou hoʻohiki.
Hāʻawi ia iā ʻoe i ke ʻano o ka pilina i hiki ʻole i kahi palapala hoʻopaʻa ʻē aʻe, a ʻo kēia ke kumu he hana laʻa loa ia no kēlā me kēia kanaka.