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- ʻO nā manaʻo Promininant e pili ana i nā wahine
- 1. Nā kuleana ʻokoʻa i hāʻawi ʻia e like me ke kumumanaʻo o ka evolution
- 2. Hoʻoikaika nui ka nohona a me ka moʻomeheu i nā wahine
- 3. Nā pane ʻokoʻa i ka moekolohe a me ka moekolohe like ʻole i ka hoʻokele wahine
- 4. Pehea e mālama ai kahi kaiāulu i nā wahine
- 5. Kūlana ʻokoʻa i ka moʻomeheu a me ka heluna kanaka
- 6. Ke piʻi nei o ka neʻe # metoo neʻe
- 7. ʻOkoʻa i nā kuanaʻike
Makemake ʻia nā wahine e hana ʻokoʻa i nā kāne mai ka wā kahiko. ʻO ke kumumanaʻo o nā kāne a me nā wahine e pili ana i nā paneta ʻelua i hopu ʻia ma hope o ka puke, 'No Mars ka kāne, No Venus nā wahine, i paʻi mua ʻia i ka makahiki 1992.
Ua kākau ʻia ka puke e ka mea kākau ʻAmelika a me ke kākāʻōlelo pili, ʻo John Gray. Hoʻonohonoho ʻokoʻa ʻia lākou a manaʻo ʻia e hana ʻokoʻa.
ʻO nā manaʻo Promininant e pili ana i nā wahine
Kūpono nā manaʻoʻiʻo e like me nā wahine i kēlā me kēia ʻano o ko lākou ola e lula nui i kā mākou kaiāulu a hiki i kēia lā. ʻOiai aia kekahi mau mea e uhaʻi i nā kaulahao a ʻimi i kā lākou moekolohe ma mua o ko lākou mau kūpuna, hana ke kaiāulu i nā mea āpau i ko lākou mana e hoʻohaʻahaʻa i ko lākou mau leo.
ʻO ka hapa nui o ka poʻe, me nā wahine liʻiliʻi, kūʻē i ka manaʻo e hoʻohana ka wahine kaulike i kā lākou wahine i ka mana moekolohe pinepine.
Makaʻu ka hui kaiāne kāne i ka hoʻonui ʻia o ka mana o nā wahine a kūlia i ka honua kahi e hakanū a hoʻokikina ʻia nā wahine e ʻae i nā kuleana i hāʻawi ʻia iā lākou e ke kaiāulu ponoʻī.
ʻO nā kumu i haʻalele ai nā wahine mai ka hoʻohana ʻana i kā lākou mana moekolohe a i ʻole koho e noho hāmau e pili ana i kā lākou moekolohe.
1. Nā kuleana ʻokoʻa i hāʻawi ʻia e like me ke kumumanaʻo o ka evolution
Wahi a ke kumumanaʻo o ka evolution i kākau ʻia e ʻO Okami lāua ʻo Shackelford, hoʻopukapuka nā wahine i ka makua ma mua o nā kāne. ʻIke loa, ua hoʻopili kēia ala i kā lākou koho o ka hoa a me ko lākou makemake e komo i nā pilina pōkole.
Mai ka wā kahiko, ua wehewehe mua ʻia nā kuleana kaiāulu no kēlā me kēia kanaka.
Ua manaʻo ʻia nā wahine e noho ma ka home a mālama i ka ʻohana. I ka wā mua, ʻaʻole lākou i hōʻike i ka hoʻonaʻauao o kēia au. Ua ʻokoʻa lākou i ke kaula uila mai nā lālā kāne o ka hui.
Laki, ua loli ke kiʻi i kēia lā.
Ua hoʻokuʻu maikaʻi nā wahine i nā mea āpau. Ua kāohi lākou i ko lākou kino a me ko lākou noʻonoʻo. Eia nō naʻe, ʻike liʻiliʻi lākou i ka leʻaleʻa i ka hele mau ʻana i ka moekolohe a hiki i ka wā i hānau ai lākou i nā keiki.
2. Hoʻoikaika nui ka nohona a me ka moʻomeheu i nā wahine
ʻO ka makemake i ka wahine i nā wahine e maʻalahi loa i ka nohona a me ka pōʻaiapili - Edward O. Laumann
ʻO Edward O. Laumann, ʻO Ph.D., he polofesa o ka sociology ma ke Kulanui o Chicago a alakaʻi i kahi mea kākau o kahi ana nui o nā hana moekolohe, The Social Organization of Sexuality: Sexual Practices in the United States.
Wahi a ka Polofesa, ʻo ka hapanui o nā kāne makua ma lalo o 60 e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ka moekolohe ma ka liʻiliʻi i hoʻokahi manawa i ka lā. Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, hoʻokahi hapaha o nā wahine e hāʻule ana ma lalo o ka makahiki like e ʻae lākou e noʻonoʻo pinepine e pili ana i ka moekolohe. ʻO ke kahakaha ʻana e pili ana i ka moekolohe e hoʻemi me ka makahiki akā hoʻomau ka moemoeā o nā kāne ma kahi o ʻelua mau manawa.
3. Nā pane ʻokoʻa i ka moekolohe a me ka moekolohe like ʻole i ka hoʻokele wahine
Hōʻike ʻia kahi noi ʻē aʻe i paʻi ʻia ma nā Journals of Gerontology e pili ana i ka pane ʻokoʻa ʻana o nā kāne a me nā wahine o nā makahiki like ʻole i ka moekolohe. Ua hōʻuluʻulu ka noiʻi i nā ʻikepili mai nā ana ʻelua ʻē aʻe, ka National Health and Social Life Survey and the National Social Life, Health, and Aging Project.
I nā makahiki he 44-59 o ka makahiki, 88 pakeneka o nā kāne i ʻike ʻia i ka moekolohe ma mua o ka hāʻule ʻana o nā wahine ma lalo o ka pale like. ʻO nā wahine, pili kokoke i nā kuʻekuʻe wāwae o nā kāne, me ka ʻike ʻole i kahi ākea ākea āpau. Ua koho ʻia kokoke i ka 72 pākēneka o nā wahine e moekolohe ma ka makahiki like.
Ua hoʻokūpaʻa hou ʻia kahi noiʻi hou e hōʻike ana ka makemake o nā kāne e komo i ka moekolohe 7 manawa i ka mahina me nā wahine e hōʻike liʻiliʻi ana i ka hana ma 6.5.
Ua hele pū kekahi nā noiʻi e ʻike i ka hoʻomau mau ʻana o nā kāne i ka makemake moekolohe ʻoiai ke hele lākou i ka paepae o ka makahiki waena.
Hōʻike nā mea i luna aʻe nei ua ʻoi aku ka nui o ka wahine i ka wahine ma mua o ka wahine. No laila, ʻo ke kamaʻilio ʻana e pili ana i ka moekolohe me nā hoaaloha kahi kumuhana liʻiliʻi no lākou e kūʻē ana i kā lākou kāne kāne.
4. Pehea e mālama ai kahi kaiāulu i nā wahine
Ua mālama ka ʻahahui i nā wahine ʻokoʻa mai nā makahiki. Aia nā ʻāina e like me ʻAmelika kahi e hauʻoli ai nā wahine i ke kūʻokoʻa piha o ka ʻimi ʻana i kā lākou moekolohe. Ma aneʻi, he ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o nā kaiāulu kūloko ma mua o ke kuʻi ʻana i ko lākou ihu i nā lumi moe o haʻi.
Akā, aia kekahi mau ʻāina ʻē aʻe kahi i ʻae ʻole ʻia ai nā wahine e hōʻike ākea i kahi ʻili iki o ko lākou ʻili. ʻO ka moʻomeheu a me ka hoʻomana kekahi mau palena e hoʻoholo pono ai i ke ʻano o ke kanaka i ka lehulehu.
5. Kūlana ʻokoʻa i ka moʻomeheu a me ka heluna kanaka
ʻO ke kiʻi ʻoniʻoni ʻoluʻolu ʻAmelika, 'Sex and the City 2', ua hōʻike akāka ʻia ka ʻokoʻa moʻomeheu ma waena o nā wahine protagonists o ke kiʻi ʻoniʻoni a me nā wahine o Abu Dhabi.
Eia hou, ua hōʻike ʻia ke kiʻi ʻoniʻoni like pehea kahi ʻāina e like me Abu Dhabi i holomua i nā ʻano he nui i noho conservative kahi e pili ai ka moekolohe. ʻAʻole kēia he moʻolelo e pili ana i nā lāhui ʻAlapia. ʻOiai ʻo nā wahine mai nā ʻāina Hema Hema e like me India e hana like me nā pilikia pili i ka wahine i kēlā me kēia lā.
6. Ke piʻi nei o ka neʻe # metoo neʻe
ʻO kahi laʻana, ua lilo ka hilahila i mea hana pono e hoʻohaʻahaʻa i ka wahine nāwaliwali ma aneʻi. Mālama mau ke kaiāulu i ka hoʻopiʻi ʻana i ka wahine inā ʻo ia ka mea i hōʻeha ʻia i ka hana hoʻomāinoino lehulehu. Me ka nānā ʻole i ka neʻe '#meToo' e neʻe nei a puni ka honua, makemake kekahi mau mea i hōʻino ʻia e hāpai i ko lākou leo kūʻē i ko lākou poʻe lawehala.
ʻO kēia no ka mea ua hoʻomāinoino hou ʻia ka poʻe i loaʻa i ka wahine make e ka poʻe loio i ka ʻaha ākea.
ʻOiai ʻo nā wahine o nā lāhui holomua e like me ʻAmelika e hoʻokau ʻia ka hilahila. ʻO kahi noiʻi i alakaʻi ʻia e ka ʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa o nā Wahine Wahine, hōʻike ʻia ʻo ka hilahila ka hana hilahila kekahi o nā ʻano mua o ka hana hoʻomāinoino a nā haumāna ma waena a me ke kula kiʻekiʻe.
ʻO kekahi laʻana o ka hilahila hilahila i kū i ka pāpāho i ka wā i paʻi ai ka Huffington Post i kēlā mau leka uila i kūʻai ʻia ma waena o Miss America Organization CEO Sam Haskell a me nā lālā o ka papa like ʻole. ʻO nā mea lanakila o ka hoʻokūkū hoʻokūkū a hilahila hoʻi i nā leka uila.
7. ʻOkoʻa i nā kuanaʻike
ʻAʻole ia he ʻoiaʻiʻo maoli e makemake nā wahine āpau i ka hūnā ʻana i kā lākou koi a kāohi i ka ʻimi ʻana i kā lākou moekolohe e like me nā kāne.
ʻO kekahi mau wahine waha waha e pili ana i kēia kumuhana. ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo ka manawa hoʻololi i hoʻolilo ka wahine i ka makaʻu ʻole a wiwo ʻole.
Ke haʻalele nei ka hapa nui o nā wahine i nā stereotypes a loaʻa ka ʻoluʻolu ma mua o kā lākou mau pilina paʻa.
Eia nō naʻe, aia kekahi mau wahine e manaʻo i ka moekolohe he pilikino pilikino. Makemake lākou i ka mālama ʻana i ko lākou moekolohe ma hope o nā puka paʻa. ʻOi aku lākou kūpaʻa ma mua o ka hapa nui o nā kāne ke pili i nā pilina a leʻaleʻa i ka moekolohe me hoʻokahi hoa.
No lākou, ʻoi aku ka moekolohe e pili ana i kahi mea hana no ka hōʻike ʻana i nā manaʻo maoli no kāna hoa ma mua o ka māʻona ʻana i ka pōloli o kona kino. ʻAʻole like me nā kāne, hauʻoli nā wahine i ka moemoeā, hoʻomanaʻo ʻana, a me ka noʻonoʻo ʻana i ka moekolohe wela. Ke manaʻo nei ʻo ia e pili pū ana me kāna hoa, aia kona piko wahine i kāna piko.
No nā wahine, ʻoi aku ka nui o ka moekolohe i ka leʻaleʻa i ka manaʻo o ka hui ʻana ma mua o ke kuʻi ʻana i ke ahi kolohe huhū o loko.
ʻO ka mea hope loa, hoʻokahe i kēlā mau mea pāpā a leo leo ʻole i kāu mau moekolohe
Me ke kanalua ʻole, ʻo ke kaiāulu, ke kuʻuna kahiko, a me nā mākaʻi i kapa ʻia he kuleana e kaohi i nā wahine o nā makahiki āpau.
Aia i nā wahine āpau ke kamaʻilio ākea ʻole e pili ana i kā lākou ola wahine.
Akā, ʻo ka nānā ʻole i kāu koi ʻana ma hope o nā puka paʻa he hewa. Pono ka moekolohe inā makemake ʻoe e kūleʻa i kou pilina. Akā, pono ʻoe e hāmama i kāu hoa a hōʻike maopopo i kāu makemake a me kou mau makemake.
He mea nui ia i nā wahine e hana i ka manawa no ka launa aloha a me ka pilina ʻoiai lākou e ʻoluʻolu e leo leo nei i kā lākou mau moekolohe, me kā lākou mau hoa e ʻike i ka pilina hauʻoli a me ka uila.