Anter
- 1. Hoʻomaka ka makua me ka hāpai keiki
- 2. Hiki ke weliweli nā mahina mua o ka lilo ʻana i makua
- 3. E lilo ka hiamoe i waiwai kūʻai laha ʻole
- 4. E ʻokiʻoki i nā lole pēpē a me nā mea pāʻani
- 5. ʻO ka lilo ʻana i makua e pili ana i nā kumukūʻai huna
- 6. Hana paha mai ka home a holo paha
- 7. Mai hopohopo inā ʻaʻohe āu keiki puke aʻo
- 8. E leʻaleʻa me nā kiʻi
- 9. E lilo ka hele ʻana i waho i hana nui
- 10. E loli mau kou ola
E like paha me aʻu, ua makemake ʻoe, noʻonoʻo, a moeʻuhane lilo i makua mai kou wā ʻōpio. A laila hoʻokō ʻia kāu mau moeʻuhane!
E male ʻoe a loaʻa i kēlā ʻāpana liʻiliʻi o ka hauʻoli āu e noʻonoʻo nei no kahi lōʻihi ... akā ʻike wale paha ʻoe i ka ʻike āpau o ka lilo ʻana i makua ʻaʻole e like me kāu i manaʻo ai.
Eia kekahi o nā mea e noʻonoʻo ai ma mua o ka lilo ʻana i makua a i ʻole nā mea e noʻonoʻo ai ma mua o ka lilo ʻana i makua.
1. Hoʻomaka ka makua me ka hāpai keiki
Ke ʻike ʻoe he hāpai ʻoe, hoʻomaka nā mea āpau e loli. ʻAʻole wale hoʻomaka kou kino e "hana i kāna mea ponoʻī" akā kou noʻonoʻo ʻana ʻaʻole koke e pili ana iā "mākou ʻelua" akā e pili ana iā "mākou ma ka ʻohana".
Hiki i ka hāpai ponoʻī ke holo maʻamau, mai ke kakahiaka / a pau ka lā maʻi, i ka wāwae wāwae a me ka huhū .... Akā kōkua ia inā ʻoe e manaʻo i kēia mau mea a ʻike ʻoe he maʻamau.
ʻO kēia nā mea āu e pono ai e ʻike ma mua o ka hānau ʻana o kahi pēpē E kōkua pū ia i kāu pakanā e hoʻomākaukau noʻonoʻo iā lākou iho pehea e hana ai me kāu hoʻololi i kāu hāpai ʻana.
2. Hiki ke weliweli nā mahina mua o ka lilo ʻana i makua
ʻAʻohe mea e hiki ke hoʻomākaukau iā ʻoe no kēlā manawa mua ke ʻike ʻoe i kāu pēpē makamae makamae a ʻike ʻoe -ʻo kēia kaʻu keiki! A ma hope he makua, ʻike ʻoe iā ʻoe iho i ka home me kēia wahi liʻiliʻi e lawe nei i kou ola āpau ma nā ʻano āpau.
ʻO ka neʻe iki a kani paha a ke makaʻala nei ʻoe. A ke noho mālie nā mea āpau e nānā ʻoe he maʻamau ka hanu. Hiki ke kaumaha loa ka hoʻouka kaua ʻana o nā naʻau - maikaʻi a maikaʻi ʻole hoʻi.
Inā wau i ʻike i ke ʻano maʻamau o ka manaʻo he "ʻino" hiki paha iaʻu ke hoʻomaha iki aʻe a ʻoluʻolu i ka holo. No laila inā ʻoe e haʻohaʻo e lilo wau i makua a i ʻole ʻaʻole, pono ʻoe e ʻike i ka mea e noʻonoʻo ai ma mua o ka hānau ʻana o kahi pēpē.
3. E lilo ka hiamoe i waiwai kūʻai laha ʻole
Ma hope o ka lilo ʻana i makua ʻike paha ʻoe no ka manawa mua pehea kou lawe ʻana i kahi hiamoe maluhia no ka mea. ʻO kekahi o nā ʻoiaʻiʻo e pili ana i ka makua ʻo ia ka hiamoe e lilo i waiwai kūʻai maʻamau.
Ma waena o ka hānai ʻana a i ʻole ka hānai ʻōmole a me ka hoʻololi ʻana i nā diapē, laki ʻoe inā loaʻa ʻoe i ʻelua mau hola o ka hiamoe ʻole. E ʻike wale paha ʻoe ua loli mau ke ʻano o kou hiamoe holoʻokoʻa - mai ka lilo ʻana i kekahi o nā "pueo pō", hiki iā ʻoe ke lilo i ʻano "hiamoe i nā manawa āpau e hiki ai" ke ʻano.
ʻO ka wēlau maikaʻi ka hiamoe ke hiamoe o ka pēpē, ʻoiai i ka lā, keu hoʻi i kēlā mau mahina mua o ka lilo ʻana i makua.
4. E ʻokiʻoki i nā lole pēpē a me nā mea pāʻani
Ma mua o ka hiki ʻana o ka pēpē a ke hoʻomākaukau nei ʻoe i ka nursery a hoʻomākaukau i nā mea āpau, ʻo ka maʻamau ka manaʻo e pono ana ʻoe i nā mea he nui. I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, e ulu wikiwiki ka pēpē e komo wale kekahi o ia mau lole nani nani i hoʻokahi a i ʻole ʻelua mau manawa ma mua o ka liʻiliʻi.
A ʻo nā mea pāʻani a pau, ʻike paha ʻoe i ka pīhoihoi o kāu pēpē e kekahi mea pili home a kāpae loa i nā mea leʻaleʻa a me nā mea pāʻani āu i kūʻai ai a i makana ʻia ai paha.
5. ʻO ka lilo ʻana i makua e pili ana i nā kumukūʻai huna
I ka ʻōlelo ʻana i kēlā, ʻike paha ʻoe he nui nā kumukūʻai huna i ka makua āu i manaʻo ʻole ai. ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻowahāwahā i ka helu o nā diapē āu e makemake ai. Disposable ma mua o ka lole ua paipai 'aka akā, o ka papa oi pipiʻi.
A laila aia kahi mālama pēpē a mālama pēpē paha inā ʻoe e manaʻo e hoʻi i ka wahi hana. I ka hala ʻana o nā makahiki i ka ulu ʻana o ka pēpē pēlā nō hoʻi nā lilo e kahaha ai i kekahi manawa.
6. Hana paha mai ka home a holo paha
E ʻike paha ʻoe i kāu "hana moemoeā" e hana nei mai ka home a lilo i wahi moeʻuhane me kahi mea liʻiliʻi e koi ana i kou nānā. Kaukaʻi ʻia i ke ʻano o ka hana āu e hana ai, pono paha e kiʻi i kahi kōkua mālama keiki no kekahi mau hola i kēlā me kēia lā.
7. Mai hopohopo inā ʻaʻohe āu keiki puke aʻo
Maʻalahi loa e lilo i ke koʻikoʻi i ka heluhelu ʻana i nā puke kula āpau, keu hoʻi e pili ana i nā pae hana hoʻomohala.
Inā ʻaʻole e noho ana kāu keiki, ke kolo, hele wāwae, a kamaʻilio e like me ka papahana "maʻamau", e hoʻāʻo e hoʻomanaʻo he kū hoʻokahi kēlā me kēia pēpē a ulu i kā lākou manawa a me kā lākou ala maikaʻi.
Hiki i nā kolamu makua a me nā hui ke hōʻoluʻolu ke kaʻana like i kāu mau ʻike me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. Ke lilo ʻoe i makua, ʻike ʻoe i nā mākua ʻē aʻe i loaʻa nā hakakā a me nā ʻoliʻoli like.
8. E leʻaleʻa me nā kiʻi
ʻO nā mea āu e hana ai, mai poina e kiʻi i nā kiʻi he nui o nā manawa makamae me kāu mea liʻiliʻi.
Inā wau i ʻike i ka wikiwiki o ka hala ʻana o nā mahina a me nā makahiki, e kiʻi paha wau i nā kiʻi hou a me nā wikiō, ʻoiai ʻo kēlā mau makahiki o ka lilo ʻana i makua a me ka leʻaleʻa ʻana i nā mākua me ka pūpū o ka hauʻoli ʻaʻole hiki ke hana hou ʻia a ola hou paha.
9. E lilo ka hele ʻana i waho i hana nui
ʻO kekahi o nā mea e hana ai ma mua o ka lilo ʻana i makua e hoʻomākaukau noʻonoʻo iā ʻoe iho e hoʻi i kou noho kaiaulu i kahi noho hope.
ʻO kekahi o nā hopena o ka lilo ʻana i makua e ʻike ʻoe ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hopu hou i kāu mau kī a huakaʻi wikiwiki i nā hale kūʻai. Me kahi mea liʻiliʻi e huki ai, pono pono ka hoʻolālā ʻana, ʻoiai ʻoe e ʻūlū i kāu ʻeke pēpē nui me nā mea āpau āu e pono ai mai nā kāwele i nā pale pale i nā ʻōmole a me nā mea hou aʻe.
10. E loli mau kou ola
ʻO nā mea he ʻumi aʻu i makemake ai i ʻike ma mua o ka lilo ʻana i makua, malia paha ʻo ka mea nui loa e loli mau ʻia koʻu ola.
ʻOiai paha ua ʻōlelo kēia ʻatikala i ka hapa nui o nā ʻaoʻao paʻakikī a paʻakikī hoʻi o ka makua, e ʻōlelo ʻia ʻo ka lilo ʻana i makua, aloha a hānai ʻana i kahi keiki ma kahi o nā mea uku nui loa o ka honua.
E like me ka ʻōlelo naʻauao a kekahi, ʻo ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi keiki e like me ka hele ʻana o kou puʻuwai me ka holo wāwae ma waho o kou kino.