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- 1. E lilo ʻoe i kāne maikaʻi
- 2. E lilo i kanaka maikaʻi
- 3. E aʻo i kāu keiki i ka hana
- 4. Hāʻawi i kou manawa
- 5. Joke a puni
- 6. E hāʻawi i nā hanana he nui
- 7. E hoʻolohe
- 8. Hōʻike i ke aloha
- 9. E hāʻawi i ka hoʻoikaika
- 10. Hana i ka mea hiki
Me he mea lā e nānā ka lā makuahine. ʻOiaʻiʻo, pono e hoʻolauleʻa ʻia nā makuahine no nā mea āpau a lākou e hana ai — he mea nui ia. Akā, pehea nā mākua? ʻAʻole anei lākou e hana nui i kā lākou keiki? ʻOiaʻiʻo, lilo ka nui o nā makuakāne i kahi hapa maikaʻi o kā lākou mau lā mai kahi home, hana e kākoʻo i ko lākou ʻohana. ʻO kēlā a iā ia iho kahi hōʻike no kona aloha iā lākou.
Akā he mea hou aʻe i ka makua kāne maikaʻi. Inā hopohopo ʻoe i ka manawa pōkole ʻoe me kāu poʻe keiki ʻaʻole lawa kāu hana, e hoʻoikaika i ka naʻau. Loaʻa ka hopohopo like ka hapanui o kēlā me kēia makuakāne. No laila e hoʻāʻo e hopohopo ʻole. Ma kahi o, e nānā i ka mea hiki iā ʻoe ke hana. Eia nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo he 10 e kōkua iā ʻoe i makua kāne ʻoi loa i hiki.
1. E lilo ʻoe i kāne maikaʻi
Kahaha paha ʻoe i ka lohe ʻana i kēia, akā ʻo ka hoʻokau ʻana i kāu wahine ma mua o ke ala ʻoi loa loa i hiki iā ʻoe ke lilo i makuakāne maikaʻi. No ke aha mai? No ka mea ke hōʻike nei ʻoe i kāu keiki i ka hana o ka pilina maikaʻi ma o ka laʻana. ʻAʻohe mea e ʻōlelo hou aʻe i kahi keiki ma mua o ka ʻike maoli ʻana i ka holo ʻana o kekahi mea.
Ke waiho mua ʻoe i kāu male, ke hoʻouna nei ʻoe i kahi leka i kāu keiki he mea nui ia iā ʻoe. E ulu aʻe kēlā keiki e ʻike ana he aloha ʻoe i kāu wahine, a e ʻike ana kāu keiki i nā hopena o kēlā ma ka helehelena o kāu wahine a me kāna mau hana.
2. E lilo i kanaka maikaʻi
Eia hou me kēlā mea laʻana. Ke nānā mau nei kāu keiki iā ʻoe, ke ʻike nei i kāu hana ma nā ʻano ʻokoʻa. Pono kāu keiki e ʻike pehea ʻoe e hana ai i nā hanana paʻakikī i hiki iā lākou ke hoʻohālikelike i kēlā ʻano hana. Inā he kanaka maikaʻi ʻoe e kōkua i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, e hāhai i ke kānāwai, kūpaʻa, a ʻoluʻolu hoʻi, no laila, ʻaʻohe kānalua he makua maikaʻi ʻoe i kēia hana. E hele mua ʻoe i ka lawe ʻana i kamaʻāina maikaʻi e like me ʻoe iho.
3. E aʻo i kāu keiki i ka hana
I kekahi lā ke haʻalele kāu keiki i ka home a hele aku i kāna iho, he aha ka manaʻo nui? He loina hana. Hiki i kāu keiki ke kākoʻo iā ia iho i hiki iā ia ke hana i kahi ola a loaʻa kahi ola maikaʻi. Hiki wale ke hana ʻia e ka hana nui. No laila e haki i nā rake a hele pū i ka pā o hope. Hana pono kahi makuakāne maikaʻi ma kahi kokoke i kāna keiki, e hōʻike ana iā ia pehea e hana a aʻo iā ia i ka waiwai o ka hana paʻa. 'Yourlelo nui kāu laʻana.
4. Hāʻawi i kou manawa
Maʻalahi e hoʻi i ka home ma hope o ka hana a me ka veg. Akā koho ʻoe i ka makemake o kāu keiki ma mua o nā mea āpau o ka honua? Kou manawa. ʻO ka hapanui o ka manawa, ʻaʻole ia he mea nui e hana pū ai ʻolua, ʻo ka hana pū ʻana ia e hōʻike i kou aloha ma ke ʻano he makuakāne.
No laila e uhaʻi i nā pāʻani papa, e hele pū i ka holo kaʻa, e nānā i kekahi mau wikiō YouTube e ʻakaʻaka ai kāu keiki — e leʻaleʻa i ka noʻonoʻo ʻana i nā mea āu e makemake ai e hana pū a laila lilo ia i ʻano maʻamau.
5. Joke a puni
Mai hoʻowahāwahā i ka mana o kahi hoʻomākeʻaka makua kāne corny! No nā makuakāne kēlā, ʻeā? E aʻo i kāu keiki pehea e ʻakaʻaka ai a hoʻomāʻewaʻewa ai - kūpono, ʻoiaʻiʻo - no ka mea maoli, he aha ke ola inā ʻaʻole e leʻaleʻa? Hiki i ka ʻakaʻaka a me ka hoʻomākeʻaka ke kōkua i kāu keiki ma o nā manawa maikaʻi a me nā manawa paʻakikī. A ʻaʻohe mea e like me ka ʻakaʻaka pū.
6. E hāʻawi i nā hanana he nui
Nānā nā keiki i ko lākou makua kāne e hoʻonohonoho i nā palena no ke ola. ʻO nā lula a me nā palena ka mea nui o nā makahiki formative o ke keiki. Kōkua ia iā lākou e palekana a palekana hoʻi, no ka mea hiki iā lākou ke hilinaʻi i nā mea e hiki mai ana. ʻO nā hana maʻamau o ka lā, nā lula o ka hale, a pēlā aku, nā mea āpau e kūkākūkā ai me kāu keiki. He mea nui ia na lākou e hoʻāʻo. A e hoʻāʻo nō kāu keiki i nā palena! ʻO ka wāwahi ʻana i nā lula e hele mai me nā hopena, e lawe paha i nā kuleana.
7. E hoʻolohe
Ma ke ʻano he mākua, ʻike wale mākou i ka maikaʻi. Ua hala mākou i nā mea āpau. Eia nō naʻe, he ʻike ko kā mākou poʻe keiki, a pono lākou e puʻuwai. Pono lākou i kāu hōʻoia. No laila e hoʻolohe e hoʻolohe hou ma mua o kāu kamaʻilio. Makemake ʻoe i kāu keiki e hilinaʻi iā ʻoe ma ke ʻano he makuakāne, a ʻaʻole hiki i ka hilinaʻi ke ulu inā ʻaʻole ʻae ʻia lākou e kaʻana like i ko lākou mau manaʻo me ʻoe. No laila e mālama pono lākou.
8. Hōʻike i ke aloha
Hoʻopili i kāu poʻe keiki! E haʻi iā lākou ua aloha ʻoe iā lākou. Hana i nā ala aloha, e like me ka hāʻawi ʻana i kou manawa, e haʻi ana iā lākou i kāu mea e aloha ai e pili ana iā lākou, e hana ana i nā mea a lākou e makemake ai e hana, a me nā ʻano ʻē aʻe he nui. Ma mua o nā mea āpau, pono i kāu keiki i kāu aloha.
9. E hāʻawi i ka hoʻoikaika
He aha ka maikaʻi o kāu keiki? E haʻi pinepine iā lākou. E nānā i nā mea liʻiliʻi, a e ʻike pono e haʻi i nā mea āu e ʻike ai. Paipai iā lākou i kā lākou hana kula, nā haʻuki, nā mākau o kēlā me kēia lā, nā mākau aloha, a me nā mea hou aʻe. ʻO kahi hōʻuluʻulu liʻiliʻi mai kahi makuakāne e hele lōʻihi loa i ke kōkua ʻana e kūkulu i ka hilinaʻi a me kahi keiki hauʻoli.
10. Hana i ka mea hiki
Hiki iā ʻoe ke lilo i makua kāne maikaʻi loa? He aha ka maikaʻi loa? Pili ʻohana āpau. ʻO ka mea wale nō e hiki iā ʻoe ke hana maoli i kāu pono pilikino ponoʻī. Ma ke ʻano he makuakāne hou me kahi pēpē, ʻaʻole nui paha kēlā. Akā aʻo ʻoe i kou hele ʻana. ʻAʻole anei kēlā ke kuhi? ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o nā keiki ʻaʻole no ka maʻule o ka puʻuwai. Ua like ia me ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi kekelē ma luna o 18+ mau makahiki, akā ʻoiai ʻike ʻoe ʻaʻole āu pane āpau. Akā ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa kahi manawa kupaianaha e hoʻāʻo nei?