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- Nā hōʻailona pilina maikaʻi ʻole
- 1. ʻAʻole ʻoe i manaʻo e kūkulu ʻia
- 2. ʻAʻole hoʻokō ʻia kou pono naʻau
- 3. ʻAʻole kūpaʻa kālā ʻoe
- 4. Ke hoʻomanawanui nei i nā mea he nui wale no ka moekolohe
- 5. Hāʻawi kaulike ʻole a lawe i ka pilina
- 6. ʻAʻole hoʻokō ʻia kāu mau pono kino
- 7. Manaʻo ʻole ʻoe i kou ʻōpū ʻōpū
- 8. Ke noʻonoʻo nei ʻoe i kahi hihia
- 9. Hoʻonohonoho pono ʻoe i ka hana maikaʻi ʻole
- 10. Ke hakakā mau nei ʻoe
- 11. Ka wahaheʻe i kāu mau hoaaloha a me kou ʻohana
Ke pili nei ʻoe i kahi pilina hou, he mea kupaianaha nā mea āpau a kāu hoa, akā ʻaʻole paha e kau ana kāu mau hoaaloha a me kou ʻohana i nā aniani ʻāpana rose e like me ʻoe.
Kūkulu paha kāu pilina iā ʻoe a wāwahi paha iā ʻoe? A pilina maikaʻi loa pono e hoʻohoka iā ʻoe ma luna o ka mahina, ʻaʻole e like me ʻoe e hele wāwae ana i nā egghells.
ʻAʻole maʻalahi ka pilina maikaʻi e ʻike, ʻoiai ke ʻoe i loko. ʻOiai ke hele nei i waho o kahi pilina maikaʻi ʻole paha he hana paʻakikī ke loaʻa kahi hoʻopili ikaika (ʻoiai maikaʻi ʻole), a ʻaʻole hoʻomaikaʻi nā mea ʻoiai ʻoe e hoʻāʻo, ʻo ia wale nō ka mea naʻauao e hana ai.
Nā hōʻailona pilina maikaʻi ʻole
Eia nā hōʻailona 11 o kahi pilina maikaʻi e pono e hoʻopau ʻia.
1. ʻAʻole ʻoe i manaʻo e kūkulu ʻia
Inā ʻoe e hilinaʻi i kahi malihini e pili ana i nā mea i loaʻa i kou ola ma mua o kāu hoa, hiki iā ʻoe ke lawe iā ia ma ke ʻano he hōʻailona āu i loko o kahi pilina maikaʻi ʻole. Pono nā pilina e hōʻoluʻolu iā ʻoe iho.
Paipai ʻia ʻoe e alualu i kāu mau pahuhopu. Ke hele ʻoe i lalo, pono i kāu hoa e hāpai iā ʻoe i luna a hoʻomākeʻaka iā ʻoe. Hiki iā ʻoe ke haʻi i kāu mea i kāu hoa a loaʻa ke kākoʻo a me ka paipai.
ʻO ka hiki ʻole ke kamaʻilio kūʻokoʻa ka mea ʻoi loa o nā hōʻailona o ke kamaʻilio maikaʻi ʻole i ka pilina.
Pono ʻole e ʻōlelo, inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e kiʻi i kēia mau mea, ʻo kēia kahi o nā hōʻailona aia ʻoe i loko o kahi pilina maikaʻi ʻole.
2. ʻAʻole hoʻokō ʻia kou pono naʻau
Pono e hoʻoulu ʻia i ka naʻau no ka pilina olakino, hauʻoli.
Pono ʻoe e ʻike hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa nā kamaʻilio hōʻoluʻolu me kāu hoa.
Aia nā pono o ka manaʻo mai ka hōʻoia e mālama ai kāu pakanā, mahalo iā ʻoe i ka hoʻohanohano ʻana i kou kūʻokoʻa a me kou kūʻokoʻa. Ke hoʻokō ʻole ʻia kēia mau pono naʻau, hiki iā ia ke kaumaha a i ʻole kaohi ʻia. ʻO nā hemahema e pono ʻole ai kekahi o nā hōʻailona ʻōuli o ka pili aloha ʻole.
3. ʻAʻole kūpaʻa kālā ʻoe
ʻAʻole nā kālā nā mea āpau, akā pono ʻoe e uku i nā bila a hāʻawi no nā pono ʻē aʻe.
Ke hana nei nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua i ka pilina ma ke ʻano he hoa kālā. Ke kū ʻole ʻoe i kālā, alakaʻi ʻia i nā paio, hopohopo, a me ka huhū, keu hoʻi inā ʻaʻohe mau hoʻoikaika e hoʻololi i ke kūlana.
ʻO nā hōʻailona ʻē aʻe āu i loko o kahi pilina i hoʻopiha ʻia me ka paʻa ʻole a me ka hoʻowahāwahā me ka nele o ka hoʻokūkū kālā a me ka transparency ma waena o nā hoa.
4. Ke hoʻomanawanui nei i nā mea he nui wale no ka moekolohe
Inā loaʻa iā ʻoe kēlā ke hoʻomanawanui nei ʻoe i nā ʻōlelo lapuwale he nui wale no ka manawa e moe kolohe ai me kāu hoa, hewa maoli ʻoe.
E hoʻokō kahi pilina olakino i kāu pono i ke kino a me ka naʻau, ʻaʻole ʻoe e noʻonoʻo i ka hoʻowahāwahā wale ʻia e uku i ka lawena hoʻolohe me ka moekolohe. E pau ka pilina maikaʻi ʻole e waiho ana iā ʻoe e ʻike i ka hoʻohana ʻia i loko o kahi pilina.
5. Hāʻawi kaulike ʻole a lawe i ka pilina
ʻO kekahi o nā hōʻailona āu i loko o kahi pilina maikaʻi ʻole ke hāʻawi ʻoe, hāʻawi, hāʻawi, a lawe kāu hoa, lawe, a lawe i ka hoʻihoʻi. Pono nā pilina e "hāʻawi a lawe" mai nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua. Inā ʻole, e ʻike ʻoe i ke aloha-burnout wikiwiki loa.
6. ʻAʻole hoʻokō ʻia kāu mau pono kino
He mea nui ka pili kino i ka pilina.
ʻO ka makemake ʻana i mea hou aʻe a i ʻole mea liʻiliʻi paha, ʻaʻole ia e lilo i kanaka maikaʻi ʻole. ʻO kēia kou mau pono kino, a makemake ʻoe i kāu hoa e ʻae a mahalo iā lākou. Inā ʻaʻole kūleʻa kāu pakanā i kāu mau pono kino a mālama paha i ka mea e manaʻo ai iā ʻoe, aia ʻoe i kahi pilina maikaʻi ʻole.
Ke hoʻokō ʻole ʻia nā makemake o ka moekolohe, hiki i nā pilikia he nui ke ʻano like me ka hoʻonui ʻana o ka hopohopo, ke koʻikoʻi, a me ka hōʻemi ʻana i ka pili.
E hoʻomaka paha ʻoe e huhū i kāu hoa a hoʻomaka paha e nānā i waho o ka pilina no ka hōʻoluʻolu. Hōʻalo i kēia ulapili pilina ma ke kamaʻilio ʻana a me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo i ka hoʻomaka o kāu pili e pili ana i kāu mau moe kolohe.
7. Manaʻo ʻole ʻoe i kou ʻōpū ʻōpū
ʻO ka huaʻōlelo “E hoʻolohe i kou ʻōpū”Aia ma waho no kahi kumu. Hiki iā ʻoe ke haʻi nui e pili ana i kāu mau makemake a me kou mau makemake ma ka hoʻolohe ʻana i kāu ʻano.
Inā manaʻo ʻoe ʻaʻole e mālama maikaʻi kāu kāne iā ʻoe, pono nō ʻoe. Ma ka nānā ʻole ʻana i kāu mau hoʻokolokolo e pili ana i kekahi, e koi paha ʻoe iā ʻoe iho e noho i kahi pilina hauʻoli a hōʻino paha.
8. Ke noʻonoʻo nei ʻoe i kahi hihia
ʻO kekahi o nā hōʻailona aia ʻoe i loko o kahi pilina maikaʻi ʻole ke maʻi loa ʻoe i kāu pakanā a hoʻomaka ʻoe e noʻonoʻo a i ʻole he pilina.
ʻAʻole ia e ʻōlelo i nā poʻe āpau i nā hihia no ka mea pili lākou i nā pilina maikaʻi ʻole, akā he kumu maoli nō ia.
Ke luhi a hauʻoli ʻole paha ʻoe e noʻonoʻo nei ʻoe e pili ana i ka hoʻomaka ʻana me kahi mea ʻē aʻe a nānā ʻole e kumakaia i ka hilinaʻi a kāu hoa, ua hiki i ka manawa e hoʻololi ai.
9. Hoʻonohonoho pono ʻoe i ka hana maikaʻi ʻole
Inā hana ʻino mai kāu hoa iā ʻoe, e ʻōlelo, ke kamaʻilio ʻia nei ʻoe i lalo a i hōʻino ʻia paha i ke kino a e kala iā ia me kahi:He lā maikaʻi ʻole kāna”A i ʻole“Ua hewa ia, akā naʻe, minamina maoli ʻo ia,”Aia ʻoe i loko o kahi pilina maikaʻi ʻole.
ʻAʻole pono kāu kamaʻilio e kamaʻilio pū me ʻoe, ʻoiai ma ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa. Inā hōʻino lākou ma ka waha, ʻo ia kekahi o nā hōʻailona haʻi haʻi o ka ipo aloha a kāne paha.
ʻO ka pilina olakino e hōʻoluʻolu ai ʻoe iā ʻoe, no ka mea ʻelua e hele nei i waena o ʻolua. ʻO ke kala ʻana i ka hana maikaʻi ʻole e like me ka wahaheʻe iā ʻoe iho. He ʻoiaʻiʻo, hiki iā ʻoe ke haʻi iā ʻoe iho ʻaʻole i kahi kaʻa palaho kāu kaʻa, akā ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻaʻole ʻoe e hele ma kahi ʻē.
10. Ke hakakā mau nei ʻoe
ʻO nā hoʻopaʻapaʻa mau he hōʻailona ia ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe a me kāu pakanā ke kamaʻilio, hōʻike i ka mahalo, a i ʻole ka hoʻopili ʻana. ʻOiaʻiʻo, maʻamau no ka hakakā o nā kāne.
I nā kau liʻiliʻi, hiki ke olakino maoli a hoʻomaikaʻi i ke kaʻina kamaʻilio o nā kāne. Akā inā ʻike ʻoe e hakakā mau ana ʻoe, ʻaʻole paha ʻoe i kahi pilina olakino.
ʻAʻole maʻamau ka hakakā ʻana i kēlā me kēia lā a hiki ke lilo i kumu luku no nā kāne. Inā he hoa paio a hakakā ʻole ʻoe, ka mea huhū i nā mea liʻiliʻi, he mau hōʻailona kēia o kahi ipo a wahine ʻino paha.
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11. Ka wahaheʻe i kāu mau hoaaloha a me kou ʻohana
ʻO kekahi o nā hōʻailona koʻikoʻi aia ʻoe i loko o kahi pilina maikaʻi ʻole ke hoʻomaka ʻoe e wahaheʻe i kāu mau hoaaloha a me kou ʻohana e pili ana i nā mea e hana nei i kou ola.
E like me ka noʻonoʻo ʻana i ka hana maikaʻi ʻole, ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake i ka poʻe kokoke iā ʻoe e ʻike e pili ana i nā hana maoli o kāu ʻano pili. Inā hopohopo ʻoe e manaʻo paha kāu mau hoaaloha e hana ʻino ʻia ʻoe, ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o kēia mea.
Inā ʻoe e ʻike nei i hoʻokahi a ʻoi aku paha o nā hōʻailona hōʻailona o kahi pilina maikaʻi ʻole ma kēia papa inoa, eia nā hōʻailona ʻōlapa aia ʻoe i kahi pilina maikaʻi ʻole.
Pehea e haʻalele ai i kahi pilina maikaʻi ʻole, e hoʻomanaʻo iā ʻoe iho he pono ʻoe e noho pū me kekahi e kākoʻo iā ʻoe a hana ʻoe i ke ʻano kūikawā. Mai kūʻai aku iā ʻoe iho pōkole ma ka ʻae ʻana i kekahi e lawe iā ʻoe no ka hāʻawi wale a ke hoʻomau nei i kahi pilina ʻona.
Ma ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana i nā hōʻailona pilina ʻona, hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike pehea e hoʻokō ʻole ʻia ai ka pilina koʻikoʻi a me ka pono e haʻalele i ka pilina.