I ka Makahiki Hou, hoʻomau nā kāne he nui i ka hana ʻana i nā hewa like i kā lākou pilina e like me ka makahiki i hala. ʻO ka hapa nui o kēia mau kāne ma ke kihi o ka hemo, ua hele i kahi a lākou e makemake ʻole ai kekahi i kekahi, a ua hoʻokaʻawale i ko lākou home i ʻelua, ʻo ia hoʻi, noho kekahi kanaka ma kekahi ʻaoʻao o ka hale a me nā ola ʻē aʻe. ma kela aoao.
Eia nō naʻe, ua hoʻoholo kekahi mau kāne a ʻoiai lākou e hana nei i nā hewa like, ua ʻae lākou i ke kuleana no kā lākou hana a mākaukau e neʻe i mua me ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana i kā lākou pilina a lilo i pili.
No laila he aha ka mea i ʻokoʻa ai kēia mau kāne a me nā kāne i mākaukau e haʻalele, hoʻokuʻu, a hele aku mai kā lākou pilina a male paha. E manaʻo wau na lākou ia:
- Aloha kekahi i kekahi
- ʻO ko lākou hiki ke nānā i nā pilikia a ʻaʻole kekahi i kekahi
- Ka hiki ke kamaʻilio kūpono
- ʻO ko lākou leo a koho i nā huaʻōlelo ke kamaʻilio pū kekahi me kekahi
- ʻO ko lākou hiki ke pale i ka hoʻouka kaua ʻana i kekahi i kekahi i ke kamaʻilio ʻana
- Ko lākou hiki ke hoʻomaopopo he hewa kekahi
- ʻO ko lākou hiki ʻole ke ʻae i ko lākou mau manaʻo e kuhikuhi i kā lākou hana a me nā ʻano
- ʻO kā lākou kūpaʻa i ke Akua, kā lākou hoʻohiki male, a me kekahi me kekahi
- ʻO ko lākou makemake e loli
- ʻO ko lākou mākaukau e kau i ka manawa a me ka hana e pono ai ka hana a kā lākou pilina
- A me ko lākou makemake e hoʻopukapuka i kekahi i kekahi a me ko lākou pilina
Akā manaʻoʻiʻo nō wau, aia kekahi mau mea ʻē aʻe e hana ai nā kāne a paʻa e pili pono loa, ʻaʻole e hana kekahi mau kāne ʻē aʻe. ʻO kahi laʻana, nā kāne e makemake ana i ko lāua pilina e mau:
- Mai mālama ʻole i kekahi i kekahi: Mai hopu i ka hoʻoponopono ʻana i nā mea ʻē aʻe, mālama ʻole lākou i ko lākou pilina a male paha. Hoʻomaopopo lākou e hana ka pilina, a ma mua o ka hoʻāʻo ʻana e kōkua i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, ʻimi lākou i kōkua no lākou iho.
- Mai lawe wale i kekahi i kekahi: A inā lākou e hana, kala mai lākou a hoʻololi i nā mea e pale ai i ka hana hou ʻana.
- E aloha i kekahi i kekahi i kēlā me kēia lā. Paipai lākou a kākoʻo kekahi i kekahi; ʻaʻole lākou e nānā i nā hiʻohiʻona maikaʻi ʻole, a kau lākou i ka nānā hou i nā mea maikaʻi e pili ana i kekahi i kekahi a me ka pilina. ʻIke lākou i nā ala e ʻike ai kekahi i kekahi mai kahi kuanaʻike hou a ʻokoʻa i kēlā me kēia lā.
- Mahalo: Mahalo lākou i nā mea liʻiliʻi e pili ana i kekahi i kekahi a me ko lākou pilina.
- Mahalo: ʻLelo lākou a hōʻike kekahi i kekahi i ko lākou mahalo nui i kekahi mau ʻano a hana paha.
- Mai hoʻohana pono: ʻAʻole lākou e hoʻoponopono i kekahi i kekahi e kiʻi i ka mea a lākou e makemake ai, a maopopo iā lākou ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke hoʻoikaika i kekahi i kekahi e hana i kekahi mau mea, a no laila ʻaʻole lākou e hoʻāʻo.
- E kala aku kekahi i kekahi: E kala aku lākou inā ʻaʻole lākou makemake, a hoʻomaopopo i ka hele ʻana i kahi hiamoe huhū e hōʻeha ka pilina a i ʻole ka male. Manaʻoʻiʻo lākou i ka honi maoli ʻana a me ka hana ʻana ma mua o ka hiamoe ʻana. Nānā ʻole i ka mea pololei a hewa paha, kala mau lākou i kekahi i kekahi no ka mea maopopo lākou ʻaʻole mea nui ka pono, akā ʻo ke kala.
- E ʻae a mahalo i nā ʻokoʻa a kekahi. ʻAʻole lākou e hoʻāʻo e hoʻololi i kekahi i kekahi. ʻAʻole paha lākou makemake i nā mea āpau e pili ana i kekahi i kekahi, akā mahalo lākou kekahi i kekahi. ʻAʻole lākou e hoʻāʻo e hoʻoikaika kekahi i kekahi e loli i kahi mea ʻaʻole lākou, a i ʻole ka hoʻoikaika kekahi i kekahi e hana i kahi mea hōʻoluʻolu ʻole.
- Kūpono ʻole me ka ʻuā ʻana a me ka ʻuwā ʻana: Ua waiho lākou i ko lākou mau manaʻo i ke kamaʻilio kūkā ʻana. Hoʻomaopopo nā kāne makua ʻōpio i ka hoʻouka kaua ʻana i kekahi i kekahi i ka wā o ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa a i ʻole ke kūkā ʻole e hoʻonā i ka pilikia.
- E ʻae i kekahi i ka manawa kūpono e ʻōlelo ai: Hana lākou i kēia me ka ʻole keakea. ʻAʻole lākou e hoʻolohe i ka pane ʻana; hoʻolohe lākou e hoʻomaopopo. ʻO nā kāne e hana ana i nā pane i loko o ko lākou poʻo ʻoiai ke kamaʻilio nei ka mea ʻē aʻe, hoʻomāhuahua iki i ka ʻike o ka mea a haʻi e ʻōlelo ai a i ʻōlelo ai paha.
- Mai manaʻo: ʻAʻole lākou i manaʻo ua ʻike lākou i ka manaʻo o kekahi me kekahi, nīnau lākou i nā nīnau e wehewehe a loaʻa ka ʻike. ʻAe a hoʻomaopopo lākou ʻaʻole lākou he poʻe heluhelu noʻonoʻo.
- Mai ana: ʻAʻole lākou i ana i ka kūleʻa o kā lākou pilina me nā pilina ʻē aʻe, a ʻaʻole hoʻohālikelike kekahi i kekahi i nā kāne ʻē aʻe. ʻAʻole lākou i ʻōlelo "Makemake wau e like ʻoe me____________. ʻO kēia ka ʻōlelo # 1 e hōʻino ai i ka pilina a me ka male.
- Mai ʻae i nā hewa i hala: ʻAʻole lākou e ʻae i nā hewa i hala a me nā ʻike e kuhikuhi i ko lākou wā e hiki mai a hauʻoli pū paha. Maopopo iā lākou ka hala i hala a ʻo ka neʻe ʻana i mua ka mea nui aʻe ma mua o ka lawe ʻana mai i nā mea i hana ʻia a i ʻole nā mea i hana ʻole ʻia.
- Hoʻomaopopo i ka mea nui o ka wehe: Kūpono lākou, a kūlike kekahi me kekahi i nā manawa āpau. Hoʻomaopopo lākou i ka waiwai o kēia mau ʻano i ka kūleʻa o kā lākou pili.
- E ʻōlelo ʻoluʻolu, mahalo: Hoʻohana lākou i nā huaʻōlelo e like me 'mahalo wau iā ʻoe', a 'aloha wau iā ʻoe pinepine'. Hoʻomaopopo lākou he mau ʻōlelo waiwai kēia a pehea ka mea nui i ka kūleʻa o kā lākou pilina.
- ʻO ka mea hope loa, hoʻomanaʻo mau lākou i ke kumu a lākou i aloha ai: Hoʻomanaʻo lākou i ke kumu a lākou i ʻōlelo mai ai iaʻu, a no ke aha lākou i koho ai e hana i kekahi i kekahi.
Hiki i nā pilina ke paʻakikī loa i kekahi manawa, akā ke loaʻa iā ʻoe ʻelua mau kānaka e makemake e hoʻokau i kā lākou pilina, e makemake ana e hoʻomaikaʻi i ko lākou pilina, a makemake e ulu kokoke, hana ia i ka maʻalahi a leʻaleʻa ka pilina. Lawe i kahi manawa a pili i kēia i kāu pili, a kiaʻi e ulu a nānā iā ʻoe a me kāu kāne e ulu kokoke.