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- KaʻAnuʻu Hana 1: E hōʻoia i kāu palekana ponoʻī
- KaʻAnuʻu 2: E aʻo
- KaʻAnuʻu Hana 3: E hōʻoia i ka mōakāka
ʻO ka hopohopo nui ʻoiai e noʻonoʻo ana i ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana mai kāu kāne ʻo ia kou palekana. Inā he kumu kāu e noʻonoʻo ai e hana paha kāu kāne i kahi ʻano waha a i ʻole kino kolohe, he mea nui ia he kākoʻo kou (a me ke kānāwai) i kūkulu ʻia ma kahi.
KaʻAnuʻu Hana 1: E hōʻoia i kāu palekana ponoʻī
E launa pū ana kekahi mau hana kūpono me nā hui kūloko kūloko kūloko a me nā kōkua kōkua a i ʻole ke kamaʻilio pū ʻana me nā mākaʻi kūloko e faila i kahi kauoha kaohi.
ʻO kekahi o nā ala kōkua kōkua nui a ka poʻe e lawe ai, e noho me kahi hoaaloha a ʻohana paha inā loaʻa iā ia kēlā koho. Paipai wau i kēia mau wahine e haʻi aku i kā lākou mea aloha i ka mea e hana nei, inā ʻaʻole lākou. ʻIke wau he maʻalahi loa kēia ma mua o ka hana, akā ʻoiaʻiʻo mea nui kēlā.
Me ka ʻōlelo ʻia, pololei pololei nā loina o ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana i mua.
KaʻAnuʻu 2: E aʻo
He mea nui e nānā i ka hana a ka hoʻokaʻawale a me ka hemo ʻana i kāu mokuʻāina.
Ma ke ʻano laulā, aia ʻelua ʻano o ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana, kūpuna a me ka hana maʻamau. ʻO ka hoʻokaʻawale kūlana e pili ana i kahi kaʻawale kū kānāwai kahi e hoʻolimalima ʻia ai nā loio e hana i kahi ʻaelike hoʻokaʻawale. E hoʻokaʻawale kēia palapala ʻaelike a kuhikuhi i nā kuleana a me nā kuleana o kēlā me kēia hoa e like me ka hoʻonohonoho hale, mālama keiki, kālā, uku ʻana i nā hōʻaiʻē, etc.
Kūpono kēia koho i ke kālā, no laila he mea pono paha iā ʻoe e mālama a nīnau paha i kahi hoaaloha a ʻohana paha no ke kōkua.
ʻO ke kālā kahi pale maoli i mālama i nā wahine i ka hauʻoli a me nā pilina maikaʻi ʻole. Eia naʻe, ʻo ka nūhou maikaʻi e kūkulu ʻia ka noʻonoʻo kanaka no nā manaʻo hana a me nā manawa a-ha. ʻAʻohe mea ʻē aʻe i kēia, no laila inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e noʻonoʻo iā ʻoe iho he akamai loa, loaʻa iā ʻoe ka hiki i kūkulu ʻia no nā manaʻo hana a me ka ʻike. ʻO ka manaʻo, he manaʻo maikaʻi loa pehea e kiʻi ai i ke kālā, nā mea ʻē aʻe i haʻi ʻia ma luna, loaʻa mau ka hiki i ka holomua.
ʻO kahi koho ʻē aʻe o ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana he hoʻokaʻawale informal kahi i pili ʻole ai nā ʻaha. Hiki ke kau ʻia kēia a kau inoa ʻia e nā hoa ʻelua. Eia hou, inā ʻoe i kahi male hakakā kiʻekiʻe, ʻaʻole paha kēia he koho kūpono. Eia nō naʻe, ʻo koʻu ʻano ia i kekahi manawa e kahaha ka poʻe iā ʻoe.
Ua hele aku hoʻokahi mea kūʻai aku i kāna kāne a ʻōlelo wale "ʻaʻole wau makemake e kaumaha hou". ʻAe maoli ʻo ia i ka hoʻokaʻawale a ʻo ia ka mea nui a lākou e ʻōlelo ai e pili ana. Ua huki ʻo ia i nā pepa, ua kaʻawale lākou, a ua haʻalele hope ʻia.
ʻO kahi pōmaikaʻi o kēia hoʻokaʻawale informal ʻaʻole ia e loaʻa i nā uku kānāwai kiʻekiʻe. ʻAʻole hiki i ka ʻaha ke hoʻokō ʻia e ka ʻaoʻao haʻahaʻa, no laila inā he uhaʻi i kēia ʻaelike e kāu hoa, ʻaʻohe nui hiki iā ʻoe ke hana.
KaʻAnuʻu Hana 3: E hōʻoia i ka mōakāka
No kekahi mau wahine (a kāne paha), maopopo leʻa ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana ka mea a lākou e makemake ai. Hele kekahi a hala i kekahi mau makahiki no ka haʻohaʻo he aha ka hopena kūpono. I kekahi manawa manaʻo lākou i ka manaolana a i kekahi mau manawa manaʻo lākou "No ke aha i haʻalele ʻole ai wau i kēia kanaka ma mua?".
ʻAʻohe ala kūpono a hewa ʻole e hoʻokokoke i kēia hoʻoholo.
Eia naʻe, makemake wau e wehewehe i kēia wehewehe. Ua hele a nui nā wahine aʻu e kamaʻilio pū ai me ka wahine i ka hiki i kā lākou kāne no ka loli.
No laila, ua piliwi lākou āpau i hiki iā lākou ke hoʻololi i kā lākou kāne. I kēia manawa, ʻaʻole wau e ʻōlelo nei ʻaʻole hiki i ka poʻe āpau ke loli. ʻO ia nō.
A ... ʻaʻole ia he mea hiki iā ʻoe ke kaohi, hoʻoikaika a hoʻoulu i ka manaʻo i kekahi ʻē aʻe e hana.
ʻO ka loli ʻoiaʻiʻo a mau hoʻi, hele mai mau i ka waho o kēlā me kēia kanaka. ʻO ka manaʻo, pono ke kanaka e ʻike a hoʻomaopopo i kahi mea hou e pili ana iā lākou iho a pehea e pili ai i ka honua i mea e loli mau ai kā lākou hana. Hiki i kēlā me kēia kanaka ke hana e pili ana i ka maikaʻi o ka noʻonoʻo (noʻonoʻo a ʻike ʻole paha) i loaʻa iā lākou i kēlā manawa.
No laila, he mea kōkua nō hoʻi ke ʻike i ka loli ʻole o kāu kāne, ʻaʻole ia he hiʻohiʻona inā aloha ʻo ia iā ʻoe a ʻaʻole paha. ʻO ka hana ka hopena, ʻaʻole ia ke kumu.
No laila, e haʻalele wau iā ʻoe i kēia. ʻO ke kumu hōʻoia wale nō āu, ʻo ka hana a kāu hoa i kēia manawa. Hiki ke hoʻololi, akā ʻaʻole hiki ke alo aʻe.
Ma ka hopena o ka lā, no ka maikaʻi ʻole o ia, loaʻa mau iā ʻoe ka hiki no ke kūpaʻa a me ka noʻonoʻo hou. Paipai wau iā ʻoe e ʻae i kēlā mea i alakaʻi iā ʻoe i kēia ulu ʻana o kou pilina.