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ʻO ka manaʻolana o nā wahine wahine hou a wahine hou paha e loaʻa kahi male lōʻihi a hoʻokō. He maʻalahi ke kiʻi ʻia i ke aloha o nā mea āpau a manaʻoʻiʻo e lanakila ana kou aloha i nā mea āpau, akā hiki ke lilo i ka weliweli i ka manaʻoʻiʻo.
He mea nui ke aloha, akā ʻaʻole lawa ia e mālama ai i kāu male ma ke ala no nā makahiki e hiki mai ana. Ke hana nei i ka pilina ma ka male a i ʻole ke kūkulu nei i ka pilina ma ka mare ʻo ia ke kī no ka hui hauʻoli a ʻoluʻolu a kūʻē i ka manaʻo lehulehu, ʻoi aku ka pili ma mua o ka mea i hana ʻia i loko o ka lumi moe.
ʻAe, he mea nui ka moekolohe, akā ʻo ke kūkulu ʻana i ka pilina ma ka male ʻana he mea nui ia me ka mea e hana ʻia ma waho o ka lumi moe a me kāu lā i kēlā me kēia lā. E ʻike pehea e kūkulu ai i ka pilina ma ka male
Ke kūkulu nei i ka pilina ma ka mare a me ka mālama ʻana iā ia
Hiki iā ʻoe ke kiʻi i kahi wāwae i kēlā hauʻoli mau loa ma ke aʻo ʻana pehea e hele ai e pili ana i ke kūkulu ʻana i ka pilina ma ka male a me ka mālama ʻana. ʻO nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a ka pili pili a i ʻole ka pilina ma nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a ka male hiki iā ʻoe ke kōkua iā ʻoe e hana i kēlā mea, hāʻawi iā ʻoe i kahi hoʻomaka maikaʻi a kōkua iā ʻoe e mālama i ka pilina i loko o kāu male no nā makahiki e hiki mai ana.
No laila inā ʻoe e ʻimi nei i ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo moekolohe no nā kāne hou, a i ʻole ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo pili pili wale no ka male ʻana no ka wahine hou āu i hele ai i kahi kūpono.
1. E ʻike i nā ala hana e ʻōlelo ai 'Aloha au iā ʻoe'
ʻO nā pilikia pili aloha a i ʻole nā pilikia pili i ka pili ma muli o ka hopena o ka hana a ka wahine. I ka hala ʻana o ka manawa ua loaʻa ʻoe a me kāu wahine i nā hana pilikino pilikino maʻa mau a poina e hele i kahi mile keu e kahaha i kāu wahine.
ʻO kekahi o nā ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo no ka male ʻana no nā mea hou ʻaʻole e hoʻopili ʻia e ka hana maʻamau a loaʻa i nā ala hanana e haʻi i ko lākou aloha i kā lākou hoa.
E hawanawana iā ia i loko o ko lākou pepeiao a kākau paha i ka lipstick ma ke aniani. He mea ʻole pehea ʻoe e ʻōlelo ai, e like ka hopena. Makemake mākou āpau e aloha ʻia a ʻaʻohe mea hiki ke hoʻomaikaʻi i ke kanaka ma mua o ka ʻike ʻana he aloha lākou.
2. Flirt
ʻO kēia kahi mea a mākou e hana nui ai i ka wā e pili ana a paʻa i ka male ʻana. He leʻaleʻa ka hoʻolana a hiki iā ʻoe ʻoluʻolu. ʻIke ke kanaka e hana nei i ka flirting i ka wahine, a ke makemake ʻia ke kanaka me ka ʻoluʻolu a makemake ʻia, no ka wikiwiki o ka pīhoihoi.
Eia kekahi ʻ tipslelo aʻoaʻo pili no nā kāne e hoʻomaʻamaʻa hou aku a puni kā lākou hoa: Lawe i nā mea a lākou e makemake ai, hoʻāʻo e hopu i ko lākou maka, kākau iā lākou i kahi leka leʻaleʻa a i ʻole kahi leka maikaʻi ʻole, e hoʻopili pinepine iā lākou. E hoʻāʻo e wehe aʻe, manuahi, a me nā meaola.
3. Hana i nā mea no kekahi i kekahi
ʻOiai e mahalo nui ʻia kahi pāʻina a i ʻole ʻaina awakea aloha paha, ʻoiai ka hoʻomaʻemaʻe ʻana i kā lākou ar a i ʻole ke lawe ʻana i kekahi o kā lākou hana hiki ke hele lōʻihi. Ke hana nei i kekahi mea no ka mea ʻē aʻe, hōʻike ʻoe i kou mālama a loaʻa ko lākou kua. ʻO ia ka pili o ka male!
ʻO kēlā mau hana o ka hoʻokō paʻa ʻole a me ke aloha e hoʻomaopopo mau ai i kāu wahine i ka laki o lākou iā ʻoe i ko lākou ola.
4. E hana pū i ka huakaʻi
Runoff no ka hopena pule a i ʻole he mau hola wale nō, ʻo ʻolua wale nō, a hana i kahi mea hou. Hiki iā ia ke mākaʻikaʻi i kahi kūlanakauhale hou a i ʻole ka hoʻāʻo pū ʻana i kahi hana hou. Hāʻawi ka manawa i ka hana ʻana i kahi mea ʻokoʻa e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i kahi ʻike like a me kahi ʻano hoʻonui o ka pīhoihoi.
ʻO ka wikiwiki o adrenaline wale nō ka mea e pono ai i kāu male e hoʻoponopono hou ai i ka pilina i loko o kou ola.
5. E kamaʻilio e pili ana i kāu mau moeʻuhane a me kāu mau pahu hopu
Hiki i kēia ke lilo i pahuhopu like, e like me ke kūʻai ʻana a i ʻole ka hoʻomaikaʻi hou ʻana i kahi hale, a i ʻole ka moemoeā āu wale nō. ʻO ka hāʻawi ʻana i kāu mau manaʻolana a me nā moemoeā e paipai iā lākou e hana i ka mea maikaʻi loa no ke kūkulu ʻana i ka pilina ma ka male a me ka hoʻoulu ʻana i kekahi i kekahi e ola i nā ola.
ʻO ke kamaʻilio ʻana e pili ana i kou mau manaʻolana a me kāu mau moeʻuhane me kāu wahine he ʻano intrinsic o male aloha hou. Pono ʻoe e hōʻoia ʻaʻole e nalo i kēia i kāu male, ʻoiai e kōkua mau kēia iā ʻoe e ʻike i kou ala i kekahi i kekahi.
6. E mālama i kahi loina no ʻolua wale nō
Hiki iā ia ke cuddling ma ka moena me ka waina a me ka pizza i nā pō Pōʻalima a i ʻole ke kope ʻana ma kāu cafe punahele ma nā kakahiaka Sābati. Ke hana pū nei i kahi loina kūikawā e hoʻopaʻa paʻa iā ʻoe a hāʻawi iā ʻoe i kahi mea kūikawā e nānā i mua no ka pehea o ke ola hectic i loaʻa.
Mai hopohopo inā ʻaʻole kū hoʻokahi a i ʻole he mea cliched loa ia, a hiki i ka manawa e hauʻoli pū ai ʻolua iā ia e holo pono ia.
7. Ka lā i kāu wahine
ʻO ke ʻano o ka male ʻana i ke aloha no ka pili aloha ʻana, akā ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo no ka hoʻōki ʻana i ka leʻaleʻa a me nā ipo aloha me kāu ipo.
Hana i ka manawa i hana i nā mea āu i hauʻoli ai i ka hana pū ʻana ma mua o ka male ʻana e hōʻalo i ka hāʻule ʻana i kahi rut a lilo i kēlā hunaahi a me ka pili i alakaʻi iā ʻoe e male i ka mea mua.
E hana i kekahi i kekahi e like me ke ʻano āu i hana ai i ka wā i hui mua ai kekahi me kekahi, ʻaʻole maʻalahi a ʻaʻole ʻaneʻane hoihoi akā ʻo ka manaʻo mau ka hoʻomau ʻana i ka ʻimi a me ka hoʻāʻo ʻana e ʻike i kahi mea e kōkua ai iā ʻoe e pakele i kahi ao ponoʻī.
ʻO kekahi o nā hoʻopiʻi nui loa mai ka poʻe male ka manaʻo ʻole o ka pilina like me kā lākou hoa a lākou i hana ai i ka wā e pili aloha ana. Hāʻawi ka male i ka manawa kūpono e kūkulu i kahi ʻano pilikino ʻē aʻe e pili ana i ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana e noho pū a hiki i ka wā e make ai ʻoe.
ʻAʻole pono kēia e hoʻololi i ka pilina āu i ʻōlelo ai ma mua o kāu ʻōlelo ʻana. Mai poina i ke kanaka a lākou i aloha ai a i ʻole ke kanaka āu i aloha ai. E hoʻomau i ka hoʻopili ʻana ma luna o nā ʻike hou a leʻaleʻa pū ʻoiai ke komo nā kuleana o ke ola.