Anter
- 1. Nā hoa me nā pono
- 2. Ka pilina huna
- 3. ʻO crush crush
- 4. Ke hoʻoleʻa nei i kekahi ʻaʻole ʻoe
- 5. ʻO ka pīpī i kāu hoa aloha
- 6. Aloha Circumstantial
- 7. Ka pilina "ʻoluʻolu"
Paʻakikī ke aloha, a ʻo ka hapanui o ka poʻe he ʻeha, ʻoluʻolu ʻole, a i ʻole nā ʻike pilina paʻakikī i loko o kā lākou mau makahiki i ka pili aloha.
ʻO ka nūhou maikaʻi? Ma muli wale nō o ka hana ʻana a kekahi mea ʻē aʻe ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e hāhai i ko lākou wāwae.
ʻOiai ka hapanui o nā ʻano pilina e loaʻa nā haʻawina ola o ka mea āu e hana a makemake ʻole ai mai kahi hoa e hiki mai ana, kekahi o kēia paʻakikī nā pilina a hiki ke hoʻonāukiuki i kahi aniani hoʻonāukiuki e ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka waiho ʻia ʻana.
Me he mea kānalua ʻole ia a noʻonoʻo iā mākou no ke aha e paʻakikī ai ke aloha, no ke aha e paʻakikī ai ka pilina, a he aha ka pilina paʻakikī?
I mea e kōkua ai iā ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo i ke ʻano o nā pilina paʻakikī, eia he 8 mau pilina paʻakikī e hoʻāʻo ʻoe a hōʻole.
1. Nā hoa me nā pono
He pilina paʻakikī kēia o ka hapanui o nā poʻe o ke koleke i manaʻo maikaʻi e pili ana. "E!" E ʻōlelo lākou. “Makemake au i kēia kanaka, akā ʻaʻole wau makemake i kahi pilina.
E moe kolohe me ka ʻole o nā kaula i hoʻopili ʻia. He aha ka mea e hewa? ” ʻO ka pane nā mea āpau!
He hōʻino kēia pili pili kino i nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua. Me he mea lā maikaʻi a leʻaleʻa hoʻi ia, e hāpai ana i mau hoaaloha ke hoʻokau nei me nā kaula ʻole.
Akā ʻike ʻole ʻia, e loaʻa ana i kekahi ka manaʻo no kekahi a makemake i kahi mea hou aʻe. Hāʻawi ʻoe me ka manaʻo ʻole a he pāʻani pāʻani kekahi a hiki i ka hiki ʻana mai o kahi mea ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi.
Eia kekahi, i ka manawa e pau kekahi o ʻoukou i kahi pilina hou, 100% pau kou aloha.
ʻOiai kahi noiʻi kūpono i hōʻike ʻia ʻaʻole makemake ka hapa nui o kāna mau mea e komo i kahi pilina paʻakikī e like me 'Nā Hoa me nā Pōmaikaʻi.'
E nānā pū kekahi:
2. Ka pilina huna
Nui nā kumu o ka pilina huna, a ʻaʻohe o lākou he maikaʻi. Maliʻa paha e pili aloha ana ʻoe ma waho o kou lāhui, a ʻae ʻole ʻia kou ʻohana i nā pili pili waena.
He laʻana maʻamau kēia o ke ʻano o ka pilina paʻakikī.
ʻO nā kumu hou aʻe e pili ana ua male ʻia kekahi o ʻoe a ke pili wahine nei ʻoe, ke hana pū nei ʻoe, ʻaʻole ʻae ʻia kou mau hoaaloha a ʻohana paha a manaʻo paha he maikaʻi kēia kanaka iā ʻoe, a holo mau ka papa inoa.
ʻO ka noho ʻana me kahi pilina malū he ʻoluʻolu ʻole a kūpono ʻole i nā ʻaoʻao āpau i pili.
3. ʻO crush crush
ʻO ka hemo ʻana i ke kāne a kāu hoaaloha ʻo ia paha kekahi o nā pilina huikau āu e hālāwai ai, keu hoʻi inā hoʻomaka ʻoe i kahi hihia.
Ke hoʻokau nei ʻoe i kāna male, a me kou aloha me kāna wahine.
Pēlā nō, ʻo ka alualu ʻana i ka ipo i ka hoa o kāu wahine kekahi mea ʻole. Ke mahalo ʻole nei i ka aloha ʻana i kāu hoa aloha o kāu wahine ma nā helu āpau. ʻO ka mea mua, male ʻoe.
Pehea e manaʻo ai ka hoa iā ʻoe e hele mai ana iā ia?
ʻAʻole makemake ʻo ia e hōʻino i kona aloha me kāu wahine ma ka ʻimi ʻana i kahi hihia a ʻū paha iā ʻoe a pilikia i ka hōʻoluʻolu ʻana i nā mea ke kūlou āpau.
ʻO kēia kahi pilina paʻakikī e haʻalele maikaʻi ʻia.
4. Ke hoʻoleʻa nei i kekahi ʻaʻole ʻoe
Aia kekahi pae o ka hana keaka ke hana i ka hoʻomaka o kekahi pilina. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻo ʻoe iho ʻoe, akā makemake ʻoe e hoʻopūʻiwa i ke kanaka āu e manaʻo ai.
Ma ke ʻano maʻamau, e hele ʻoe i kāu ʻano maikaʻi loa a hōʻike i ka hoihoi i kekahi o nā mea a lākou e makemake ai, ʻoiai inā ʻaʻohe ou hoihoi pilikino i kēlā mea.
Maikaʻi kēia no ka ʻike mua ʻana i kekahi i kekahi, akā ʻo ka hoʻokohukohu ʻana he kanaka ʻaʻole ʻoe e kūpaʻa i ka pili lōʻihi.
ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻopuni i kou pilikino no nā makahiki. ʻAʻole ʻoe e hōʻoluʻolu i kēia pilina.
Eia kekahi, ʻaʻole kūpono i kāu hoa e hoʻopunipuni iā lākou i ka noʻonoʻo he nui kāu i like a laila hoʻohuli i ke kī ma luna o lākou ke lilo nā mea i koʻikoʻi.
5. ʻO ka pīpī i kāu hoa aloha
Ke loaʻa nei kahi puʻupuʻu i kāu hoa aloha ʻo ia kekahi o nā pilina kūpilikiʻi āu e noho ai.
Ke haʻi aku nei ʻoe iā ia i nā mea āpau a makaʻu paha i ka huli ʻana i lalo a lilo i kou aloha, a i ʻole hoʻokuke ʻoe iā ia i hope o kou noʻonoʻo a hiki i ka ʻoliʻoli ʻana a hoʻomaka ʻoe e huhū i kāu hoaaloha?
ʻAʻole hoʻopiʻi nā koho ʻelua. Inā ʻaʻole e huli i kāu hoaaloha e kaʻana like i kou aloha aloha, e huli huikau paha kou aloha.
6. Aloha Circumstantial
ʻO ke aloha Circumstantial kahi pilina paʻakikī e paʻakikī e haʻalele. Ma hope o nā mea āpau, maʻalahi wale ia!
Inā ʻoe i ke aloha kūpono, no ka mea ʻaʻole hiki i kekahi o ʻoe ke noho mehameha, hoʻokahi ʻāpana inā mālama ʻia e kekahi ʻaoʻao, ua hoʻomōhala kekahi ʻaoʻao i kahi maʻi maʻi nui a i ʻole ua loaʻa kekahi ulia pōpilikia. Ua hewa ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe i ka haʻalele.
ʻO nā mea āpau ke pilikia, pilikia ke aloha pilikino.
7. Ka pilina "ʻoluʻolu"
Hana ʻia kahi pilina ʻoluʻolu ke maikaʻi nā poʻe ʻelua, noho pū. ʻAʻohe ou nui o ke kemika, akā hoʻopau kāu hana i ka wahine. Makemake ʻoe i ke kanaka me ʻoe.
Ka pilikia?
ʻAʻohe aloha a kuko paha i kāu pili. Ma kahi o ka ʻike ʻana i kāu hoa me kāu hoa aloha a i ʻole kāu koho mua e hoʻolilo manawa me, hui pū ʻoe ma waho o ka maʻalahi a i ʻole ka makaʻu o ka noho hoʻokahi.
Ua hala ʻoe i hoʻokahi a ʻoi paha o nā pilina i helu ʻia ma luna? Inā pēlā, mai huhū ʻoe. E hoʻomanaʻo, pono ʻoe e hele ma waena o kekahi mau pilina paʻakikī e kiʻi i nā mea maikaʻi.