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- Ua wehewehe ʻia nā ʻōlelo aloha
- Nā huaʻōlelo hōʻoia
- Hoʻopā kino
- Manawa kūpono
- Makana
- Nā hana o ka lawelawe
- Pehea e ʻike ai i nā ʻōlelo aloha a nā Hana o ka lawelawe
- He aha e hana ai inā ʻo ka ʻōlelo aloha a kāu hoa ʻo Acts of Service
- Loaʻa nā hana o ka lawelawe
- 20 Hana o ka lawelawe aloha i nā manaʻo ʻōlelo
- Panina hopena
Makemake nā kānaka āpau e aloha ʻia a mālama ʻia i loko o kā lākou pilina, akā he ʻokoʻa nā ʻano o kā mākou āpau e hōʻike ai i ke aloha, a me nā ala makemake ʻia e loaʻa ai ke aloha.
ʻO kekahi ala e hōʻike ai i ke aloha ma o nā hana o ka lawelawe, ʻo ia paha ka ʻōlelo aloha i makemake ʻia no kekahi poʻe.
Inā makemake kāu pakanā i nā hana o ka ʻōlelo aloha aloha, hiki ke kōkua ke ʻike i ke ʻano o kēia. Eia kekahi, e ʻike i kekahi mau hana maikaʻi loa o nā manaʻo lawelawe hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohana e hōʻike i kou aloha.
Ua wehewehe ʻia nā ʻōlelo aloha
'ʻO nā hana o ka lawelawe aloha' ōlelo aloha na Dr. Gary Chapman's "5 ʻ Langulelo aloha." Ua hoʻoholo kēia mea kākau maikaʻi loa i ʻelima mau ʻōlelo aloha mua, ʻo ia nā ʻano ala like ʻole e hāʻawi ai ka poʻe me nā ʻano ʻokoʻa a loaʻa ke aloha.
ʻO ka manawa pinepine, ʻelua mau kānaka i kahi pilina, ʻoiai ko lāua manaʻo maikaʻi loa, hiki ke kuhi hewa i ka ʻōlelo aloha a kekahi i kekahi. Ma hope o nā mea āpau, ʻokoʻa nā ala e hōʻike ai i ke aloha no nā mea āpau.
ʻO kahi laʻana, makemake paha kekahi i nā hana o ka ʻōlelo aloha aloha, akā ke hoʻāʻo nei paha kā lākou hoa e hōʻike i ke aloha ʻokoʻa.
Ke maopopo i nā kāne i nā ʻōlelo aloha a kekahi, hiki iā lākou ke noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ke aloha i ke ʻano e hana no kēlā me kēia lālā o ka pilina.
Eia kahi hiʻohiʻona pōkole o nā ʻōlelo aloha ʻelima.
ʻO ka poʻe me ka ʻōlelo aloha ‘ōlelo o ka hōʻoia ʻana, 'ʻoliʻoli i ka hoʻomaikaʻi waha a me ka hōʻoia ʻana a loaʻa nā hōʻino kūpilikiʻi ʻole.
Pono kekahi me kēia ʻōlelo aloha i nā aloha aloha e like me ke ʻapo, ka honi, ka paʻa lima, ka ʻaoʻao hope, a ʻae, ka wahine i mea e aloha ʻia ai.
ʻO nā hoa nona ka ʻōlelo aloha i makemake ʻia ka manawa maikaʻi e leʻaleʻa i ka manawa pū e hana pū ana i nā hana leʻaleʻa. E ʻehaʻeha lākou inā ʻano hihia paha kā lākou hoa ke noho manawa like.
Ke loaʻa ʻana o kahi ʻōlelo aloha e makemake ai e pili ana i nā makana ke manaʻo nui kāu pakanā i ka makana o kou hele ʻana i kahi hanana nui me lākou, a me nā makana e like me nā pua.
No laila, inā ʻoe e aloha i ka manaʻo o kekahi e ʻauʻau iā ʻoe me nā makana he nui, me ka ʻole a i ʻole kekahi manawa, ʻike ʻoe i kāu ʻōlelo aloha!
ʻIke ʻia kēia ʻōlelo aloha i ka poʻe e aloha nui ana ke hana kā lākou hoa i kekahi mea kōkua na lākou, e like me ka hana ma ka hale. Hiki i kahi hemahema o ke kākoʻo ke lilo i mea weliweli loa no kahi kanaka me kēia ʻōlelo aloha.
Mai loko mai o kēia mau ʻano ʻōlelo aloha ʻelima, e hoʻoholo ai i kāu ʻōlelo i makemake ʻia, e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i kāu koho ʻana e hāʻawi i ke aloha. Ua hauʻoli ʻoe i ka hana ʻana i nā mea maikaʻi no kāu hoa, a i ʻole hāʻawi ʻoe i kahi makana noʻonoʻo?
Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ka wā āu e aloha nui ai. Inā, e laʻa, manaʻo ʻoe e mālama ʻia ke hāʻawi ʻia kāu pakanā i kahi hoʻomaikaʻi maoli, ʻo nā huaʻōlelo hōʻoia he ʻōlelo aloha āu e makemake ai.
ʻO ka launa ʻana me kāu ʻōlelo aloha ponoʻī a noi aku i kāu hoa e pili ana i kā lākou hiki ke kōkua iā ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo pono i kekahi i kekahi a hōʻike i ke aloha i nā ala e ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi no kēlā me kēia o ʻoukou.
Pākuʻi Pili: ʻO nā mea e pili ana i nā ʻōlelo aloha ʻelima i kahi male
Pehea e ʻike ai i nā ʻōlelo aloha a nā Hana o ka lawelawe
I kēia manawa he hoʻomaopopo kou i nā ʻōlelo aloha ʻelima, ʻo ka manawa kēia e luʻu hohonu iki ai i ka ʻōlelo aloha i kapa ʻia he mau hana o ka lawelawe.
E like me ka wehewehe ʻana o ka poʻe loea, inā he ʻōlelo lawelawe ka ʻōlelo āu e makemake ai, e ʻike lākou i kou aloha ma o nā mea āu e hana ai, ʻaʻole nā ʻōlelo āu e ʻōlelo ai. Ke hana ʻoe i kahi mea e hele ma luna a ma ʻō, e manaʻo lākou e mālama ʻia a mahalo ʻia i ka pilina.
Ke ʻōlelo ʻia, ʻo nā hana o ke aloha aloha ʻōlelo ma mua o ka hana ʻana i kāu ʻāpana i ka pilina. ʻAʻole makemake kahi hoa me kēia ʻōlelo aloha e mālama wale ʻoe i kāu mau kuleana i ka pilina; makemake lākou iā ʻoe e hele i kēlā mile keu e hana i kahi mea e maʻalahi ai ko lākou ola.
He mea i manaʻo ʻole ʻia e koi ʻole ai kāu pakanā e noi iā ʻoe e hana. ʻO kahi laʻana, kahaha paha ʻoe iā lākou e ke ala ʻana i nā keiki a mākaukau no ke kula a waiho iā lākou i kahi manawa keu e hiamoe ai.
Ua iho mai nā hana o ke aloha aloha ʻōlelo i kēia mea- no kekahi poʻe, ʻoi aku ka nui o nā hana ma mua o nā huaʻōlelo.
Inā makemake kāu hoa e loaʻa ke aloha ma o nā hana o ka lawelawe, ua lohe paha ʻoe iā lākou e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo e ʻōlelo nui nā hana, a i ka hopena o ka lā, e mahalo lākou i nā hana āu e hana ai e maʻalahi ai ko lākou ola.
ʻO kahi ala maʻalahi e hoʻoholo ai pehea e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke aloha nui a kōkua i kāu hoa e nīnau, "Kōkua paha inā hana au iā _____ no ʻoe?" ʻAe kēia iā ʻoe e hoʻoholo i nā hana o ka lawelawe e pili nui loa iā lākou.
ʻO kekahi mea ʻoiaʻiʻo e hoʻomaopopo e pili ana i nā hana o ka ʻōlelo aloha aloha ʻoiai ʻoiai ʻo ka hoa me kēia ʻōlelo aloha e mahalo nei i ka hana ʻana i nā mea maikaʻi na lākou, ʻaʻole hauʻoli lākou i ka noi ʻana i kōkua.
Hiki i kēia ke hoʻohālikelike; makemake kāu hoa e kōkua ʻoe, akā makemake lākou e hana pēlā me ka ʻole o lākou e koi ʻana, no ka mea ʻaʻole lākou makemake e hoʻokau iā ʻoe i kā lākou noi. Inā loaʻa i kāu pakanā nā hana o ke aloha aloha ʻōlelo, makemake paha ʻoe e hana maʻa i ke noi ʻana iā lākou i ka mea hiki iā ʻoe ke kōkua.
He mea maikaʻi hoʻi inā hiki iā ʻoe ke nānā pono i kā lākou mau pono o kēlā me kēia lā, nā ʻano, a me nā makemake i hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hoʻoholo i nā ala maʻalahi e lele i loko a kōkua me ka noi ʻole ʻia.
I ka hōʻuluʻulu, eia nā hōʻailona ʻehā e makemake ai kāu hoa i nā hana o ka ʻōlelo aloha aloha:
- ʻIke nui lākou i ka mahalo iā lākou ke hoʻopūʻiwa ʻoe iā lākou ma ka hana ʻana i kahi mea maikaʻi na lākou.
- ʻLelo lākou i ka ʻoi aku ka nui o ka hana ma mua o nā huaʻōlelo.
- Ua ʻoluʻolu paha lākou ke lawe ʻoe i kahi ukana mai ko lākou poʻohiwi aku, ʻo ka lawe ʻana paha i ka ʻōpala a i ʻole ka holo ʻana i kahi hana na lākou ma ke ala hoʻi mai ka hana.
- ʻAʻole paha lākou e noi i kāu kōkua, akā ʻōhumu lākou ʻaʻole ʻoe e lele i loko e hoʻomaʻalahi i nā mea no lākou.
He aha e hana ai inā ʻo ka ʻōlelo aloha a kāu hoa ʻo Acts of Service
Inā makemake kāu hoa i ka ʻōlelo aloha o Acts of Service, aia kekahi mau hana o ka manaʻo lawelawe hiki iā ʻoe ke waiho i wahi e maʻalahi ai ke ola no lākou a e kamaʻilio i kou aloha.
ʻO kekahi o nā hana o ka lawelawe aloha aloha i nā manaʻo ʻōlelo nona penei:
- Lawe i nā keiki i waho o ka hale no kekahi mau hola e hāʻawi iā ia i kahi manawa nona iho.
- Inā ʻo ia ka mea e ala aʻe i kakahiaka me nā keiki i ke kakahiaka Pōʻaono, e hiamoe ʻo ia iā ʻoe e hana i nā pancake a hoʻokipa i nā keiki me nā kiʻi paʻi kiʻi.
- ʻOiai ʻo ia e hana lohi ana a e holo ana paha i nā keiki i kā lākou mau hana, hele i mua e pelu i kēlā ukana holoi lole āna i hoʻomaka mua ai i ka lā.
- E nīnau iā ia inā he mea hiki iā ʻoe ke kū a ʻohi i ka hale kūʻai nona ma ke ala hoʻi mai ka hana.
ʻO nā hana o ke aloha aloha nā manaʻo ʻōlelo nona e hiki ke hoʻopili
- Ke hoʻonohonoho nei i ka hale kaʻa, no laila he mea liʻiliʻi kāna e hana ai i kēia hopena pule.
- Lawe i kāna kaʻa i loko o ka holoi kaʻa ke hele ʻoe i waho e holo nei i kahi hana.
- Ke waiho nei i ka ʻōpala ma ke kaʻe ma mua o kona ala ʻana i ke kakahiaka.
- Inā ʻo ia ka mea maʻamau e hele wāwae i ka ʻīlio i kēlā me kēia ahiahi, e lawe i kēia hana ke loaʻa iā ia kahi lā hana nui.
Loaʻa nā hana o ka lawelawe
ʻOiai he mea nui e ʻike i ka mea e hana ai inā makemake kāu pakanā i nā hana o ka ʻōlelo aloha aloha, aia kekahi ʻōlelo aʻo no ka poʻe nona ka ʻōlelo aloha a lākou he hana lawelawe.
Mahalo paha ʻoe i nā hana o ke aloha aloha ʻōlelo, akā ʻo ʻoe a me kāu pakanā e paʻakikī nei i ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i kekahi i kekahi. ʻAʻole paha e hāʻawi ana kāu pakanā iā ʻoe i ka mea āu e pono ai, a i ʻole hoʻohoka ʻia paha ʻo ʻolua ma o ka miscommunications i ka pilina.
Inā ʻo kēia ka hihia, hiki ke kōkua i ka mōakāka hou me kāu hoa e pili ana i ka mea āu e makemake ai. ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke manaʻo i kāu hoa e heluhelu i kou manaʻo.
E like me ka wehewehe ʻana o ka poʻe loea, ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e lawehala e pili ana i ka noi ʻana i kāu mea e pono ai. Inā makemake ʻoe i nā hana o ka lawelawe a ʻaʻole hāʻawi kāu hoa iā ʻoe i ka mea āu e pono ai, ʻo ka manawa kēia e nīnau ai.
E kuhikuhi i nā mea e kōkua nui iā ʻoe, inā e noi ana i kāu hoa e holo i nā keiki i ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa soccer i kēia pule a i ʻole ke noi ʻana e kaʻana like lākou i nā hana o ka hale.
Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe i kamaʻilio e pili ana i ia mea, pono paha ʻoe e wehewehe maʻalahi i kāu hoa i kāu ʻōlelo aloha i makemake ʻia he hana ia a he mea nui kēia iā ʻoe.
Inā manaʻo ʻoe ʻaʻole loaʻa iā ʻoe nā hana o ka lawelawe mai kāu pakanā, hiki paha i ke kiʻekiʻe loa o kāu mau mea i manaʻo ai.
ʻO kahi laʻana, manaʻo paha ʻoe e ʻike mau kāu hoa pehea e hāʻawi ai i nā hana o ka lawelawe iā ʻoe, akā inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e noi iā lākou a e launa pū paha i kāu mea e pono ai, hiki i kēia manaʻolana ke alakaʻi i nā pilikia.
ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke kuhi ua ʻike kāu ipo i ka mea āu e pono ai, no laila he mea nui e kamaʻilio, no laila ua mākaukau kāu hoa e hāʻawi i nā hana o ka lawelawe āu e makemake ai e loaʻa.
ʻO ka mea hope loa, ke hōʻike a kāu pakanā i kahi hana o ka lawelawe, e ʻike pono e hōʻike i ka mahalo no ka mea a lākou i hana ai nāu.
20 Hana o ka lawelawe aloha i nā manaʻo ʻōlelo
Maopopo loa inā makemake ʻoe e loaʻa nā hana o ka lawelawe a i ʻole kāu pakanā e hōʻike i nā hana o ka ʻōlelo aloha aloha, a ʻoi aku ka leo o nā hana ma mua o nā huaʻōlelo me kēia ʻano ʻōlelo aloha.
ʻO kēlā me kēia mea e ʻoluʻolu ai i ke ola a i ʻole lawe i kahi ukana mai ko lākou poʻohiwi e mahalo ʻia e kahi hoa i loaʻa ke aloha ma o nā hana o ka lawelawe.
Ma ka haʻi ʻana i kēlā, he mea kōkua nō ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i nā hana o ka lawelawe ke nānā iki aʻe no kēlā me kēia, a ʻaʻole pili mau kēia mau hana i nā hana o ka hale.
ʻO ka mea hope loa, pono ʻoe e nīnau i kāu hoa i ka mea kōkua nui loa no lākou, akā ʻo nā hana he iwakālua e hiki ke hele i kahi ala lōʻihi e hoʻohauʻoli ai i kāu hoa.
- E hana i kahi kīʻaha kope no kāu hoa i ke kakahiaka.
- E hoʻohuli i ka hoʻoiho ʻana i ka holoi holoi.
- E hāʻawi e kiʻi i ka ʻaina awakea ma ke ala home mai ka hana inā hana maʻamau kāu hoa kuke i ka kuke.
- E hoʻopihapiha i ka pahu ʻōkena o kāu hoa iā ʻoe e holo ana i ka hana.
- Lawe i nā ʻīlio no ka hele wāwae ʻana i ka wā e pīpī nei kāu hoa i loko o ka moe.
- E hoʻomākaukau i ka ʻaina kakahiaka ma ka pākaukau ke hoʻi mai kāu hoa mai ka hale hoʻoikaika kino i ke kakahiaka, no laila he manawa hou kāna e hoʻomākaukau ai no ka hana.
- Mālama i ka ʻoki ʻana i ka mauʻu inā kēia kekahi o nā hana maʻamau a kāu hoa.
- Hoʻopili i ka ʻaina awakea a kāu hoa no ka lā.
- E hele i loko o nā ʻeke a nā keiki a hoʻokaʻawale ma o nā palapala a me nā ʻae ʻae e pono ai ke kau inoa a hoʻihoʻi ʻia i ke kumu.
- E hoʻomaʻemaʻe i ka ʻōpala mai kāu kaʻa nui ʻē aʻe.
- E hāʻawi e lawe i ka papa inoa papaʻai i kēlā me kēia pule a e huakaʻi i ka hale kūʻai.
- E hoʻomaʻemaʻe i ka lua.
- Inā ʻo ka hana maʻamau i kāu wahine ka hana, kāhāhā iā lākou ma ka lawe ʻana i kēia hana no ka pule.
- Pā i ke alaloa nona inā pono ʻo ia e hele i ka hana ma mua o kāu.
- E hoʻomākaukau i nā keiki no ka moe, mai ka hāʻawi ʻana i ka ʻauʻau a hiki i ka hoʻopili ʻana iā lākou me nā moʻolelo moe.
- Mālama i ka puʻu o nā bila ma ka pā.
- Ma kahi o ka waiho ʻana i kāu ipo e kuke i ka ʻaina awakea a hoʻomaʻemaʻe i ka palaʻino ma hope, huli i kāna hōʻike punahele ma hope o ka ʻaina awakea a mālama i nā pā no kahi pō.
- E holoi i nā pale ma luna o kahi moe me ke noi ʻole ʻia.
- Kāhea a hoʻonohonoho i nā hōʻike makahiki o nā keiki ma ke keʻena o ke kauka.
- Mālama i kahi papahana e pono e hana a puni ka hale, e like me ka hoʻomaʻemaʻe ʻana i ka pahu hau a i ʻole ka hoʻonohonoho ʻana i ka lumi lumi.
ʻO ka mea hope loa, he aha ka like o kēia mau hana lawelawe āpau ke kamaʻilio pū lākou i kāu hoapili iā ʻoe i ko lākou kua, a ma laila ʻoe e hoʻomāmā ai i kā lākou ukana.
No kekahi me nā ʻōlelo aloha aloha lawelawe, nā ʻōlelo āu e hoʻouna ai ma ke kākoʻo ʻana ma o kāu mau hana he waiwai nui.
Panina hopena
Inā hana kāu wahine a i ʻole nā mea nui ʻē aʻe i ka ʻōlelo aloha aloha, e manaʻo lākou e aloha nui ʻia a mālama ʻia ʻoe ke hana ʻoe i nā mea maikaʻi na lākou e hoʻomaʻalahi i ko lākou ola.
Kēia mau hana o ka manaʻo lawelawe ʻaʻole ia he hana nui akā hiki ke maʻalahi e like me ka hana ʻana i kā lākou kīʻaha kope o ke kakahiaka a i ʻole ke kiʻi ʻana i mea na lākou ma ka hale kūʻai.
E hoʻomanaʻo i ka hoa aloha ʻo kāna ʻōlelo aloha ka hana o ka lawelawe ʻaʻole paha e noi mau i kāu kōkua, no laila e maikaʻi paha ʻoe i ka ʻike ʻana i nā mea a lākou e makemake ai a i ʻole e nīnau wale ana pehea e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke kōkua nui loa iā lākou.
I ka manawa like, inā makemake ʻoe e loaʻa ke aloha ma o nā hana o ka lawelawe, mai makaʻu e nīnau i kāu hoa no ka mea āu e pono ai, a e ʻike pono e hōʻike i kou mahalo i ka wā e hāʻawi ai lākou iā ʻoe.