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- Pilikia: hoʻopuehu ʻia nā lālā o ka ʻohana, noho mamao aku kekahi i kekahi
- Pilikia: Me ka ʻohana lehulehu a puni ʻoe ʻaʻohe wahi hanu
- Pilikia: Ke hoʻāʻo nei e ʻike i kahi kaulike kūpono ma waena o kou ola ʻoihana a me kou ola home
- Pilikia: ʻO kekahi o kāu mau keiki he pono kūikawā, a ʻaʻole lawa ka nānā ʻana o kāu mau keiki ʻē aʻe
Hele nā ʻohana āpau i nā manawa kahi e kupu ai nā pilikia a loaʻa ka hopena ma ka ʻohana ʻohana.
He maʻa maʻamau kēia o ke ola a hiki ke hoʻohana ʻia e aʻo i kēlā me kēia, keu hoʻi nā keiki, ka waiwai o ke kamaʻilio maikaʻi, ke kūpaʻa, a me nā ʻenehana hoʻonā pilikia.
E nānā pehea e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hālāwai maikaʻi me nā pilikia ʻohana ma ke poʻo a aʻo pehea e hoʻokele akamai ai i kēia wai koʻikoʻi, e puka mai ana i luna me ka manaʻo ikaika o ka pili ʻohana.
Pilikia: hoʻopuehu ʻia nā lālā o ka ʻohana, noho mamao aku kekahi i kekahi
I ka manawa i ʻike mua ai ʻoe i ka nānā ʻana o kou ʻohana, ua noʻonoʻo paha ʻoe i kahi kokoke i ke kino a me ka naʻau. Akā ʻaʻohe mea like kou ʻohana maoli i kēia manawa.
Malia paha ʻoe he ʻaoʻao o ka pūʻali koa, me nā loli o ke kahua i kēlā me kēia 18 mahina e lawe mamao iā ʻoe mai kou mau mākua a me kou mau hoaaloha.
Malia paha ʻo ʻoe a ʻo kāu wahine paha ka hana āu e ʻike nei i ka hoʻolilo ma nā wahi āpau o ka ʻāina ʻo ia hoʻi ʻaʻole ʻoe e ʻike pinepine i kou mau mākua a me kā lākou launa ʻana me nā moʻopuna.
I mea e kōkua ai i kēia pilikia, e hoʻohana piha i ka pūnaewele a me kona hiki ke mālama iā ʻoe āpau a pili a hoʻomaikaʻi hou ʻia i nā hana o ka ʻohana i kēlā me kēia lā.
ʻAʻole maikaʻi e like me ka noho ʻana ma ke kaona like me nā kūpuna a me nā lālā ʻē aʻe o kou ʻohana nui, akā he ala maikaʻi ia e manaʻo ai aia ʻoe i kēlā me kēia ola o kēlā me kēia.
E hoʻonohonoho i nā kau Skype i kēlā me kēia pule i hiki i nā keiki ke kaʻana like me ko lākou mau kūpuna a loaʻa ke ʻano o ko lākou mau leo a me nā pilikino, no laila ke hoʻohui ʻoe i ke ola maoli, aia kahi pilina maʻamau i kahi.
Kaʻana i kāu mau kiʻi ma o Facebook, Flickr, a i ʻole kahi papaho pāʻoihana kaiaulu. E hoʻolālā i nā hui ʻana o ka ʻohana i kēlā me kēia makahiki i loaʻa mau iā ʻoe kēlā pili e nānā i mua.
Pilikia: Me ka ʻohana lehulehu a puni ʻoe ʻaʻohe wahi hanu
ʻOiai ʻoe e mahalo i ka loaʻa ʻana o nā kahu hānai i ka manawa o ka hoʻolaha, ʻaʻole ʻoe i aloha iki i kou ʻohana ākea e ʻike mau nei i kāu ʻoihana, ke waiho nei me ka ʻole o ka leka hoʻomaopopo, a i ʻole ke kuhi nei makemake ʻoe e kau lākou i kou hale i ka hopena pule āpau.
He manawa maikaʻi loa kēia e aʻo ai i nā hana hoʻokumu palena.
E koho i kahi manawa kūlike ʻole e wehe i ke kūkā (mai kali a hiki i kou māʻona ʻana i ka ʻike ʻana i kou kaikoʻeke e noho ana ma luna o kou sofa no 12 mau hola, e nānā ana i ka Game of Thrones) a hele mai kahi maikaʻi. "ʻIke ʻoe aloha mākou iā ʻoe a aloha mākou i kou pili ʻana me nā keiki, akā pono mākou i kahi manawa ʻohana wale nō iā mākou i kēia manawa.
No laila e noho mākou i lalo a kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā ala e hiki ai iā mākou ke leʻaleʻa i kāu kipa ʻana, akā kahi e ʻae pū ai i ko mākou ʻohana, ʻo ka ʻehā [a ʻoiai he nui a he nui i kou ʻohana pili] o mākou. ”
Pilikia: Ke hoʻāʻo nei e ʻike i kahi kaulike kūpono ma waena o kou ola ʻoihana a me kou ola home
ʻO kēia kahi paʻakikī, hoʻokūkū kenekulia 21, i kēia manawa ʻo ka hapanui o mākou he ʻohana loaʻa kālā ʻelua. ʻO kahi hana koi a me kahi ola home hana e alakaʻi iā mākou e noʻonoʻo e like me ka hoʻololi mau ʻana i kā mākou haku a i ʻole ko mākou ʻohana. Hana kēia i kahi hanana pilikia i hiki ke hoʻohuli maikaʻi ʻole i ko mākou ʻohana.
E hoʻiho i kahi kua i hope a ʻike i nā mea hiki iā ʻoe ke hana e hōʻoluʻolu ai i ke kaomi ma ka home.
E hōʻoia i nā mea āpau (ʻaʻole ʻo ʻoe wale nō!) Pili i nā hana o ka home, mai ke keiki liʻiliʻi loa (hiki ke hoʻomaʻemaʻe i kāna mau mea pāʻani i ka hopena o kēlā me kēia lā) a hiki i ka mea kahiko (hiki ke kōkua i ka holoi lole, hoʻomākaukau ʻaina a me hope hoʻomaʻemaʻe ʻai.
Ke pau nā hana, kālai i kekahi manawa i kēlā me kēia ahiahi no ka hui pū ʻana-ʻo ka nānā wale ʻana i kahi hōʻike ʻoluʻolu ʻohana ma nā kīwī kīwī — no laila ʻaʻole kou manawa ma ke ʻano he ʻāpana o nā hana wale nō, akā kahi manawa o ke ʻano.
E mālama pono i ka pāʻina ahiahi ma ke ʻano nui - he mea nui ka ʻaina awakea no ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana o kou ʻohana, no laila mai hoʻonele i kēlā me ka ʻai ʻana i kēlā me kēia i mua o kā lākou kamepiula i ko lākou lumi ponoʻī.
Pilikia: ʻO kekahi o kāu mau keiki he pono kūikawā, a ʻaʻole lawa ka nānā ʻana o kāu mau keiki ʻē aʻe
Me kahi keiki pono kūikawā i loko o ka ʻohana, he mea maʻamau ka nui o ka nānā ʻana o nā mākua i ke kākoʻo ʻana i kēia keiki.
Akā pinepine ka mea e hana ʻia e ʻeha nā keiki ʻē aʻe i ka hōʻemi o ka nānā ʻana o nā mākua. Hiki i kēia ke alakaʻi iā lākou e hana ana a i ʻole e hoʻāʻo ana e hana iā lākou iho i mea liʻiliʻi a ʻike ʻole ʻia e like me ka hiki. ʻAʻole kūpono kēlā mau ʻano. Ua hewa ʻoe e pili ana i ke kūlana holoʻokoʻa.
He paʻakikī paʻakikī kēia no nā ʻohana akā ʻo ka mea pōmaikaʻi, aia kekahi mau hopena maikaʻi. E ʻike i kahi hui kōkua kūloko no nā mākua i nā kūlana like, kahi e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke lohe i ka mālama ʻana o nā mākua ʻē aʻe.
Hana i ka launa aloha ʻana i loko o ka hui e ʻae iā ʻoe e "kuapo" i nā lawelawe e like me ka noʻonoʻo ʻana i ke keiki, i hiki ai iā ʻoe ke loaʻa i kekahi mau manawa me kāu poʻe keiki pono ʻole i manaʻo nui ʻole ʻia lākou.
E wehe me kāu mau keiki ʻē aʻe a ko lākou kaikaina / kaikaina e pono ai i kahi o kāu nānā akā aia lākou i mua ou.
E hana i kahi manawa e hoʻolilo i ka manawa maikaʻi me kāu mau keiki ʻē aʻe ke hiki, ʻoiai ke pili me kāu keiki me ke keiki pono kūikawā ʻoiai ʻoe e lawe i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe i ka pāka, nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni, a pāʻani wale paha i kahi pāʻani papa me lākou.