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- 1. Loaʻa i kahi mea kōkua
- 2. Mālamalama o ka lima
- 3. E hoʻolei i nā hōʻike
- 4. Koho i kāu pahuhopu
- 5. Mai miki i kāu māla
- ʻAʻole lapuwale nā hana i nā manawa āpau
ʻO kēia kahi nīnau a ka poʻe he nui i nīnau mai ai iaʻu i nā makahiki i hala. ʻOkoʻa ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi hihia mai ka hiamoe ʻana a me nā hoa he nui inā ʻaʻole ʻoe i loko o kekahi ʻano hoʻokō. ʻAʻole kū hoʻokahi pō me kahi mea āu i hui ai ma Tinder ʻoiai e male ana. ʻAʻole loaʻa iā ia nā hālāwai moe kolohe he nui me nā wahine hoʻokamakama a me nā mea ʻē aʻe i ka wā e paʻa ai.
ʻAe, he mau ʻano like ʻole kā lākou o ka moekolohe ʻole, akā ʻo ka pili ʻana he holoholona ʻokoʻa loa ia.
ʻO kahi hihia ke hele a maʻa mau ʻoe i ka pili me kekahi kanaka ʻoiai ke hoʻohiki ʻia i kekahi.
He haumia, hohonu o ke ʻano o ka infidelity kahi e ʻike mau nei kekahi i kekahi (a i ʻole kekahi mau mea ʻē aʻe) ʻoiai ke mālama nei i ka hoʻopili naʻau me kekahi.
No laila, pehea e loaʻa ai kahi hihia a kiʻi ʻole ʻia? Eia kekahi ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo no ka mea ʻike.
1. Loaʻa i kahi mea kōkua
Pono ʻoe i kekahi a i ʻole ka hui o nā hoaaloha āpau e nānā i kou kua. ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi hihia e hiki ke lilo i hana solo, akā ʻo ka loaʻa ʻana i kahi mea hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohana mau ma ke ʻano he ʻoluʻolu kūpono a hana pū i kāu alibis e hele lōʻihi loa i ka loaʻa ʻole ʻana.
ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi hihia he pāʻani nūhou.
E pili ana i ka ʻike a me ka ʻike hewa. Pili ia i ka nui o ka wahaheʻe, a me ka loaʻa o nā mea lawelawe e hānai iā ʻoe i ka ʻike a kōkua i ka hana pū ʻana i kāu wahaheʻe hiki ke hoʻokuʻu iā ʻoe mai nā wahi paʻa.
Inā ʻike ka mea āu e launa pū nei me ʻoe aia i loko o kahi pilina, a laila hoʻonohonoho i kekahi mau rula kumu, e like me ka hele ʻole i kou hale a i ʻole kāhea a i ʻole leka inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e hana mua. Inā ʻike ʻole ka ʻaoʻao ʻekolu aia ʻoe i loko o kahi pilina, mai hāʻawi i kāu wahi.
ʻO ka mea hope āu e pono ai no lākou e hōʻike i kou hale me ka ʻaʻohe mea ʻē aʻe akā ʻo ke kapa komo i ka wā o ka ʻaina awakea o ka Lāpule me kou mau mākua.
2. Mālamalama o ka lima
Hiki i nā hoa, keu aku nā wahine, ke honi i kahi hihia i kahi mile ka mamao. E like me nā hana kilokilo āpau, pili ia i ka hoʻopunipuni a me ka hoʻowalewale e hoʻomau i kā lākou nānā i kahi mea mai kahi maoli e hana nei.
Hana i kēia me ka lohi, kahi kono hoʻololi e kono i ka nānā i makemake ʻole ʻia. E hana i kahi hanana e nānā pono ai kāu hoa i kekahi mea ʻē aʻe ma mua ou.
Eia kekahi mau laʻana:
- E hoʻolālā lākou i kahi huakaʻi ma kahi a lākou e makemake ai e hele.
- E haʻi iā lākou e hana ana ʻoe ma kahi papahana nui a kūʻai ʻoe iā lākou i nā mea a lākou e makemake ai ma hope o ka pau ʻana
- E hoʻomaka i kahi hana a leʻaleʻa paha (maikaʻi maikaʻi ʻo Gym a me Fitness) pū kekahi
E hana nā laʻana ʻelua i kahi kuhi hewa āu e hoʻolilo nei i ka manawa iā lākou no lākou iho. E waiho i nā kikoʻī liʻiliʻi iā lākou e hoʻomau i ka hana. E hōʻoia e hele i kēlā mau hanana / huakaʻi a lākou i hoʻonohonoho ai a hauʻoli lākou.
Maʻalahi ke kumu - e hoʻolilo lākou i ko lākou manawa i ka hana ʻana i kahi mea ʻē aʻe a lākou e manaʻoʻiʻo ai e hoʻokokoke pū ʻia ʻolua. Hāʻawi nā manawa āpau i kāu papa kuhikuhi no ke kolu o ka ʻaoʻao. ʻIno ia.
3. E hoʻolei i nā hōʻike
E mālama i kēlā me kēia moe kolohe e like me kahi hiʻohiʻona pepehi kanaka.
ʻO ka haʻalele ʻana ma hope o kahi condom hoʻohana like ia me ka pū puhi. E nānā pono i ka manawa e lawe ai iā ʻoe e hoʻomaʻemaʻe i nā mea āpau me kou kino ponoʻī. He paʻakikī ke ʻōlelo aku e ʻōlohelohe ana ʻoe me Bob ke ʻala ʻoe e like me Paris Hilton (ka mea ʻala).
Holoi i nā leka ma nā wahi āpau, keu hoʻi i kāu kelepona. E hoʻolei koke i nā loaʻa āpau a uku kālā inā hele i nā lā.
Mai kiʻi i nā kiʻi o ʻoe iho a hoʻouka iā ia ma ka pāpili kaiaulu, a mai ʻae i kāu kiʻi a i ʻole nā hōʻike hoʻopiʻi ʻē aʻe e kiʻi ʻia. Hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻōlelo mau makemake ʻoe e hana i kahi pilina pilikino me kēlā kanaka, ʻaʻole e hana pū i kahi album IG.
4. Koho i kāu pahuhopu
Inā loaʻa ʻoe i kahi hihia, e hōʻoia ia me kekahi mea ʻole e loaʻa i kāu pakanā kahi manawa kūpono e hui maʻamau ai. ʻO ka pilina me ko lākou ʻohana, ʻo kahi laʻana, he ala paʻa ia e lawe ai iā ʻoe ma Facebook ma ke ʻano ʻo Jerkwad o ka makahiki.
Inā "hiki wale mai kēia, a ʻaʻole hiki ke kōkua ʻia," hoʻopau koke a mālie hoʻi. ʻO ia kahi ala pehea e loaʻa ai kahi hihia e hopena i kahi pōpilikia.
Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe i ʻike e pili ana i kāu ʻaoʻao ʻekolu a hele a pupule e like me Taylor Swift inā e wili ʻia lākou, e hoʻomaʻemaʻe koke a hoʻopau iā ia.
5. Mai miki i kāu māla
ʻAno like kēia e koho i kāu pahuhopu, akā pili kēia i ka waiwai.
Kahi! Kahi! Kahi!
Mai hele i nā wahi kahi e ʻike ʻia ai kahi poʻe ʻē aʻe a pakanā paha. Inā pinepine ʻoe i kahi mall a ma nā wahi āpau paha e hiki i kahi mea e holo ai i loko o kahi mea āu e ʻike ai, mai hele i laila.
Hāpai kēia mau lā i kahi hāmeʻa hoʻopaʻa leo liʻiliʻi i hiki iā lākou ke hoʻohana a laila kau ma ka pūnaewele. Inā kū kēlā, wili ʻia ʻoe. Mai pupule a pili i kāu mau lā ma kahi mamao a ʻokoʻa paha.
Loaʻa iā ʻoe ke kiʻi!
ʻAʻole lapuwale nā hana i nā manawa āpau
E hoʻohana i kekahi o nā hana ma aneʻi i kāu makaʻu ponoʻī. ʻAʻohe ala lapuwale pehea e hana ai i kahi hihia a kiʻi ʻole ʻia. ʻO ka nui o kāu hana ʻana, e ʻike paha ka mea a hana i kahi pilikia nui (a i ʻole ka hoʻokolokolo).
Ke loaʻa ka uahi, aia kahi lapalapa.
Inā ʻoe i loko o kahi kūpaʻa a ʻike iā ʻoe iho i kahi kūlana kahi āu e noʻonoʻo ai a i hana ai i nā hana moekolohe ʻole, aia nā kākāʻōlelo male hiki ke kōkua. Inā makemake ʻoe i kaʻu ʻōlelo aʻo e pili ana i kahi pili, mai ka mea i hele ma laila a hana i kēlā, eia kaʻu ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo maoli. ʻAʻole kūpono ia i ka pilikia. No laila mai hana.