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I nā makahiki he ʻelima i hala aku nei, i ka hoʻopau ʻia ʻana o kāna male male, ua kākau kahi kāne i kekahi mau huaʻōlelo e pili ana i ka male ʻana i nani loa a paʻi kāna ʻōlelo i nā puʻuwai o nā kaukani, ʻoiai ua hele a viral.
ʻO ka leka i hōʻike aku i kahi huikau o ke aloha, ka minamina a me ke akamai i loaʻa mai i kāna mau hewa ponoʻī kekahi i hiki i ka hapa nui ke hoʻomaopopo a pili, ʻaʻole ia he mea nui inā he kāne ʻoe, wahine, male kāne, male male a male ʻole paha i kēlā mau huaʻōlelo. pili kanaka pū kekahi a lana ka manaʻo ua hoʻopakele pū kekahi i kekahi mau male.
ʻOiai i kēia manawa, ʻelima mau makahiki ma hope mai, nā ʻōlelo paʻa ʻole a Gerald Rogers e pili ana i ka mālama ʻana i kahi male hauʻoli a olakino hoʻi mai ke kuanaʻike o ke kāne i loaʻa mai kāna minamina a me ka ʻike maoli.
Eia kekahi o nā ʻāpana aʻoaʻo mai ka ʻatikala kumu
Hiki iā ʻoe ke heluhelu i ka mana kumu piha ma aneʻi, a ʻoiai ua kākau ʻia kēia ʻatikala me nā kāne e noʻonoʻo ana, ua koho mākou i kekahi o nā ʻāpana aʻoaʻo e pili ana no nā kāne ʻelua.
Mai hōʻoki i ka pili aloha. Mai hōʻoki i ka pili aloha, mai lawe wale i kēlā wahine no ka mea ʻole. Ke noi aku ʻoe iā ia e male iā ʻoe, ua hoʻohiki ʻoe e lilo kēlā kāne nāna nāna ka puʻuwai a pale ikaika iā ia. ʻO kēia ka waiwai nui a laʻa hoʻi e hāʻawi ʻia iā ʻoe. Ua koho ʻo ia iā ʻoe. Mai poina i kēlā, a mai molowa i kou aloha.
Ae 'ae! Hāʻule ka hapa nui o ka male a haʻalele paha no ka mea hoʻomaka lākou e lawe i ka pilina no ka mea i hāʻawi ʻia a i ʻole ka huikau i ka manaʻo o ka male a me kā lākou pilina i loko o hoʻokahi ipu. I ka wā maoli ka male ʻana ka huahana a ka wahine i pili ka pilina, a ʻaʻole ia e mau inā ʻaʻole mālama ʻia ka pilina mai ka male.
E lapuwale, mai noʻonoʻo pono iā ʻoe iho. Akaaka. A hoʻomākeʻaka iā ia. Māmā ka ʻakaʻaka i nā mea āpau āpau
Paakiki ke ola, e hoʻāʻo e ʻoliʻoli pū me ia i hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaʻemaʻe i ke ala no kēlā me kēia. Kiʻekiʻena kēia i kā mākou papa inoa no ka mea he maka pinepine ʻole ia e nānā ʻia akā hoʻokahi i hiki i ke kaola e hoʻopaʻa pū i kahi ʻelua.
E kala koke a kālele ana i ka wā e hiki mai ana ma mua o ka lawe ʻana i ke kaumaha mai ka wā i hala. Mai hoʻokuʻu i kāu mōʻaukala e hoʻopaʻa pio iā ʻoe. ʻO ka paʻa ʻana i nā hewa i hala aku nei āu e hana ai, ua like ia me kahi heleuma kaumaha i kāu male ʻana a kāohi iā ʻoe. ʻO ke kala ʻana he kūʻokoʻa. E ʻokiʻoki i ka heleuma a koho mau i ke aloha.
Maʻalahi loa e hoʻopaʻa i nā ukiuki, akā maʻalahi hoʻi e hoʻokuʻu i nā mea, paʻakikī e hōʻike i ke aloha ke hiki ʻole iā ʻoe ke kala. Makemake maoli ʻoe e hoʻolilo i kāu male ma ke ʻano hoʻomanaʻo hoʻomanaʻo mau a me ka hoʻomanaʻo ʻana i kāu mau hewa i hala. Ke ʻumeʻume nei kekahi i kekahi a me ka ʻūlū ʻana no ka male.
E aloha hou a mau a hou. E hoʻololi mau ʻoe. ʻAʻole ʻoe like ka poʻe āu i male ai, a i loko o ʻelima mau makahiki ʻaʻole ʻoe e like me ʻoe i kēia lā. E hiki mai ka hoʻololi, a i kēlā, pono ʻoe e koho hou i kekahi i kekahi i kēlā me kēia lā. ʻAʻole pono ʻo ia e noho pū me ʻoe, a inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e mālama i kona puʻuwai, hāʻawi paha ʻo ia i kēlā puʻuwai i kekahi ʻē aʻe a i ʻole e sila iā ʻoe i waho āpau, a ʻaʻole paha ʻoe e hoʻi hou. E hakakā mau e lanakila i kāna aloha e like me ʻoe ma ke alo ʻana iā ia.
Inā ʻaʻole kēia he ala e manaʻo ai i nā kāne ʻelua makemake ʻia, pono a kākoʻo ʻia i ka naʻau ʻaʻole maopopo iā mākou he aha. Ke aloha ʻoe, mahalo ʻoe i nā ʻano maikaʻi i kāu pakanā, a ʻae aloha ʻoe a hoʻokuʻu paha i nā ʻano āu makemake ʻole ai.
Ke hele nei i lalo i ke ʻano kanaka wale nō a ke ʻike nei me ka hemahema ʻole a hewa ʻole mākou āpau. No laila no ke aha ma hope o ka noho pū ʻana i kekahi mau makahiki ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke hoʻomaʻamaʻa i kēia ala optimistic like i kā mākou wahine.
Ua maopopo iā mākou kēlā mau wahine e hana nei i kahi kiko o ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻana i ke aloha e haʻalele ʻole - ma hope o nā mea āpau, no ke aha lākou?
E lawe i ka kuleana piha no kou naʻau ponoʻī: ʻAʻole na kāu wahine ia hana e hoʻohauʻoli ai iā ʻoe, a ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke hōʻehaʻeha iā ʻoe. ʻO ʻoe ke kuleana no ka loaʻa ʻana o kāu hauʻoli iho, a ma o ia mea, e ninini ʻia kou hauʻoli i loko o kāu pilina a me kou aloha.
He mea kēia a mākou e hiki ai ke aʻo inā male a male ʻole paha mākou. Pono mākou āpau e aʻo e lawe i ka kuleana piha no ko mākou mau manaʻo ponoʻī, a inā mākou e hoʻokele i kēia, e hoʻomaikaʻi a pau o kā mākou mau pilina, a hoʻomaka mākou e waiho i kekahi o kā mākou mau daimonio ponoʻī e hoʻomaha ai e hauʻoli ai a olakino hoʻi i loko. nā ala āpau!
Palekana i kou puʻuwai ponoʻī E like me kou kūpaʻa i ka pale o kona puʻuwai, pono ʻoe e kiaʻi i kou ponoʻī me ka makaʻala like. Aloha ʻoe iā ʻoe iho, aloha ākea i ka honua, akā aia kahi wahi kūikawā i loko o kou puʻuwai kahi e komo ʻole ai kekahi mea koe wale no kāu wahine. Mākaukau mau kēlā wahi e hoʻokipa iā ia a kono iā ia e komo i loko, a hōʻole e hoʻokuʻu i kekahi a i ʻole kekahi mea ʻē aʻe e komo i laila.
He mea nui ke aloha iā mākou iho inā hiki iaʻu ke ʻuē i kēia mai nā kaupaku aʻu e makemake ai, ʻo ia wale nō ke ala e pale ai i kou puʻuwai ke hiki iā mākou ke aloha iā mākou iho hiki iā mākou ke loaʻa maoli ke aloha mai kā mākou hoa kāne a me ke ao holoʻokoʻa. Me he mea lā, he ʻoiaʻiʻo!
ʻAʻole hiki iā mākou ke paipai i ka heluhelu ʻana i ka ʻatikala piha - ua loli ke ola i ka ʻike.