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- 1.Hīmeni ʻoe iā Twinkle? He moʻolelo e pili ana i ka male hou a me ka ʻohana hou
- 2. ʻAnuʻu ʻekahi, ʻanuʻu ʻelua, ʻanuʻu ʻekolu a ʻehā
- 3. Annie a me Snowball a me ka Lā Mare
- 4. ʻO Wedgie lāua ʻo Gizmo
- 5. Hoʻohui ʻia nā puke ʻohana no ka poʻe makua
- 6. Hoʻohui ʻohana: He alakaʻi no nā mākua, nā mākua kāne
- 7. Hoʻohui hauʻoli ʻia: Ke hana pū nei i nā hoʻoholo
- 8. ʻO ka Stepfamily akamai: ʻehiku mau wāwae i kahi ʻohana olakino
- 9. ʻEhiku ʻanuʻu i ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana me kāu moʻopuna
- 1. E kīwaha a mahalo i kekahi i kekahi
- 2. mahalo nā pilina āpau
- 3. Ke aloha no ka ulu ʻana o kēlā me kēia
- 4. Keena no ka ulu ʻana
Ke manaʻo nei paha ʻoe e hui pū me kou ʻohana me kāu hoa? A i ʻole ua hui ʻē ʻoe i nā ʻohana a makemake ʻoe i kahi ʻōlelo aʻo e pili ana pehea e lilo ai kēia i ʻike maikaʻi no nā mea āpau. ʻAʻohe paha āu keiki ponoʻī, akā e lilo ana ʻoe i stepmom a makuakāne paha?
ʻO ka Brady Bunch i maʻalahi ke nānā aku. Akā ʻaʻole like ka mea maoli me ka mea a mākou i nānā ai ma ke kīwī, ʻeā? Hiki i nā kānaka āpau ke hoʻohana i kahi kōkua ma waho iki i ka hoʻohui ʻana i nā ʻohana a i ʻole ka lawe ʻana i ka hana a kahi makua hānau. ʻO ia ke kumu i mālama ai mākou i kahi papa inoa o nā puke ʻohana i hoʻohui ʻia ʻoi loa e pili ana i nā ʻano ʻohana pilikino.
Eia kā mākou mea aloha i kēia manawa -
ʻAʻohe āu keiki ponoʻī, akā aloha kāu aloha live-in. ʻO ka makua ʻana o kahi keiki a keiki a kekahi kanaka a mamao loa paha mai intuitive. ʻOiai me kahi stepchild "maʻalahi", kahi mea e ʻae nei i kēia hōʻeuʻeu hou, he mea kōkua ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi kākoʻo kākoʻo me kahi alakaʻi maikaʻi.
Inā liʻiliʻi ka ʻohana keiki, eia kekahi mau puke ʻohana i hoʻohui ʻia e paipai ʻia no ka poʻe hou i kēia ʻano hoʻololi ʻohana -
1.Hīmeni ʻoe iā Twinkle? He moʻolelo e pili ana i ka male hou a me ka ʻohana hou
Na Sandra Levins, kiʻi ʻia e Bryan Langdo
Ua haʻi ʻia kēia moʻolelo e Little Buddy. Kōkua ʻo ia i ka mea heluhelu ʻōpio e hoʻomaopopo i ke ʻano o ka ʻohana stepf.
He moʻolelo momona a kōkua nui ia no nā mākua e makemake e alakaʻi i nā keiki ke hoʻomaʻa i kā lākou kūlana kāwili hou.
Nā makahiki 3 - 6
2. ʻAnuʻu ʻekahi, ʻanuʻu ʻelua, ʻanuʻu ʻekolu a ʻehā
Na Maria Ashworth, i kiʻi ʻia e Andreea Chele
Hiki i nā kaikaina ke paʻakikī i nā keiki liʻiliʻi, keu hoʻi lākou e ʻimi nei no ka nānā o nā mākua.
ʻO kēia kahi puke ʻohana i kāwili ʻia i aʻo ʻia i nā keiki i hiki i kēlā mau hoahānau hou ke lilo i mau mea kōkua maikaʻi loa i nā hanana paʻakikī.
Nā makahiki 4 - 8
3. Annie a me Snowball a me ka Lā Mare
Na Cynthia Rylant, kiʻi ʻia e Suçie Stevenson
He moʻolelo kōkua no nā keiki e hopohopo e pili ana i ka hānau ʻana o kahi makua hānau. Hōʻoia ia iā lākou e hiki ke kūkulu i kahi pilina maikaʻi me kēia kanaka hou a aia i mua ka hauʻoli.
Nā makahiki 5 - 7
4. ʻO Wedgie lāua ʻo Gizmo
Na Selfors a me Fisinger
Ua haʻi ʻia i loko o nā mele antics o nā holoholona ʻelua e ola pū me kā lākou haku hou, he moʻolelo maikaʻi kēia puke na nā keiki e hopohopo e pili ana i nā stepibling hou e loaʻa paha nā ʻano ʻokoʻa ʻokoʻa ma mua o kā lākou ponoʻī.
5. Hoʻohui ʻia nā puke ʻohana no ka poʻe makua
ʻO kēia kekahi o kā mākou puke alakaʻi punahele e hiki ke kōkua iā ʻoe e hoʻokele i kēia wai hou, wai ʻē -
6. Hoʻohui ʻohana: He alakaʻi no nā mākua, nā mākua kāne
Na Elaine Shimberg
ʻOi aku ka maʻamau o nā ʻAmelika e mare i ka lua me kahi ʻohana hou. Aia kekahi mau pilikia kūʻokoʻa ke kāwili ʻia i ʻelua mau anakahi, e like me ka naʻau, ke kālā, ke aʻo ʻana, ka pilina kanaka a me nā hoʻopaʻi.
ʻO kēia kahi o nā puke ʻohana i hui maikaʻi ʻia i kākau ʻia e alakaʻi a hāʻawi iā ʻoe i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a me nā hāʻina a hōʻike pū iā ʻoe i kekahi mau hihia hihia maoli mai ka poʻe i hele i kēia ala me ka kūleʻa.
7. Hoʻohui hauʻoli ʻia: Ke hana pū nei i nā hoʻoholo
Na David lāua ʻo Lisa Frisbie
Ua kuhikuhi ʻo Co-kākau ʻo David lāua ʻo Lisa Frisbie i nā kuhi ʻehā e kōkua i ke kūkulu ʻana i kahi anakahi mau loa i kahi ʻohana stepf - kala aku i nā mea āpau, me ʻoe iho a ʻike i kāu male hou ma ke ʻano he kūmau a kūleʻa hoʻi; hana me nā pilikia i kū aʻe ma ke ʻano he manawa kūpono e hoʻohui maikaʻi aku ai; a hana i kahi pilina ʻuhane e pili ana i ka lawelawe ʻana i ke Akua.
8. ʻO ka Stepfamily akamai: ʻehiku mau wāwae i kahi ʻohana olakino
Na Ron L. Deal
Ke aʻo nei kēia puke ʻohana hui ʻehiku i nā ʻanuʻu hiki ke hana ʻia i ke kūkulu ʻana i kahi ola olakino a me kahi ʻohana a me ka maluhia.
Ke pahū nei i ka moʻo o ka hoʻokō ʻana i kahi "ʻohana hui ʻia" idealized, kōkua ka mea kākau i nā mākua e ʻike i ka pilikino a me ke kuleana o kēlā me kēia lālā o ka ʻohana, ʻoiai e hoʻohanohano nei i nā ʻohana o nā kumu a me ka hoʻokumu ʻana i nā kuʻuna hou e kōkua i ka ʻohana i hui ʻia e hana i kā lākou moʻolelo ponoʻī.
9. ʻEhiku ʻanuʻu i ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana me kāu moʻopuna
Na Suzen J. Ziegahn
He ʻōlelo aʻo kūpono, kūpono, a maikaʻi hoʻi no nā kāne a me nā wahine e "hoʻoili" i nā keiki a kekahi me ka hoʻohui o kekahi i kekahi. ʻIke mākou āpau i ka kūleʻa a i ʻole ka holo ʻole o kahi mākua i ka hoʻopaʻa me nā keiki hānau hiki ke hana a haki paha i kahi male hou.
Akā he ʻelele hōʻoluʻolu kēia puke a me ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i ka hiki ke hoʻokō i ka pilina ikaika a maikaʻi me kāu poʻe keiki hou.
Hāʻawi kēia mau ʻanuʻu maʻamau ʻehiku iā ʻoe i nā mea nui, mai ka hoʻoholo ʻana i ke ʻano o ka stepparent āu e makemake ai e ʻike he aloha koke ʻole ia, ulu ia ma hope me nā keiki hou.
Hoʻohui: ʻO ka mea huna i ka Co-Parenting a me ka hoʻokumu ʻana i ʻohana kaulike
Na Mashonda Tifrere lāua ʻo Alicia Keys
He puke e aʻo mai iā mākou pehea e hoʻohana ai i ke kamaʻilio ʻana, ke aloha, a me ke ahonui e hana i kahi nohona olakino e kōkua ai i ka ʻohana i hui maikaʻi ʻia. Aia pū me nā moʻolelo pilikino e like me ka ʻōlelo aʻo a nā mea hoʻoponopono a me nā loea ʻē aʻe, e like me ka mea hoʻokani pila ʻo Alicia Keyes.
He mea maikaʻi e heluhelu i kahi assortment o kēia mau puke ʻohana i hui ʻia i hiki ai iā ʻoe ke ʻike i nā mea e pono ai e hana i kahi ʻohana kaulike, hauʻoli, a hui pū ʻia.
ʻO ka hapa nui o kēia mau puke ʻohana i huikau ʻia e kaʻana like i ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo aʻe e pili ana i nā mea maʻamau o ka ʻohana hui maikaʻi -
1. E kīwaha a mahalo i kekahi i kekahi
Inā hiki i nā lālā o ka ʻohana ke hana kīwila i kekahi i kekahi ma ke ʻano maʻamau ma mua o ka nānā ʻole ʻana, e hoʻāʻo nei e hōʻeha, a i ʻole haʻalele loa i kekahi i kekahi, aia ʻoe i ke ala i ka hoʻokumu ʻana i kahi anakuhi maikaʻi.
2. mahalo nā pilina āpau
ʻAʻole kēia e kuhikuhi wale nei i ka hana a nā keiki i ka poʻe mākua.
ʻAʻole pono e hāʻawi i ka mahalo ʻaʻole kau ʻia ma ka makahiki wale nō, akā pili pū nō hoʻi i ka ʻohana o ʻoukou a pau i kēia manawa.
3. Ke aloha no ka ulu ʻana o kēlā me kēia
Aia paha nā lālā o kou ʻohana i hoʻohui ʻia i nā pae ola like ʻole a ʻokoʻa nā makemake (ʻōpio me nā kamaliʻi, no ka laʻana). Aia paha lākou i nā manawa ʻokoʻa i ka ʻae ʻana i kēia ʻohana hou.
Pono nā lālā o ka ʻohana e hoʻomaopopo a hoʻohanohano i kēlā mau ʻokoʻa a me ka manawa a kēlā me kēia no ka hoʻopili ʻana.
4. Keena no ka ulu ʻana
Ma hope o kekahi mau makahiki o ka hui ʻia ʻana, lana ka manaʻo, ulu ka ʻohana a koho nā lālā e hoʻolilo i ka manawa hou a manaʻo kokoke kekahi i kekahi.