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- Ke kumu ma hope o ka hana
- Nā ʻano waiwai
- Wahi hoʻokaʻawale a male ʻole paha
- Ka waiwai o ka male a i ʻole nā waiwai male
- Ka pale ʻana i kāu waiwai i ka hemo male
- ʻIke i kāu kānāwai mokuʻāina
- Hana a hana ʻole e hoʻomanaʻo
- ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e wikiwiki e pili ana i kēia, kaupaona i kāu koho ʻana
ʻO ka hapanui o nā manawa a ka poʻe kāne e haʻalele nei no ka hemo male ʻana, he hoʻolālā no ko lākou wā e hiki mai ana. Pono pono e hoʻolālā i mua, ʻeā?
I kēia manawa, ʻo kekahi o nā kumu nui o kēia e hōʻalo i nā pilikia kālā i ka wā e hiki mai ana akā ke ʻike nei ʻoe i ka nui o kāu lilo ʻana me kāu hemo. I kēia manawa, hoʻomaka ka manaʻo o nā kāne, "Hiki iā ʻoe ke kūʻai aku i nā waiwai i ka wā hemo?"
Ke kumu ma hope o ka hana
Nui nā kumu e makemake ai kekahi e kūʻai aku i nā waiwai i ka wā hemo. Ma muli paha o ko lākou makemake e hoʻopau i nā waiwai āpau ma mua o ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana i nā ala. makemake kekahi e hoʻopaʻi a i ʻole e loaʻa kālā hou iā lākou iho.
Aia kekahi kumu ʻē aʻe e makemake ai kekahi e hoʻopau i nā waiwai e like me ka uku ʻana i nā uku loio loio, e hoʻomaka ana i kahi ola hou a me nā mea hou aʻe.
E hoʻomanaʻo, ʻo ʻolua a me kāu kāne a i ke kaʻina o ka hemo ka kuleana a me ke kuleana like i kaʻana like i nā waiwai āpau i loaʻa iā ʻoe i ka wā o kāu male. I kēia manawa, inā ʻoe e kūʻai aku me ka ʻole o ka ʻae a ka ʻike o ka mea ʻē aʻe - e hoʻokolokolo ʻia ʻoe a e ʻōlelo ka luna kānāwai e uku i ka mea ʻē aʻe no ka waiwai i nalowale.
Nā ʻano waiwai
Ma mua o kou hoʻoholo ʻana i kekahi mea, pono ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo mua i nā ʻano waiwai.
Pono e hoʻokaʻawale mua ʻia kāu mau waiwai ma ke ʻano he waiwai male a ʻokoʻa paha. A laila aia ka mea a mākou i kapa aku ai he waiwai māhelehele, ʻo ia hoʻi he waiwai ia e hoʻohua i ka loaʻa kālā a i ʻole hiki iā ia ke hoʻololi i ka waiwai ma hope o ka hemo ʻana.
Wahi hoʻokaʻawale a male ʻole paha
Hoʻokaʻawale ʻokoʻa a male ʻole paha ka waiwai i ka waiwai i ʻona ʻia e kekahi o nā kāne ma mua o ka male ʻana. Hoʻopili paha kēia akā ʻaʻole kau palena ʻia i nā waiwai, nā waiwai, nā mālama kālā a me nā makana a hoʻoilina paha. Ma mua a i ʻole ma ka wā hemo, hiki i ka mea nona ka mea a lākou e makemake ai i kā lākou waiwai me ke kuleana ʻole.
Ka waiwai o ka male a i ʻole nā waiwai male
ʻO kēia nā waiwai e uhi i nā waiwai i loaʻa i ka wā o ka male. He mea ʻole ka mea o lāua i kūʻai a loaʻa iā ia. He waiwai like ia a e hoʻokau ʻia i ka hoʻokae like ʻana o nā kuleana a waiwai paha ke hoʻopau ʻia.
I ka wā o ke kūkā kamaʻilio ʻana, hiki i ʻelua ala nui e hoʻokaʻawale i kāu waiwai male. E nānā ka ʻaha i ke kūlana a hoʻāʻo e hoʻokaʻawale like i ka waiwai ke ʻole inā he pilikia e pale ana i kēia.
Ka pale ʻana i kāu waiwai i ka hemo male
He mea nui ka pale ʻana i kāu waiwai i kāu wā hemo ke loaʻa ka maʻi pilikino o kāu wahine, kahi hihia a i ʻole e hele wale ana e hoʻopaʻi me ʻoe. Aia kekahi poʻe e hana i nā mea āpau e lanakila i ke kūkā kūkā - ʻaʻohe mea.
E hoʻoikaika a hana i ka mea e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke pale i kēia, aia kekahi mau ala e kāpae ai i nā hana mai kāu wahine mai ke hoʻomaka ke kaʻina male. E pili kēia i kāu mau kānāwai mokuʻāina.
ʻIke i kāu kānāwai mokuʻāina
He mau lula ʻokoʻa kā kēlā me kēia mokuʻāina a pili kēia i ka hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻokaʻawale i kāu waiwai.
ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi e ʻike i kāu mau kānāwai mokuʻāina ke pili i ka hemo a noi i ke alakaʻi inā makemake ʻoe e ʻike i ka neʻe akamai loa e hana.
Hiki iā ʻoe ke kūʻai aku i nā waiwai i ka wā hemo male? ʻOiai ʻaʻole ʻae ka hapanui o nā mokuʻāina i kēia, i kekahi mau mokuʻāina, hiki ke loaʻa nā hoʻokuʻu ʻia. Eia hou, ʻokoʻa kēlā me kēia hihia hemo a i nā hanana i ʻae ʻia ʻoe e hana i kēia, he mea nui e hoʻomanaʻo i nā hana a me nā hana ʻole o ke kūʻai aku ʻana i nā waiwai a me nā waiwai.
Hana a hana ʻole e hoʻomanaʻo
- Inā ua hoʻoholo ʻia e hoʻāʻo a kūʻai aku i nā waiwai i ka wā o ka hemo ʻana e uku ai ka hōʻaiʻē, e uku no ka hemo a i ʻole kaʻana like i nā loaʻa kālā - a eia kekahi mau hana a me ka hana ʻole no ke kūʻai aku i nā waiwai i kāu male male.
- E kiʻi i nā loiloi no ka mea āu e kapa ai i ka waiwai kūʻai maikaʻi o kāu waiwai a me kāu waiwai. Mai wikiwiki e hoʻopau i kāu waiwai e loaʻa ai ke kālā wikiwiki. E ʻike i ka waiwai a loaʻa i kahi kuʻina ʻoi loa no ia.
- Mai wikiwiki i ka hana. ʻOiai makemake ʻoe e hoʻopau koke i kāu mau waiwai āpau i hiki iā ʻoe ke kiʻi i kāu mahele, e hōʻoia ʻaʻole hopena ia i kahi pohō nui aʻe. Inā loaʻa iā ʻoe, no ka laʻana he home ʻohana. E kali no ke kūleʻa maikaʻi loa a mai hoʻokau no ka mea hiki ke loaʻa i kēia manawa. E hoʻonui paha ka waiwai i ka hola ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi a e kūkākūkā paha ma mua.
- E ʻimi i ka ʻae ʻia o kāu wahine ma mua o ka hoʻoholo ʻana e kūʻai aku i kāu waiwai male. E hoʻopaʻapaʻa paha ʻoe i nā manawa āpau akā he kūpono wale nō e waiho i kāu ʻōlelo i kāu wahine i kēia mea. I nā hanana āu e ʻike ai ʻaʻole holo pono kēia; makemake paha ʻoe e ʻimi i ke kōkua o ka uwao.
- Mai kānalua e noi no ke kōkua inā ʻike ʻoe ʻaʻole mālama kāu wahine i nā lula o kāu male male ʻana a inā ʻike ʻoe i ka wikiwiki o kāu wahine e hoʻopau i kāu waiwai. I nā hanana i loaʻa nā hana kūʻē i nā lula o kāu male male - e ʻōlelo a noi no ke kōkua.
- Hana i kāu haʻawina home a loaʻa i kahi papa inoa o kāu waiwai āpau a me nā palapala e kākoʻo ana iā ia. E hana pū i kēia no kāu waiwai male ʻole no ka mea maikaʻi mau nā mea āpau i hoʻopaʻa ʻia.
- Mai hoʻopilikia ʻia. ʻO kēia ke kumu inā ua kau kāu wahine i kāna mau ʻōlelo a me nā loiloi e pili ana i kāu waiwai male a noi iā ʻoe e ʻae - mai. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o ka loiloi hou ʻia o kāu mau waiwai e hōʻoia i ka maikaʻi o nā mea āpau. Hiki i nā hihia o ka hoʻopunipuni ke keu aku i ka waiwai a me ke kūkā kamaʻilio kālā. E makaʻala.
ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e wikiwiki e pili ana i kēia, kaupaona i kāu koho ʻana
Hiki iā ʻoe ke kūʻai aku i nā waiwai i ka wā hemo male? ʻAe, inā kāu waiwai ia ma mua o kou male ʻana a i nā hanana āu e makemake ai e kūʻai aku i nā waiwai āu i loaʻa ai i ka wā o ka male, pono ʻoe e kamaʻilio e pili ana ia a laila hoʻokaʻawale i ke kālā e loaʻa iā ʻoe.
E hoʻomanaʻo wale nō ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e wikiwiki e pili ana i kēia. Ke nānā nui nei paha ʻoe i ka loaʻa kālā ʻana iā ʻoe e poina ai iā ʻoe ka waiwai o kēlā waiwai. Kaupaona i kāu mau koho no ka mea ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake e lilo i nā waiwai waiwai a i ʻole nā waiwai.