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- Waihona i ka wehe male ma ka pūnaewele
- Hemo male ʻole
- Indigent
- Wehe hewa ʻole
- ʻAelike ʻaelike
- Hoʻokaʻawale kolohe ʻole
- Hoʻokaʻawale manaʻo:
- Hoʻokaʻawale hui pū:
Hoʻopau ka male male iā ʻoe i ka naʻau a me ka noʻonoʻo. He aha ka mea e hiki ke hōʻoluʻolu mai ke ala maʻalahi loa e haʻalele ai. ʻOiaʻiʻo! ʻOiai ʻolua ʻelua ʻāpana a nānā i mua e hoʻomaka i kahi mea hou e hoʻopau ana i kāu pili o kēia manawa, ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake e hoʻokahe ʻia hoʻi i ke kālā, keu hoʻi inā he hoʻoholo ʻelua. ʻO ka hoʻolimalima loio, lawe i kēia i ka ʻaha hoʻokolokolo a me ka hakakā ʻana i nā waiwai a mālama ʻia paha hiki ke luhi.
ʻAʻole pono ka hoʻopau male i nā manawa āpau. Aia kekahi mau ala kahi e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hoʻopau mālie me ka uku ʻole ʻole. ʻAʻole ʻoe e hewa inā ʻoe e noʻonoʻo ana 'he aha ke ala makepono loa e haʻalele ai i kahi male', e like me ka nānā ʻana o nā kāne ʻē aʻe.
E nānā i kekahi o nā ala e hoʻopau ai i kahi pilina ʻawaʻawa ma ke kumu kūʻai liʻiliʻi.
Waihona i ka wehe male ma ka pūnaewele
Hoʻomaopopo ke kānāwai iā ʻoe. ʻIke ia aia he mau kāne e makemake i ka hemo male, e mālama ana i ke kumukūʻai e hoʻolimalima i kahi loio. No laila, e hoʻomāmā ai i ke kaʻina hana, ua hoʻolauna lākou i ka manaʻo o ka hoʻopihapiha piha ʻana i ka hemo male. ʻO nā mea āu e hana ai ka nānā ʻana ma ka pūnaewele o kāu mokuʻāina inā ʻae ia i ka hoʻopihapiha ʻana. Inā hana ia, hoʻomākaukau i kahi palapala a lawe i kahi paʻi mai ia mea a kipa i ka ʻaha. O ia wale nō. He maʻalahi ia, wikiwiki a haʻahaʻa hoʻi. Pono ʻoe e hoʻolilo i kekahi nui e hoʻopiha i ka palapala, ʻo ia nō.
Hemo male ʻole
He aha ke ala makepono loa e hemo ai ka wahine? ʻĀ, ʻo kēia paha ka pane maikaʻi loa i kēlā. Hiki iā ʻoe ke koho no ka haʻalele male ʻole. Inā ʻoe e ʻae no ka hemo male hakakā, ʻaʻole ʻae ʻolua ma kekahi o nā pilikia āpau. E alakaʻi kēia i nā hoʻokolokolo lōʻihi a me ka ʻeli ʻana i ke kālā a kekahi. Lawe ka hana i ka manawa e loaʻa ai kahi hoʻoponopono.
Eia nō naʻe, i kahi male male ʻole i hoʻopiʻi ʻole ʻia, ʻae ʻae ʻoe i nā huaʻōlelo a kekahi a hele i kahi ʻaelike like e pili ana i nā waiwai a me ka mālama ʻana.
Mālama kēia i kahi kālā he nui a hoʻi a hoʻi i ka ʻaha me kāu mau loio.
Indigent
ʻO kahi ala ʻē aʻe e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke mālama i ka nui ma hope o ka hemo ʻana e hōʻike ana he ilihune ʻoe. ʻOiai ʻano pīhoihoi paha kēia i ka puka ʻana mai ma ke ʻano he ʻilihuna, he ʻanuʻu kūpono kēia inā ʻoe e koho no ka hemo a paio ʻole paha.
ʻOiai e faila ana no ka hemo male, pono ʻoe e hōʻike i kāu kūlana kālā e pili ana i ka loaʻa kālā, ka waiwai a me nā hoʻihoʻi ʻauhau i kekahi manawa. No laila, pono paha ʻoe e hana i kēia ʻanuʻu.
Eia nō naʻe, inā ʻoe e hāʻule i loko o ka papa ilihune, e loaʻa ʻoe i kahi hemo liʻiliʻi me ka ʻole o ka pilikia.
Wehe hewa ʻole
ʻAʻole hiki iā mākou ke ʻike i ka wā e hiki mai ana. Ke komo ʻoe i loko o kahi hui, ʻaʻole ʻoe e ʻike pehea lā kekahi kanaka ʻē aʻe. Ke hoʻomaka pū ʻoe e noho pū ua ʻike ʻoe he ʻokoʻa ʻokoʻa ʻolua a ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻokau a hoʻomaha iki paha. Hana kēia i pilikia i ke ola a makemake ʻoe i kahi hemo.
No nā poʻe e like me kēia, hāʻawi ke kānāwai i ka hemo hala ʻole.
I kēia, hiki i nā kāne ke faila-i no ka hemo male ʻana e ʻōlelo ana he kūlike ʻole a loaʻa nā ʻokoʻa i hiki ʻole ke nānā iki ʻia.
Ma lalo o kēlā mau kūlana, hāʻawi ka ʻaha iā ʻoe e haʻalele i ka hoʻopakele ʻana iā ʻoe i ka nui o ka pilikia a me ke kālā.
ʻAelike ʻaelike
ʻO ka ʻaelike prenuptial, a i ʻole prenup e ʻike nui ʻia, kahi pilina e komo ai nā kāne ma mua o ka male ʻana. Hoʻohui kēia i ka hoʻolako no ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana i ka waiwai a i ʻole nā waiwai i ka manawa a nā kāne e hoʻoholo ai e hemo. Loaʻa iā ia ka kikoʻī o ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana i nā waiwai inā loaʻa nā ʻano like ʻole, e like me ka moekolohe.
ʻAʻole ia e moeʻuhane ʻoe no ka hemo male ma mua o ka male ʻana, akā ʻo ka loaʻa ʻana o kēia ʻaelike e maʻalahi ai ka hana inā kū mai ke kūlana i ka wā e hiki mai ana.
Mālama kēia i ka kālā a me ka manawa.
Hoʻokaʻawale kolohe ʻole
ʻAe, ʻaʻohe hiki i ka hewa kīnā ʻole unconticated pū kekahi. I kekahi mau mokuʻāina, manaʻo ʻia nā kāne e kipa i ka ʻaha no ka haʻalele ʻana i ka male ʻole i hoʻopiʻi ʻole ʻia. ʻO ka hemo ma mua o ka hana ʻia ma ka 'pepa'.
No kēia, pono lākou e hāʻawi i kahi papa inoa o ka ʻike, e like me ke koi noho, ka loaʻa kālā, ka hoʻoholo ʻana no ka hemo a me nā mea hou aku.
Kuhi ʻia e nānā i ke kānāwai mokuʻāina no kēia mea a lawe i kahi pae e like me ia.
Hoʻokaʻawale manaʻo:
Maʻalahi paha e hoʻonā i nā mea āpau, mai ke kālā a mālama ʻia ke keiki / keiki ʻoiai e hemo ana, akā ʻaʻole. I kekahi manawa, paʻakikī ka paʻakikī o nā kāne a hiki i ka hopena a me ka hele ʻana i ka ʻaha he hopena wale nō ia. ʻĀ, ʻaʻole ia.
Hiki iā ʻoe ke koho no ka hemo male ʻana ma kahi e loaʻa kahi mea uwao nāna e kōkua iā ʻoe e loaʻa ke ala waena i ka pilikia.
E kōkua lākou iā ʻoe e mahele i kāu kuleana a me kāu waiwai me ka hele ʻole i ka ʻaha. Mālama kēia iā ʻoe i ke kumukūʻai o ka loio a me ka uku o ka ʻaha.
Hoʻokaʻawale hui pū:
I kēia kūlana, hoʻolimalima nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua i kahi loio me ka manaʻo e haʻalele i ka male me ka hele ʻole i ka ʻaha. ʻO kēia mau loio hoʻokaʻawale hana like he loea i ka hana negations me ka ʻole o ka ʻaha. Hiki i kēia ke mālama iā ʻoe i nā uku o ka ʻaha.
ʻImi ka hapanui o ka poʻe i kahi pane i ka 'he aha ke ala maʻalahi e hoʻokaʻawale ai' mai ka haʻalele ʻana i kahi hemo e lilo i mea nui. ʻO ka hoʻolimalima loio a hele mai i kahi hoʻonohonoho paʻakikī i ka ʻeke. ʻO nā mea kuhikuhi ma luna ke alakaʻi iā ʻoe inā e lana ka manaʻo e hemo ka wahine ma ke ala maʻalahi loa.