Anter
E aʻoaʻo ka poʻe he nui iā ʻoe mai hana pū me kāu wahine ma ka hui like no ka mea e hōʻino ia i kāu male. ʻAʻole ia he ʻoiaʻiʻo, mai hoʻolohe iā lākou. Eia nō naʻe, he pilikia nui ia, no laila e aʻo e like me ka hiki iā ʻoe e pili ana i nā pono a me nā pilikia e kū mai.
E like me ka nui o nā cons i loaʻa, aia nō ka nui like o nā pros pū kekahi. Aia iā ʻoe e hoʻoholo inā makemake ʻoe i ka manaʻo ʻaʻole paha.
Inā hoʻoholo ʻoe e hana pū me kāu wahine, pono ʻoe e noʻonoʻo i kekahi mau rula maʻamau e pili ana i kou pilina a me kāu kamaʻilio ʻana me kāu wahine.
Hana vs. home
ʻO ka hana ʻana i ka ʻoihana like ʻo ia nō e hoʻolilo i nā manawa āpau me kāu wahine. I kekahi manawa, kaumaha ka hana a hiki ke makaʻu i hoʻokahi a i ʻole ʻelua. ʻO ka hana pū ʻana he huakaʻi paha ʻoe i ka hana a me ka home, no laila e hoʻāʻo ʻaʻole e kāwili i kāu hana a me kou ola pilikino.
E hoʻomanaʻo i ka palena o kāu mau hola hana a hoʻopau ʻoe i kāu mau hana hana i kēlā me kēia lā, pono ʻoe e haʻalele i kāu hana i ka keʻena. Mai lawe i ka home, a mai kamaʻilio pū me ia me kāu wahine.
ʻOiai inā ʻoe e hana ma ke keʻena like, e haʻalele pono i nā pilikia hana ma laila, a e kūkākūkā iā lākou i ka lā aʻe. E hoʻohana i ka manawa me kāu wahine no nā mea hoʻomaha hou aʻe.
ʻO ka ʻoihana ma waena o nā hoa
ʻO ka manawa pinepine, hiki i nā hoa hana i ka ʻoihana like ke loaʻa i nā pae ʻokoʻa o ke kuleana a ʻoi aku paha kekahi o lākou i kekahi. I kēlā mau hihia, he mea nui ia no ka mālama ʻana i ka ʻoihana i ka kamaʻilio.
ʻO ke ala e kamaʻilio a hana ai nā hoa ma waena o lākou ma ka home kahi mea hoʻokahi, akā i ka hana, pono e mālama ʻia kekahi mau lula. Ke kamaʻilio nei kekahi i kekahi e like me nā lula o ka ʻoihana kahi mea e pono e mahalo ʻia.
Pilikino
ʻO ka hana pū ʻana e lilo ʻoe i nā manawa āpau me kāu wahine. ʻO 24/7 kēlā, ʻehiku lā o ka pule. Inā makemake ʻoe e mālama i kou pilina, pono ʻoe e ʻike i ka manawa nou iho a hoʻokaʻawale ʻia no kekahi mau hola i ka lā.
ʻO kēia ala e mālama ʻoe i kou pilikino a loaʻa iā ʻoe ka manawa e nānā ai i kāu mau leʻaleʻa, kuko, a me nā makemake.
ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hoʻolōʻihi ʻana i ka manawa me kāu hoa, akā ʻo ka hui pū ʻana i nā manawa āpau e hōʻoluʻolu ʻoe a e hōʻoluʻolu ʻole iā ʻoe.
E ʻike i kahi leʻaleʻa, e launa pū me nā hoaaloha, a i ʻole he hele wāwae wale ʻoe, akā e hoʻolōʻihi i kahi manawa me ka ʻole o kāu kāne.
Hele mua ke aloha
He mea nui ka hana, akā mai haʻalele i ka hana e wehewehe i kou pilina. He kāne ʻolua ma muli o nā kumu ʻē aʻe. Inā male ʻoe, e hoʻomanaʻo i ke kumu e male ai ʻoe, a ʻo ka hana ʻaʻole ia ke kumu.
ʻO ia ke kumu e pono ai e hana mau i kāu pilina a me ke aloha ma waena ou. E hoʻomanaʻo e pīhoihoi i kāu hoa me nā pua, a i ʻole nā pepa kiʻiʻoniʻoni. Kahaha iā lākou me ka ʻaina kakahiaka i loko o kahi moe, a i ʻole nā meaʻai māmā o ka pō. ʻO ka lole nani no lākou wale nō i kekahi manawa a hana paha i kahi mea āu i ʻike ai i aloha ai kāu hoa.
Mai hoʻokuʻu i ka hana e hoʻopau i kou ola aloha.