Anter
- 1. E kālailai i ka poino i hana ʻia
- 2. E kamaʻilio me lākou
- 3. E hāʻawi iā lākou i ka manawa kūpono e hoʻoponopono ai
- 4. E kala a neʻe i mua
- 5. Pālua ʻia i nahu ʻia ʻelua manawa
- He aha inā ʻaʻole lākou e mihi a hana me ka inaina?
- Ola a hoʻomau i ka
ʻO Betrayal kahi ʻōlelo haumia. Inā ʻaʻole i hele mai kahi hana kolohe mai kahi mea a mākou e hilinaʻi ai, ʻaʻole ia he kumakaia. No laila, ʻo ka manawa hana ʻo ia ka hilinaʻi.
Ke hilinaʻi mākou i kekahi, haʻalele mākou i kahi ʻāpana o mākou a i ʻole hikiwawe i ko mākou āpau. Hana mākou i kahi mea lapuwale monumentally kēia no ka mea ʻo ia wale nō ke ala e hoʻomohala i nā pilina me kekahi. He pōʻai huhū huhū ia no mākou nā holoholona pilikino no ka mea ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke noho i kahi ola hoʻokō wale nō. ʻAʻole hiki iā mākou ke hāʻule ke ʻole mākou e waiho iā mākou iho a maʻalahi i ka poʻe a mākou e hilinaʻi nei.
Ma ka hāʻule makemake wau e hāʻule i ke aloha a hāʻule pālahalaha paha i ko mākou mau alo.
ʻAe mākou i ka hilinaʻi like no ka mea manaʻoʻiʻo mākou e kiaʻi ke kanaka i ko mākou kua iā mākou e kiaʻi ana i kā lākou. ʻO nā pilina e like me kēia e hāʻawi ai i ke ola i ke ʻano. Akā he aha ka mea e hana ai ke nānā ke kanaka i ko mākou kua, e hou iā mākou ma kahi.
A laila ku ka shit i ka peahi. Eia ka mea e hana ai ke hāʻawi aku ka hoa iā ʻoe.
1. E kālailai i ka poino i hana ʻia
ʻO ka overreacting kahi ʻano kanaka maʻamau.
Ua hana ʻino paha lākou iā ʻoe? Ke huhū nei ʻoe ma kahi ipu haneli he haneli i lawe mai mai Nepal mai a haki lākou? Huhū wale paha ʻoe no ka mea ua haʻi lākou i ka haʻi huna i kāu ʻiʻo? Ua uhaʻi lākou i nā kuʻekuʻe wāwae o kāu mea aloha Jimmy Choo's āu i kūʻai mai ai mai Palisa?
No laila e noʻonoʻo, he aha kā lākou i hana ai? Ua lawa anei ia e hōʻino ai i kou aloha a mau loa aku? Hiki ke hoʻonā i nā pilikia he nui me ka hoʻoponopono ʻana i nā ʻino i hana ʻia. I kekahi manawa ua lawa ka hōʻoluʻolu manaʻo maikaʻi maʻalahi.
2. E kamaʻilio me lākou
Aia kekahi manawa ke noʻonoʻo wale nei me ka ʻike ʻole o ka moʻolelo piha ʻaʻole e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo. No laila e kikoʻi iā lākou a hoʻolohe i kā lākou ʻōlelo. Hiki i nā mea maikaʻi ʻole ke kū mai nā manaʻo maikaʻi.
Hiki ke hana hewa i ka wehewehe ʻana i ka hana a haʻi ma waena o nā hoa aloha. Ma waho aʻe, ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke lilo i kekahi mea hou aʻe ma mua o ka mea āu i loaʻa ai ma ka hoʻolohe ʻana iā lākou. E hōʻoluʻolu ʻoe a hoʻolohe pono i ka moʻolelo. Inā huhū ʻoe i ke kanaka ma muli o ka mea i hana ʻia, ʻōlelo paha ʻoe i nā mea āu e manaʻo ʻole ai a lilo ka hoa aloha.
3. E hāʻawi iā lākou i ka manawa kūpono e hoʻoponopono ai
Ma muli wale nō o kā lākou hōʻino ʻana iā ʻoe, ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo ʻaʻole manaʻo ʻino lākou iā ia. Hana hewa nā poʻe, aia kekahi mau hanana i alakaʻi i kahi hanana maikaʻi ʻole i hiki i ko lākou kaohi.
ʻO nā kumu āpau, ʻaʻole ia e hoʻololi i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ua hōʻeha lākou iā ʻoe ma hope o kā lākou hana. Inā mahalo nui lākou i kou aloha, a laila e hana lākou i ka mea e hiki ai ke hōʻoluʻolu iā ʻoe.
No laila e hoʻokuʻu iā lākou a mai hoʻowahāwahā i kā lākou hana.
ʻAʻole hiki iā lākou ke hoʻoponopono i nā meaʻino a lākou i hana ai, akā e hana kahi hoa aloha i ka mea hiki iā lākou ke uku no ka pilikia.
4. E kala a neʻe i mua
Ma hope o ka haʻi ʻia ʻana o nā mea āpau, neʻe a hoʻomau i ka noho aloha ʻana. E hālāwai kēlā me kēia pilina i nā puʻupuʻu a me nā hiccups.
Hiki ke ulu ikaika wale nā paʻa.
Ma hope o ka hala ʻana o nā makahiki, e nānā ʻoe i hope a ʻakaʻaka maikaʻi i kēia hanana.
5. Pālua ʻia i nahu ʻia ʻelua manawa
Ma muli o kou hoʻokuʻu ʻana i kekahi mea, ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo lapuwale loa ʻoe a hana hou i ka mea like. Kāhea iki i ka hilinaʻi, he mau hoaaloha nō ʻoe, akā ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo e hōʻike hou ʻoe iā ʻoe iho i ke kūlana like.
Inā mālama lākou iā ʻoe, pono lākou e hoʻomaopopo i kou ʻano.
He mau makahiki paha ka lōʻihi e kūkulu a kūkulu hou i ka hilinaʻi, akā i kahi manawa wale nō e nalo.
ʻO ka hāʻawi ʻana i ka manawa ʻelua ʻaʻole ia he kumu e hoʻokuʻu hou ʻoe iā ʻoe iho i ka lapuwale. E hana iā lākou no kāu hilinaʻi, a inā waiwai lākou iā ʻoe ma ke ʻano he hoaaloha, a ma ke ʻano he kanaka a laila ʻaʻohe pilikia.
No laila e hoʻomau me kāu mau hoaaloha a hana i ke kūkulu hou ʻana i ka hilinaʻi i nalowale. I kekahi manawa e puka aku ʻolua i kekahi ʻaoʻao a ʻoi aku ka pili ma mua o ka wā ma mua.
He aha inā ʻaʻole lākou e mihi a hana me ka inaina?
Ua hana paha ʻoe i kekahi mea e hōʻeha iā lākou ma mua o ka hanana. Hiki nō paha iā lākou ke ʻano o ka bitches. Nānā ʻole i kāu hana, aia ʻoe i kēia manawa i kahi manawa kūpono ʻole e hoʻomau i ka noho aloha ʻana.
No laila he aha kāu e hana ai ke hoʻopunipuni kahi hoa iā ʻoe a hana maoli ia. Ua hana lākou i hiki iā lākou ke hōʻeha iā ʻoe i ke ala paʻakikī loa.
ʻO ka ʻoki koke ʻana i kou aloha aloha ʻo ia ke kūpono kūpono i kēia.
Hele mai ka poʻe a hele, a haʻalele lākou āpau i kahi manaʻo i ko mākou ola. ʻO kēia kekahi o nā mea a nā kūpuna i kapa ai he ʻike. He haʻawina pipiʻi ia no laila mai poina iā ia. Mai hoʻopilikia i ka noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ka hoʻonui ʻana i ka pilikia. ʻO ka manawa a me nā kumuwaiwai āu e lilo ai i ka waiho ʻana i lalo i lalo, ka liʻiliʻi o ka manawa a me nā kumuwaiwai āu e kūkulu ai iā ʻoe iho.
Ola a hoʻomau i ka
He paʻakikī e ola hou ma hope o ka hoʻoweliweli ʻia e ka kumakaia. Holo ka ʻeha a me ke kaumaha. Hiki i ka trauma trauma ke waiho i kekahi manawa iā ʻoe i nā lā no nā lā.
Hiki iā ia ke hoʻopau i kou manaʻo pilikino a hoʻohaʻahaʻa iā ʻoe iho ma ke ʻano he kanaka.
Akā ʻo ia wale nō kou manaʻo. He mea ʻole ka manaʻo maoli iā ʻoe, he mea liʻiliʻi ia i ka hoʻolālā nui o nā mea. E hālāwai nā kānaka āpau me ka nalo weliweli i kekahi manawa o ko lākou ola. ʻO kou manawa wale nō ia e piʻi i luna i ka gauntlet.
E hōʻike aku kāu mau hoa aloha iā lākou iho iā ʻoe ma hope o kēlā kūloko. ʻO lākou ka mea e kū ma kou ʻaoʻao a kōkua iā ʻoe e hele i loko. I ka hopena, ua nalowale paha kāu hoaaloha, kahi mea maikaʻi ʻole i kēlā manawa, akā ʻo nā mea paʻa āu me kāu mau hoaaloha maoli e ʻoi aku ka ikaika ma mua o ka wā.
ʻAʻole ka hilinaʻi i kahi mea hiki ke pāleʻi maʻalahi ʻia.
ʻAʻole ia he manaʻo e pani mau ʻoe i kou puʻuwai. He holoholona pilikanaka mau nā kānaka, a ʻo ia pū kekahi me ʻoe. Mai hoʻokuʻu i kahi hoaaloha maikaʻi ʻole e hōʻino i kou manawa e hana ai i nā mea maikaʻi ʻē aʻe he lehulehu. ʻO ka ʻimi ʻana i ke koena o kou ola e hoʻonui wale i ka ʻino a lākou i hana ai a hāʻawi iā lākou i ka lanakila hope loa.
E neʻe, hauʻoli, a loaʻa hou i mau hoaaloha. ʻO ke ala maikaʻi loa ia e ola ai, ʻo ke ala wale nō e ola ai.