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- ʻO ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo aloha no nā wahine 101 ma mua o ka lā
- E ʻike mua i kekahi
- Ma ka Lā
- E ʻike i ka mea a ke kāne e manaʻo ai
- E hōʻoia i kāu mea e ʻōlelo ai a pehea ʻoe e mālama ai iā ia
- Mai hōʻino a haku paha a puni lākou
- Ma hope o ka lā
- Mai manaʻo nui
- Hiki ke alakaʻi hewa i ka kemika
- Mai hiamoe me lākou
- E hoʻopau iā ia inā ʻike ʻoe i nā hae ʻulaʻula
Ma hope o ke ola o nā kāne hoʻohoka, nā koho kānalua a me nā puʻuwai haʻihaʻi, hoʻowalewale ia e makemake e hāʻawi i ke aloha mau loa. Akā no ka nui o ka manawa i wāwahi ʻia ai ko mākou naʻau, ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻo ka makemake o nā wahine āpau e aloha a male i kēlā kāne hoʻokahi e aloha a waiwai iā lākou i ke koena o ko lākou ola.
Inā ʻoe e ʻimi nei i ke aloha a pili aloha (a he mea hou paha i ka wā pili aloha), a laila ʻo kēia mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a me nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo aloha no nā ʻāpana wahine e kōkua iā ʻoe e ʻike i ke kāne o kāu mau moemoeā. E mālama wale i ka hilinaʻi a nānā mau.
ʻO ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo aloha no nā wahine 101 ma mua o ka lā
E hoʻolōʻihi i kahi manawa ma kāu ʻike pili pūnaewele
Inā ʻoe ma ka pūnaewele hoʻolauna, a loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi ʻaoʻao MAKAHI a me kekahi me ka ʻike ʻole o ka ʻike, ʻo wai ʻoe e kākau mua ai?
E noʻonoʻo i kēia: “Maikaʻi au, akamai, ʻoluʻolu, mehana a me ka hana ʻohana. Makemake au i ka holo wāwae, kaʻa paikikala, nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni, huakaʻi a hoʻolohe i nā mele. Ke ʻimi nei wau i kuʻu hoa aloha, ipo, a hoa pili i ka hewa no ke aloha a me ka ʻakaʻaka.
Inā manaʻo ʻoe hiki i kēia ke ʻoki iā ia nāu, a laila noʻonoʻo hou. He kūlana weliweli weliweli kēia e hāʻawi ʻole ai i kekahi kanaka i kumu kumu e kākau aku ai iā ʻoe. ʻO ka mea e loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi papa inoa weliweli loa o nā pane bland a laila ʻoe e haʻalele ai ma hope he ʻano noʻonoʻo ʻole a luhi hoʻi.
I kēia manawa, e noʻonoʻo i kēia: “Kuhi kekahi poʻe i ka mea a lākou e kūʻai ai ke waiwai. A i ʻole hauʻoli paha lākou i ia manawa. Akā naʻu e hana mau nei i ka hana ʻana i nā pancakes ʻuala. Hiki iā wau ke hoʻolana iā ʻoe me kēia mea ʻono maikaʻi a i ʻole lawe i nā kiʻi paʻi kiʻi no kou mau maka wale nō. I ka wā ma mua, ua ʻike wau i ka makemake ʻole me ka hāʻawi ʻole. No laila, hoʻopukapuka au i kahi manawa maikaʻi me koʻu ʻohana, ka mea aʻu e aloha nui ai. Ma ke ʻano he poʻo ponoʻī naʻu, ua kūkā wau i kahi hana weliweli me aʻu iho e ʻae iaʻu e ʻūlū i kaʻu mau ʻeke a lawe i kahi hebedoma 4-6 i hoʻokahi makahiki. Kani mea kani, ʻeā? Ma kēia manawa, ua uhi wau i ka hapa nui o UK, ʻEulopa, Iapana a me kekahi mau ʻāpana o India.
Inā hoʻokahi mea a ka poʻe e noʻonoʻo ai iaʻu, ʻoluʻolu wau i ka maʻalahi. ʻO wau kekahi mea hilinaʻi nui i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo hiki ke hiki ke aloha nui loa i kēia lā. Inā ʻae ʻoe, a laila hoʻouna i kahi leka iaʻu. A yeah, e hiki mai na pancakes ma mua o nā kiʻi ”
Mālama nā kāne maikaʻi i kāu mea e ʻōlelo ai. E hoʻomanaʻo, ʻo ka ʻōlelo aʻo kūkā nui loa no nā wahine. ʻAʻole wale ia e pili ana i nā hiʻohiʻona.
E ʻike mua i kekahi
ʻO kēia ka ʻōlelo aʻo kūkā koʻikoʻi loa no nā wahine a ʻoiai no nā wahine e ʻimi nei i ka male.
E noʻonoʻo i kēia. Hele ʻoe i Tinder a swipe pololei i kahi pūpū o nā kāne, ma muli wale nō o kā lākou hiʻohiʻona. Hana lākou i ka mea like a he match ia! Hoʻouna ʻo ia iā ʻoe i hoʻokahi leka a ʻae ʻoe e hui pū me ia. Huli ʻo ia he mea hoʻowahāwahā manawa loa.
ʻAʻole ʻoe e noʻonoʻo hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike i kēia e hiki mai ana inā e ʻae ʻoe iā ia e leka / leka uila iā ʻoe no kekahi mau lā? A i ʻole inā ʻoe i ʻōlelo iā ia ma ke kelepona? ʻO ke kumu o ka holo ʻole o ka pili aloha no ka hapa nui o nā wahine ʻaʻole no ka lohi o kā lākou neʻe ʻana. Ma muli o ko lākou neʻe wikiwiki loa! E ʻike i ke kāne ma mua, e hoʻolōʻihi i ka manawa e ʻike ai i kāna mea e pili ana a mālama iā ʻoe iho i kahi pilikia.
Ma ka Lā
ʻIke i ka lula lā mua ma ka papa inoa lōʻihi o ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo pili aloha no nā wahine
No laila, he aha kāu e hana ai i ka lā mua? ʻ suggestlelo kekahi mau "ʻāpana aʻoaʻo" inā ʻoe e ʻimi ana i ka male a me nā keiki, pono ʻoe e kau i kēlā ma ka papa mai ka lā 1. Inā hoʻoweliweli kāu "ʻoiaʻiʻo" iā ia, a laila ʻaʻole ia ke kāne na ʻoe, ʻeā? Hewa!
ʻIke ʻoe i ke ʻano o nā lā mua? He leʻaleʻa ia! ʻO ka hāʻawi ʻana i kēia ʻike āpau e lilo ʻoe i mea nele a makemake ʻole. Inā huli ʻoe i ka ʻaha maʻamau o nā lā mua a hoʻohana iā ia e hoʻāʻo i ke kāne no ke kāne, ka makua kāne a me ka loaʻa ʻana o ka hiki, ʻaʻole ia he mea kupanaha no kona mahalo ʻole i kēlā. ʻOiaʻiʻo, pono ʻoe e hoʻopono e pili ana i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ke ʻimi nei ʻoe i kahi pilina koʻikoʻi; i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo e ʻimi paha ʻo ia i kēlā.
Akā ma ka haʻi ʻana i nā mea i ka manawa koke, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻoweliweli i kahi kāne maikaʻi i mākaukau no ka pilina a me ka male. No laila, hoʻomaʻamaʻa i ke kānāwai gula o ka lilo ʻole o ka mea kaumaha i ka lā mua. Mālamalama ka mea nui loa o kāu ʻōlelo aʻo aloha no nā wahine a wahine paha e ʻimi nei i kahi kāne.
E ʻike i ka mea a ke kāne e manaʻo ai
ʻO ka waiho wale, manaʻo ke kāne e loaʻa kahi manawa maikaʻi ma kahi lā. He unuhi ʻole kēia, ʻaʻohe hana keaka, ʻaʻohe pepa iā ia me nā nīnau miliona me kekahi mea ʻoluʻolu ʻoihana. ʻO kēia ʻaʻole pono e hoʻopiʻi ka wahine, ʻaʻole pono e hōʻike i nā neg negati a hōʻike i ka makemake ikaika e ʻakaʻaka a ʻoluʻolu.
Inā uku ʻo ia no ka lā ma ka hopena, manaʻo ʻo ia e hōʻoia a mahalo ʻia kāna mau hana. Makemake pū kekahi kāne i ka wahine i hoʻoikaika i kāna helehelena ma mua o ka hele ʻana i waho; hōʻike kēia i ka hanana 'kūikawā' iā ia.
E hōʻoia i kāu mea e ʻōlelo ai a pehea ʻoe e mālama ai iā ia
Ke ʻimi nei i nā ʻāpana pono o ka launa ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo no nā wahine? Mai kamaʻilio e pili ana iā ʻoe inā ʻaʻole i kāhea ʻia a hoʻohālikelike paha. Inā ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i kēlā a lawe pinepine iā ia i ka manawa, a laila e manaʻo wale ana kāu lā ʻaʻole ʻoe ma nā pilikia i hala.
Eia kekahi, ua puhi ʻia paha ʻoe e nā kāne i nā manawa he nui ma mua, akā ʻaʻole ia e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i ka laikini e mālama i kahi kāne hou e like me ka lawehala maʻamau. Ke nānā nei nā wahine i ke aloha inā ʻoe ke ʻano:
ʻAʻole wau e hilinaʻi iā ʻoe. E ʻohiʻohi au i ka ʻike i hiki iaʻu e pili ana iā ʻoe ma mua o ka hoʻopukapuka ʻana i nā manaʻo i loko ou. ʻO nā kāne āpau he mea pāʻani a haʻihaʻi puʻuwai.
E hoʻomanaʻo, ke pili nei ʻoe e ʻike iā ʻoe iho he kāne maoli, kūpaʻa a mākaukau hoʻi no kahi pilina maoli e hoʻopau ai i ka male. Inā ʻoe e manaʻoʻiʻo i nā kāne āpau ʻaʻole waiwai kāu manawa, a laila ʻo ka hoʻokō ʻana i kēia hana e ʻoi loa ka paʻakikī iā ʻoe.
ʻOiaʻiʻo, aia kekahi mau kāne e pāʻani ana i nā mea pāʻani a me nā mea hōʻoki manawa akā aia kekahi mau kāne maikaʻi e ʻimi nei e hoʻokau iā lākou iho i kahi pilina. Pono ʻoe e hilinaʻi i ke ola ʻana o nā kāne maikaʻi. He ʻōlelo aʻo a koʻikoʻi kēia no nā wahine e paʻa ai iā ʻoe ma kahi maikaʻi.
Mai hōʻino a haku paha a puni lākou
ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻo ia nō ʻoe e manaʻo ʻia ai ma ke keʻena. Akā ʻo ka mea e hana ana ma ke keʻena a holomua ʻoe i ka hana ʻaʻole maikaʻi ia i ka loaʻa ʻana o ke aloha.
ʻAʻole makemake nā kāne kāne Alpha i nā wahine alpha. Ma hope o ka lā lōʻihi ma ka hana, makemake nā kāne e hoʻi i kahi palupalu e pae. No laila, mai lilo i mea nīnau loiloi a hōʻike iā ia i kēlā ʻaoʻao wahine ou. E hāhai i kēia ʻōlelo aʻo pili aloha no nā wahine a ʻaʻole ʻoe e minamina!
I ka hopena o ia mea, e leʻaleʻa i ka leʻaleʻa i ka wā aloha.
ʻOiai ʻo ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a ka wahine nui e hoʻomau i ke kamaʻilio māmā; inā makemake ʻoe iā ia a makemake e ʻike hou iā ia a hana i kekahi mea ma waho o kēia pilina, a laila e hāhai i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a me nā wahine e waiho i ka pilina ma luna e ulu a ulu.
Ma hope o ka lā
Mai manaʻo nui
No laila ua maikaʻi ka lā; he nui nā kemika, ka moekolohe, ke kamaʻilio maikaʻi a manaʻo ʻolua e hiki i kēia mea ke alakaʻi i kekahi mea. Mahalo nui! He nūhou maikaʻi loa kēia. Eia nō naʻe, makemake paha ʻoe e hoʻomaha ma aneʻi, hoʻi i hope a e mālama ke kāne i kēia manawa. He ʻoiaʻiʻo loa kēia ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo no kēlā wahine kēia wahine e ʻimi nei i ke kāne a i ʻole hoa pili.
Ke ʻimi nei i ke kāne e male? ʻAe, mai hamo i kēia propaganda i ke alo o kāu hoa pili.
Inā makemake ʻo ia e pili a lawe i kēia i ka pae aʻe, e hōʻike ʻo ia iā ʻoe ma ka hana ʻana i nā hana. ʻO nā mea āu e hana ai, ʻaʻole ia e hoʻolilo iā ia i kikowaena o nā mea āpau a i ʻole e hoʻokau i kou mau manaʻolana. E kia i kāu hana, hoaaloha a me kāu leʻaleʻa. No nā wahine e ʻimi nei i ka pilina, e hoʻomanaʻo e hoʻomau i ka lā me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, ʻo kēia ke kahua ke ʻike ʻoe ʻaʻole ʻoe e ʻike wale iā ia.
E hoʻomanaʻo e hōʻike nā kāne iā lākou iho i kā lākou mau hana. ʻAʻole lākou e ʻike mau i kahi e hele nei kahi pilina. E hoʻomanawanui ʻoe a ʻae iā ia e koho iā ʻoe. Inā hoʻomaka wale ka pili aloha ʻana, a laila ʻaʻole e kaomi koke iā ia e pili ana i ka male. He ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo kūkā koʻikoʻi kēia no nā wahine e makemake e ʻae i ka pāina aloha.
Kūleʻa pinepine kēia i nā kāne ʻaʻole makemake i ka loaʻa ʻana o ke kaomi. Māmā ia iā ʻoe e like me ka ʻole o ka kaohi a ʻaʻole makemake iā ia e hoʻokau iā ʻoe. He pahuhopu nui ka hoʻokō ʻana; e makemake ʻo ia e hana iā ʻoe a ʻaʻole ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe. ʻO nā wahine e ʻimi nei i kahi kāne pono e hōʻole i ka hana ʻana i nā kaomi pono ʻole i kā lākou mau kāne e nakinaki nākiʻi.
Hiki ke alakaʻi hewa i ka kemika
Inā manaʻo ʻoe ʻo ka kemika ka mea haʻihaʻi, a laila hewa ʻoe! E hoʻomanaʻo, i kēia ʻōlelo aʻo kūkā gula no nā wahine.
ʻOi loa inā he mōʻaukala kāu no ke koho ʻana i nā koho kūpono ʻole, a laila, he kaʻao nui kēia e kāpae ai i kou noʻonoʻo. Hiki ke loli a hohonu ke ʻano o ka naʻau i ka manawa, a lilo nā hoa i kekahi manawa i mau ipo inā hāʻawi ʻoe i kēlā mau pilina i kahi manawa e hoʻomohala ai. He mea nui nō hoʻi e ʻike i kēlā, ʻo ke kemika hoʻi ka mea e ʻae iā ʻoe e nānā ʻole i nā hemahema nui o ke kāne. No laila, mai holo ma ka kemika wale nō.
Mai hiamoe me lākou
Ke nānā nei nā wahine i ke kāne a i kahi pilina koʻikoʻi? He no-no nui kēia. Manaʻo ka hapa nui o nā kāne i kēia mau lā he maikaʻi ke hiamoe ma ka lā ʻekolu. I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ke manaʻo nei lākou e maikaʻi ka wahine no ia. Mai hana i kēia kuhihewa. E ʻike pono aia i loko o kahi pilina pilikino mua a manaʻo ʻo ia e male iā ʻoe ma mua o kou hiamoe ʻana me ia.
Mai kāhāhā inā ʻaʻole 60% o nā kāne e ukali ma hope o ka moekolohe. ʻAʻole anei ia e kaumaha a haʻihaʻi hoʻi? E hoʻomanaʻo mau i kou kaohi e pili ana i ka pili kino, ʻaʻole iā ia. No laila e hōʻoki i ka hiamoe me nā kāne inā ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke lawelawe i nā hopena.
E hoʻopau iā ia inā ʻike ʻoe i nā hae ʻulaʻula
ʻO kahi ʻāpana kūkākūkā ʻole o ka ʻōlelo aʻo pili no nā wahine e mālama pono i nā lepa ʻulaʻula.
Hōʻike nā kāne i nā hae ʻulaʻula he nui loa; Na mākou e koho e nānā ʻole iā lākou. Inā hohonu ʻoe i kahi manaʻo e nūhou ʻaʻole pono kekahi mea, a laila ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e palaki. ʻOiai hele pinepine nā hae ʻulaʻula i nā ʻano ʻike maopopo ʻia (ʻōlelo hōʻino, hoʻomāinoino kino, a pēlā aku) ʻo ia nā mea maʻalea a mākou e nalo ai. Pili kēia i kekahi wahine e ʻimi nei i ke kāne a i ʻole he aloha aloha hilinaʻi e kaʻana like i ke ola.
Eia nā hae ʻulaʻula ʻelima āu e pono ʻole ai e nānā.
1. ʻAʻole ia i hoʻokomo i ka naʻau i loko ou: E hele me kāu intuition. Inā manaʻo ʻoe ʻaʻole ia e hoʻokomo i ka naʻau, aia kahi manawa kūpono ʻaʻole ia. ʻO ka leka uila ʻana akā ʻaʻole e hoʻopilikia i ke kāhea ʻana he hōʻailona ia ʻaʻole ʻo ia wale i loko ou. Mai nānā ʻole.
2. ʻlelo ʻo ia e pili ana i ka loli ʻana iā ʻoe: Ke hoʻololi nei i kahi mau mea liʻiliʻi, e like me ke ʻano maikaʻi ʻole i kahi mea maikaʻi, hiki ke hana i nā mea he nui no ka pilina. Akā, ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻololi i kou ʻano.
3. He manaʻo nui kona a ʻaʻole hiki ke kala aku: Noi nā noi e mālama ʻoe i kāu ego. ʻO lākou āpau e pili ana i ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i ka manaʻo o kāu hoa a hōʻoia iā lākou; ʻaʻohe pono a hewa ʻole ma aneʻi. Inā ʻaʻole hiki i kahi kāne ke hana, a laila ʻaʻole pono ʻo ia i kou manawa.
4. Lana ʻo ia iā ʻoe e hana i nā hana āpau: No kahi pilina e hana, pono e hoʻopukapuka nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua. Inā manaʻo ʻo ia iā ʻoe e hoʻolālā i nā lā, hoʻomākaukau i nā mea a hana maʻamau i nā hana āpau, a laila he hae ʻulaʻula kēlā.
5. Nānā ʻole ʻo ia iā ʻoe: Inā hōʻeha kāu mau ʻōlelo iā ʻoe, ʻaʻohe ona manaʻo e nānā ʻoe ua kaʻawale ʻoe i ka pilina a i ʻole hoʻohaʻahaʻa ʻia kona ʻano hoʻomākeʻaka, a laila aia kahi hiʻohiʻona maopopo. ʻO ka mālama maikaʻi ʻole ʻana i ka wahine kahi hōʻike e pili ana i ka manaʻo o ke kāne i ka wahine. Inā hana maikaʻi ʻole ʻo ia iā ʻoe, a laila e ʻike i kēia hae ʻulaʻula a hoʻolei iā ia.
ʻO ka hapanui o nā kāne e like me ka enigma no nā wahine a ʻo ka versa-versa. Akā mālama i nā mea maʻalahi - leʻaleʻa i ka launa pū, hilinaʻi i kou instincts a hoʻomanawanui e pili ana i ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i ke kāne. A ʻo ka mea hope loa akā ʻaʻole ka mea liʻiliʻi loa, ʻo ka ʻāpana hope loa o ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo pili aloha no nā wahine e makaʻala mau a lawe i kou manawa i ka ʻike ʻana i ke aloha maoli. ʻAʻole ʻoe ʻike - hōʻoia paha ke kāne hou iā ʻoe ʻaʻole like nā kāne āpau.