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- ʻO ka mea mua, ʻo kāu wā kaʻawale kuʻu wā kaʻawale?
- A ma ka hopena ʻokoʻa o ka laulaha
- No laila aia kēlā me kēia kanaka i kā lākou papa kuhikuhi ponoʻī a me ka wehewehe ʻana o ka “kaʻawale”
- He paʻakikī e hoʻonui ākea, akā ʻokoʻa ka pilina me ke kanaka kaʻawale
- A ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake e lilo i psychiatrist amateur
- E hoʻoholo inā ʻo kēia ka manawa kūpono
- A pela no
- Nā hōʻailona Telltale ʻaʻole kēia ka manawa kūpono e pili ai i kahi kanaka i kaʻawale
- ʻO ka hope, he aha kāu e ʻimi ai?
Ka launa pū. ʻAʻole anei ia he mea kupanaha inā he hoʻomanaʻo nā lā āpau, nā manawa leʻaleʻa piha o ka hauʻoli maoli i lilo me kahi kanaka nāna i kōkua a hoʻopōmaikaʻi iā mākou, a ʻaʻohe o nā ukana e pili pū ana?
Hah! I ke ao maikaʻi loa, ʻoiaʻiʻo.
Akā ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o ka launa pū kekahi mea ʻē aʻe nō. Aia nā ʻano iʻa like ʻole i ke kai, e like me ka ʻōlelo a kēlā bromide kahiko, akā e nānā kākou i kekahi o nā ʻano kūikawā o ka poʻe, ʻaʻole iʻa! : ke kāne a wahine paha i kaʻawale i hala iho nei i loko o ka loko wai aloha a i ʻole ke kai, e hoʻopau ai, hoʻokahi a no nā mea āpau, ka ʻōlelo kahiko.
ʻO ka mea mua, ʻo kāu wā kaʻawale kuʻu wā kaʻawale?
Loaʻa i nā kānaka āpau i kā lākou uaki kūloko e hoʻomalu i ka holo ʻana o ka manawa.
Ua haki ʻo Aurora Wisson, 25, me kāna beau lōʻihi, ʻo Judd, ʻekolu mahina i hala. "Me he mea lā he wā ia i hala aku nei, akā ʻike wau he mea ʻemi ia i kēlā me kēia manawa. ʻAʻole wau mākaukau e komo hou i ka honua pili aloha.
Ke hoʻāʻo nei kaʻu mau hoaaloha e hoʻonohonoho iaʻu i nā manawa āpau, akā mau nō ka maka. Makemake au i ka manawa e hoʻoponopono ai i nā mea āpau a maopopo maoli i kaʻu mau makakoho ma mua o ka hoʻi ʻana i ka pili aloha. ” No laila, ʻaʻole maikaʻi ʻo Aurora no kahi lā i kēia manawa a maopopo iā ia.
A ma ka hopena ʻokoʻa o ka laulaha
ʻO Larry, 45, i hoʻolei ʻia e Rosalie, kahi āna i ʻike ai no ʻeono mau mahina. "He ʻoiaʻiʻo, ua gobsmacked au, akā ʻaʻole au makemake e hoʻonele hou i ka manawa e noʻonoʻo ai i koʻu kūlana hou ma ke ʻano he kāne hoʻokahi. Ua hele au i ka pō ma hope o ka hāʻawi ʻana o Rosalie iaʻu i ka ‘ol heave-ho, a ua loaʻa iaʻu kahi lā me kahi gal ʻokoʻa i kēlā me kēia pō Pōʻalima a me Pōʻaono mai ka wā.
ʻAʻole wau i noʻonoʻo iaʻu iho ua kaʻawale hou, a ʻekolu mau pule i kēia manawa.
Maopopo iā ʻoe kēlā ʻōlelo kahiko e pili ana i ka lio? Inā hāʻule ʻoe, lepo iā ʻoe iho, a piʻi pololei i luna o ka lio.
ʻO wau kēlā! ” ʻAʻohe manaʻo kānalua o Larry i ka hoʻi ʻana i ka launa ʻana, akā manaʻo paha nā hoa o Larry he hoihoi nui ʻo ia.
No laila aia kēlā me kēia kanaka i kā lākou papa kuhikuhi ponoʻī a me ka wehewehe ʻana o ka “kaʻawale”
ʻAe, ua mākaukau ʻoe e hele i waho i ka honua pili. A ke haʻi aku nei kēlā mea hoihoi iā ʻoe i ka pili aloha ʻana ua kaʻawale ʻo ia. He aha kekahi mau mea āu e noʻonoʻo ai? Pehea ka ʻokoʻa o kēia kūlana pilina ma mua o nā pilina ʻē aʻe āu i noho ai?
He paʻakikī e hoʻonui ākea, akā ʻokoʻa ka pilina me ke kanaka kaʻawale
ʻO ka mea āu e makemake ʻole ai e pili i ka naʻau me kēia kanaka, e ʻike wale i kahi ma hope a ʻoi aku paha ka maikaʻi ʻole, ʻoi aku ka nui ma hope o ka pili mau ʻana o kēlā kanaka i ke kanaka kahi i kaʻawale ai ʻo ia.
He ʻokoʻa koʻikoʻi kēia, no laila pono ʻoe e nānā inā ʻo kēia ka hihia i ka wā hiki loa. E hoʻopololei ʻoiai ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake e hoʻonele i kou manawa a ʻaʻole makemake ʻoe e ʻeha.
A ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake e lilo i psychiatrist amateur
Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e hauʻoli i ka hoʻolohe ʻana i kekahi drone a ma kahi e pili ana i ka mea i hewa i ka pilina ma mua o kēlā kanaka, pono ʻoe e hoʻokō pono i kahi ʻaelike mai ka hoʻomaka ʻana ʻaʻole nā kumuhana mua i kumuhana maikaʻi loa no ke kamaʻilio.
ʻAʻole nō ia iā ʻoe e kōkua i ka ʻike ʻana i nā mea i loko a me waho o kahi mōʻaukala āu i ʻaʻohe hapa. He cliche paha ia, akā no lākou nā ukana a nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.
E hoʻoholo inā ʻo kēia ka manawa kūpono
Inā hele a leʻaleʻa ke kanaka āu e hoʻomaka nei i kēia lā, kaumaha, noʻonoʻo ʻole, ke nānā mau nei i kāna kelepona, palekana loa ke kuhi ʻo ia wale nō he hūpō paha ia, ʻaʻole mākaukau ʻo ia e e launa pū ana naʻe.
Mālama iā ʻoe iho i ka manawa e lawe iā ia e noʻonoʻo i kēia ʻoiaʻiʻo nona iho, a hele haahaa.
A pela no
Inā manaʻo ʻoe ʻo kēia ka manawa kūpono nāu e hoʻi mai ai akā ua kaʻawale ʻoe i kēia manawa, e alo e pili ana iā ia, inā ʻo ʻoe ke kanaka i kaʻawale. ʻO kēia nō kahi manawa kahi ʻoi loa ke kulekele maikaʻi loa. Inā ʻoe e manaʻo a lana ana paha e holo pono kahi pilina hou, pono ʻoe e hoʻokumu i kahi kahua ikaika i ka hilinaʻi, e hoʻomaka.
Nā hōʻailona Telltale ʻaʻole kēia ka manawa kūpono e pili ai i kahi kanaka i kaʻawale
- Ua hele a hoʻohoka paha ʻo ia ke hui pū ʻoe. ʻAʻole wikiwiki a nānā paha i ke kelepona wikiwiki, kahi nānā mamao loa e ʻike pinepine ʻia: ʻo kēia nā hōʻailona ʻaʻole mākaukau kēia kanaka e hoʻi i ka pāʻani.
- Ke hele pū ʻoe i waho, lawe ʻo ia i nā mea ʻoi aku ma mua o ka huakaʻi maʻamau i ka lua, ka kaʻa, a i ʻole ma kahi ʻē e ʻike ʻole ai. ʻO kekahi hae ʻulaʻula inā hana ʻo ia i kahi hipa, ʻūlū a hoʻowalewale paha ke nīnau ʻoe iā lākou i kā lākou hana a ma hea lākou.
Bailout i kēia manawa e mālama iā ʻoe iho i ka huhū.
ʻO ka hope, he aha kāu e ʻimi ai?
Ka launa, ke ʻano, ka hoʻomākeʻaka, ka hilinaʻi, ka lokomaikaʻi, a me ke kūlike ʻole: ʻo kēia kekahi o nā ʻano nui e makemake ai ka poʻe e loaʻa i kahi hoa.
E hoʻomaopopo he manaʻo like kēia i loko.
ʻOiai he kāne uʻi a wahine nani paha e ʻoluʻolu i ka hapanui o mākou, ke nalo i ka manawa. Inā ʻoe i loko no ia no ka wā kau lōʻihi, e noʻonoʻo pono e pili ana i kāu mau pahuhopu wā lōʻihi i kahi pilina. Hiki ke ʻike ʻia kēlā mau pahuhopu me ke kanaka kūpono i hāʻawi ʻia i manawa, a hoʻomaka me kahi mea i kaʻawale a mākaukau e neʻe i mua i ke ola e hōʻoia paha i kahi neʻe akamai.