Anter
- 1. E moakāka
- 2. ʻO ke kamaʻilio ke kī
- 3. Mai haʻalele i nā lā lā
- 4. E mahalo kekahi i kekahi
- 5. Pono ka hoʻomākeʻaka
- 6. Pili aloha
ʻO ka hana no ka male ʻana e manaʻo ʻia he mea e makaʻu ai.
Me nā manaʻo āpau e kau ʻia ma ka hōʻike piha, hiki i ka poʻe ke ʻike he mea hoʻoweliweli. ʻO ka male ʻana kahi pāʻani lahilahi. He hui o ʻuhane ʻelua. Eia naʻe, hana wale kekahi o nā male. ʻIke loa, aia nā kī i kahi male kūleʻa.
ʻAʻole paʻakikī ka male ʻana e like me ka manaʻo o ka poʻe. Hoʻopili ia i ʻelua mau kānaka ma ka puʻuwai a me ka ʻuhane, aloha ʻoe i ke kanaka āu e male ai, a ke ulu nei ʻoe me lākou i ka hala ʻana o nā manawa.
No laila, i ka hopena, ʻike ʻoe i nā mea āpau e loaʻa mau iā ʻoe kahi keʻena kapu kahi e palekana ai ʻoe, a e aloha ʻoe. ʻO nā mea āu e pono ai ka hana ʻana e ukali i nā ala e hana ai i kahi male i hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hoʻokō i kāu moemoeā o ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi pilina kūleʻa, a e holo pono nā mea āpau.
Aia kekahi mau mea like ʻole o ka male male ʻana e pono ai ʻoe a me kāu hoa e hoʻomaopopo ai.
No kahi male kūleʻa, pono ʻoe e aʻo pehea e mahalo ai, aloha, hilinaʻi kekahi i kekahi.
No laila inā makemake ʻoe e ʻike pehea e loaʻa ai kahi pilina kūleʻa, a laila pono ʻoe e hoʻomau e heluhelu i kēia ʻatikala.
Eia kekahi mau mea o ka male maikaʻi o ka male; ka mea aʻu e makemake ai i ka papa inoa pilina
1. E moakāka
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Transparency! He mea maikaʻi mau ia e hoʻomaopopo i kāu mau hoa i ka mea e hana nei. Kōkua kēia i ka hoʻomohala ʻana i kahi ʻano palekana i ka pilina. ʻAʻole hōʻeha kekahi i ka hoʻouna ʻana i kahi huaʻōlelo liʻiliʻi.
Ke maopopo ʻoe e pili ana i nā mea me kāu pakanā, hoʻemi ia i ka manawa o ka hakakā kūpono. ʻOiai ua ʻike mua lākou i kāu mea e hana nei, a ma hea ʻoe ma laila no laila ʻaʻole lākou e koho i nā mea.
Mai kali iā lākou e nīnau iā ʻoe i nā nīnau e hōʻike iā lākou ma mua.
2. ʻO ke kamaʻilio ke kī
ʻO kekahi o nā mea nui i ka pilina ke kamaʻilio nei me kekahi. E mōakāka hou a kamaʻilio. ʻO ke kamaʻilio ke kī i ke kūkulu a mālama ʻana i ka pilina olakino.
ʻO nā kāne e kamaʻilio ana a hoʻomaopopo kekahi i kekahi i ka mea e hana nei, ka mea a lākou e hele nei a me nā mea ʻē aʻe i loaʻa kahi pilina olakino.
ʻIke ʻoe i ka mea e hana nei. No laila, ʻaʻohe ou kumu e koho ai ʻelua a hopohopo paha i ka sneaky behavior a kāu hoa.
3. Mai haʻalele i nā lā lā
ʻO kekahi o nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a ka holomua o ka male male ʻo ia e ʻike ʻoe ma laila no kāu pakanā mea ʻole.
He mea ʻole ka hopena, mai haʻalele i ka pō lā. Mai waiho i kekahi mea; ʻo kāu hana paha, e nā keiki, ke anilā, a me nā mea ʻino e hōʻino ai i kāu mau lā aloha. ʻO nā pō lā ka ala maikaʻi loa e ʻōlelo ai i kou puʻuwai āpau.
ʻO kēia mau pō kūikawā hoʻāla i ke aloha a ʻae iā ʻolua e wehe a puni kekahi i kekahi. ʻAe nā pō lā no kahi ala olakino o ke kamaʻilio.
Hoʻomaopopo i ke ala i ka puʻuwai o ke kāne ma o kāna ʻōpū, akā ʻo ke ala i ka puʻuwai o ka wahine ma o kāna mau pepeiao.
4. E mahalo kekahi i kekahi
Ke hāʻawi aku nā hoa i kēlā me kēia mea ʻokoʻa, hele mai ka mahalo. ʻO ka mea nui loa sʻO ka'ōlelo aʻo a ka male mare uccessful e kau i nā pono o kāu hoa ma mua ou. Maopopo ka mea nui no kāu hoa.
ʻAʻole ia he manaʻo e mōhai ʻoe i kāu mau pono. Ma kahi o, he mea ia e noʻonoʻo ai i ko lākou mau manaʻo, a ke noʻonoʻo ʻoe, hōʻike ia i kou aloha a me kou mahalo i kā mākou hoa. ʻAe kēia iā ʻoe e pili paʻa i waena o ʻolua.
5. Pono ka hoʻomākeʻaka
I mea e kūleʻa ai ka pilina he aha ka mea koʻikoʻi i kahi pilina?
Humor!
No ke olakino a me ka ikaika o kou pilina, pono ʻoe e hoʻopili i kahi ʻano hoʻomākeʻaka i loko.
ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e lawe i kou ola me ka koʻikoʻi, akā e hoʻāʻo nō hoʻi e lawe ʻole i kekahi i kekahi a i ʻole ʻo ʻoe pū kekahi.
E hauʻoli e leʻaleʻa i ka hui a kekahi a ʻakaʻaka hoʻi; ʻO kēia mau manawa makamae e kōkua i ka hoʻoikaika ʻana o kāu pilina.
6. Pili aloha
ʻO ka pilina ka mea nui o ka male kūleʻa.
ʻO ka ikaika o ka moekolohe kahi mea nui o ka pilina. Eia naʻe, ʻaʻole pili i ka moekolohe a me ka moekolohe, ma kahi o nā ʻōpili liʻiliʻi e kōkua ai i ka mālama ʻana i ka huna ahi.
No ka lōʻihi o kou hui pū ʻana, pono ʻoe e hoʻomau i kēlā ʻālohilohi ola, a ʻo ia kekahi o nā kī i kahi pilina kūleʻa. No laila e hana i nā mea liʻiliʻi me kāu hoa e like me ka lawe pū ʻana i nā ua, hāʻawi i nā kua kua, hoʻopaʻa lima, hele i nā lā adventurous, a pēlā aku.
No laila inā e haʻohaʻo ʻoe i ka mea e hope ai ka male, nā mea nui loa i ka male, a laila e nānā pono e hāhai i kēia mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo.
ʻAʻole paʻakikī ka male ʻana ke ʻole ʻoe e hana. ʻOiai ʻoe e hāhai i kēia mau mea o ka male kūleʻa, e pōmaikaʻi kāu male. E hoʻomanaʻo wale nō e aloha a hilinaʻi kekahi i kekahi, e akahele i ka manaʻo o kēlā me kēia, ʻoiai ʻoe e noʻonoʻo pono i kekahi i kekahi e loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi ola hauʻoli.