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- Nā kāne hui pili
- He aha ka pilina pilina?
- 1. E hele wāwae i ke ahiahi no 20 mau minuke me ka lima i ka lima
- 2. E hāʻawi kekahi i kekahi i ka lomilomi he 10 mau minuke ma mua o ka hiamoe ʻana
- 3. Cuddle i luna o ke kāwele kaʻana i ka paka
- 4. E hoʻouna i kahi leka uila e kūkulu i ka manaolana
- 5. E hoʻomaha i kahi kamaʻilio pillow 20 mau minuke ma hope o ka hana
- 6. Hoʻomoʻa pū i kaʻaina awakea
Aia kekahi ʻano ʻē, akā manaʻo nui loa ʻaʻole hiki i ka moekolohe ke lilo i ʻano hoʻoikaika pilikino hohonu no nā kāne. I kēia manawa, he pupule paha kēia i nā mea he nui, ma hope o nā mea āpau, he aha ka mea i pili, pili ma mua o ka moe kolohe? A pehea e pili ana i ka makaʻu i ka male ke maloʻo ka pilina kāne? Inā ʻoe kekahi e ʻeke nei i kēia manaʻo, ʻo ʻoe wale nō ke kanaka e pōmaikaʻi i nā hana pilikino pili naʻau no nā kāne.
Nui ʻokoʻa ma waena o ka moekolohe a me ka pilina a ʻo kekahi ke kī i ke kūleʻa pilina lōʻihi.
Nā kāne hui pili
Ke hala nei ka manawa i ka infatuation me ka pili kolohe hiki ke hōʻemi, e like me kā mākou āpau i ʻike ai, a i kēia manawa, inā laki mākou, hiki iā mākou ke hoʻomaʻalahi maʻalahi i ka wikiwiki hou, a i ʻole hoʻomaka paha mākou e manaʻo me he mea lā paha e nalowale ana. mai ka pilina.
Inā he maʻalahi ʻoe e hoʻomaʻa i kēia wikiwiki hou i kāu pilina, malia paha e hoʻomaʻamaʻa mua ana ʻoe (ʻoiai inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e ʻike ia) ʻano hoʻoikaika pilikino aloha kekahi me kekahi. Ua loaʻa maoli paha iā ʻoe kahi ala e pili ai i ka ʻike e pili pono ana ʻoe; a e hōʻoia hoʻi ia e loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi leʻaleʻa, olakino a paʻa hoʻi ka pilina me kēlā me kēia, me ka haʻahaʻa haʻahaʻa o ka maloʻo ʻana o ka moekolohe.
Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē, ʻaʻole i holomua kūlohelohe kekahi mau kāne i ka pae hoʻohui ʻikepili ʻia. Ma ka hakahaka, hiki i ka nele o ka moekolohe ke hoʻokau i kekahi hopohopo, a i ʻole ka manaʻo kānalua ʻole, a i ʻole hoʻokō ʻole ʻia, ʻumeʻume ʻole, a i ʻole kiʻi ʻole ʻia i kāu pili. ʻO kēia no ka mea ma ke ʻano he kāne ʻelua ʻaʻole paha ʻoe i hoʻomohala kūlohelohe i ka pili aloha i kāu pilina. A inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e hoʻomaka e hana i ka pilina pilikino me kekahi, a laila pilikia kēia i hiki ke hoʻomohala i ka waiho ʻana iā ʻolua me he mea lā ʻaʻole i manaʻo ʻia kāu pili, ʻoiai he mamao loa ia mai ka ʻoiaʻiʻo.
Maʻalahi ke aʻo ʻana pehea e launa pū ai me kāu hoanoho a wahine paha i ka wā e hoʻomaʻamaʻa ai ʻoe i nā hana pili aloha naʻau no nā kāne. ʻO kēia kahi e hana ai ʻoe i kahi pilina maoli me kekahi a ʻo ia ka huna i ka pilina hauʻoli a kūleʻa hoʻi.
He aha ka pilina pilina?
Ke mālama nei ka pilina aloha i kekahi i kekahi, ke nānā nei kekahi i kekahi, ke pili nei kekahi me kekahi, ka paulele ʻana, ka mahalo ʻana, ka mahalo ʻana, ka hoʻopā ʻana, ka honi ʻana, ke kamaʻilio ʻana, ka mālama ʻana, ka paʻa ʻana, ka puliki ʻana, ka palupalu a me ka hilinaʻi ʻana i kāu hoapili e lawelawe i kou nāwaliwali me ka mahalo. aloha, a mālama. Inā loaʻa ʻoe i kēia moekolohe āpau i ʻāpana a lilo pū i mea hoʻokō. ʻO ka ulu a me ka pilina āu e hoʻokō ai ma ke ʻano he kāne, ma muli o ka hopena o kēia pilina e hohonu.
Nā hana pilikino pilikino no nā kāne e kōkua iā ʻoe e hoʻohui:
1. E hele wāwae i ke ahiahi no 20 mau minuke me ka lima i ka lima
Kaha paha kēia e like me kahi manaʻo maʻalahi, akā mau nā mea maʻalahi e hoʻokaʻawale i ka mea nui loa. Loaʻa iā ʻoe ka manawa kūpono e lawe i nā lāʻau, puhi i nā cobwebs mai kou psyche a kamaʻilio, ʻoiai ʻoe e pili pili kino ma o ka paʻa ʻana o ka lima. Mālama kēia hana maʻalahi iā ʻoe ma ke ʻano he kāne a he mea maikaʻi ia no kou olakino a me kou olakino.
2. E hāʻawi kekahi i kekahi i ka lomilomi he 10 mau minuke ma mua o ka hiamoe ʻana
ʻO kēia kekahi ala maʻalahi e hoʻohui, hoʻopā a hui pū me ka ʻole o ka hoʻoikaika ʻana. Inā ʻoe e hoʻopukapuka i ka massage me ka puʻuwai (ʻoiai ʻo ʻoe ka masseuse) nā uku no kēlā ʻano maʻalahi, aloha i kāu pilina e uku pālua iā ʻoe.
3. Cuddle i luna o ke kāwele kaʻana i ka paka
Auwe, nani wale ke ʻike aku i kekahi mau kāne e noho pū ana i loko o kahi pāka, e nanea wale ana i ka lā a i 'i ka manawa', i kuʻi ʻia i ke kāwele like. Inā ʻaʻole aloha ia, ʻaʻole maopopo iā mākou he aha. He hana hoʻoikaika pilikino ʻano maʻalahi wale ia no nā kāne a hiki iā ʻoe ke hana koke.
4. E hoʻouna i kahi leka uila e kūkulu i ka manaolana
E hoʻouna i kahi leka uila e kūkulu i ka mea i manaʻo nui ʻia, ae hoʻomaopopo i kāu hoa e noʻonoʻo ana ʻoe nona.
ʻAʻohe mea maikaʻi aʻe ma mua o ke kakali ʻana i kou hoʻi ʻana i ka home i ka mea āu e aloha ai ke ʻike nei aia lākou i kahi ʻano maikaʻi a ke hele pū nei ʻoe i kahi ahiahi nani. Hoʻohui makemake nā poʻe āpau e ʻike i ka mea a lākou e aloha ai e noʻonoʻo nei e pili ana iā lākou. He hana maʻalahi a maʻalahi hoʻi ia no nā kāne a hiki ke hoʻokō maʻalahi i kou ola.
5. E hoʻomaha i kahi kamaʻilio pillow 20 mau minuke ma hope o ka hana
ʻO kēia kekahi mea maʻalahi e hana ai, akā kahi mea a mākou e manaʻo ʻole ai e hana, a he aha ke ala ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi āu e manaʻo ai e kū, hoʻomaha a hoʻokaʻawale i ka lā hana mai kou ahiahi like?
6. Hoʻomoʻa pū i kaʻaina awakea
ʻO ke kū kokoke ʻana, ke kākoʻo ʻana kekahi i kekahi ma kahi papahana e kākoʻo ai kekahi i kekahi ʻoiai e kamaʻilio pū ana, e hulahula ana, a e huki ai i ka waina i ka wā e hana ana ʻoe he ʻano hoʻoikaika pilikino aloha naʻau no nā kāne a hoʻonohonoho pū i ke kani no ke ahiahi ʻoluʻolu.